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Chris Starr
February 22, 2025
A nice young man from my 2nd grade class many many many years ago at Chaparral Elementary School .
Mom and Dad
January 27, 2025
Hi Matt! Yes, it's hard to believe 18 years. Not a day goes by that we don't think of you and our lives still shattered since you left us. What a brilliant young man you were and a loving and caring son. Can't wait to be with you again......We love you and miss you dearly, Mom & Dad
Yvonne Schambach
December 10, 2024
Wow! 18 years since you left all of us. You are definitely not forgotten. Your friends miss you kid.
Mom and Dad
April 29, 2024
Mom and Dad
April 29, 2024
Mom and Dad
April 29, 2024
Happy Heavenly 38th Birthday to our son, Matt, who is forever in our hearts. Not a day goes by that Dad and I don't think of you. The pain never goes away but the memories will last forever. You were and still will always be the most kind, loving, caring, and handsome young man, just to mention a few. When you were a baby I used to sing "You are my Special Angel, sent from up above. The Lord smiled down on me and sent an Angel to love". You were and always will be "Our Special Angel". We love and miss you, Mom, Dad and Bryan
Mom and Dad
December 13, 2023
Hello Matt,
Gee, I can't believe it's been 17 years since you've passed. It's been so very long yet the memories are still very present. We think of you often and miss you dearly. This time of year is always hard on us. Uncle Mike and Aunt Mary Pat took us to dinner at Manuel's in your memory, one of your favorite places. They miss you too! Later that night we spoke to Bryan and shared stories of times with you. We've kept your bedroom the same and have photos of you everywhere. You were my Special Angel while on earth and now in Heaven. Wish you didn't have to go. We love you, Mom, Dad and Bryan
Matt's Mom
December 10, 2022
Dear Mattie Cakes,
It's hard to believe today marks 16 years since your untimely passing. Dad, Bryan and I have missed you dearly every day ever since. I wish I could turn back time or somehow bring you back, but I know all was in God's hands. Not a day goes by that we don't think about you. Thank you for the love and joy you shared with us, and the many happy memories. We love and miss you always, Mom, Dad & Bryan
Mom
May 1, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday (yesterday) Matt. We love and miss you terribly. Life just hasn't been the same without you. You're always in our thoughts and prayers. Can't wait to be with you again. With Love, Mom and Dad
Yvonne Schambach
April 29, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday kid
Janie Hartmann
December 11, 2020
My Dear Beloved son Matthew,
Yesterday was 14 years since your passing. It will always be a difficult day for your Father, Bryan and Me. We visited your gravesite and brought home Mexican Food, as we always do in your memory. We know how much you loved your Mexican Food.
Your bedroom is still the same, however, the walls are now painted in a light gray. We repainted your room after repairing the walls that you had various computer cables, etc. run through. Otherwise, we would have left the blue color you loved so much.
I love you with all my heart, Mattie Cakes. Not an hour of every day goes by and I don't think of you. You were an amazing, endearing, loving son and your Aunts, Uncles, Cousins and friends miss you so much.
Our hearts of filled with memories but wish we had more to make with you. You are forever loved and missed. Love, Mom, Dad and Bryan
Yvonne Schambach
December 10, 2020
Greetings Mattie from all of us in Indy. Rest easy kiddo.
Janie Hartmann
April 13, 2020
Hi my beloved Matt,
Dad and I along with Steffie and Mason visited your grave-site yesterday, Easter Sunday as well as last Wednesday and Sunday. We plan to come out every Sunday afternoon. Our hearts are still with you and always will be. We miss you so very much. Wish you were still here and always wonder what your life would be like, who you would marry and how many little "quaders" you would have. You gave us such great memories and love through the years that it helps keep us going.
Tanner's son, Braiden, born on your birthday, is just like you. It's truly amazing! We adore all of his boys, including those Kori brought into the marriage. They are quite a family, but I'm sure you can see that. Just wish we saw more of them.
As you know, Bryan, is doing well, considering. He thinks about you as often as we do, which is all the time, and misses you just as much.
All our love,
Mom, Dad and Bryan
Janie Hartmann
January 27, 2020
Hi Honey, Just thinking about you today as I do everyday. Still have that missing piece in my heart that belongs to you. I hope you hear me speak to you and see the heart with miss you and love you Matt that I put on shower window every day. It's so true. Can't wait to be with you again someday.
