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Jesse Hernandez Obituary

Jesse "Ryan" James Hernandez 06/02/87 - 12/31/04 We Greatly celebrate this day In Remembrance of you and all the crazy stuff you used to do. Another Year, Another Tear. You would have been twenty - one. You were not only a best friend, brother & uncle but an amazing only son. Here's to you an Eternal Soul that never dies, one that's missed here so much. Memories never stray, we dream, we think, we smile for you endlessly Every Single Day. Happy Birthday Buddy We Love You Dad, Mom, Makayla Michelle, Mellissa, Cierra & Dunie & The Bestest of Friends

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Jun. 2, 2008.

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Makayla Hernandez

April 5, 2022

Carrying on the legacy!

AVIANNA YOUR NIECE

Danny (DAD) Hernandez

February 5, 2019

Mom Michelle

Danny (DAD) Hernandez

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Dad Michelle Mellissa Makayla

Danny (DAD) Hernandez

February 5, 2019

Dad Jordan

Danny (DAD) Hernandez

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Mom Dad Michelle Mellissa Makayla

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Danny (DAD) Hernandez

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I love you so much Ryan
I think about you every day

Danny (DAD) Hernandez

February 5, 2019

I love you Ryan my only son✝❤✝❤

Danny (DAD) Hernandez

February 5, 2019

I miss you so very much Ryan I think about you everyday it's still very hard for me. There was so many things I wanted to share with you. Jordan got tall just like we said he would. Makayla is so beautiful and remembers you. Missy helps us and takes care of us like she always did. Michelle has been great and down to earth she has another son named Luke who will be another tall son. Cierra now has 3 beautiful kids. Avianna Mellissas little girl is so smart and talented she reminds me of you. I wish you were here and I miss you.

Jason Brown

December 12, 2017

Damn, Its been 13 years since you passed. I seem to always remember you every couple weeks & always at the end of the year. I hope your family is well. I visited a few years after you had passed and hung out with your dad for a few hours talking about all the fun times.. Next time i'm in the area i'll swing by and see if your house is still occupied with your family.

Makayla Hernandez

July 4, 2009

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

makayla hernandez

February 16, 2009

I see tears fall down your face

When your thoughts have turned to me.

Just know that I’m in heaven,

With my Lord, who’s set me free
No pain or sadness do I feel,

For God is by my side.

The beauty here in Heaven

Is now where I reside.
I know it’s hard for you to cope

For you can’t feel my touch.

But every moment, I can see

And love you very much.

When you are at your lowest

And feel you can’t go on,

Look towards the heavens

The light will be turned on.
Talk to me, just like you did

On earth when I was there.

You see, I’m not so far away …

Only as far as a prayer.
And when it’s time for you to join

Me up in Heaven above.

It’s then that you will realize,

The Golden Place of love.
For here there is no sadness,

Just everlasting light.

Someday we will be joined again,

When it’s time to take your flight.

kelly hernandez

February 16, 2009

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

makayla hernandez

February 16, 2009

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Makayla Hernandez

February 16, 2009

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Darrell Hernandez

May 21, 2008

Ryan when our Heavenly Father opened the heavens to accept you on that faithful day, he made his angels play a melody with their golden harps that I can still hear today. You were such a talented and gifted soul who seemed to handle any circumstance with ease. I'm sure that by now you have earned your Golden Wings. We all miss and love you very much. As each day goes by we are reminded of how fragile life in this world can be. You reminded us that each and everyday we should love and respect each other. As for myself everytime the wind blows, the rain falls and the stars shine at night I am truly convinced that is you watching over all of us. With much love & respect your Uncle Darrell

MELLISSA HERNANDEZ

February 21, 2006

NOT A DAY GOES BY WHEN YOU ARE NOT ON MY MIND. I CANT WAIT TO SEE YOU AGAIN. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND YOU WERE THE BEST.

LOVE,

MISSY

MELLISSA HERNANDEZ

February 5, 2006

I MISS U AND LOVE U SO MUCH. UR MY ANGEL. I LOVE U BROTHA!!!!

