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Richard Wilkinson Obituary

Wilkinson, Richard Bird "Dick" 82, passed away on April 3, 2012 in Scottsdale, AZ. Dick was born July 15, 1929 in Aurora, IL to Robert Leo and Ruby Adele (nee: Bird) Wilkinson. He attended Marmion Military Academy and East Aurora High School in Aurora, IL and Northwestern University in Chicago, IL, majoring in Industrial Engineering, Time and Motion Study. He was employed by Tuttle & Kift, Inc. before becoming a self-employed contractor. He enlisted in the United States Army in 1946 and served in the Korean conflict as a Corporal. He was honorably discharged from the Armed Forces in 1952. He married Lillian Ann Bayci of Joliet, IL on October 1, 1949, and together they lived in Aurora and were blessed with 50 years of marriage and two children. The couple moved to Hicksville, OH in 1999. She preceded him in death in 2000. He was also preceded in death by both of his parents, a sister, Betty Elaine a.k.a. "Judy Kelly" and two brothers, Robert Leo Wilkinson, Jr. and Roger David Wilkinson. Affectionately known as "Bird" to family and friends alike, he never met a stranger as he made friends everywhere he went and lived. Known best for his keen intelligence, sharp wit and wry sense of humor, he kept all whom he encountered on their toes. He was a wordsmith and especially enjoyed reading science fiction, working crosswords and sudoku. He also enjoyed studying aviation and had earned his pilots license. He was a member of the Fraternal Order of Eagles Chapter 2556 in Hicksville, OH, and the Disabled American Veterans Chapter 22 in Scottsdale, AZ. He is survived by his son Richard Bird Wilkinson, Jr. (Gillian Ward) and daughter, Joy (Chuck) Martin and his sister, Judith Wilkinson Vester Dunn (Larry Doran). He is also survived by five grandchildren: Jennifer Ann Ankney (Paul), Natalie Joy Wilkinson (Josh Flowers-Pasquith), Charles Richard Martin (Cally), Jeremy Benjamin Martin, and Taylor Rose Wilkinson, four great-grandchildren: Vanessa, Lillian, Char, and Canyon, and many beloved nieces, nephews and friends. He had been residing in Scottsdale, AZ with his fiance, Yvonne Crain in recent years. He was also very close with her family, daughter Kim Lank (Perry) and children Nicole and Jake. Celebration of Dick's life was held at the Scottsdale DAV #22 on April 7th, 2012. Arrangements by Messinger Indian School Mortuary. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be sent in Dick's name to the Disabled American Veterans or to your local Hospice.

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Published by Beacon News on Apr. 11, 2012.

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Dickie Wilkinson jr.

April 17, 2012

That's "Me Pap". The Man who gave me everything including life itself. You were a great father and and best friend right up to your last hours which I had the extreme pleasure of spending with you. A towering man who loved and served his country. Friend to all and father to more than just my sister and I. You left some big shoes Daddy but I promise to make the fit. Hope you are enjoying the company of Our King and I hope Mom is not too hard on you. See you on the other side. Dad always told me to plan on living to the ripe age of 200 years old and avoid the midlife crisis. Working so far and if I can just get past losing You.... I got this, Love Dickie.

April 16, 2012

Dick & Joy,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Your dad was a great joy and I will always remember him fondly. He was so good to me when we were so young. When I think of him , for some reason I always think of that old yellow and white DeSoto. He and your mom are together again.You are all in my thoughts and prayers-Nancy Bretthauer Pierce

April 15, 2012

Yvonne,
My prayers are with you. He was a great person and will be missed.
Amy Lane
Anthem, AZ.

April 11, 2012

Dickie and Joy,
I am so sorry for your loss and hope you both are doing well.
Don Ideran

April 11, 2012

Dear Dickie and Joy,

I'm so sorry to learn of your Dad's passing. I have so many fun memories of him from our youth, what a fun-loving guy he was! He and your Mom were always so hospitible to us all, I always felt at home in your house. Our condolonces to your whole family.

Mike Hauser

April 11, 2012

Jude, so sorry for the loss of your brother. The passing of loved ones is always tough. God Bless, Mary Fraley

Ann Johnson

April 7, 2012

Death leaves us with a heartache that no one can heal. Love leaves us with memories that no one can steal. Dick possesed an abundance of love through his family and friends. May you be comforted by those memories at this difficult time.

Jennifer Ankney

April 7, 2012

We loved you so much Grandpa! From the Lazy susan table to the used bookstore, to jalapeno poppers at Bill's, the love and memories that we have of you will last for the rest of our lives. We were the lucky ones to have you.

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