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for Kristina Beenau
Dawn Morano
August 1, 2006
Dear Blayn and Family,
I went to high school with Kristie (as you know Blayn). I remember her as being very friendly, outgoing and very sincere and honest. After high school we visited a few times and kept in touch through Christmas cards. I always enjoy receiving your family's Christmas letter and picture. I was so upset to hear the news when Kristie had been diagnosed with cancer and can't imagine what your family was feeling. I was fortunate to be able to talk to her a few times. I know she cherished her family and was very blessed to have such an incredible husband Blayn. Your family continues to be in our prayers. May you keep your mom's memories in your hearts forever and make choices in life that she would be proud of. God Bless.
Dawn Morano and family
Adrienne Grossbard (Wolff)
October 21, 2005
Blayn, Tyler & Holli -
Astonished doesn't even begin to say how shocked I was this afternoon when I caught up with an old work friend who mentioned the passing of your beautiful (inside & out) Kristie. I cannot tell you how sorry I am and how I wish that all those times we said that we'd keep in touch and that we'd meet up with each other, that we'd actually done it. I know that Tyler and Holli have no idea who I am but I still have their baby pictures around and evey picture of the family that was exchanged during the Christmas seasons gone by. You're in my thoughts. Sincerely yours.
jan lange
October 3, 2005
I have known Kristie since kindergarden. We been pals all through grade school. We love to play sports together esp. softball. She broke my nose with a softball. I was pitcher & she was the catcher. I was so sad she went to a different high school. But we always kept in touch thru Christmas cards. She was so proud of her kids. That was all she talked about. She always sent me an updated picture of her family. I least got to talk to her in the last 16 months. I will miss the her yearly card. Love Jan
Diane Pope
September 16, 2005
Blayn,
I just learned today of your wifes passing. How awful that she had to go at such a young age. We used to sit near each other at Amex more than 10 years ago. It was evident then how much your family meant to you. My condolences to you and your entire family.
Toni Conder
August 29, 2005
My Dearest Kristie,
You have been my step-sister for 15 years. In those 15 years I've always seen you with a smile on your face and that smile radiated to everyone around. Your family, Blaine, Tyler, and Holli always seemed happy and I was always happy to see all of you, even though I did'nt let it show. I always felt that you had the perfect life. Now more than ever, I'm a firm believer that its not the amount of time we have in this life but rather the quality of that life. You lived life to the fullest and are an example to us all. I wish I could have shown you more of how I felt but I know tha it's not too late. I can tell you how I feel anytime of the day or night just like I did before when I came to visit you. You did'nt say anything with your mouth but I heard you speak in my mind and my heart. I will carry those precious conversations around with me forever. I'm sure I'll hear from you again soon. I want to Thank You again for being at my Ordination. It really meant alot to me. Because of you I'm going to try harder to show my feelings to others and let them know how much I appreciate them. Thank You for being a part of my life. You were and always will be loved. All my love, Now through Eternity, Your sister, Rev. Toni Conder
Blayn,Tyler,& Holli, Be there for each other and know that I am there for you too. Anytime you need anything at all. Just call or email, or IM me.
Stella & John Meyer
August 28, 2005
Tyler and Holly
As I sit down to write to you, I am so sad yet I find comfort knowing your mom is at peace. Your mom loved you both and she was always so proud of you and proud to be your mommy! Your mom was so brave and not too long ago I asked your mom if she was afraid to die and she said "no" She did not want to leave you guys but she knew your dad would continue to love and raise you both as if she was still here. I know this is hard for you to understand, but you will always have your mom in your heart. Her memories will never leave you. It is ok to be sad and it is ok when you are ready to feel happy. I pray that oneday you will be able to thank God for giving you your mom even though we all would have wanted her here on this earth longer. I have your pictures on my fridge, and i see your mom in both of you, I see your mom and dad in you and know how much you are loved. That brings me comfort.
I have so many memories of your mom, I will list a few then when we see each other again we can share some more...First of all, I can't even remember how long I have known her. I feel like I have just always known her. We became friends before she was my secretary. Your mom has always been special to me and even though we moved away. I always felt we could start where we left off.
I always told everyone that I was better at my job because of your mom! I could give her my thoughts or vision on something and she would say "ok" and put it together and make me look good! She was amazing on how much she knew me. I remember when I was busy traveling and my schedule was crazy, she would break my paperwork down so that when I came in to the office, it did not feel like I had a weeks worth of paperwork to do. I could talk to her about anything and she always listened and cared. Like I said she was amazing and I know everyone else she worked for she made them look good as well!