michelle hernandez

January 18, 2006

Dedicated to my brother, Ryan.....Its been a long while man...and it hasent gotten any better like they say....Ive tried to explain to a few that when you lose somebody you love...somebody who you've watched grow....somebody you dream with...you dont just lose that person you love....you lose that whole life you had with them too....I cant imagine how my parents are dealing with it after the time that has passed....My heart pours for them....and my sisters....my children have been deeply affected by this as well....Not to mention Ryans best friends....It is a forever weepind loss....that will never be fully understood....Lots of dreams of Ryan this year..or the past year rather..(my timing is still so off!) Alot of you guys said he came to yo.....He told you he was "ok" and that God wanted you all to know that he was happy...and safe....the details were amazing...and proof that there is something planned for all of us in the end....Ryan made the best friends when he was here...he took the BEST care of his family....he made us all laugh till we thought we'd pee our pants....and most of all he smiled...no ,atter what....my brother always looked at the bright side of things and made the best of ANY situation....He has a mind of his own...a mind that was gifted.....I will forever admire my brother....He is my hero.....and although i want to scream as loud as i can sometimes (which i do) i have to at the same time be at ease that God never shuts one door without opening another......Ryan I love you man...and when i promised you I wouldnt cry, i find myself drenched in tears....i miss you man...I wish i could have you back buddy....I'd give whatever i could to make it happen......Instead i am left here...without my partner....my best friend....my teacher....my brother....until next time via email, text, or paper I love you man....Im always looking to the sky brotha....Im always smiling for you....cryings mandatory for you.....and even though your in Heaven, your in my prayers Ryan....always were...always will be....say Hi to the Man for me....love u 2 death.RIP.....love yo big sister.....michelle

MICHELLE HERNANDEZ

June 24, 2005

HEY RY,ITS ME BUDDY.I REALLY CANT EXPRESS HOW MUCH YOU HAVING TO GO HURT BECAUSE IT HURTS MORE TODAY. I STILL HAVE THIS SEVERE PAIN IN MY SOUL. YOU KNOW, I LOOK BACK AT WHEN WE WERE GROWING UP AND MAN ITS HARD TO BELIEVE THAT YOU RYAN, DIDNT GET TO STAY. THE MEMORIES WILL NEVER FADE BRO, JUST LIKE YOUR LAUGHTER IN MY MIND THAT I STILL FOREVER HEAR.. YOU WERE TRULY MY BEST FRIEND AND I MISS U TERRIBLY, I CANT SAY IT ENOUGH. YOUR 18TH PASSED, I KNOW YOU WERE LOOKING FORWARD TO IT. I WAS TOO. G-30 TIME BABY! I WAS SO LOOKING FORWARD TO HANGIN WITH YOU THE REST OF MY LIFE. NEW BIKES,OLD CARS TO WORK ON,THAT ROAD TRIP WE NEVER GOT TO TAKE. SO MANY THINGS WE TALKED ABOUT. OUR DREAMS, OUR GOALS.. I AM DEEPLY SAD THAT YOUR NOT HERE IN THE PHYSICAL, YOU STILL HAD MUCH TO DO AND EVEN MORE YOU WANTED TO DO. ANYTIME I THINK OF YOU MAN I THINK OF HOW IN TUNE YOU WERE. SO FAR BEYOND YOUR YEARS. JAKE,AARON AND THE GUYS SAY "WHAT UP!" SAVE US ALL A SPOT RYAN AND LET THE MAN UPSTAIRS KNOW THAT IM MAD AND CONFUSED FOR TAKING YOU AWAY. I NEEDED YOU BRO. JUST WATCH FROM A DISTANCE AND KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU AND I WILL SEE YOU AGAIN. IM OUT LIKE A LIGHT, 10-4 RUBBER DUCKY. UNTIL NEXT TIME, YOUR BIG SIS-MICHELLE......

MICHELLE VAIL

June 24, 2005

WOW ITS STILL SO HARD TO BELIEVE WHAT HAPPENED ITS LIKE I DONT WANT TO EXCEPT IT. I MISS YOU BUNCHES NOW I TREAT EACH DAY AS IF IT WERE A GIFT. I KNOW THE DAY WILL COME WHEN I GET TO CHILL WITH YOU AGAIN AND IT PUTS A SMILE ON MY FACE. WOW I NEVER NEW YOUR FAMILY AS WELL AS I DO NOW AND THERE AWESOME. MICHELLE YOUR MY DAWG FOREVER! MISS YOU RY R.I.P. LOVE, HOLY SIDEKICK

Joseph Ortiz

June 3, 2005

My family and I will pray the rosary in Ryan's memory on Sunday. My thoughts and prayers are with the Hernandez family now and always.

Mellissa Hernandez

June 2, 2005

Hey Bubba,

Happy 18th Birthday. We all are thinking of you & missing you. It's your big day and were throwing a party for you on Sunday. I know you'll be right beside us celebrating too. We love you!!!

mellissa hernandez

April 30, 2005

I miss u Bubba. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you. I wish you were here. I love you so much and life just isn't the same without you. Please keep us safe. Your an angel now.

brendon doney

March 19, 2005

im just keepin his spirit alive! wen i talk to my friends bout ryan they always say we can change the subject if u want but i say no i like talking about him, its the next best thing to talking TO him and it means i havent forgot him. we love u man and ur friends and family miss u! rip

Lindsey Rachford

March 15, 2005

When I heard the news of Ryan dying my heart shattered into a million pieces. I first met Ryan when I was in middle school. There was a big group of us all the time, just kickin it and doing our own thing. Then when highschool hit and everything changed. I continued to see Ryan here and there but not as much as before. Walking into the service on Jan.7,2005 and having to finally saw good-bye to a friend, brother, son, and uncle was the hardest thing I had ever done. When my eyes met Ryan's body I couldn't find the strength to go back to my seat. Since then I have spent every weekend with Ryan's friends and family. I only wish I was aroud more before he left us.

