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Robert Lee REARDEN Jr.

1941 - 2015

Robert Lee REARDEN Jr. obituary, 1941-2015, Atlanta, GA

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Robert REARDEN Obituary

REARDEN, Jr., Robert Robert Lee ("Bobby") Rearden, Jr. passed away on January 10, 2015 at Emory University Hospital while undergoing treatment for a recurrence of the leukemia that he had successfully defeated eleven years ago. A most beloved husband, father and grandfather, and a loyal and devoted friend to so many, Bobby lived a full life committed to his family, his friends and his community. Bobby was born in the textile mill town of Langdale, Alabama on June 10, 1941, the only child of Janice Gray Rearden and Robert Lee Rearden, Sr. He attended high school as a boarding student at The Westminster Schools in Atlanta, Georgia, served as President of The Westminster Schools Alumni Association and was a recipient of the Alumni Service Award. Bobby earned both BS and MBA degrees from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, where he was a member of Phi Delta Theta and inducted into the Order of Gimghoul and the Order of the Old Well. He later served on the Board of the UNC General Alumni Association. He earned a JD degree from Emory University School of Law and served on the Emory Law School Board of Visitors. Bobby returned to his roots in the textile world moving to Lanett, Alabama following his college days to work for West Point Pepperell. He moved to Atlanta shortly thereafter to attend law school and work for his father-in-law's insurance agency, Duncan Peek, Inc. He developed this small independent agency into a multi-million dollar nationally recognized insurance brokerage firm which he eventually sold. During his career in the insurance business, Bobby served in various leadership roles for a number of insurance groups, including as Chairman of St. Paul Top Brass Advisory Council. At the time of his death, he was serving as a principal with Integro, a national insurance brokerage firm, and as Chairman and CEO of Kestrel Communications, Inc., a media production company he founded in 1993. Bobby was a member of the Atlanta Olympic Committee bid team that successfully brought the 1996 Centennial Olympic Games to Atlanta and served on the Board of Directors of the Atlanta Committee for the Olympic Games. At the time of his death, he was serving on President Jimmy Carter's Board of Councilors for the The Carter Center of Emory University, as Chairman Emeritus of the Board of Trustees of The Rabun Gap-Nacoochee School, and as a founding member of the Advisory Board of the Winship Cancer Institute at Emory University. Over the last eleven years the names Winship Cancer Institute and Bobby Rearden have become synonymous. He served as Honorary Chair of Friends of Winship and as Patient Advocate on the External Advisory Board when Winship submitted its successful application for National Cancer Institute designation. There was no greater champion for Winship than Bobby, and he was a fixture in Winship's halls, known and beloved by physicians and staff alike. Bobby's very active civic involvement also included serving as President and later Chairman of the Board of Trustees of Leadership Georgia, and in board or active leadership roles for numerous and varied civic organizations including The World Golf Foundation, the Brookwood/Midtown Rotary Club, the Atlanta Friendship Force, Special Audiences, the Kidney Foundation of Georgia, the Atlanta Area Council-Boy Scouts of America, Central Atlanta Progress, Atlanta Habitat for Humanity, Columbia Seminary, the American Cancer Society, the American Red Cross and the Metro Atlanta United Way. He also has served as an Elder in the Presbyterian Church. Bobby was married for almost fifty years to his high school sweetheart and beloved wife Dell, who survives him along with his children Alison Rearden Murrah (Patrick) and Robert Lee Rearden III (Ashley), and seven grandchildren, Charles (19), Anna (18), Jack (14) and Jim (11) Murrah, and Evie (14), Helen (11) and Sheldon (8) Rearden. Bobby and Dell greatly enjoyed spending time with family and friends at their home in Lake Toxaway, North Carolina. A memorial service will be held this Wednesday, January 14, 2015, at 11:00 a.m. at First Presbyterian Church, 1328 Peachtree Street, Atlanta Georgia 30309. A reception will follow in Fifield Hall. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Winship Cancer Institute of Emory University, Emory Office of Gift Records, 1762 Clifton Road NE, Suite 1400 Atlanta, GA 30322.