I remember her drinking diet coke and how I tried to get her to drink pepsi. I thought pepsi was better but now I drink diet coke too. I remember thinking it was weird when she would eat rice with butter. I thought you ate rice with soysauce. Then later i started doing the same! I remember that she would get up early to eat breakfast with your dad even if she did not need to be up that early. That was just a little example of how much she loved your dad. I remember their wedding, John and I had the honor of being a part of their special day. It was the most beautiful wedding we have ever seen. You could just feel their love for each other That is just one of the greatest gifts your mom left you is knowing how much your mom and dad were "one" and loved each other very much.
As I said I have many memories of your mom but the most memorable one that I will always cherish was about 5 years ago. We were talking and your mom realized her need for Christ. At that moment she trusted Jesus Christ for her eternal future. We did not know what was going to happen, yet God did. I pray that you will one day come to that decision as well. I will always be praying for you and that God will wrap his loving arms around you and comfort you just as He did your mom.
We will always be here for you and your dad .
Thank you both for being so special and remember you helped make your mom as special as she was to everyone. John and I will never forget the special time we had at your house in July. It was so beautiful to see all of you loving your mom and taking care of her. You made her last days so special. You helped her live her life to the fullest. Take care of each other and take care of your dad. As I know he will be doing the same for you
Love and blessings
Stella
Blayn W Beenau
August 28, 2005
Ran out of room but wanted to say how much American Express (APED / APT)have been so supportive throughout this whole fight with Kristie. You will have a special place in my heart.
Zarita you were a strong rock throughout this last 16 months. Thanks also for the long talks we had and the support you have given to me. It would of been hard without you there.
Blayn W Beenau
August 28, 2005
Where do I start. My darling wife and mother.
Kristie from the first day I looked into her eyes I knew she was my soul mate. She was so special and throughout the time I had with her I will always treasure that. I know some people thought how could you get married at 20 years old. I told them that was a no brainer. Kristie was my soul mate and loved her more than you can ever know.
There was never an ounce of bad in her. She was the most trust worthy and honest person you would ever meet in your life time. She brought a smile to your face just looking at her. As I go back to the day we first met I had that same tickle in my stomach until the say she passed on. She gave me the most beautiful kids and they are very precious. I told her in her last days that I will make sure they are taking care of and that they will always have a piece of her in them. I learn so much from her and she made me a better person.
The last few weeks have been so hard and I know there will be many more to come. I do feel Kristie in our presence each day.
To the Target family. You were so special to Kristie. She really and I mean really enjoyed her job and cared for all the people she interacted with each day throughout the 18+ years.
When she first found out she had cancer she was in the hospital just before surgery she was taking care of Target business before they wheeled her off to surgery. After only 9 days of recovery she was back to work. If you can see the strength and dedication she had that made you take a look at things in a different perspective. Even after her second surgery she still showed the same type of dedication. She was a fighter and did that until the last day of her life.
I know the family was very moved with the support and turnout at the funeral. It made that day even special and that Kristie is happy to see how many people did love her.
I am really glad throughout the years in meeting each one of the Target family members. You guys are still a big part of our family.
Jeff I would like to say Thanks for being a great person and friend. You really stuck by us in these rough times. I know a bunch of others and there was a long list that were supportive. The talks we had at night really did help out alot.
Melissa I would like to thank you for being there with us from the day she came home from the hospital to the final day. The coordination with everyone during the funeral was unbelievable. You have a special place in our hearts.
Donna I know you were out on vacation but the times you came over was special to me. I will see you when you get back.
Don I would like to thank you for the long talk with had about Karen and what you went through. That did help out a lot and thanks for the kind words you have given about me.
Stella / John Meyer thanks for driving out from Omaha and providing some laughter and warmth when we really needed it. We will always have a place in our hearts for you.
I know I could go on for a long time but there was a lot of history with everyone.
Just as a closure I would like to ask that we keep Kristie strong in our hearts and remember how much she has touch each and everyone of us. There are a lot of lessons she has given us and keeping her memory alive is important. Please keep in touch.
Here is my home address
15306 N. 89th Ave
Peoria, Az 85381
Pati Adams
August 27, 2005
Dear Blayn,Tyler and Holli,
Kristie was a very special Friend to me and she was beautiful inside and out. When ever I would call her at the Target Distric Office, she would say in that happy voice, Pati Pati, and I would call her Kristie-Kristie. She took great care of us all at Target and we always told her she ran the district and kept us in line. I always enjoyed a margarita at Fajiata's every once in a while on a hot day in Arizona. Kristie will always have a special place in my heart and the hearts of everyone she touched at Target.
God Bless.