I love you, Mom
Janie Hartmann
December 11, 2019
My Dear Matt,
Yesterday marked 13 years since your passing. It's still hard to believe as it seems like yesterday. Saturday, 12.7.19, Tanner pulled another surprise on us. At our door was Tanner, Kori, Heather, Brian, Braiden, Degan, Quiet Kyle (who's not quiet anymore), his girlfriend Casey, Ryan, Dustin, Kevin, Pete and his wife Jessica, 13 in total. Of course I was in my pj's with no make up on, but welcomed them all in, changed quickly and threw on mascara. I hope you could see the impact they continue to have on us and realize how much they cared about your friendship. The guys wanted to go into the garage and reminisce about the good
'ol days when they hung with you. They said it still looks the same. Tanner said he wants to patent your trailer flag hitch in your name. We'll see. They all care about you so much and really lift our spirits and warm our hearts. Other friends of yours like Chase, Christina, Canadian Kyle (now married), Matt S., and so on, pop in on occasion when in town. We miss you so much and are so grateful to see your friends. They share their stories and it warms our heart to see how much they still care about you and us. Bryan called and was pretty shook up. He misses you so much. He said he had your picture with Mandy in your Sweatshirt with her little head poking out in his room all day. We talked for 45 minutes sharing special memories of you. We all miss you every minute of the day and can't wait to be with you again. We love you dearly and will miss you until that time. Love, Mom
Yvonne Schambach
December 11, 2019
Wow! 13 years have gone by. Sure happy to see a host of friends stop by to pay their respects. RIP kid..from all of us in Indy
Matt & Mandy
Janie Hartmann
April 30, 2019
Lake Pleasant
Janie Hartmann
April 30, 2019
At Glamis
Janie Hartmann
April 30, 2019
Matt & Mommy
Janie Hartmann
April 30, 2019
Mattie Cakes
Janie Hartmann
April 30, 2019
Bryan & Matt
Janie Hartmann
April 30, 2019
Bryan & Matt
Janie Hartmann
April 30, 2019
Rest in Peace
Janie Hartmann
April 30, 2019
Mom & Dad
April 30, 2019
Hi Honey, I didn't get to finish my original message....it was great that Bryan called while we were there. We all have a lot of memories that we share on special days for you. We love you dearly and miss you which you hear from us everyday. Not a day goes by without thoughts of you. I only wish we were celebrating your birthday with you. Tanner's son Braiden turned 12 on your birthday. He's a remarkable kid and just like you in so many ways. They are truly blessed as we were to have you the 20 1/2 yrs in our every day life. I miss your hugs, kisses on the cheek and everything about you. When our day comes we'll be together again. Until then, much love coming your way........Mom, Dad & Bryan
Matt's last photo
Janie Hartmann
April 30, 2019
Adorable young Matt - School Photo
Janie Hartmann
April 30, 2019
Matt and Dad at Nascar
Janie Hartmann
April 30, 2019
Mattie and Snickerdoodles
Janie Hartmann
April 30, 2019
Lake Pleasant - I'm on top of he world
Janie Hartmann
April 30, 2019
Yvonne Schambach
April 29, 2019
Happy Birthday Mattie
Janie Hartmann
October 13, 2018
Hello Mattie Cakes! Saw Brad's message. It put a smile in my heart.❤ I've been thinking of you and grieving quite a lot lately. Monica's husband, Mark, lost his sister recently so knowing what the parents are going through it brought things to the surface again. Your Dad, Bryan and I miss you beyond words. We just left visiting Bryan. My heart aches for him too and I'm sure you know why. Wish you never left this earth and can't wait to be with you. You were such a good and loving son. We miss you dearly. Mom, Dad and Bryan
Brad Koestner
October 11, 2018
Hey Matt, been thinking about you lately. I got to see your dad recently and work on your parents house a little. I still miss you buddy and hope you know I'm always here for you and your family. Can't wait to see you again.
Janie Hartmann
August 25, 2016
Hello to Matt Griffin should you visit the site again. I remember you and my heart is filled with happiness because of your kind words and remembering our dear son Matt. Thank you kindly, Janie Hartmann
August 23, 2016
Mr and Mrs Hartmann.
I used to live down the street from you (next door to the Hillis family). I still think of Matt often and remember riding quads and hanging out with him on our street there.