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Jan. 12, 2015.

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JIM Brown

January 6, 2024

Bobby was a good friend when we were at school at Chapel Hill. I think of him every time I drive through the campus. He passed away so young, but he accomplished so much in his life.

Ann Gordon & Bussey Bonner

January 21, 2015

Sending our love and sympathy at this time of great loss and sorrow.

June Longino Wise

January 18, 2015

Dear Dell and Family, My deepest condolences to you. I was stunned to read this in the bulletin at St. Philip's this morning. I will forever remember and be grateful to you and Bobby for your kindness and thoughtfulness visiting me at Emory only a year ago when I was battling this disease.
...Such a fine and gentle man. This breaks my heart.
Love and grace to you,

January 17, 2015

Dear Dell, Allison, Robert and all of the Rearden family. I was so very sorry to hear of Bobby's passing. He was a magnificent human being! I have such fond memories of the Rearden family when we were next door neighbors on Cloudland. We really were not neighbors but family! Dell I remember when Ellen had her Junior Senior Proms you and Bobby would always be there to see her all dressed up. I also remember the Young Life meeting we had at our house and Bobby dressed up as Santa Clause because it was also my Birthday. I remember when our house would flood ( and it did often) if Mama and Daddy were out I would always call Bobby. He will be greatly missed but I feel so very blessed to have such great memories of Bobby and the Rearden family. Many thoughts and prayers from the Duncan girls and their families. He is dancing I am sure with Mama and Daddy and many more!!! Much love, Callie and Lou Fouts

January 17, 2015

Dear Dell,
I was so sorry to hear of Bobby's passing. He was such a fine man, husband, father and friend to so many. He will be so very missed, and I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Take time with one another. I will be thinking of you all. Rine Eustis

Denise Beltzner

January 16, 2015

Dear Dell and family,
I was so sorry to read of Bobby's passing. What a wonderful man he was in so many ways. He loved his family and served our community with a passionate heart. I treasure having known him during my years at Peachtree. His ready smile and optimism was a delight. My prayers and sympathies are with you.

Stacey Gustke

January 15, 2015

Bobby was a good man who accomplished so many wonderful things in his life. I was lucky to meet him and to have worked with him.

January 14, 2015

Dell, I remember you of course from our youth at P'tree Presbyterian, and knew your kind husband briefly as well. May I offer my sincere sympathy to you and your family over your loss. Tina Collins Eib

Kestrel Communications

Debbi & Glenn Merryman

January 14, 2015

Deepest sympathy and condolences to a wonderful Rearden family. Worked with Bobby for 35 years, first with MetroVision where Duncan Peek provided all of our insurance coverage as a start up cable company. He made sure I learned about insurance (more than I ever wanted to know-ha) since I wore the insurance hat at MetroVision in the beginning. Then in 1999 I came to work at Kestrel Communications. Bobby always had a great story to tell about any and all subjects, was always generous, always a gentleman, always had a great laugh, and was always optimistic about the future. I always gave him a hard time about being late, he was always going in ten different directions at once, so many demands on his time. Sad for all of us that in the end he wasn't late to leave this life, he left way too early.
Debbi & Glenn Merryman

January 14, 2015

Dell, Robert & Allison,
I was shocked and saddened to hear about the passing of Bobby. I admired his passion and enthusiasm for everything in life especially his family and those greasy biscuits!
He'll be greatly missed by many but none more so than you.
Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers.
With love, Tamera Brooks

Betty Benton Tinker

January 14, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time. I am shocked by the news. Having grown up knowing Bobby, I have many fond memories of the boy he was and always knew he would be the wonderful, giving man he became. The world and all those he touched were better for knowing him and he will be greatly missed by many. Healing prayers and peace for you. Betty Benton Tinker