Pati Pati
Diane Anderson
August 25, 2005
Dear Dottie & Karl, My brother Dennis told me of Kristie's passing the weekend after the services or I would have moved heaven and earth to be there. I cannot begin to express my sadness for you as this is not how it is to be...we do not bury our children. I wish I knew the right words to say to you both, but this I do know, Kristi could not have had more loving, caring parents that you. You are all in my thoughts, prayers and my heart. My love to all of you...Diane
Julie Schroth
August 24, 2005
I've known Kristi since we were children. I watched her grow up into a beautiful woman, fabulous daughter and a wonderful mother. I can only hope now, to become a better person by having known her.
I am so impressed by her legacy, her strength and courage.
Having lost my sister 10 years ago, I know Kelly; that it's just something you never get over, and I don't think we're supposed to! Dottie, we are always here for you! Blayn, Tyler and Holli; the power of family will be your focus now and your family has grown in your many friends. Peace to you all! Michael and Julie
Alexandra Wolf
August 22, 2005
Dear Tyler and Holli,
I met your mommy 18 years ago on a ferry to London. From this moment I had so much sympathy for her and first we started as penpals and later in 1994/1996 we visited your mom and dad in your wonderful house in Arizona. We really enjoyed this two trips and had to laugh so much.
From this time on I heard everything about your growing up and the most important thing in all the lines always was her family. Be proud to had such a strong and loving mom and try to be a little bit like she was all the time. Keep an eye on your daddy, too. He really needs you now more than ever.
The power of staying together will bring you through this absolutely dark time.
Rita Osland
August 22, 2005
Kristie was a very special person in my "life with Target", she was always there to help me with any question I had. She always had time for a quick hello and a big smile for everyone.Her voice on the other end of the phone always meant I needed to send a report or maybe just listen to what was going on. On one occasion I went into the district office where her and Nancy Herrin were working and they both said my name at the same time. From that day on to the two of them I was Rita,Rita. That has stuck and many times a day I am reminded of the love that the two of them showed all who crossed their paths.
I am no longer with Target and would not be able to imagine working there without Kristie to help me out when I got stuck on a report.
She will be missed. The last time that I saw Kristie she wanted to go have pizza for lunch. Even at the end those bright blue eyes were shining and I know thinking of a place she was going to and that I will someday see her there again, smiling and calling out Rita,Rita.
To Blayn,Holli and Tyler, Be strong and make her proud. Keep her memory alive.
Melissa Maurer
August 22, 2005
Blayn,Tyler, Holli and Dottie,
Although, I couldn't speak at the services(I tried, but my feet wouldn't move).
I wanted all of you to know how special Kris was.
Kris was one of the first people I made friends with 18 years ago on my first day of work.
I was a 19 year old girl who had just moved from a small town in Nebraska to the "Big City". I almost moved back home twice, but Kristie talked me into staying and giving it another chance.
I know this will come as a surprise to those who know me, but I used to be very shy and kept to myself. I was eating lunch by myself one day and here comes Kristie with that smile and said "hello" do you mind if I sit with you.
We have been great friends ever since.
I would get at least one email and one phone call everyday from Kristie just to say Hi and to see how my day was going.
On April 2nd, 2004 I was out on medical leave and I recieved a call from Kris wishing me a Happy Birthday. At that time I didn't know she was laying in a hospital bed getting ready to have her first brain surgery. I went to see her that day and all she could talk about is how I was feeling and my family.
Never once did I ever hear her say..Why me. Kristie was always very strong and positive clear up to the end.
Blayn and Momma Dottie...
You two are the best!!! I know that it was very hard on the both of you, but many times sitting with Kris holding her hand I would say your family is the best and with those pretty blue eyes she would look at me and say "I know".
I just want to Thank you for letting my be a part of your family until the very end.
Tyler and Holli,
Your Mom loves you so much and was very proud of both of you.
There are going to be days ahead that are going to be real tough. Just close your eyes, hug your pillow your mom gave you and you will feel mom hugging you back.
I will always be here if you want to talk, cry, want someone to listen or if you just want to ride in my car.
Your wife, mom, daughter and my friend will be missed dearly, but will live on in our hearts.
Love you all,
Lisa Knight
August 22, 2005
Where to begin, Kristie was simply put, AMAZING. I knew of Kristie before I even met her. She trained me in my current position and I could not have had it any better. We hit it off right away and I learned so much from her. I have many wonderful memories of Kristie and her family. She spoke of her children so lovingly. I remember her telling me how she would read to them at night and how they would cuddle with her before going to bed. She loved life and this tragic thing that took her from us is not fair. A good person with nothing but good to offer is gone and I don't understand why. I can only be thankful for having her in my life and hope that someday we will meet again.