I remember riding quads with Matt one time and I got pulled over by the police while Matt was off riding somewhere. Instead of staying away to avoid a ticket, when he saw me with the cop, Matt rode back to where I was to "face the music" with me. Lucky for us, he had some kind of riding permit that wasn't really legal for where we were riding but the cop let us both off with a warning because he had that. Believe me, that cop had her ticket book out and was all about writing me a ticket so it was really cool that he came back to help me out.
Matt was a tremendously talented kid. There wasn't anything that he couldn't weld and I don't think there is a motorcycle or ATV made that he couldn't ride a wheelie on.
I've read your posts and am filled with grief for you and your family. If there is any comfort to be had, I know there is NO WAY Matt would ever say or think that he was not totally and unconditionally loved by you and Steve.
Matt was loved by a great many people. All of these comments are the tip of the ice burg but certainly a testament to the impact Matt had on peoples lives.
Sincerely,
Matt Griffin
Janie Hartmann
January 19, 2016
Hi Matt
Think of you 24/7. You're always in my heart and mind. I love you and miss you so much. Love always, Mom
Mom
December 18, 2014
Hello Matt....you're on my mind, as usual, especially this time of year. I miss you and love you so much. Can't wait to be with you again.
All my love, Mom
July 9, 2014
Hello Matt, it's Mom....just thinking about you today and every other day. Our family is so incomplete without you here on earth although I know you're with lots of family who love you in heaven. Can't wait until we meet again. I will always love you, Mom.
April 22, 2014
Hello Matt. As your birthday is approaching, 4/29, you are heavy on our minds, as always. WE miss you every day. Mandy passed away in my arms on October 25th, 2013. WE are hopeful you two were reunited in heaven.
Miss you and love you. Mom and Dad
Mom
August 16, 2013
Hello my son......it's been a while, but you are thought about so often throughuot the day. Our lives have continued, but we do still mourn and miss you terribly. What if you were still here on earth? I know our lives would be busier and happier. Everthing is still as you left it and Mandy is now 12! When I mention your name, she looks around to see if you're there. Sometimes she stares and I wonder if you're visible to her and why not me. I picture you zipping around on the clouds, just wish I was there with you. Someday. I love you Mattie Cakes. Always, your Mom
Mom & Dad
August 4, 2012
Hi Matt, it's Mom...just thinking about you today, as always, thought I'd let you know. I spent time in your bedroom yesterday, just laying down and relaxing during a "blue" moment. Your bedroom is how you left it, just a few boxes added. Our hearts still ache for you....everything reminds of us you. Miss you so much! Love you and can't wait to see you again.
Heather Cook
August 2, 2012
Mattie cakes.... So much we miss about you! Our son Braiden reminds us a lot of you. Such a great spirit. He loves to be in the garage and it brings back do many memories of hanging out there with you while you worked on your trucks. You will always be with us and never forgotten. We love and miss you dearly
Mom & Dad
May 30, 2012
Hello my beautiful son. Missed you on your birthday, but thought of you all day. We visited the memorial site and where you were laid to rest and even had a birthday cake for you this year. Dad and I awaken and go to sleep with you on our minds. Often I dream about you coming home to us, only to realize it's a dream. We'll be ready when God calls us home to be with you again.
It looks like Tanner may have written the last entry. I think of him daily and what he must be going through.
Hopefully you've met up with Mikey and your Grandparents, etc. It was another hard loss for those of us on still here on earth.
We love you Matt, always will, and are so proud to call you "son".
With all the love in our hearts,
Mom and Dad
May 28, 2012
MATTIE YOUR SO LUCKY IM SO JEALOUS OF YOU! YOU AND DAD (MIKEY) ARE RACING ACROSS HEAVEN IN WHO KNOWS WHAT (BOATS, TROPHY TRUCKS, RACE CARS, HECK I BET EVEN LAWN MOWERS!) BEST OF ALL OF RACING AROUND CHASING US ALL AROUND HERE KEEPING US SAFE. NEVERE THOUGHT THESE DAYS WOULD COME BUT THEY HAVE. LIFE IS SO PRECIOUS AND SO AMAZING KNOWING WE HAVE ETERNITY TO SPEND WITH YOU ALL WHEN WE COME HOME TO THE ROADS OF GOLD (HEAVEN) GOD LOVE YOU BIG BRO KISS DAD FOR ME LOVE YOU!
January 4, 2012
Hi Honey, it's Mom. Just renewed your Guestbook forever so I can have a place to share my thoughts.
Another Thanksgiving and Christmas has gone by without you. It's not the only time my heart weeps, it does it all the time. Holidays just aren't what they used to be. I wipe my tears and can only face each day without you the best I can.
