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Suzannah
February 13, 2025
Deborah...
The sky couldn´t have been more beautiful as I walked along and thought of your birthday coming up in a couple of days.
Suzannah
September 25, 2024
Deborah...
Another year gone my friend , but you´re in my thoughts, as I walk along our waterfront paths...
Suzannah
February 14, 2024
Another year my friend, but memories still strong ,as I walk our waterfront paths.
Suzannah
September 25, 2023
Deborah,
You´re in my thoughts as always.
Until we meet again....
Suzannah
Suzannah
February 15, 2023
Deborah,
Memories shared remain forever within our hearts.
You are remembered on your birthday.
Love always,
Suzannah
Suzannah
September 26, 2022
Deborah,
Another year has passed, but my memories with you never shall.
Suzannah
September 26, 2022
Deborah,
Another year passed but my memories with you never shall.
Suzannah Rygula
February 14, 2022
Deborah...
From earth to heaven,I´m sending birthday wishes to a friend I will forever miss.
Suzannah Rygula
September 25, 2021
Deborah,
Another year has passed my friend, but wherever I wander, there are always moments when I see sights like this that bring memories of you rushing back to me.
Suzannah
February 13, 2021
Deborah,
The world changes from year to year,
as do our lives from day to day, but my
memories of you shall never fade.
Happy Birthday to a special friend, who shall never be forgotten.
Jessica
October 2, 2020
Hello sweet mama, missing you every day. I had a baby boy last week, he is so precious you would love him. Loving you always and forever.
Jesse
[email protected]
Suzannah
September 25, 2020
I miss you my friend more then I can say ....
February 14, 2020
Deborah....
It's been many a day since you've left us, but you've never left my thoughts.
That's why I'm still sending you birthday wishes and will be thinking of you tomorrow, on your special day.
Suzannah
Suzannah
October 13, 2019
You are with us in our thoughts ...
Jessica Reynolds
September 26, 2019
Love you mama. Miss you every day.
[email protected]
Memories
September 25, 2019
Deborah...
Thomas Campbell once wrote ....
To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.
Thank you for entering mine.
Suzannah
February 12, 2019
Deborah
Will be thinking of you on your upcoming birthday as I blow out a candle with my two beautiful grandchildren in memory of you. Then I will tell them how lucky I was to have met such a wonderful lady who left me with such lovely memories.
Miss you still
Love
Suzannah
Deborah... a beautiful soul is never forgotten
Suzannah
February 12, 2019
Suzannah
October 2, 2018
My dear friend ...
You weren't forgotten Deborah,but seems they had copyright issues with a picture I linked to my message for you and they only responded to my query now.
Another year passed on the 26th and another year missing you. I can still hear your wonderful laughter and see your lovely smile.
Suzannah
February 15, 2018
Happy Birthday my friend....
February 14, 2018
Deborah...
days have passed and somehow turned into yet another year but I will forever remember you with love while whispering up ...
Happy Birthday to wherever your Spirit might be wandering...
Missing you still
Suzannah
September 25, 2017
Deborah
You may be gone from my sight,
but you are never gone from my heart.
As I walk along the waterfront in memory tomorrow,
I shall remember the wonderful times we had together.
I miss you my friend......
Suzannah
Happy 60th Birthday ...thank you for always having brought a smile into my day
Suzannah
February 14, 2017
Suzannah
February 15, 2017
Deborah...
As I sit here thinking of you
and whisper,
"Happy Birthday my friend",
I want to believe that somehow,
somewhere,
you can still hear me.
Always in my heart.
Another year passed ....another year you are missed
Suzannah
September 25, 2016
jessica reynolds
June 7, 2016
for my sweet mother who's voice lives in my heart and speaks with each beat. You are missed beyond words. I search for you in the wind as it passes, the sun as it warms and in the twilight of the stars as all the mystery of the universe shine down on me, your daughter forever. I love you.
February 15, 2016
Happy Birthday
February 14, 2016
Deborah
Wishing you were here today
for even just a while...
So I could say Happy Birthday
And hear your merry laugh
Always in my heart and thank you
for our memories
Suzannah
You may be gone from my sight ....but you are never gone from my heart.i will think of you on Saturday as we hike through Algonquin park. Missing you
September 14, 2015
Deborah ...
You may be gone from my sight ....but you are never gone from my heart.
I shall think of you on my hike through Algonquin Park this coming Saturday and will be missing you as always my friend....Suzannah
May 10, 2015
My dearest Deborah...
Thoughts of you on Mother's Day whirled around in my head.
Wished you could have been around to enjoy the beauty of the day but then again maybe, hopefully,your spirit is in a place that enables you to enjoy not only beauty but peace of mind also.
Missing you my friend,missing you very much indeed.
Suzannah
September 27, 2014
Dearest Deborah;
How I miss you, you have always been a bright light in my window, I wanted to let you know that Daddy joined you on May 14 of this year. I miss him so very much, he wasn't bed ridden yet, he passed away in his sleep, you remember how he never wanted to go to a nursing home or be sick in the hospital.
John, Yvette, Dad and I went up to see Joshus when he was at a conference in Austin, it was great to see him. I visited Patty and family in Montana this past summer, Did you know uou are a great Aunt Paul and Shannon has a little girl and boy, there names are Hannah and Michah. I also Visited Relatives in Georgia. I miss you very much sweetheart and you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Love you forever and a day
MOM
September 25, 2014
Deborah,
Another year will have come to pass tomorrow and I wish I could climb up to heaven to give you a hug and tell you just how much you are stilled missed.