Don Tatarelli
August 21, 2005
Dear Tyler and Holli,
You will probably read these entries off and on into the future. As you do, many of the names will drift from your memories and the sentiments will be all that will remain. All of the sentiments about your mother are true. She was a kind, gentle person who laughed easily and never harbored a bad thought about anyone else. You can be proud of her for many, many reason. One, that you might not know is that your mother saved another woman's life once. When your mother and I worked together, my wife, Karen, was striken with the same disease as your mother. At the time, we were very afraid and had we taken the advise of her doctor at the time, we may have lost her very quickly. Some people would not have gotten involved. Some people would have expressed their sympathy and that would have been that. But, your mother was not "other people". She contacted your grandmother who contacted Dr. Carrion. Your mother called us and told us she had set up an appointment with Dr. Carrion. She was afraid we would be mad at her for butting in. But, nothing could have been further from the truth. Dr. Carrion helped my wife and she lived many years after that. It is my deepest belief that your mother saved my wife's life. She gave me and our children many more years than we might have had otherwise. Perhaps, someday, it will bring some comfort to you to know that your mother helped another in that way. Although your friends, grandparents and other relatives have been very brave and supportive, it is important that always remember the amazing bravery of your father. Many people have told him that they can not believe what he has done. He has probably looked at them, bewildered, wondering what eles he could have done. Weeker people have done less, have run, given up, been insincere. But your father was sincere, he did not give up, he made horribly difficult decisions and faced things no loving husband or father should have to face. It will not be important now. But, someday way in the future you might read this. When you do, in addition to being warmed by the love others had for your wonderful mother, be inspired by the courage of your father.
Lanette McLamb-Veres
August 21, 2005
Dearest Blayn, Holi and Tyler,
I am one of the few who only knew Kristi in her time of illness. I am sad that it was because of illness that our paths crossed but I am forever changed and blessed for having known her. She took a diagnosis and fought with tremendous courage and strength for herself but first and foremost for her kids and husband. Although only knowing her for a very brief time I captured the essence of what many of you described over her life time. I can tell you also how beautiful it was to see family & friends come together to carry the load until she received the gift of getting her angel wings. What a wonderul coming together of everyone involved in her care. From the kids(the reason she fought so hard) loving her and being mommy's encouragers, to her caregivers ... her mom ,husband and the many others I don't know of. It takes a team and a Team you all were. WOW I am sure I speak for many.... I am in awe on the love she received from so many people. God's peace to all of you. I again am so sorry for the loss of such a beautiful person, I only wish I would have had the chance to know her sooner.
In his care,
Sue Russel (Stanisz)
August 21, 2005
Dear Kelly and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Leane (Paluch) Vandeman
August 20, 2005
Kelly and Family,
I can't believe this is why I am writing to you. My parents found out the news by reading the paper on Thursday as they were flying to Europe for their 40th wedding anniversary trip. They called my brother who called me. I know we have not been in touch for so long, but memories of our early softball friendship make me smile. I am crying today for you Kelly and for Kristie's family whom I don't even know. I am also the mother now of two young children and my heart aches for this difficult journey you have all been on and will continue to deal with. When I think of Kristie, I think of an incredibly kind, athletic, talented, humble, soft-spoken, funny (great laugh!), generous spirit who always seemed wiser and more mature than most girls our age. You both were an early blessing in my life as we competed against each other and then became friends and even teammates for a short time. My dad was always blown away by both of your softball skills! I remember hanging out at your mom's house and feeling special that I was friends with some girls from Thunderbird! My mind has been racing all day. Life is so strange that although we have been apart for so long, I feel such sadness for this person that was my friend for such a short time and yet, I know that I got a real sense of the spirit and soul of Kristie and I can only imagine how she will be missed in all of her family and friends' lives. Kelly, I am rambling, but I want you and your parents and Kristie's family to know that you are all in my prayers as you deal with this loss. Kristie was incredible and obviously touched many, many people - including me. If you feel like it or whenever you feel like it, please email me and let me know how I can reach you. I would love to see you when I come to Phoenix. You will remain in my heart and prayers...
God Bless,
Leane
Mary Catellier
August 20, 2005
Blayn and Dottie,
My thoughts never leave you. Kristie meant so much to so many. She was a phenomenal human being - unconditionally kind, caring, dynamic, funny and full of life. I'll be forever grateful that she was my friend. She had such an incredible spirit, one that will be with you and the family always. I loved Kristie like a sister, and will miss her for the rest of my life.
