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for Cody Christopher
Jeanne Simon
July 20, 2007
Dear Jeanette, We have never met, but Kevin and my son were in Cub Scouts together until we moved back to the Chicago area in 2005. I just heard of your terrible loss this week. I have no words of wisdom - the pain does not go away, but you learn to live with it. I want to share this poem with you - a friend of mine gave it to us when we lost our son in 1993 --
"God needed a perfect flower to complete a beautiful setting in His Garden of Eternity. He sent His Angel to earth to find that flower; and the angel took back to God the loveliest one he could see. Heaven rejoiced at the beauty -- the pattern was finished."
Mary Luikens
April 5, 2007
Dear Jeanette,
I think of you and your boys often. I worry about you and how you are surviving. You are a very special person. May God watch over you until the day you join Him and reunite with your precious Cody and Kevin.
Take Care,
Cindy Reese
April 2, 2007
I did not know Cody and Kevin but met them last week when I stood at their gravesite while attending a funeral for my neighbor, Al Mackenzie. I was moved to find out who these boys were, so loved and honored with flowers and toys, and forever together as brothers. They are at peace with God but I know their family will feel this pain for all eternity. May God comfort you all.
Jeri Stanfill
March 13, 2007
Dear Jeanette,
You are in my thoughts daily and I grieve not only the loss of Kevin and Cody, but for your pain. I am here in thought and prayer. Please call me (602-423-1508) if you would like an ear to talk to, a shoulder to cry on, or just someone to share the joy Kevin and Cody brought to this life. God Bless you.
Holly Trueblood
March 12, 2007
Jeanette-
My heart weeps for you forever. My mouth wishes to say words of Cody and Kevin, but instead, tears speak for themselves. here is a poem I wrote 4 u, I hope you like it.
as the days pass by and by,
I hope they found their wings to fly,
the tears I weep feel like magic,
and their loss was tragic.
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my life has changed for good,
it feels like I never would,
I feel pressed against a wall,
I never dreamed about this all.
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Now that they are angels,
with wings of flight so true,
the only question left,
is what`s gonna happen to you?
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for now my heart aches,
it seems this should all be a fake,
but I feel this loss so true,
but I don't feel it like you.
I am sorry.
-Holly Trueblood
holly trueblood
February 21, 2007
Love u!
Kathy Anderson
January 31, 2007
Jeanette
It's been several years since we've spoken. We were neighbors on Columbine, (my daughters are Kendra and Courtney Hillman). I remember Kevin and Cody fondly. They are beautiful boys. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My heart broke when I heard what had happened. I remember what an amazing mother you were with the boys. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
Kathy Anderson
Kara Tiffany
January 28, 2007
Jeanette,
I received the letter from PCH on the day of the funeral. There are no words to say. I am so sorry for the loss of your boys. You have been in my prayers. I pray for comfort for you and look toward the promise of heaven.
Renee Kutcher
January 27, 2007
My family was deeply saddened by your tragic loss. Cody and Kevin I will keep you in my prayers. I know we are strangers, but we do live in the same neighborhood and my son's went to Desert Shadows. To all of those who knew Cody and Kevin I will say a prayer for healing of your heart.
Dr. Karlsson Roth
January 27, 2007
Dear Jeanette -
I have not met you, nor you me. I do not know your boys, Cody and Kevin. But I know what it is to love a son, and my heart is heavy for you at this difficult time. If prayer matters, and I know that it does, please know that mine are with you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss, but happy that you had the time you did with Kevin and Cody. Knowing them, loving them, teaching them. Your boys - they will be your boys forever.
I wish you Godspeed.
holly trueblood
January 26, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
BELLE GRABER
January 26, 2007
DEAR JEANETTE AND PAUL
THERE ARE NO WORDS FOR GRIEF-ONLY LOVE FROM MY HEART.
BELLE
Diane Galarza
January 26, 2007
Our hearts are heavy with sorrow for you and your family, Cody and Kevin were wonderful children and an were inspiration to others, both young and old. We will always remember them in a special place in our hearts. Although we have moved away we remember enjoying our time with them at Boy Scouts, chess club, birthday parties and school functions. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love, Diane and Rod Galarza
(Jake's Parents)
Gina Jackson
January 26, 2007
I didnt know you two, but I miss you guys. R.I.P. <3 gina
Christine Kettelkamp
January 26, 2007
Jeanette and Paul:
We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know that we are here for you now and always.