Thank you for our memories....
Suzannah
February 15, 2014
Deborah
You left me with lovely memories
And special days like your birthday
Bring many of those fond memories to mind
And memories are possessions
That time can never destroy
For it is in happy remembrance
The heart finds its greatest joy.
So another birthday has come around
And there's nothing I can do
But sit quietly for a while and
Recall memories of our
Times gone by and
Missing so much
Your irresistible smile
Just like I always do and
I always shall
Happy Birthday my dear friend
Missing you
As always ....
Suzannah
Suzannah
September 26, 2013
There is no death, people die only when we forget them......
You are remembered with every season, with every year that passes.....
You are missed
Suzannah
September 22, 2013
To live in hearts we leave behind
Is not to die.
~Thomas Campbell, "Hallowed Ground"
Deborah, you shall also live on in the wonderful memories you left behind for me.
February 19, 2013
Our Darling Deborah:
I'm late wishing you a Happy Birthday, I didn't forget,but trouble with the computor. Icould never forget your Birthday, You were our Valentine Baby. We had red and white roses on the altar at church for you, they were very pretty. Love you forever and a day.
Mom & Dad
February 17, 2013
Deborah
Just when I think I'm content
And well upon my way
To dealing with your loss
Along comes your birthday
And I realize just how much
I still and will always
Miss you my dear friend.
September 27, 2012
A Memory is one,
One that lasts forever,
A Memory is one,
One to treasure forever,
A Memory is one,
One you create with someone special...
Deborah, thank you for our memories.
You will always be missed....
Suzannah
February 15, 2012
Happy Birthday Darling Deborah.
I woke up this morning and looked at your picture and saw your smiling face and thought today is Debs birthday. Dad and I miss you do very much, there
is not a day that goes by with out you in our thoughts. I miss talking to you on the phone. The flowers in church on sunday were for you, they were red & white, very beautiful.
Deb, Dad & I love you and miss you.
Love & Kisses
Mom & Dad
February 15, 2012
Happy Birthday my dear friend...
To live in the hearts of those who love you,is never to die...
Those we love don't go away,
they walk beside us everyday.
Unseen,unheard,but always near,
still loved,still missed and very dear.
-Anonymous
Missing you as always Debs.
Suzannah
September 30, 2011
Hello my friend...
I miss you now most of all, when watching the leaves turn into fall.
Always remembered,
Always missed.
Suzannah
May 12, 2011
Debs..
How I miss you on these spring days,when all is in bloom and the birds are singing their hearts out. Those were the days when we went for those long walks with the girls along the water front and just enjoyed the beauty life had to offer us.
I so hope that there truly is an after life, so that you could still be enjoying these moments with your Max and my Kodiak. Somehow it is just such a comforting thought.
Take care my friend.
Missing you.
Suzannah
Mom & Dad
February 16, 2011
Feb 15th was a lucky day for us, thats the day you came into our lives with you beauriful red hair and your sweet smile, you were precious to us then as you are now
Dad and I can't say in words how much you enriched our lives, we Love, and we miss you very much
Mom & Dad
Mom & Dad DeBolt
February 16, 2011
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
February 15, 2011
Deborah my dear friend,
On this birthday
No cakes or candles here today
Or presents for you to open
Just love from a friend who wants to say
Happy Birthday,and here's hoping
Somehow you can see
That I have not forgotten you
That I still remember, even though
You've departed from my view
And if you wonder why I care
It's just because I want to show
That a part of you is still here with me
You live within my memories,that keep alive
Your smiles and laughter
And so you remain, though we're apart
In memories of you that I hold so dear.
Missing you always.....
Suzannah
January 6, 2011
Happy New Year my friend ...
you will always be remembered and missed.
Hugs
Suzannah
Suzannah Rygula
September 29, 2010
Deborah....
I know I am late, but I am still dealing with the loss of another special person in my life,my mother.It was a long and painful journey, before the Lord called her home and I am just coming to terms with her death and it also being so close to yours.
It has been a long 5 years without you my friend.
I still miss you oh so much and I always will.
Hugs...
Suzannah Rygula
July 23, 2010
Hi my dear friend...
How I wish we could have had more time together.
Sending you a bear hug wherever you might be wandering.
I miss you so.
Suzannah
Suzannah Rygula
February 16, 2010
Happy belated my dear friend...
Wherever you were hanging out,I hope you had a blast of a party.
I wish you could have enjoyed the trio of young deer, silouetted against the sunrise cresting the ravine this morning.It was such a magical moment,it felt as if time had been suspended.
Than it was over.
It is moments like this that stay etched into one's mind.
Just like your face breaking into a wide smile whenever we'd meet up and that warm engulfing hug when we parted.
Those memories will stay with me forever.
Hugs to you my friend.
I miss you....
Suzannah
Jack & Bobbie DeBolt
February 15, 2010
Happy Birthday Darling Deborah
Dad and I woke up this morning and the first words we spoke were its Debs birthday today, You were our Valentine baby. We sure miss you calling us to give us advice on all your herbs and what kind we should take or not take. We miss your beautiful face and I miss our telephone conversations most of all we miss seeing you. Dad is doing fairly well and Dad says to tell you that I am like the energizer bunny, I just keep going and going. Dad just came in to tell me to let you know that he misses his girl everyday We really miss you sweetheart and we will say goodbye for now. Love You forever and a day!!! Mom & Dad
Suzannah Rygula
October 3, 2009
Hey there girlfriend...
