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Mary Van Aller Obituary
April 15, 2007. Mary is Survived by her husband of 45 years, Garfield; daughters Julie Bak, Diane Pruden, and Linda Bak; sons David and Steven; brothers Leo, John and James; sisters Rita Patton, and CarolJean Rink; stepmother Alice Rink and three grandchildren Erik, Miranda and Katie. Mary was born in Mineral Point, WI, Sept 11, 1939 to Leo and Lorraine Rink. She moved to Phx in her teens and graduated Xavier High School. She married Garfield Van Aller, Aug 19, 1961. After traveling with his Navy career for 20 years, they settled back in Phx in 1980. She worked as an administrative asst for the Maricopa County Sheriff's Dept, retiring Oct. 2001. Mary most loved spoiling and playing with her grandchildren and working on sewing projects for family and friends. We all love and miss her so very much. Donations can be made in her name to the ALS Assoc of AZ. A Memorial Mass will be held on Friday, April 20, 2007 at 10:00 AM at St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church, 4715 N. Central Ave, Phoenix, AZ.
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Theresa Yanovich
April 24, 2007
Mary holds a very special place in my heart. I worked with Mary for approx. 9 years. Her smiles, encouraging outlook on life, love for all, and incredible wisdom. She was a true jewel. She treated me just like a child of her own. Mary loved her family with all her heart. Mary will always be dear in my heart. May God comfort you thru this difficult time.
Audrey Perron
April 19, 2007
I worked with Mary at MCSO for five years. When I think of Mary I remember how much she talked about her family. She was so motherly, even to those who were co-workers. She was such a blessing to the whole office. I had a baby two years after leaving that job, but Mary didn't forget me. She made my daughter two beautiful blankets that we will treasure forever.
To her family and friends, I pray that you would feel God's love and peace during this difficult time. Always remember how much she loved all of you.
Jill Van Aller
April 19, 2007
Aunt Mary was a kind and loving person. She lit up the room with her smile and the twinkle in her eyes. Spending time with the family made me feel the strong bond she had with her husband and children. My husband (Freddie Jr.) has fond memories of spending time with them while growing up. We will all miss you Mary. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
John McMullan
April 18, 2007
Mary was the Administrative Assistant in our unit with the Maricopa County Sheriff's Office. She always greeted us at the beginning of the day, or said good-bye at the end of the day, with a warm friendly smile. She often spoke of her husband and family with fond affection. Her face would light up and she would smile from ear to ear, when showing pictures or telling stories about her grand children. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family, whom she cherished so much.
Cheryl Bak
April 18, 2007
Dear Julie , Linda and Family our deepest sympathy goes out to you. We have great empathy for you all. We wish we could be there to give you a big hugs. We love you. Cheryl
Rick Bailey
April 18, 2007
Mary worked for me as a loyal and dedicated administrative assistant at the Sheriff's office for 10 years. The #1 priority for Mary was her love for her husband, children and grandchildren. She had a wonderful personality and she was like a second Mom for everyone on our staff. She will truly be missed. Our condolences go out to her family and friends.
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