The Kettelkamps
Charlie and Pat Zaleski
January 26, 2007
We share your indescribable sorrow.
Caitiln Davis
January 25, 2007
Here are some of the poems I wrote....I hope you like them<3
I didn't believe it at first
only because it hurt
now i have to live with the pain,
and it just happened to rain
it seems so real
because it is
its only a blur
only a fizz
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I feel really bad
it should've never begun
I miss him a lot
I miss him a ton
now he's gone.
never coming back
I wish you could pin it to a board,
just like a tack.
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Angels from above
swoop him away
I don't know what to do
don't know what to say
he's going through my mind,
time to time,
his voice fades away
just like a chime.
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Cody and Kevin Christopher
Lived once
Never again
I don't know how,
you just don't understand.
ashley
January 25, 2007
I know that there are no words that explain what it's like for you now, but i pray and hope that you will be safe.
holly trueblood
January 25, 2007
Dear Jeanette and Paul,
I am so truly sorry for your loss. Your two sons meant so much to me. I hope to see you soon, and I comfort you both at this time of greiving.
Love always,
Holly Truebloood
Marian Green
January 25, 2007
Jeannette and Paul- I was so saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ann Guthery
January 25, 2007
Jeanette,
My Heart goes out to you for your loss. You are in my prayers and thoughts.
Kathy Shepherd
January 25, 2007
My heart and prayers go out to you. The boys had smiles that could conquer mountains and everyone loved them. You will find strength in each other and know that the boys will always watch over you.
Kim Petersen
January 25, 2007
Dear Jeanette and Paul-
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. You are, and will be, in my thoughts and prayers.
Lisa Dulara
January 25, 2007
Dear Jeanette and Paul,
There are no words to say that can take away your pain, but know that I and all of your friends and family are "standing in the gap" for you and offering prayers on your behalf to our Almighty God who continues to reign powerfully. He will supply all that you need to get through this very dark time.
Peace to you-
Kathy LaPose's daughter
Lisa Cambron
January 25, 2007
Dearest Jeanette,
I cannot tell you the anguish we feel upon reading of Cody & Kevin's passing. All of us who knew them are heartbroken. Even though we haven't seen you all lately, we remember them as such wonderful boys; a true reflection of the loving and giving spirit of their mother. Please know that we are praying for you and your family as you grieve this tremendous loss. Please find solace in knowing that they are together in Eternity with our loving Father.
With our deepest sympathy,
Lisa, Tom, Claire & Reece Cambron
Karen Brower
January 25, 2007
Paul and Jeanette,
I know what a joy and blessing children are in our lives. Words cannot express the sorrow I feel for your tragic loss. My heart aches for you.
With sincere and deepest sympathy,
Karen Brower
Kurt, Dana, and Stormy Ritter
January 25, 2007
Jeanette
My heart aches for you and your family. Words cannot express the sorrow we all feel for you. I know the devotion you had for your boys. Your eyes would shine bright when you spoke of them. I pray for you constantly,honey. God will carry you thru this and I am here day or night if you need anything.
Dear Lord,
Give strength to my friend and her family. Surround them with love and sweetness.Amen
Gene & Kathy Ambs
January 25, 2007
Your bond with Kevin and Cody will never be broken, because the love that has been shared will always remain. Paul & Jeanette you are both in our thoughts and prayers. Know that we are here for you for whatever you may need.
The Lord Will Be With You And Your Children. He Promises Us That.
January 25, 2007
Barb Affinito
January 25, 2007
Jeanette and Paul, Cody and Kevin
I am not going to say I am sorry or It will get better. All I want to say is that boys you are with the Lord right now and have an understanding that those of us left on this earth do not have yet. But we will. Jeanette I have lost a son to murder and understand how you are feeling in many ways. I know you have my number. please feel free to call. Paul that goes for you to. Cody and Kevin. Rest in Peace. Be with the Lord and let him hold you tightly until you have an understanding of where you are.
We will miss You but I know in my heart we will all see each other again. Jeremy is there somewhere. He will find you. I have asked the Lord and Jeremy to make sure your journey is peaceful. Be near your mom and let her know that you are ok.
take care all of you.
with Love and Compassion
Barb Affinito
Russell, Elaine, Emma & Ben Halldiay
January 25, 2007
Our deepest sympathies for your profound and tragic loss. While our hearts are breaking that Cody and Kevin are gone, we are grateful for the joy of having known each one of these brilliant, beautiful boys and the difference they made in our lives.