The autumn leaves have come,another summer has passed.Everything is settling in waiting for winter.
At times like this,my thoughts always go back to our Fall walks with the "girls". I do miss those outings tremendously.
What I also miss so much is your happy chatter,your warm hugs,your gaiety.
But mostly my friend,I miss you.
Hugs to you,wherever you might be...
Suzannah
Suzannah Rygula
March 28, 2009
Hey Deborah....
I have just finished changing over my winter door wreath for the spring one.
I added a couple of new things to your wreath and I think you would be okay with it.It is still, after all these years,looking vibrant with its bright forsythia laced through the grape vines.
The foxes are back in the ravine again,
chasing down the squirrels,or at least trying to.I think of how the "girls" tried to chase them down also, in your old backyard.
Everything is starting to come back from its winter sleep and I know you would just love the freshness in the air.
I think of you often. I miss your quirky e-mails.I miss your cheeriness and laughter.
I hope you are happy where ever you may be wandering.
My friend,I miss you....
Suzannah
Mom & Dad DeBolt
October 1, 2008
Hi Darling Deborah
Just a note from Mom & Dad to let you know that you are always with us, I did remember your day, but I remember it as if you never left us. and as I get older my memory is not always on the correct day.
Haven't talked to Jess or John in a while, but did talk to Josh before we moved, Yes I know that you know that we moved to San Antonio and you have been taking care of us in your own sweet way. Love you sweetheart, you are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Love always
Mom & Dad
jessica naomi reynolds
September 29, 2008
Dont blame me for being a few days late mama although Im sure there's far more exciting things to do in the afterlife than check the ol' Tucson obituary guestbook ...but who knows maybe its a slow month. God I miss you. Every time I take out a needle and thread or chase down a strangers dog, I think of you. When I wake up and untangle my hair from your locket, I think of you. When I sit at night and read alone I think of you. When I smell lavender or bread baking I think of you. When I see a tall woman walking down he street who has even the slightest bit of red in her hair, I follow her, and wait till she turns the corner, just to see if maybe its you. In all my days, I think of you, in all my nights I miss you, but for all my lives I love you.
Mary Smith
September 26, 2008
September is here and the fall colors are starting to come out. The flowers are coming to an end and its time to wrap up the things of summer and move into the fall. For me it is a restfull time. A sort of ending and a slowing down. I love the fall. I guess if there was an appropriate time for you, Deborah, to leave it was the fall. I cant help but think of you now, this time of the year. Some how I feel you were ready, even though we wern't, to put things away and move on to another season. I do so hope you can feel our love and thoughts and know that you are always with us and so sorely missed.
suzannah rygula
September 26, 2008
Deborah,
I sat by the lake yesterday were we used to walk Molly and Sassy,watching the waters lapping up onto the shore line. The leaves have started to change colours and the birds are sitting en masse waiting to take off on their long journey south.You could hear the laughter of the children drifting over from the playground. The one thing that would have made it perfect, was to have you there with the "girls", sharing the moment with me. I still miss everything about you... your zest for doing things on the spur of the moment, going shopping, always on the look out to add to your hat collection,but most of all, I so miss your laughter. When it came, it was from deep within and catching. I miss your chatter about anything and everything, especially the stories of your travels. You brought them all aiive when you told them and I loved listening to them over those times we sat together in each others gardens.
I write today and think of what would have turned into ,what I think of, as a friendship for the long haul.I regret not having more time with you,because you were one of those rare souls, that actually wanted to see everyone happy.
You are in my thoughts throughout the year...as I hang out the humming bird feeder in the spring, that you sent me, or the wreath you made for fall, or the candle decoration that i use during my Christmas season. You have left your foot prints not only in life ,but in my heart also.
Hey girlfriend , were ever you might be...I do miss you so.
Luv always,
Suzannah
Susan
September 26, 2007
Dear Deborah, It has been two years since you left. Sometimes it seems like yesterday and other times it seems like years. I miss you very much! We all do! I know you are close but you seem so far away. We had a great party at Mom's for her 90th birthday - remember all the cooking we did for the 85th? We were making the rollups at Pix's and we had the music up loud and were having so much fun! It was a good time! Somehow I believe you joined us this year for the celebration. I would have loved a hug! I know you thought you had to leave and I want you to know that I am not angry about you leaving, just sad because I miss you! We had some great "talks" on messenger....we would connect the web cams and we would each be in our nightgowns! I am glad for those memories. I know we will meet again - until then, you are in my heart and prayers and I know we are in your heart and prayers. Love, Susan
Mary Smith
September 26, 2007
Its overcast here today and I feel the chill in the air and the calling of fall. I love fall. Things come to a closing, flower beds are put to rest, the garden tools etc are cleaned and put away for the winter. For some reason I have a feeling of completion. Another year winding to an end. I remember that all things have an end. Even pain. Deborah and all of you are in my thoughts and heart today. I can't help but see her smile and know that her pain has come to an end. What I wouldn't give for one more hug, smile, laugh, any breath of her presence. I do believe that one day I will see her again and in the meantime I will try to remember that there is time NOW for one more hug, smile, and laughter with those that are still here and close to me. So remember the good times and remember that there is an end for all of us, we just don't know when that will be. Love and Prayers - hugs and laughter to all - Mary
Suzannah Rygula
September 26, 2006
The heart remembers most what it has loved.
