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Brett Aspey Obituary

Brett Aspey, age 26, was born in Mesa, Arizona and passed away
December 18th, 2004 in Phoenix, Arizona. He was the eldest son of Mark and Kathleen Aspey and brother to Bradley Aspey and Krystal Griffith. Brett spent his childhood in Tempe, Arizona, and was a 1996
graduate of Corona del Sol High School. He attended Arizona State University for his undergraduate degree and received his Juris Doctorate from the ASU College of Law in 2003. After law school, Brett was employed as a Deputy County Attorney with the Maricopa County Attorney's Office. He will be forever missed in the hearts and minds of his family and friends. Brett is survived by his father Mark, step-mother Judy, brother Brad, Brad's fiance Brittny, sister Krystal, brother-in-law Bryan, step-brother Jake Cunningham, step-sister Cara Cunningham, uncle F. M. "Fritz" Aspey, and grandmother Madge Aspey. Services will be held Thursday, December 23rd, 2004 at 11:00am at Green Acres Mortuary and Cemetery in Scottsdale. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Red Cross, The Grand Canyon Chapter, 6135 N. Black Canyon Hwy, Phoenix, AZ 85015-1892.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Dec. 22, 2004.

Memories and Condolences
for Brett Aspey

28 Entries

Stacy Hyder

September 10, 2005

Brett:

It's been months since you passed away and we still all think of you and talk about you. All of us still miss you and your smile. I know that you are at peace. You may be gone, but you will never be forgotten.

Ellie Roman

January 17, 2005

Mark and Judy,

Our hearts go out to your family. Thank you for sharing your family with us. We have many wonderful memories of our travels with soccer. Even though you have been out of sight, your family has never been out of our hearts.

Judy Aspey

January 11, 2005

Dear Friends,

We thank you for your wonderful messages and memories of Brett. We are heartbroken and miss his smile and comforting presence. But we shall always remember with gratitude your kind expressions of sympathy.They mean more to us than we could ever express. Please take care. Have a healthy and happy new year. Judy and Mark Aspey

Sara Henderson

January 6, 2005

Aspey Family and Friends,

I was so sorry to hear about your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Thomas Moring

January 4, 2005

I had the privilege of getting to know Brett in the last year, and I found him to be a person of great intelligence, drive and determination. What made Brett so unique was his ability to balance these traits with his quick wit, ready smile, and extreme compassion and kindness. He will be missed by many.

My deep sympathy is with his family and friends in their loss of a wonderful young man.

Dorothy Land

January 2, 2005

I hope I will be forgiven for this intrusion on a private loss. My maternal grandfather was James Aspey from Yorkshire, where I believe your family name originated from. I was researching my mother's name, Dorothy Aspey who died in England in 2003, when I came across Brett's Guest Book. I was so saddened to see the loss of such a promising young man that I just wanted to reach out and say how sorry I am for the family and his close friends. My kindest regards, Dorothy from Suffolk, England

Victoria Sanchez

December 30, 2004

I had the privilige of working with Brett when he was in the Probation Violation Bureau at the County Attorney's office. I enjoyed working with him. He will be greatly missed. My heartfelt condolences on your loss.

Lois, Frankie and Lauren Clay

December 27, 2004

My condolences to the family at this time. Brett was a great example to my son on and off the soccer field. In his time here I can whole heartedly say that he made a difference to many.

He will always be in our hearts.

Michelle Millsap

December 27, 2004

Dear Aspey family,

I am the daughter of Dave and Chris Ewers and sister of Burke Ewers. Although I never really knew Brett, I wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and that you are not alone.

"Lord, why is it when I needed you most you left me?" the man asked.

The Lord replied, "My precious child, I love you and would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you saw only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you."

Michael Flynn

December 25, 2004

Aspey Family,

I was priveleged to know Brett at MCAO. Brett was 2 or 3 training groups ahead of me, and when you work in the Preliminary Hearing Bureau you learn to rely on each other, and to seek out the help of those experienced attorneys who are ahead of you.

My situation is unique in that I am much older than the typical new attorney at MCAO, in fact my oldest son was two years behind Brett at Corona, although they never met as far as I know. (As you are a soccer & skiing family we were baseball and hockey.)

The reason I go into some detail is to let you know the quality of Brett's character shown through in all he did.

His office was directly across the hall from mine for several months. This made him a prime source of information for this much older yet less experienced colleaugue, and he always provided help, advice or whatever was needed, often accompanied with his engaging smile and a funny comment. I will miss him.

I was deepy moved by your remarks Mark as you remembered Brett's life and shared those memories with us at the service. I am sorry for your loss, and will remember Brett and your family in my prayers.

Jamie Mabery

December 24, 2004

To the Aspey Family:

My deepest condolences during such a difficult time for your family and all who loved Brett. Please know in your heart he was deeply loved by those who had the pleasure to know him.