January 14, 2015

Dell,Allison,Robert,
My heart is so sad but thankful at the same time for Bobby. Oh the sweet memories I have of Cloudland Dr. and living next door to the wonderful Rearden family.
All my love,
Ellen Duncan LaGrone

Anthea Rullow

January 14, 2015

I was both shocked and saddened to learn of the transition of Mr. Rearden. He was not just a customer at Bank of Atlanta now State Bank & Trust but a friend. We always had a good laugh whenever he came in. He will definitely be missed. My condolences to the family. Anthea M. Rullow -

Glancy Jones Dunn

January 14, 2015

Dell and family,
So sorry to hear of your grief in the loss of Bobby. Only the Lord, the God of all comfort, can understand. May you look to Him for your every need today and forever.
My love in Jesus.
John 3:16

January 14, 2015

To Dell, Allison, Robert and families,
please accept my sincere sympathy in the loss of your dear Bobby. There are so many people who hold you dear and want to offer some comfort. Bobby was such a kind and positive person, and always a gentleman. He will be missed by many here in Lake Toxaway and in Atlanta. Dell, you and Bobby have made such a wonderful couple, a precious family and so many friends who love you.
I pray that you all will be comforted by the Lord, and by the many prayers that will be continuing to lift you up.
With love and heartfelt thoughts... Kathy

Kathy Balistreri

January 13, 2015

My sincere sympathy to you Dell, and Allison and Robert and their families, as you endure this terrible shock and loss. Bobby was a true gentleman; always kind, friendly and helpful. He will be dearly missed by so many. Dell, you and Bobby are such a special part of the Lake Toxaway community. My thoughts and my prayers are with you.

January 13, 2015

Dear Dell,Alison and Robert.I was sad to see that Bobby had passed away. He was always nice to me and I had much respect for him,I know the pain of losing someone close to cancer.Time will heal but it still hurts.Your family will be in my thoughts.I have known three generations of your family. I wish you peace. Robert Roach

January 13, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with you Dell for you and all your family. We will hold dear the times we had with you and Bobby at Lake Toxaway and will be with you in spirit until we can visit in person again at the lake. Our love to you, Beverly and Paul Goree

Deanna Woodham

January 13, 2015

To the Rearden family,
I am very saddened to hear of the loss of Bobby, a great man who gave so much to the community. Dell, my thoughts and prayers are with you as well as Robert and Ashley and Allison's family. He will be missed greatly, but he left such a legacy of good work. May his memories comfort and sustain you in this period of grief.

Mary Helen and John Abbott

January 13, 2015

We were saddened to read of the death of Bobby. What an outstanding life he had. I know he will be missed by all. Thinking of you all at this sad time.

Melissa Montgomery

January 13, 2015

My heart goes out to you in your time of loss. I remember Bobby as one of the first people I met when I joined President and Mrs. Carter's staff almost 30 years ago. I was pleased to see him recently here at The Carter Center, and he was just as energetic and cheerful as ever. I know you must be in shock. My prayers and sympathy are with you.

Helen G. Maddox

January 13, 2015

Thinking of you during this time of your great loss. What a unique and kind man Bobby was.

Daphney Shepherd Williams

January 13, 2015

My sincere condolences and prayers go out to the family. I worked with Bobby at Integro. He was the kindest and nicest person and always made me laugh. He will be greatly missed.

King & Bear Golf Course 2003

John Warren

January 13, 2015

Shellee Spagnoletto

January 12, 2015

It is a sad day! The world has lost a great person! My heart goes out to Dell and the family. May you all be comforted in the memories you have shared over your lifetimes with Bobby. He will be missed by us all!