It has been a little over a year since I last spoke to you and the void of your friendship has still not been filled.
From the moment I saw you walking your beloved “girls” I knew that I had to meet you.
Little did I know that when I rang your door bell the first time to introduce myself, you would not only pull me into your home but into your life as well. We found out that not only did we share the same birth month but that we also madly loved dogs.
You lit into my life and made me see the world through your rose coloured glasses.With your infectious enthusiasm I followed you into new adventures that found us dancing through the night at a Jack Johnson concert, than continued to dance our way through the jazz, beer and cultural festivals that Toronto hosted throughout the summer of 2004.
I miss the wild walks we had with your “girls”, sometimes followed by your delicious home cooked meals and the evenings we sat around talking each others ears off. Even now the memory runs through my mind like a video and I ach not to be able to reach out and hug you.
I miss your soothing massages when I was feeling ill or stressed out.
I miss your smile, your laughter and your all engulfing hugs.
I miss especially your voice calling out, ”hey girlfriend!” I loved how it sounded.
Thank you for sharing your stories from all your journeys following your soul mate around the world. You always spoke with such love and passion about your family, they were the world to you, anybody that knew you, knew that with out question.
Thank you for letting me fly with you and enjoy the beauty that you saw in everything.
Thank you for also sharing your down days with me, just as I did mine with you. We leaned on each other to cry and than helped wipe away the others tears. Our illnesses was another bound that we shared and could understand, that others who are blessed with health can not truly comprehend what we had gone through.
Everyday takes me by your old front door just up the street from me, and the memories keep flooding back of all the times spent together.
I am so sorry that I did not have more time to enjoy with you.
Where ever your wanderings take you now, I know that you are accompanied not only by your beloved old Max, but by my two” boys” also.
Debbie, you have left your footprints on my heart which I will carry with me until we can once again walk together.
Hey girlfriend , I miss you so.
Suzannah
[email protected]
Jack & Bobbie DeBolt
September 26, 2006
Sept 26, 2005, The day we lost our beautiful daughter Deborah will always be a day of remembrance for our wonderful, caring and loving daughter. We will not be sad this day, because she is in a better place, that has no strife or pain.
Soon this guest book will be discontinued, but darling Deborah we will never forget you, you will always be a part of our lives and in our thoughts and prayers. You touched so many people while you were on this earth and all of us are better for your existence. Dad and I will always love you and someday we will be with you. So until then We will say, not good bye, but until we meet again.
Love you Forever
Mom & Dad
kirk
June 21, 2006
Hey Deb,
I just found out that Jess told you about her collar bone. Just wanted to let you know I'm doing my best to take care of her. She is worried that her shoulders won't look so pretty but I keep telling her how beautiful she is. I closed my first real-estate deal today, just thought I would let you know...some good news to balance out Jessie's broken bones. I miss you a lot. Every time I look at Jessica I think about you and remember how you always told me to keep an eye on her. She decieded to go skate boarding without me...but if I was there I would've caught her. I am going to try and see Josh for his Birthday, I figure we'll go get a Guiness or something. I love you and miss you.- Kirk
jessica reynolds
June 20, 2006
hi mama, I was just missing you today, like all days, so I thought I'd write. I broke my collar bone recently, I wish you were here to take care of me, although I probably would of told you I was fine. Dad sent me some cookies, peanut butter ones, he even found some monster cookies you made, but Im saving those for something special. Im going home this weekend to see dad. We're going to head on up to Presscott and goof off a bit, probably go to the Salvation Army and search for treasures, they always have the neastest books. We'll probably go to New Frontiers too, can you believe I got dad to shop organically now! He doesn't even eat that much meat anymore. Well its nice and warm here in California, I bet its always perfect where you are. I hope you and Max are getting along alright, I know the other bassets would be jealous, they sure do miss you. We all do. I read old letters you wrote me all the time, you always had such pretty hand writting, you really are the best mom ever. I know we'll meet up one day, save me a seat next to you okay? I cant believe its summer again already, the flowers are blooming and all the little birds are out, dad has been taking care of garden real well, so dont fret none. Gosh mama, I sure do miss you, its blinding somtimes. But I know your happy so I'll try and be happy to, Josh is doing really really well, hes going to go really far in life, I just know it. Well mama, hope your having a nice day where ever you are, come visit me sometime will ya? Im always here. I love you forever.
love, your only daughter
jessie naomi
Michelle Holdgrafer
March 16, 2006
It is St. Patricks' Day tomorrow and I found myself thinking a lot of Deb. Her and my Brother Johns' ties to Butte, her beautiful red hair and dancing eyes, it just seemed to be her holiday. I think of her a lot.....still can't believe that I will never hug those tiny shoulders, feel the warmth of the sun in her embrace and grin at her great sense of humor. I know Deb is where she longed to be, but I truly miss her and know my brother will miss her until the day he joins her. I sometimes talk to her on my way to work when the stars are shinning or the moon is bright and showing off. I tell her how much she is missed and how many peoples' lives she has left an empty spot. When Jess was just a little one, I was in Tucson for a time and Deb took me to one of her favorite Delis'. We sat on the step outside, and shared crusty french bread and wonderful brie cheese. I bought a bag of home made tortilla chips and shared some with Jess. Deb thought this was a little soon, but didn't say no. We sat in the sun and shared our picnic. It was wonderful and I will never forget that afternoon. Someday I will have one again with my sister in law and we will have a long talk, laugh a lot, cry a little and get another hug from those frail little shoulders. Untill that day....I keep you in my memory Deb, I see you in the star lit night, and miss you for myself, my brother John, and Josh & Jess. Sleep peaceful, your world is one without pain and suffering, but I miss you.