Danny, Kelly, Michelle, Missy, and McKayla- I will always be there for you whenever you need me. I love you all like you are my own family.

Ryan- Keep riding bubba I love you. Watch over me and I promise we'll all be together again someday. OXOX

Tiffany Jimenez

February 10, 2005

I met Ryan many times but never really had the chance to become a good friend of his. But with the memories I have of him I will never let go! He was a fun and outgoing person, But yet so caring. I know he loved his family and friend so much and I know his family and friends care alot for him! He will never be forgotten...And will always be in my heart! I will miss him!

In Loving Memory Of Ryan



~~Tiffany <3

Michelle Vail

February 5, 2005

When the warmth of the sun touches my face, I see your smile and feel your embrace. I hear the whisper of love in the wind and I know that you are close to me again. The rain speaks of tears and the thunder of pain, but soon the sun comes the earth to reclaim. As the days come and go and the world moves on, I know you're still here, you'll never be gone. On the night the Angel came and took your hand, we cried as you left and still do for an unknown land. But heaven rejoiced as you came into sight, for your soul was a diamond, shining so bright!



I miss and love you endlessly!!!! Ryan and the family our in my prayers forever.

Jared Seamons

February 3, 2005

I knew Ryan in elementary school and was a good friend of his. He was the best friend anyone could wish for. I'll miss you buddy.

Rhonda "Tia" Hodgman

January 10, 2005

Danny and Family:

There are no words of comfort that I could extend that have not already been said. My heart is heavy, the tears cloud my eyes. A poem for which I would like to share:



To Those I Love, and to Those Who Love Me



When I am gone, release me,

Let me go I have so many things to see and do.

You must not tie yourself to me with tears,

Be thankful for our beautiful years.



I gave you my love,

You can only guess how much you gave me in happiness.

I thank you for the love each of you has shown,

but now it's time I traveled on alone.



So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must,

Then let your grief be comforted with trust.

Its only for a time that we must part,

So bless the memories within your heart.



I won't be far away, for life goes on.

So if you need me, call and I will come.

Though you cannot see or touch me, I'll be near.

and if you listen with your heart,

You will hear all my love around you soft and clear.



And then, when you must come this way alone, I'll greet you with a smile, and say, "Welcome Home!"



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Joseph Ortiz

January 8, 2005

My deepest sympathies to the Hernandez family for this terrible loss. I offer my condolences. Ryan was a good kid and always was very respectful to me. You now have an angel in heaven. He will watch over you and bless you from here on out. Rest in peace Ryan.

Sarah Davis

January 7, 2005

I got to know what a great guy Sharky was during the time he spent at my work. I can't believe someone as kind, funny, original, wonderful and great as Sharky has left my life. My prays go out for the Hernandez family.



I still have the poem Sharky, I will never forget.



God bless, Sarah Davis

brendon doney

January 6, 2005

Ryan was one of the coolest guys u could have met. everyone loved him, now hes gone. I didnt know the hernandez family very well till tonight. best of wishes to all of ryans family. 1-6-04

Amy Wolfrom

January 6, 2005

although i didnt know Ryan, but heard of him through my friend. i am greatly sorry who the lost of him. I bet he was a sweet loving kid. i am so sorry he is gone now. everyone will always remember him. much love to everyone who knew him.

-Amy

Mellissa Hernandez

January 6, 2005

Our family would like to thank everyone for the comfort and support that has been offered. We are grieving and the reality of this tragedy is so hard to grasp. He was such a funny and kind- hearted human being. Please remember him always. His memory will live forever, deep within our hearts.

MARY HELEN REYNA

January 6, 2005

I am Ryan's aunt. I will always love & miss him, dearly. You will always be in my heart. Uncle Ricky and your cousins Rosalinda, Fermin Arcadio, your 2nd cousins Elyssa & Alex will all miss & love you, too. Until we meet again.

P.S. I love you, brother, and Kelly, Michelle, Mellisa,& Makayla

I will be here for all of you!

Love you,

Aunt Mary Helen

Daniel Chanez

January 6, 2005

All my thoughts and prayers are with you. I would like to thank the Hernandez family for always making me feel like a part of the family. All of you will always have a special place in my heart.

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