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Mary Donka Obituary

June 15th, 1926 - June 21st, 2020

Mary Irene Donka, better known as "Sunny" for her always sunny disposition, passed away peacefully at the age of 94 on Sunday, June 21 in Mineral Point, Wisconsin at home, surrounded by loved ones. Sunny's definable laugh, smile and kindness brought joy to whomever she encountered and will be missed dearly. Her life well-lived was an incredible story.

Born in Durham, England to her biological mother Eleanor Cooper, Mary was placed in a children's home in 1933, where she was adopted at the age of 7 by her parents Harry and Agnes Dodd. Upon graduating high school, Mary joined the British Army Signal Core, where she became a telephone operator for the duration of World War II. Following the war, Mary traveled to the United States on the Queen Mary in March of 1946, where she eventually met her future husband, Ernest J. Donka. They were married 55 years when Ernie passed in 2002. Together they had four children whom they raised in Aurora, Illinois before retiring to Lake Holiday in Somonauk, Illinois. They always enjoyed a night out dancing and later in life, spending time on the lake with family. Mary loved to garden, cook and sing in the church choir.

After Ernie's death in 2002, she remained near family in Somonauk until 2012, when she moved to Gunnison, Colorado to be near her daughter Candy. In 2017, she then moved to Mineral Point, Wisconsin where she lived with and was cared for by her daughter Cindy and family until she passed. In 2019, we discovered she had a sister Joyce, living in Texas, and a brother George, who died in the 1990's in England. Due to adoption laws of England she never knew of her birth family. We pray she found peace and joy when reunited with her family, our dad Ernie and her son Robin. Her sunny smile and spunky attitude will be missed and cherished by all her family and many friends.

Mary is preceded in death by her husband Ernie, son Robin and her eighteen brother and sister in-laws from the Donka family. She is survived by her children, David, (Cheryl) Donka, Candace, (Dan) Carson and Cynthia, (Steve) Brown. Her eight grandchildren, Jill (Kris Cotton), Kyle Donka, Aaron (Tara) Brown, Eli Brown, Alex (Keaton Carey), Justine Brown, Heather Donka and Chris Donka. Her great grandchildren, Gavin and Mia Cotton, Ryli Brown, Kallie, Jayden, Charley, Sienna Carey, Hudson and Fox Brown.

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Published by Beacon News on Jul. 12, 2020.

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Sherry (Gutierrez) Hickey

July 18, 2020

o the whole Donka family, David, Candy and Cindy, so sorry for your loss, I knw she is enjoying seeing Ernie and Robin again. I still miss my buddy Robin but we know that they are catching up in their new heavenly home. May all the great memories give you comfort. Hugs and prayers and love always. Sherry (Gutierrez) Hickey, Sparta, Tn.

Judy Pelton

July 12, 2020

What a beautiful lady! I loved to sit and listen to Sunny's stories and hear her laugh. I enjoyed hearing her say quite often "Oh, you know, because it was the proper thing to do" in that beautiful British accent! She was so lucky to have had such great family care! The love she had for family and friends came back to her fully. She will certainly be missed.

Cindy (Hawk) Sellees

July 11, 2020

I always looked forward to seeing you when we visited Aurora! I love you and will miss that wonderful smile. Rest In Peace sweet lady.

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