Pixie
Tara Paskal
February 16, 2006
I had only met Deborah once. I remember when Jess and I spent the night with her on the Big Island. We were only 14 or 15 years old. I remember thinking how graceful and delicate she was. Jess and her were so much alike. So this was the woman who made that amazing spaghetti sauce...the best I've ever had. Man we loved when her packages would come in the mail. Instead of the usual from the cafeteria, we stuffed down those peanut butter cookies and marinara sauce like animals. Living with sweet Jessie now, I think of Deborah often. I miss her even though I didn't really know her. Luckily there's a lot of her in Jess.
Bobbie & Jack DeBolt
February 15, 2006
Today is Deborah's Birthday,
This is a letter for our daughter.
Debbie, yes Debbie You will always be our Debbie or sometimes Deb.
You were an inspiration of all that is good and beautiful. You gave us love unconditionally. You gave us hugs and kisses when we needed them. We hope that we gave as much to you as you gave to us. We will always remember the memories and our relationship as daughter and parent. Your love will always be with us.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEBORAH!.
I wish we could keep all the good feelings you have given us safe inside a bottle. Everytime We needed a smile. a joke, a hug, all we would have to do is take the lid off the bottle and experience again all the caring you have shared with us.
It would be our very own treasure of sweetness and tenderness. It would be like holding your love in our hands.
A friend gave us the following poem and when ever I feel sad I will read this poem.
I HAVE BEEN HERE SINCE THE BEGINNING AND I SHALL BE UNTIL THE END OF DAYS; FOR THERE IS NO ENDING TO MY EXISTENCE. THE HUMAN SOUL IS BUT PART OF A BURNING TORCH WHICH GOD SEPARATED FROM HIMSELF AT CREATION.
KAHLIL GIBRAN
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEB
LOVE YOU FOREVER AND A DAY
MOM & DAD
Dennis & Delaine Tinsley
December 26, 2005
Dear John, Jessica, and Josh;
We are friends who also lived in the mining town of Silver Bell with you and Deborah.
We knew You and Deborah the whole time that you lived there. She quilted with me at my home many times, and since everyone knew everyone there since it was so small, we quickly made friends and attended many social functions together. I went to her baby shower and took pictures of her very happy and pregnant (with I think Jessica.) So I felt like I was a friend, although lost track after they closed down the mine and every one had to move. You both came to Dennis's retirement party though in 1992 and that is the last time I saw Deborah.
But I remember her so well with her big smile and so friendly to everyone that she just fit right in with everyone. I thought "What a lovely girl the first time I met her!!
I was deeply saddened and shocked to hear that she had passed away and wish to let you know Dennis and I send our deepest sympathy John.
I would like to send your Daughter the pictures I took of Deborah at her Baby Shower if she would like to have it. I will enclose my email address.
Dennis & Delaine Tinsley, Tucson
([email protected])
jessica reynolds
December 24, 2005
Hello everyone I have some exciting news I wanted to share with you all. A few days ago I received an e-mail from a well known Arizona journalist named Tom Beal, my parents have been reading his column for 20 years and he's a very well respected writer not only in the state but in the general realm of the literary world , he said that he read the obituary that I wrote about mom and he wanted to talk to me because he was writing a piece on grief and was very moved by this woman he never met. My father and I both talked to him and this Christmas day in the Arizona Daily Star you will see her picture as well as some kind words we offered, that Mr. Beal has tailored into a piece. I can't think of a better Christmas present for mom than that. Who would of thought that all these years she spent reading his articles would leed to him writing one about her. Life works in mysterious ways. Merry Christmas Mama, we love you.
Susan Skites
December 23, 2005
Our tree is up and decorated. Each year I enjoy unwrapping each ornament and placing it on the tree. This year it was even more special because Deborah has given us some very special ornaments over the years. She was very thoughtful when she chose an ornament. I enjoyed putting them in their place of honor on the tree in memory of Deborah. Actually, not a day goes by that I don't think about her. Deborah loved Christmas. John told me it was her favorite holiday. We will enjoy this Christmas - Deborah would want us to do that. The best we can do is to go on living, keeping Deborah close in our hearts and prayers and being thankful she was a part of our lives. We learn from each other and Deborah taught us the lesson of kindness.
jessica naomi reynolds
December 7, 2005
Hello everyone, it has been so nice to read all the wonderful things written about my mom. As you can imagine this has been a very difficult time, and every kind word helps. She was such a wonderful woman, I was just thinking about her cooking and how truly gifted she was. She always sent the best care packages to my brother and I, even our friends got the occasional box of cookies with tiny hearts scribbled near their names. Right before my freshman year away at boarding school she made me a huge batch of spaghetti sauce and froze it in industrial size zip-lock bags, my friends and I would heat it up and sit on my dorm room floor eating spoonful after spoonful, we didn't even need bread, it was that good. She always felt bad that none of my friends could come with me, being that be lived on one of the most remote islands in the world and all, but she was still famous among my group of friends and I can't tell you how many times they envied me for her. We had such a great summer, and after years of my theatrical teenage angst, I finally felt calm and even enamored by her presence, I hope she knew how much I looked up to her. Ever since I left home for school 9 years ago I always worried that every time I said good bye to my parents it would be the last time I'd see them, and I guess this summer I was right. Although I am grateful that the last words we ever said to each other were I Love You, I cant think of a better way to say good bye. Thank you all for your support, I hope you all continue to write your thoughts here when you think of her, it really does help.