January 12, 2015

Bobby always smiled and laughed. I will always remember his laugh! What an amazing legacy to leave behind! I love you and I am praying for you all! Love, Page

Kathy Kierce

January 12, 2015

Dell and Family, As new friends from LTMC, we were so sorry to hear of Bobbys death. Such a wonderful, kind and thoughtful man; who always had a warm smile and a kind thought. He will be missed and our community is mourning our loss. Our deepest sympathy, Kathy and Ed Kierce
Ray Vingle

January 12, 2015

We have lost a great man and are deeply saddened and will miss him terribly.. Our prayers are for Del and her children and grandchildren who will miss him greatly as he was a wonderful family man. We loved him and his family. Bette and Bob Coningsby

January 12, 2015

Dear rear dens,my heart is saddened by this news..what a wonderful husband,father and friend..I would love to talk to Allison,Dell or Patrick..all my contacts are old..May God give you extreme peace in this time..much love,SHELLEY Clark 2052222868

January 12, 2015

Dear Dell, I was so sorry to hear about Bobby. He was a great person who contributed so much to the Atlanta community. Please know you and your family will be in my prayers. Sincerely, Deborah Conner, Charlotte, NC

Magdalene Womack

January 12, 2015

Bobby Rearden, a friend an advocate and an unpaid comedian. When Bobby found out from Dianne Wisner I had cancer and was scheduled to have chemo at Emory Winship Cancer Institute, he came down and became my Patch Adams. I was not doing well at all with chemo and Bobby came in big as life and announced in his Bobby's voice, “Maggie is my longtime friend and whatever she needs just do it or let him know and he would take care of it”. Bobby came in the infusion center dressed in his Doctor's coat and Emory Board official attire full of laughter, jokes and encouragement. Then Bobby proceeded to speak with the Head Pharmacist who was working on my mixture at that time. Not only did Bobby's bed side manner cheer me it cheered the entire wing. Dianne and I were laughing so hard we forgot we were in the middle of chemo. Bobby became my “Patches” and stayed with Dianne and I a long time on that visit. Bobby often followed up to see how I was progressing. I will miss my friend dearly; but I know he is in a better place. Many of us love Bobby but God loves him best!!! Dell and family our prayers are with you. With Much Love, Maggie

Liz Olsson

January 12, 2015

I worked for Bobby at Duncan Peek during the ICOG years...what an amazing time that was. He was a great leader. I'm so sorry for his loss, and will keep his family in my prayers.

Elvia Palacios

January 12, 2015

He was a very sweet man, always saying great things about his family. You left great memories Bobby.

January 12, 2015

We will always remember Bobby for his kindness,
genuine smile and caring for others.Our sympathy and prayers are with the entire Rearden family. Carol and Paul Muldawer

January 12, 2015

My heartfelt prayers go out to the entire Rearden Family. He will always be in my memories of the "good times" of my insurance career. Bobby was a true friend and advisor.

Jim Brown

January 12, 2015

I was a fraternity brother of Bobby's at Carolina back in the 1960s. He was a bright guy and about as friendly a fellow as you would ever find. He sure was an asset to his community and I am only sorry I had not stayed in closer touch. My condolences to the Rearden Family.

Jim Brown
Baton Rouge, Louisiana

Bobby with cast and crew of Blues for Willadean at the Birmingham Sidewalk Film Festival Premiere

Del Shores

January 12, 2015

A true Southern gentleman who loved his friends, family and gave his smile and amazing personality to so many of us. Bobby touched my life, produced my film Blues For Willadean, cared deeply about the message of the film (domestic violence). He will be missed by all of us and condolences to Dell, Robert and Ashley, Alison and Patrick and all his beautiful grandchildren. You were one of a kind, Bobby and I love you.

Vicki Harrington Franch

January 12, 2015

When I think of Bobby, I think of his gift for friendship, his compassion,his buoyant personality, and his beautiful Southern accent. Prayers for you, Dell, and for your family as you grieve his death.

Carol & Darryl Curry

January 12, 2015

We will always remember Bobby`s SMILE.

John Warren

January 12, 2015

His warmth, fun and friendship.

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