Johnny Mack
August 19, 2005
Kelly and Family-
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I'm very sorry to hear of your loss.
Michelle (Smith) Schrade
August 19, 2005
Blayn & Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and both of your families at this time of grief. May God bless you and keep you and your two children close to his heart.
Love,
Rocky Lenon
August 18, 2005
Blane, Tyler, Holli, and famliy; My thought and prayers are with you at this time. Take it one day at a time. Kristie was such an awesome and caring person. She did so much for me and my family. I will never forget her. Her courage and the postitve attitude that she had throughout her sickness was truly amazing. She was such a strong and brave person. She was such a great wife, mom, daughter, sister, aunt, and friend. She opened her heart to everyone and was such a dedicated friend. She was always worried about other people and always wanted to help someone else. She will be extremely missed. I thank god that I had the pleasure of knowing her and her wonderful family.
Debra Johnson
August 18, 2005
Kristie's Family,
I know that losing someone so special is very hard on everyone. I hope that all the good memories can help ease the pain.
Bless you all,
Debra Johnson
Briana Miller
August 18, 2005
Kristie has been a family friend to my step dad for ages...I loved her like a mom...She loved me like her child. When I found out that she had brain cancer...I about died. No matter how bad it hurt I know that one day she would go. I didn't want it to come soon but it did. No matter how hard I will cry I know that all she wants is the best. So I'll give her the best I can... Kristie remeber when you guys stayed late and played games with us? Watched me and my brothers play sports? Watch us grow? Well know matter how far you will be, you are always with me... I Love You so much!!!!! I just wish I could have had it and not you!!!!
I Love You Kristie!!!!
Love always,
Briana Miller
13 years old
8th grade
Texas
Cindy,Nancy,Rhonda & Kristie at Paul Murch's retirement party
August 18, 2005
Cindy Morgan-Parks
August 18, 2005
Kristie was my friend and co-worker for 19 years, we experienced many good times. It was truly an honor to call her my friend. I remember when she first started at our district office in the check colection dept., she then went on to doing the comp.shop and after that, was promoted to DAPTL adm. for Don Tatarelli. She later would be promoted to DTL Adm. During this time, I was priviledged to see her get married, have two babies and become a wonderful mother and wife. During her time at Target, we saw a lot of good people come and go, one of those people was Nancy Herrin, another co-worker who died in March of 2000. I remember us coming in to work and crying and asking ourselves, why did this happen; we would hug each other and comfort each other for months, over the grieving of our friend; now I wonder, who is going to hug me, when I grieve over yet, another good friend who was taken from us at such a young age. Kristie has touched my heart and my life, and will be forever remembered. I was honored to share in her life, even if for only a little while. Good-bye my friend, until we meet again.
Love,
Cindy
Joanie Kiernan
August 18, 2005
To Kristie's Mother and her entire family:
Although I am separated from you by distance and cannot be with you at this time, know that I am there with my heart. Kristie was extremely special and was a wonderful daughter, wife, mother, sister and friend. Matt, Dan, Pete and Michael join me in sending our love and prayers.
STEVE NATHAN
August 18, 2005
Kristie was a very special person. It was a privilege to have known her as a patient but more importantly as a wonderful person.
My prayers are with Dottie and the entire family.
Alex Gerstenzang
August 18, 2005
I am quite saddened by the news and can only say (with tears in my eyes) what incredible memories I have of what an Unbelievable and Make It Happen person Kristie was. She was a spirit I will never forget. God Bless You and Your Family during these trying times. Our Prayers are with you. Gerstenzang Family.
Kimberly Long
August 18, 2005
So sorry to hear about Kristie. We went to Thunderbird High School together. My thoughs and prayors are with the family.
Donna Salsburg
August 18, 2005
Kelly-
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Somehow we make it through these times and we continue to live our lives - watching another day dawn and another evening close, never quite the same after our loss. We can choose to greet each day with hope and live each day to the fullest, knowing that are loved ones are now nearer to us in spirit than ever before. They are safe-no longer bound to this earth. There is no more suffering - only freedom - we need to remember this when we have those difficult moments---. May God give you the strength you need and bless you and your loved ones with His comforting peace. Remember you have many friends who are here for you when you need us. Love and Prayers-- Donna Salsburg
Eileen Westman
August 18, 2005
Dear Family,
I was sorry to hear of Kristie's passing. She was an incredibly beautiful woman who always had a smile to offer and would do anything for anyone. She will be missed by all that knew her.
My prayers are with you at this time. Her suffering is over and she is now at rest but you will have wonderful memories of her to cherish forever.
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