November 15, 2005
What though the radiance which was once so bright
Be now for ever taken from our sight,
Though nothing can bring back the hour Of splendour in the grass,
of glory in the flower: We will grieve not, rather find Strength in what remains behind;
In the primal sympathy Which having been must ever be;
In the soothing thoughts that spring Out of human suffering;
In the faith that looks through death,
In years that bring the philosophic mind.
Thanks to the human heart by which we live,
Thanks to its tenderness, its joys, and fears,
To me the meanest flower that blows can give
Thoughts that do often lie too deep for tears.
Bambang
November 13, 2005
John, I am so sorry to hear of Deborah. She helped my family when no one else did. Innaa lillaahi wa innaa ilayhi raaji'oon (to Allah we belong and to Him is our return)
Patty Smith
November 7, 2005
I was at a bazaar the other day and saw a beautiful hand made teapot and cups and immediately thought what a wonderful gift it would make for my sister for Christmas. With tears springing to my eyes (even now as I type) I realized there would be no gift this year. My wonderful only sister is with our Lord Jesus and I can no longer enjoy her sweet hugs and kisses and tears. Each time we met (and even on the phone) she always teared up because of the miles that separated us. She always sent the most wonderful mushy birthday cards only a sister can give. I, in turn, would send her something to laugh about. I was the sense, she the sensibility. She caused me to love, hug and show affection more because she did it even at my most unloveable times. I still can not think about her too long because it is just too hard to explain the tears. I miss her tons and grieve for our families and friends loss of my incredible sister. It is no fun being the short, chubby sister without the tall, slender one by my side. I will see her again and spend enternity with her in the Lord's presence. Two great songs by the band Superchich have really helped me. They are "We Live, We Love" and "Beauty From Pain". If you get a chance listen to them and let God heal your hurt and Deborah's testimony of living life change your life. Love and prayers to all. Patty Smith
Marian Wordsworth
November 5, 2005
I've sat at my kitchen table many mornings since Deborah's death hoping for comforting words that I could send to John Porter. John was named for my father and I have a letter he wrote to my mother when my father passed away. That letter was a treasure for my mother and I, too, treasure it.
Just as John expressed his grief over my dad's death, I want John and family to know how my heart aches for your loss. Deborah was so good to correspond with my mom and keep her updated on Josh and Jessica as they were growing up. Mom so enjoyed Deborah's tales of their wonderful adventures all over the world. I'm sure she is sharing lots of wonderful stories with my folks in heaven.
I remember with great fondness our last visit together when we all stayed in the little motel in Whitefish. I'm gratful for those very happy memories.
May God give you peace and comfort in the days ahead.
Much love,
Marian
Martha Hayes
November 3, 2005
Dear John, Josh, Jessica and all of Deb's Family and Friends,
I am but a distant cousin to John and Deborah, but have gotten to "know" them through emails since they moved to Arizona. Deb was extremely kind and had a great sense of humor and I enjoyed their emails tremendously. They always came when I needed a kind word or a good laugh in my life.
The pain felt by her family and friends extends to this end of the country as well as the world has lost a beautiful lady. All of you are in our prayers and thoughts.
Please let us know if there's anything we can do for you. Right now all I can think of is to pray for you and cry with you.
Peace for Deborah, John, Josh and Jessica, her parents, brothers and sisters and all her family and friends - near and far.
I love you. Love, Martha Hayes
Rick Reynolds
November 2, 2005
Dear Family:
I'm so glad Susan sent me this URL. It's a great way to be together as an online community especially for our family being so spread out across the country as it is. Deb was my 1st cousin-in-law and let there be no mistake regarding any of our "in-law's" -- they are all family -- lock, stock 'n barrel. Once you're in, you're in and there's no getting out of it. Since cousin John's job has taken him and his family to the 4 corners of the globe over the years, we haven't gotten to see them anywhere near as much as we'd want to. Hence, I for one, did not have the opportunity to get to know Deb as much as we'd want to. I am grateful that we have had the occaisional family gatherings where we did get to see John and Deb, and the kids even more rarely.
I remember Deb as tall and slender and that flaming red hair and seemingly vivacious and very much busy with things. I know this: that she brought happiness and joy to those of her family and even though there were times of trial as occurs in all our lives, there seemed to be an undercurrent of ... well, call it faith if you will ... that allows people to keep on keeping on through such times.
After reading the glowing tributes here I'm even more proud to have called her "cousin" and pray that she is at rest and as has been noted, that she has joined the spiritual realm where all our loved ones wait in joyful hope for all of us. You are missed, as are all the folks in our family are missed ... a leaf has fallen from the family tree, but the branch and it's place are still there and always will be. Love and hugs to John, Jess, & Josh ... and all the John William Reynolds' Family.
