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CURTIS, Thomas Benjamin, PhD

"Omnia meruisse te neque omnia contigisse mihi ut praestarem."

You have deserved all and can never be fully repaid…

Dr. Thomas B. Curtis, beloved husband, father, grandfather, teacher and friend, departed life peacefully on May 22, 2025, aged eighty-six, at his home on Lake Santa Fe in Keystone Heights, Florida. By his side at his passing was his beloved wife of 40 years, Sandra.

Tom was the cherished son of Augustus T. and Ruth Curtis. He was preceded in death by his beloved brother, Richard "Churchill" Curtis. He leaves behind three sons, Tom (Mary Ann), Augie (Zina) and Philip; and a stepson, Jeff Hyde, who he loved as his own; as well as many grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He also is fondly remembered by his first wife, Hermeine; and by a multitude of others whose lives were enriched by his presence, including the thousands of students who knew him in his 50 years as a teacher of world languages, philosophy and literature.

Tom began his teaching career at Christ School in Arden, NC, in 1963. After three years, Tom moved to Chapel Hill, where he received a PhD in Classics at the University of North Carolina. From there, Tom became a professor at the University of Tennessee in Knoxville for four years before returning to Christ School in 1973. Tom spent 11 more years at Christ School, which included a year as a Fulbright exchange teacher in Freiburg, Germany. Soon after his return from Germany, Tom moved on to Atlanta, GA, where we spent the latter years of his career, as a teacher at the Westminster School in Atlanta. His extraordinary wit, enthusiasm and devotion to his students left an indelible impression on all who knew him.

Tom retired in 2014. Afterwards, he kept up a continual study of ancient history from his house overlooking Lake Santa Fe. He researched ancient writers and philosophers from St. Augustine to Galen, Hyperides to Arsinoe, and authored five books related to notable figures and events from antiquity. Tom surrounded himself in the operas of the composer, Verdi, as he studied and worked in his office. He had a Latin quote handy for every circumstance; and anyone with time to listen would enjoy a walk with him down the roadways of the ancient past, where a good portion of his heart always resided.

Above all, Tom's life was grounded and bound in his 40-year love affair with Sandra, who he adored dearly. Their lives revolved around each other in mutual ties of affection and interest, and, as in all great marriages, their two minds became one.

Tom's kindness, warmth and humanity will be remembered by all who knew him. He was loving by nature and civilized in the most authentic meaning of the word, and he sought out the good in everyone he knew, and found it without fail.

We will miss him greatly, but with joy we imagine him today, sipping on a strong coffee, listening to Leonard Warren sing Rigoletto, and chatting with St. Augustine about the City of God.

A Celebration of Life will take place at Tom and Sandra's lake home in Keystone Heights, FL, on Saturday, June 21, at 10:00 AM. For details and to RSVP, please contact [email protected]. It was Tom's wish that, in lieu of flowers, donations be made to The "Doc" Curtis Scholarship Fund at Christ School. That mailing address is 500 Christ School Rd., Asheville, NC 28704, or to donate online, please visit www.christschool.org/giving/give

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on May 29, 2025.

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Sharon and Werner

June 25, 2025

Dear Sam, Our deepest condolences. It was always a pleasure visiting with you and Tom over the years. Warm greetings from Sharon and Werner Wichmann

Duane Underwood

June 19, 2025

Love and prayers to Sam and all of Tom´s family on the loss of Tom. Some of my fondest memories were the moments spent with Tom, Sam and our mutual friend Nancy. I loved the quiet times with Tom because of his boundless knowledge on any subject and his kind patience during our profound discussions. Even more important, Tom had a sincere
gift of listening with his heart and being so personable, helpful, and caring. I am so grateful for the wonderful memories I have of this great friend.

Warren S. McLaughlin III

June 11, 2025

Just as my sister Susan said, Uncle Tommy was also my favorite uncle. My mom used to send me to Tommy and Hermeine's house every summer after school got out to visit, when they lived in Chapel Hill, Asheville, and even in Knoxville. I grew up loving college football, but at 13 years old the only college football I knew and thought was big time football was The Citadel here in Charleston, SC. Well, Uncle Tommy invited me to Knoxville, Tennessee when he worked there to go to a Tennessee Vols game, as he got two really good tickets. My mom took me there and that following Saturday we went to the game. I was just in total awe!!! He had 50 yard-line tickets in a stadium of over 90,000 fans!!! The Citadel was lucky to have 15,000 fans. On 17 Oct 1970 Tennessee played Alabama. The place was loud and crazy, as Tennessee won 24-0. Talk about a memory that you will never forget. I just wish I could have reminded him of that one more time!!! Another thing I used to remember about Uncle Tommy was each summer that I stayed with Tommy and Hermeine, I would walk into the living room/den and Uncle Tommy sat in his chair with his reading glasses at the end of his nose reading a book, and surrounded by bookshelves full of books. As I got older I came to understand just how smart and brilliant he was. But there wasn't a condescending bone in his body!!! Even though, as time usually does as families get older and move in different directions, I could only occasionally see him, usually at summer beach house events at Folly Beach. But I always thought of him, and always asked Hermeine how he was doing. I for sure am going to miss him, but I will look forward to meeting him again one day in Glory...