Jamie Mabery

MCAO

Sally [Gieszl] Dale

December 24, 2004

Dear Mark, I did not have the privilege of knowing your son, Brett, but I feel for you and your family. Your cousin, Sally

Tom Sutton

December 23, 2004

Dear Mark, Judy, Brad & Crystal,

Words cannot express your sadness at the loss of Brett. My wife and I have know the Aspey family for 30 years. During that time we have shared numerous wonderful memories at their home, our home, camping trips, our summer cabin and dinners. We have also shared in their loss; Cathy ten years ago and now Brett. Our family is very blessed that we have been a part of the Aspey family and watched Brett, Brad and Crystal grow, mature and become a very special part of our family and other families that we are close with. Brett will always be a part of us and his memory will always live on in our hearts.

Mark you should be very proud of what you have accomplished raising Brett, Brad and Crystal after Cathys death. You and your family will always be a special part of our lives.

We are so sorry for your loss.

Tom, Nina, Mark & Jessica Sutton

Ellen Starkeson

December 23, 2004

Brett was an amazing person who had so much to give to all who were lucky enough to be in his life. He was warm, caring, open, funny, generous, and was the most loving and affectionate person I've ever known. He was so proud of his family, and spoke of them with such love and joy, it is easy to understand how he became the wonderful man that he was. Brett was also an unbelievably talented lawyer who made everyone proud of all that he achieved. I send my most sincere condolences to his family, and want to express how much I love Brett and will miss him. LY always baby.

James Martin

December 23, 2004

Aspey Household,

It is with the heaviest of hearts I write you of learning about this tragic event. Brett was a dear friend of mine who I grew with as an individual on so many levels while attending ASU and living with him. I apologize for not making the funeral, as I was out of the country when notified. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerest apologies and regrets to you all.

James Martin

Det. Steve Barnes MCAO

December 23, 2004

Aspey Family, I had not met Brett, however I find it extremely difficult when a young, successful, intelligent, hard working contributor to society (and Law Enforcement) is no longer with us. Please accept my sincere condolences

SHEA JORDAN

December 22, 2004

Aspey Family,

My condolences goes out to your whole family, Brett you will be deeply missed and not forgotten, you are a great friend with an amazing attitude and big heart. Miss u buddy

Nadine Coffin

December 22, 2004

To Brett's family,

My heart goes out to all of you. I knew all about Brett and his brother and sister from stories his maternal grandmother would tell. I finally met Brett at her funeral earlier this year. Too many losses. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Thomas Delehanty

December 22, 2004

I was very saddened to hear of Brett’s passing. I am honored to have known Brett. He was such a kind, and talented young man. He was always smiling and brought a smile to those around him. I am deeply saddened that he is no longer with us and will miss his wonderful sense of humor.

Burke Ewers

December 22, 2004

Aspey Family,

I cannot tell you how sorry I am to have recieved the terrible news. Brett was an amazing person and was just fun to be around. Even though I hadn't seen Brett in years he will forever be in my heart. He will be missed...

Kristen DeVinny

December 22, 2004

My heart and deepest condolences goes out to Brett’s family. Take comfort in knowing that everyone who crossed Brett’s path has a great memory to keep with them for the rest of their lives and will smile when they think of him. May the memories of the good times we shared together overcome the grief we are all experiencing.

Brett, you were a wonderful person and made an impact on so many lives. I will forever remember all the times we spent together throughout the years. I smile when I think of how you and Pete always had a way of making fun of me that made me laugh instead of feel bad. You will be greatly missed and never be forgotten. I feel so fortunate to have known you and to have kept in touch with you. Our recent chats will forever be etched in my mind. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. ~ Blondie

(p.s. I forgive you for the black eye you accidentally gave me at Pete & Jay’s!)

TJ Doton

December 22, 2004

Brett was a great person with a big smile and a big heart. I will miss him. My deepest condolences to his family at this time of mourning. - TJ Doton

Eddie & Karen Tiggs

December 22, 2004

Our sincere condolences to the Aspey Family. Having the opportunity to converse with Brett on several occasions on the soccer field while watching his brother or sister play, he was always cordial and respectful. Know that your family will remain in our prayers.

Richard Jones

December 22, 2004

My condolences goes out to all of Bretts family. Brett was a very friendly and outgoing guy. He was good guy to be around and to have a good time with. He will be forever missed.

Sara Sinay

December 22, 2004

Brett will be missed by many....

Viviana Martinez

December 22, 2004

Dominic and I send our sympathy and prayers to all the family. God bless you always.

Carol, Robert, Ashley & Rhette Blakey

December 22, 2004

Judy,

We cannot tell you how terribly sorry we were to receive the news. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.

love, The Blakeys

Sarah Barnes

December 22, 2004

We are all going to miss Brett. He was so much fun to be around and such a kind-hearted person . . . and turned out to be our clutch homerun hitter for our softball team!!! Brett's life was cut tragically short, and although we only knew Brett for a year, we still have so many fond memories to talk about to keep him with us. Most importantly, I must thank him for making my friend feel so loved. We also offer our deepest sympathies to his family.

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