Chris Dechert
November 1, 2005
We met John and Deborah while living and working in Peru. We remember Deborah as a free spirit, a person that took everything in stride and enjoyed all that life offered. We are deeply saddened with her loss and wish to pass along our deepest sympathies to John, Joshua and Jessica. Our hearts and prayers are with you.
Sarah Smith
October 29, 2005
Debbie was my favorite aunt. There are no words to express just how wonderful she was. She loved all of us so very much and was always looking out for everyone's best interest. Even though miles separated our families, the times that we shared together were always so much fun and were cherished. I will always use her as an example of what unconditional love looks like. I miss and will miss her until we meet again someday. I know that she is resting in the arms of Jesus and is free from this world of sorrows. I love her so much. I know that somehow God will bring beauty from our pain. I love all of you. Peace be with you.
Jere & Dianne Nunn
October 26, 2005
I have not seen Deborah since she was a tiny girl, but I remember her beautiful red hair and how beautiful she was then. As I look at the picture of the young woman she has become -- she is even more beautiful. Thank you for the bits and pieces that each of you have filled in for us about her life. Dianne and I are heartbroken for the family. Know that we continue to pray for each of you -- especially to John and the children, Jessica and Josh. Also for brother John and family and sister Patti and family. Bobbie and Jack, you are continually in our thougths and prayers -- know that we love you both very much and treasure you, our family. Much Love, Jere and Dianne
Glen St John
October 26, 2005
Just so sorry,
Stacy Krayer
October 25, 2005
Aunt Debbie, I'll never forget the first time I met you...tall, lean, cascading red hair, and a beautiful smile. I thought, hippie girl! Too cool!! The one thing I will never forget and always was fascinated with, as strange as it may sound is your voice..incredible! I love the high pitch, gentle tone. As a matter of fact, probably because of my drama background, I cannot resist to imitate you, and if i don't say so myself, I do a heck of a job! I admire the special bond you have with my Uncle John and I remember hoping that one day I would find that same kind of connection with someone. I have the most unique gifts from you that I will treasure always and I keep them all together in a special place. I feel your energy and know you are at peace. I see your smile, feel your presence and hear your unique voice! When I'm riding my Harley, I invite you come along and can feel you on the back, red hair flowing and giggles galore..free, so very free. I love you to pieces. You are still with us, always. For Uncle John, Josh, and Jessica, please know I love you all so much and you are all in my thoughts and prayers everyday.
Love you, Love you,
Stacy (your goofy niece and cousin)
Tim,Joy,Toby,Kristyn Reynolds
October 23, 2005
WITH SORROW YOU SHALL BOND
WITH BONDING YOU SHALL LOVE
WITH LOVE YOU SHALL FLOURISH
Kathleen Reynolds
October 23, 2005
I am Deborah's Sister-in-law, married to her husband's brother.
I watched her children grow and she watched mine.
Deb and I shared many a quiet moment together on some back porch, sharing one of those unpopular cigarettes, and much much more, we talked about kids, canning, husbands and all those things that become so clear with a quiet moment.
Deborah has 'popped' into my dreams twice recently.
She flits in, almost fairylike, never still, but happy movement.
She is wearing muted pastels, is surely willow like and has the twinkle of a tender prankster.
She is sad she had to leave her family, yet she giddily accepts the return of a happy contented peace that had eluded her, the last couple of years, here on earth.
Her energy is still about us. I feel it and I know you do too.
Let's cherish that, as Deborah gives us her love yet in another way.
Bill Reynolds
October 22, 2005
Debbie was my friend and I loved her with all my heart. When I walk thru the sands of the Kalahari, or along the banks of the Zambezi, or on the snow covered peaks of Montana's mountains, I will watch for that brief flash of red and know that my friend Debbie is with me. Be at rest Sweetheart.....Bill
Susan Skites
October 22, 2005
When Deborah left this earth, a light dimmed and my world became darker. I believe that is true for many of us who were touched by Deborah's beautiful soul. She had so many wonderful traits. She was forever kind and loving. She did not criticize or find fault. She accepted each of us for who we are. She loved unconditionally - most especially her husband John and her children Jessica and Joshua. I will always remember the sound of her delightful laughter, her gorgeous hair, her loving presence, her bright mind and her kindness to all. Most of all, I will always remember and be forever grateful to her for her intense love and devotion to her husband John, my brother. I give thanks to her for enriching his life all these years. Their love and devotion to each other was simply incredible and a wonder to behold. They were truly one. Her wonderful characteristics are reflected in her children, Jess and Josh and I know her goodness will continue through them. I miss Deb, I am sad without her; but I know that my sadness cannot compare to that of her family. Each of you, as well as Deborah, is in my prayers, in my heart and on my mind - constantly. Love, Susan
John Reynolds
October 19, 2005
Dear Friends,
Thank you so kindly for your thoughts and wishes in my darkest hour. Deborah was so happy to be here in the U.S.A., finally home after wandering around the world, traveling with me from mining camp to mining camp. Life and circumstances just wore her down. My Redbird was such a fragile butterfly.
Deborah tolerated Arizona because she was a miners wife and you go where the work is....but she was and always will be a Montana Girl. So, next spring when the snow has faded from the high country back home in late June, I'll be taking her back to Montana where she wanted to rest....perhaps somewhere in the Swan range or the North Fork of the Flathead River. She'll be just fine there and at peace finally with the wildflowers and bear grass, biding her time till I catch up with her somewhere down the road a ways. If you should ever pass that way don't forget to tell her hello. Finally, I carry her memory in my heart and soul along with the words of Charles Dickens learned somewhere long ago in my youth....