Mike and Celina Montemorra
January 25, 2007
As parents we try to protect our children and believe they will outlive us. I hope that all the LOVE you have for Kevin and Cody will help you through this. Now that they are in God's hands it is thier turn to watch over and protect you. Though we cannot take away your pain,we can offer out our hands to help in any way you may need. Our prayers go with Kevin,Cody and your family. God Bless all of you.
Becky Moder
January 25, 2007
Our prayers will be with you forever as you experience this tragic loss of your sons. They always had smiles on their faces at church...and they will be missed very much. Our love and sympathy,
Becky Moder and daughter, Libby Johnson
Genesis members
Michael Nunley
January 25, 2007
Jeanette
No words are adequate for such a horrific tragedy. My heart goes out to you and to all who loved Cody and Kevin.
Jan Pearson
January 25, 2007
Although we have never met, my grandsons Kevin S and Jacob L were friends of Kevin and Cody. My heart aches for you, your family, my grandsons and all the friends of Kevin and Cody who are struggling with the pain of this inexplicable tragic loss that some many have suffered. May the comfort of knowing how many lives your sons touched somehow comfort you in your time of loss.
Michelle Erickson
January 24, 2007
My heart aches for you and I am praying for you. Just as you love your sons remember God's love for them and for you is infinite. May His unfailing love comfort you during this horrible time.
The Miller's
January 24, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. I can not put it all into words how our hearts break for you. May God keep you in his grace to ease your pain, even if for a moment. You are in our prayers.
Chris, Paulla, Mykayla and Caleb Miller
Morgan Montemorra
January 24, 2007
I knew Cody very well and Kevin, too. I'm sorry for this saddning loss. They were two great boys, and I will miss them truly.
Dustin Montemorra
January 24, 2007
I will miss you Cody and Kevin, I know we didn't really got to know each other but I could tell i knew you a lot.
Jaquelyn Anderson
January 24, 2007
To Kevin & Cody's mom,
I am so sad that Kevin & Cody are gone. The only thing that makes me feel better is knowing that they are going to be together in heaven. They were the most gentle kids in the school. Kevin was in my class for 4 years. Kevin & Cody were always funny and were good friends. I will always remember them in my heart.
Love, Jaquelyn
michelle martinez
January 24, 2007
I know there are no words to ease your pain right now. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Michelle Martinez
Joyce Tetreault
January 24, 2007
Jeanette and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Polly Norton
January 24, 2007
Dear Jeanette and Paul,
I love you and am praying for you.
Jimmy Blinn
January 24, 2007
Dear Jeanette,
Having the opportunity to have worked with you, I know how much Cody and Kevin mean to you. Your love and dedication to them never seemed to be a sacrifice. You willingly and endlessly devoted your self to them. It is obvious thier young lives touched so many people. May you and all your loved ones be blessed with strong and powerfully happy memories of the goodness that Cody and Kevin represented and the JOY they brought you as a Mother.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Jimmy
Leslie Jirovec
January 24, 2007
Jeanette,
I do not know your children, only what you told me about them when we spoke one day. I saw the joy in your eyes as you told me about your beautiful boys. I am so profoundly sad for your loss and am thinking of you and praying for you constantly.
chris tes
January 24, 2007
Dear Jeanette and Paul,
My house is yours, my ears are yours, my heart is here to comfort you and my arms are open to hold you. I am grief stricken over this and feel very sad for you. I am here at all times to comfort you and hold you dear. I will do anything to help you through your grief. I can sense your pain. I wish to extend my love and comfort to you. Please feel free to call me at anytime. I am so, so, so sorry and sad. I most willing to listen and share your pain. I will be praying night and day for you. Feel free to lean on me.
I have come to know you personally and I feel honored in knowing you. I have been blessed by you and your children through the years. I have seen your great gifts in mothering and fathering. You have lost your most precious loves and I grieve for you. They were wonderful children! You were the best to them that I could ever imagine as I have said to you and others.
Love, Chris
Diane Nolan
January 24, 2007
Dear Paul and Jeanette
I am so sorry for your loss. I will pray for you during this difficult time.
