Search by Name

Search by Name

Theresa DeTerlizzi Obituary

Theresa P. (Nocilly) DeTerlizzi

AUBURN - On November 6, 2022, with her family by her side, Theresa peacefully took her final bow as a member of the Silver Songbirds, to sing the Praises of Glory to God in the Heavenly chorus for Eternity.

Theresa's love of singing began at age four on the radio, here in Auburn, and never left, being her greatest passion. In addition to her gift of singing, she was a vessel of pure, unconditional love.

Theresa is the daughter of Louis and Laura (Giannone) Nocilly. As a young woman, she excelled in sports, cheerleading, and dancing.

Formerly employed in manufacturing, waitressing, and retail, her path crossed many lives. Theresa retired from Sears, where she trained and befriended many young people who are still devoted to her and love her deeply.

Upon moving to Boyle Center, after living in Tampa, FL she volunteered at the front desk and at Auburn City Hall. Theresa loved a good casino trip and was an avid NY Yankees fan!

Theresa met her future husband, Vincent DeTerlizzi, at the POW camp in Romulus NY during WWII. Two years later, she travelled by ship to a small war-torn village in Puglia, Italy to marry in 1949. Theresa is pre-deceased by her husband Vincent DeTerlizzi, and her siblings: Anthony, Clara, Mary, Irma, and Ann (Nocilly). She is survived by their two children and their spouses whom she loved as her own: Joanne and Harlow Lamson and John and Linda DeTerlizzi; her five grandchildren: Taryn (Martin) Homick, Johanna (Gregory) Lattimore II, Nicolas (Lindsay) DeTerlizzi, Michael (Chardae) DeTerlizzi and Vincent DeTerlizzi; her adoring greats who affectionately called her "Dingy", which tickled her funny bone to no end: Mitchell Homick, Audrey (her best friend) Lattimore, Emme Lattimore, and Isabelle DeTerlizzi. Also surviving Theresa are several nieces, nephews, great-nieces and nephews. Theresa adored each of them, loved them, each one so special to her.

Theresa leaves a legacy of great Faith in God, which came first to her in all aspects of her life, as well as unconditional never-ending love, morals, values, hard work, caring, kindness, laughter, joy, understanding, and acceptance.

A special thank you to her loving niece, MaryAnn who loved her and assisted with her health and medical care and nephew, Donald Patella who was always just a phone call away. Additionally, a special thank you to Jennifer Clark, RN for her loving care during Theresa's journey home and to great-niece, Loree Gagliano and Godson, Michael Gentile.

Friends and relatives are invited Wednesday, November 30, 2022 at 11:00 a.m. in St. Mary's Church for Theresa's Mass of Christian burial. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital or the USCG Foundation coastguardfoundation.org.

I love you more, I love you most, the end. Mamma . . . la parola piu bella sei tu.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Citizen on Nov. 27, 2022.

Memories and Condolences
for Theresa DeTerlizzi

Not sure what to say?





Linda Schnirel

December 11, 2022

Joanne, I just heard of your mom's passing. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. She was a beautiful person inside and out and missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Linda (Maltese) Schnirel "68"

Trashika Love

December 5, 2022

Taryn and Johanna sorry for your loss. May God Bless you all during this difficult time.

John Marcon

November 30, 2022

I am sorry to hear of your mom´s passing. Our parents were friends and had a special bond.

My dad was a also a POW in Romulus with your dad Vince. My mom also traveled to Italy by boat to marry him. I remember my parents talking about yours throughout the years. What love stories.

Rely on the many memories to console you during this difficult time.

God Bless You and your family

Brian Quill / Arizona

November 29, 2022

Very sorry to hear this. I have great memories of being at thier home on Cottrell St. and Mrs. Deterlizzi making me and John a Mortadella sandwich or a plate of her homemade sauce with Italian bread. A very sweet and kind woman. John, you and the family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Rest In Peace Mrs. D.

Irene Fowler

November 29, 2022

When I first moved in the Boyle Center, Teresa immediately became like a grandmother to me, and made me feel so welcome. From that point on her and Grace were my grandmothers. Words cannot tell you what an amazing beautiful woman she was. She was always there for me if and when I needed her. She will be missed terribly. Bella I will always love and miss you.

Jamie Ciaccio

November 28, 2022

My condolences. I fondly remember the Deterlizzi family. Wonderful people.

Tricia Botindari(Ferlenda)

November 28, 2022

So very sorry for your loss..such a kind woman ..thinking of your family

Annie and Lou Amoia

November 27, 2022

So very sorry. She was one of my Mom's dearest friends. Our prayers are with you all.

Showing 1 - 8 of 8 results

Make a Donation
in Theresa DeTerlizzi's name

Please consider a donation as requested by the family.

Memorial Events
for Theresa DeTerlizzi

Nov

30

Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m.

St. Mary's Church

NY

How to support Theresa's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Theresa DeTerlizzi's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more