"things that never die The pure, the bright, the beautiful That stirred our hearts in youth, The impulses to wordless prayer, The streams of love and truth, The longing after something lost, The spirit's yearning cry, The striving after better hopes- These things can never die. The timid hand stretched forth to aid A brother in his need; A kindly word in grief's dark hour That proves a friend indeed; The plea for mercy softly breathed, When justice threatens high, The sorrow of a contrite heart- These things shall never die. Let nothing pass, for every hand Must find some work to do, Lose not a chance to waken love- Be firm and just and true. So shall a light that cannot fade Beam on thee from on high, And angel voices say to thee- "These things shall never die."
My Thanks to All,
Johanna Chappelle
October 18, 2005
To the family of Deborah,
My thoughts and prayers go out to this most lovely family. I only met Deborah once but she touched my heart forever. Her spirited personality was so delightful. I will remember her most for her beautiful red hair and that lovely laugh as she entertained us with her stories. She truly showed so much love for her family as I remember her saying "I just love you Daddy"....more than once. May God be with you all during this difficult time.
God Bless....
Johanna Chappelle
Kirk Stauff
October 17, 2005
Deb was a mother to me. We laughed together always. She would listen when I was confused or had problems, and her heart was one of the biggest I've ever met. I felt as if she had adopted me into the Reynolds family and I will cherish the love that she extended me always. I will never forget our picnic in Canada and her wonderful obsession with tea pots. Or our chance meetings in Arizona. Deborah touched my life as a mother and friend, I will miss her everyday and I will never forget the times that we spent together.
jessica reynolds
October 16, 2005
She was my mom. How could any one person be so important in a life than to be a mother.She gave everything she had for everyone else and saved nothing for her self.She was completly selfless and is honestly one of the kindest creatures on this earth. I still believe she is here maybe even a little stronger in mind because her body is no longer weak. I just miss the way she hugged me, everytime I left home I always worried it would be the last time I'd see my parents. I gave her an extra long hug this summer and I can still remember what her face looked like as the car pulled away, I miss you so much mama, I wish you could come home for Christmas. Please come visit me anytime, I'm always looking for you, and I'll always love you.
mary smith
October 14, 2005
When I think of Deborah I see a flash of red and a big smile - I never saw Deb when she wasnt moving or doing something and always with a big smile - I send my love and prayers to John, Jess, and Josh and all of the people who's lives will be a little sadder with her gone
Jack & Bobbie DeBolt
October 14, 2005
Deborah was our first born child and she was absolutely the prettiest redheaded baby. She was a wonderful daughter always so sincere in her actions. She would have been right at home in the 19th century. She knew how to sew, Quilt and made her own bread. When ever I called she would always say Hi! Mama. She was a sweet and kind child, teenager and young woman. She loved her Children and her Husband. She was a great animal lover, especially her Basset Hounds. She always gave 100 percent in everything she attenpted. She would always try and find the best cigars available for her Daddy. I love her dearly and will miss her.
Mama
All our talks always ended with the expressions, Oh! Daddy I Love You. My Red Headed Angel is now an angel with the Lord. Sleep well Deborah. I miss you and will love You Forever and a Day
Daddy
Rollin Roberts
October 14, 2005
We are deeply saddened at Deborah's sudden death. We send our deepest sympathy and love to Jessica, Josh and their dad John and hope that in time their heavy hearts will lighten and they will remeber the good times they shared with Deborah. She was a dear friend and good neighbor in Silver Bell, Arizona.
Our heart felt condolences to all the family.
Rollin, Lori and Michael Roberts
and Lynne (Roberts) Browder
Michelle Holdgrafer
October 11, 2005
Deborah was a part of my family for almost 30 years. She had a wonderful sense of humor, a non waivering sense of right and wrong, and would spring to the aid of any defenseless creature she felt needed her protection. The brightest light in her life were her children and her husband. She loved them with all her heart and soul, and I am sure, now, she is only a thin space apart, still loving, still caring, still being the best friend and mother she always was. That is why we loved her so much.
Mary Lou Damiano RN
October 10, 2005
I am so sorry to hear about Deborah's death. All of us at the Treatment Center in Tucson send our condolences to her family. We knew Deborah as a loving and conscientious mom who had great adventures with her family.
Jeff Mack, MD
October 10, 2005
I don't normally read obituaries, but the photo of that beautiful woman caught my eye and I began reading. When I finished I was choking back tears thinking what a good soul we lost. That is a tribute to Deborah herself and to the author of those beautiful words. My heartfelt condolences.
Jess
October 9, 2005
I was looking for someone else when I read this beautiful tribute to a lovely woman. I never knew Deborah and used to live in Tucson, but moved years ago. I just wanted to say that I haven't ever heard such a touching tribute and, oh how I wish mine would sound the same. Although I never met your loved one, I am saddened today for you and happy that you had such a shining star in your lives for as long as you did.
Marti and Joe Paskal
October 5, 2005
We are deeply shocked and saddened at Deborah's sudden death. We send our sympathy and love to Jessica, Josh and their dad and hope that in time their heavy hearts will lighten and they will remember all the good things they shared with Deborah.
With love to all from Tara and her parents.
John DeBolt
October 4, 2005
Debbie was my big sister. I will miss her very much and I will always love her.
From her brother John
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