Lopez
January 24, 2007
There is no bond greater than that of a Mother and Child. My deepest sympathies, to you and your family. May God give you the strength during your time of need. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. I understand your loss, your heartache and pain, for I too have lost a young Angel. May you find peace. God bless you.
Janet Stromberg
January 24, 2007
Dear Jeanette,
Words cannot express my sadness at this terrible loss. Kevin and Cody will remain in my heart always.
Love, Cousin Janet
Kathleen Green
January 24, 2007
Jeanette, Paul and family,
Though I only knew your family briefly, the scenes of your sweet family will always remain in my memories. In this way, we friends and family will always hold your family together in spirit. From a very saddened camping friend who enjoyed a starry night with you and your darling sons,
Kathleen Green :-)
Caroline, Chase and Carly Atlee
January 24, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss Jeanette...we will miss Kevin and Cody very much. I pray that God is with you during this time.
Caroline, Chase and Carly
Lisa, Joseph and Josh Sandquist
January 24, 2007
We feel very fortunate to have known Cody and Kevin. They were bright, sweet, good boys. We will miss seeing them at Grammie Belle's house. Our thoughts are with you through this difficult time.
Kathy LaPose
January 24, 2007
Jeanette, Paul and family,
My heart aches for you. There are no words that can lessen your pain, but know that I am praying for you all. May God envelop you in His love and give you peace and comfort as you mourn the loss of your beloved sons.
Lovingly,
Don Haley
January 24, 2007
Jeannette and Paul
We are so deeply sorry for your loss.
I know there is nothing we can say or do for you right now,just know we are always there for you if you
ever need anything.
You are in are thoughts and prayers
Don and Barb Haley
Deanna Allen
January 24, 2007
Kevin and Cody -
You will truly be missed. Two precious lives lost at such a tender age. Your innocence will live in all of us forever. God Speed.
The Allen Family - Mark, Deanna, Hannah and Hailey
Dana Valletta
January 24, 2007
Jeanette and family. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this truly devastating period. I wish you peace and solace.
Sincerely,
Dana Valletta
SHEA WILLIAMS
January 24, 2007
PSALMS 121:1-2 I WILL LIFT UP MY EYES UNTO THE HILLS,FROM WHENCE COMETH MY HELP. MY HELP COMETH FROM THE LORD WHICH MADE HEAVEN AND EARTH. MAY THE LORD CONTINUALLY BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY THROUGH THIS TIME.SINCERELY SHEA WILLIAMS(PULMONARY SCHEDULER)
Jeri Stanfill
January 24, 2007
Cody and Kevin were two of the dearest, sweetest children I have ever known. I feel fortunate that I was able to share a small part of their lives here with us on earth. My heart is with you in this time of profound sorrow and grief.
SHEA WILLIAMS
January 24, 2007
PSALMS 121;1-2 I WILL LIFT UP MY EYES UNTO THE HILLS,FROM WHENCE COMETH MY HELP.MY HELP COMETH FROM THE LORD WHICH MADE HEAVEN AND EARTH.MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU MOM AND FAMILY.SINCERLY SHEA WILLIAMS(PULMONARY SCHEDULER PCH)
W. L.
January 24, 2007
God has called two angels to heaven.
Lynn Melotik
January 24, 2007
There are not enough words to discribe how sorry we are for your loss. Your boys were adorable they will be missed by all who ever came in contact and got to know them. They now have a job to do in heaven for God. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. May God Bless You and guide you through the toughest time anyone will ever know.
Sydney Melotik and Family
DSES
Denise and John Taylor
January 24, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God provide you peace and strength in this time of need.
Scott, Jeannie & Christie Curtis
January 24, 2007
Kevin & Cody,
I will miss you very much. I'm so sorry you are gone.
Your friend,
Christie Curtis
Jeannette,
Our heart goes out to you. Please let us know if we can do anything for you.
Scott & Jeannie Curtis
Heather & Leslie Bohi
January 24, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
January 24, 2007
We will see you again, that is our hope and our strength.
We love you,
Aunt Marjie and Uncle Tony
Paula Connally
January 24, 2007
Cody and Kevin are no doubt two angels holding hands with Jesus, while they watch over their beloved Mother, and family members. My heart is broken to such a tragic ending to these beautiful boys. They are flying free in Heaven now, Brothers forever! My prayers are with you! Sincerely, Paula Connally
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