Susan McLaughlin

June 11, 2025

Uncle Tommy was my favorite uncle. He taught me humility and understanding. He also in reduced me to opera when I was 10 and I´ve loved that ever since as well as I loved him he will always be in my heart. Love you always your niece Susan.

Debra Javaherian

June 11, 2025

I have fond memories of the months spent with Uncle Tommy and my cousins in Friendsville Tennessee in 1971. My condolences to my cousins and all the family.

Marc Lipsitch

June 1, 2025

I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Dr. Curtis, in news shared by my friend and classmate in his classes, Mark Malaspina.

Dr. Curtis was one of the handful of teachers who really changed my life. As I hope he understood, he was one of my first examples of what a life devoted to scholarship could be, and of how much joy and satisfaction such a life could bring. He was also a beacon of reason and good sense in a time where that was not always in evidence. His ability to maintain high standards of scholarship while sharing the excitement of Latin and Greek with beginners was really exceptional.

When I got to know him, he was new to Westminster and was just meeting Sandra Hyde. It was a joy to see them form a new family and to get to know Steve and Jeff, my Westminster classmate.

I send my warmest thoughts to Sandra, Steve, Jeff, and the rest of the family, in sorrow for your loss and in appreciation for the wonderful man whom it was such a privilege to know.

Marc Lipsitch (Westminster '87)

s.joines

May 30, 2025

Last saw him 50 or so years ago however I don't believe that a week has ever passed since then that I haven't thought of something he did, said, or reacted to! Thanks Doc!

Mark Malaspina

May 29, 2025

I am so grateful to have known Dr. Curtis. He was truly one of a kind, exemplifying a combination of erudition, wisdom, empathy, and joy. I can remember his laugh as if it were yesterday. Sending much love to Sandra, Jeff, and the rest of his family.

Jon and Julie Barber

May 28, 2025

One more pic of Tom and family.

Barber

May 28, 2025

After having met and gotten to know Tom, it did not take me long to agree with my wife that he should officiate our wedding back in 2003. This decision was wise as we got more than we could have hoped with Sam and Tom; an effective third set of grandparents for our children in all but name. Our family was truly blessed to have had both Sam and Tom in our lives. While we are deeply saddened by his passing and we were expecting more years with him, we are glad for the time that we had. We will always remember Tom's wit, smile, deep baritone singing voice, his laugh and sense of humor, his curiosity, his love of antiquity and language, his chocolate cakes, his intellect, his love of sports, his love of family and extended family, and especially his devotion to Sam.

Lyston Peebles

May 28, 2025

I had always regretted not telling "Mr.Curtis"( as we knew him), that he was my favorite teacher. To my surprise I heard from Christ School that he was still "here", I called him to catch up. We had a great chat, actually
two!

May the Lord be with you, his family.

Lyston Peebles '65
Christ School

Albert R. Matheny

May 28, 2025

Mr. Curtis and I arrived at Christ School in the same year, when I was 12 and he was maybe 24 and newly married. He was the faculty member in charge of our dorm, and we became close immediately. He coached our little baseball team, full of 7-9th graders, and then taught me Latin when I was in 10th grade, before he left to go back to grad school at UNC. He even taught for a while at the University of Tennessee, my alma mater, but after I had gone on the graduate school. Little did I know and how much I regret not knowing that he lived just 30 or so minutes from me on Lake Santa Fe. I have lived in Gainesville, FL since arriving here to teach at UF in 1978. I would have loved to visit him and to catch up after all these years have passed. I deeply regret not knowing he was so close by. He was as good a man as I have ever known: kind, smart, humorous, and a real role model for me. He got me, and I got him, and now I miss him even more. Love to the family, Albert Matheny

Caroline Cody

May 28, 2025

So thankful to have known you, even for a brief time. What a gift you are, Tom.

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