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Dede Wathey Obituary

Wathey, Dede (Bernadette) Vanyo
Bernadette "Dede" Vanyo Wathey, 49, passed away peacefully on December 26, 2010, at home with her family in Phoenix. She was a beautiful lady, wonderful wife, mother, daughter, sister and friend. She battled pancreatic cancer with courage and trusted in God's plan for her life. She will be remembered for her beautiful blue eyes, a fun-loving attitude and a magnetic personality. Professionally, she was known for the great work she did in the media and advertising business. She leaves behind her loving husband, Drew, and her two beautiful children, Kevin and Lauren. Dede is survived by her mother, Janie Vanyo, her sister, Nancy Vanyo Etchart, her brother, Dooley Vanyo and her beloved nieces and nephew. Dede will be greatly missed. A memorial service will be held at Desert Springs Bible Church on Thursday, December 30th at 11am located at 16215 N. Tatum Blvd., Phx. Donations in lieu of flowers can be made to an education fund set up for Dede's children at Bank of America, Paradise Valley Mall branch, 13008 N. Tatum Blvd. Phoenix. Menke Funeral Home -- 623-979-6451.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Dec. 29, 2010.

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Kelley Howard

January 7, 2011

Drew and Family: I was devastated to hear the news that Dede was diagnosed with cancer. I worked with her at KTAR and stayed in touch with when we both left the station. She spoke of you all often. Dede was an "amazing" young women and I know her memory, as well as spirit will live one in all us.

Kelley Howard

Gary Johnson

December 30, 2010

My thoughts go out to all.
Love ya
Gary Johnson

Sherie MacGregor

December 30, 2010

all our love to the Drew, Kevin and Lauren...your mom was a shining light full of positive energy and warmth for all of us.

Gisela Stewart

December 29, 2010

Drew, Kevin and Lauren,
May your hearts always be filled with wonderful memories. Dede was an amazing fighter until the end. May she rest in peace and always be your special guardian angel.

Nancy Brown

December 29, 2010

Dede was part of the old gang - "the homies". She will be missed! I am so very sorry for such a great loss. Many will attend her service to honor this beautiful woman. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.

Nancy Burdick Brown (Austin, TX)

Sally Rochotte

December 29, 2010

Dede was an incredible lady and a wonderful friend. She will be missed so much. Lauren, your mom loved you beyond words and was always so proud of you. You brought such joy to her life - always remember that.
Rest in peace Dede.

Sally

December 29, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Rest in peace.

Nancy Moore

December 29, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss, Drew. Please know that my thoughts are with you and your family.

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