I miss you and I love you sooooo much,
Mom
Paul Lopez
June 3, 2011
Matt, I can't believe it's been over 5 years since you left us. I can still remember your funeral. That day is burned into my memory. I want you to know what a good friend you always were and will be. You are missed greatly by many. I know it should be comforting to know that you're in a better place, but it still doesn't seem fair that you're there and we're here. Know that I will always remember you and the good times we had when we were kids.
Yvonne Schambach
May 2, 2011
Hey Matt. I saw Christina's posting on Facebook wishing you a Happy Birthday this past weekend. My Matt also reminded me. I guess your Mom must work in the same building as my daughter as she often sees her personalized plates parked in the parking lot. You are at peace but I know your parents heart aches. You are missed by many of your friends.
April 29, 2011
Happy 25th Birthday Matt! Wish you were here to celebrate with us on this very special day. We are so grateful to have been your parents on earth and can't wait to reunite with you again in Heaven. Until then, you're continually in our thoughts and heart. We love you, Mom and Dad
Yvonne Schambach
January 10, 2011
Mattie - Can't imagine what your Mom is still going through. I often thnk about her. My Matt came back for a visit during the holiday and as he passed where you took your last breath, he nodded and whispered "Hey Matt". You are missed by many.
January 13, 2010
Mattie Cakes,
I talk to you each day,
I hope you can hear me....
I think about you all the time,
I hope you can hear my thoughts....
I see you in my dreams,
But too often they are sad reminders....
I miss you so much,
It's more than I've ever missed anyone....
I miss your smile, your laugh, your personality....
I miss your kind ways and your sensitivity.....
I miss your hugs and kisses on the cheek....
I miss you coming home and taking Mandy from my bed....
I miss your phone calls and surprises....
I miss your charm and good looks,
And that smile....
I miss the mechanics lessons and fingerprints....
I know where you are....I hope to see you soon....
Know that your Dad, Brother, many friends and relatives miss you, too.
Your Dad and I are making it through life, but barely....
There's no love bigger than mine for you....
I love you,
Mom
January 8, 2010
Matt,
Sometimes I wish life would stop for 5 minutes, so I can enjoy the peace you must see. This world is a mess, but I have learned to lean on those closet to me. I am sorry your mom lost you, you were probably that person she leaned on. Now more than ever I am leaning hard on my family. I only wish to get through this hard time as soon as possible. blah blah blah
Love you Matt, Miss you too. You are not forgotten. -Monica
Cousin Laura Playford
April 29, 2009
Happy Birthday Mattie! We all still miss you everyday! Love you!
Holly Wagner
March 23, 2009
Mattie Cakes,
I thought of you earlier today when I hard a song on the radio that we used to love and sing to together in you Nissan!... You constantly come to my mind. I will never forget my first love and I would never want to. You will be forever in my heart.
Love ALWAYS,
Holly Dolly
March 20, 2009
Mattie Cakes,
I can't believe 2+ years have passed without you. Each day and night seems so long. The other day when I was at your gravesite, I had a real feeling of calm...as though you were letting me know you were with Jesus and I'll join you someday. I've never had that feeling before and look forward to that day.
Love you forever,
Mom
Krissy Wertz
January 8, 2009
Still miss you like crazy. I think about you all the time and still cant believe you are gone. You were a brother to me. I cant express enough, how thankful I am for having you in my life. Thanks for always having my back : ) Love you
Monica Waddle
January 8, 2009
Hey Matt,
Think of you almost everyday still. Family gatherings at your house don't seem the same. We all love you and miss you. Your cousin Monica
Mom
September 23, 2008
Mattie Cakes,
I realized today that I am so depressed and have been since you left us that night. Life hasn't, nor will it ever be the same. You are always on my mind. I try to suppress the reality of what happened but that lasts just so long. I miss you, I love you and I can't wait to be with you again.
Monica Waddle
April 29, 2008
Hi Matt,
Happy Birthday. Thinking of you lil' cousin. Have a great party up there.
Love you Monica
Monica Waddle
February 27, 2008
Hey Matt,
Thinking of you now and always. My heart still hurts because you left us. Keep sending your love and strenght to your family and friends! Love you and Miss you,
Cousin Monica
Brian Shrum
February 22, 2008
Matt,
Hey there. Old school family friend here wishing the family the best. Matt you seem to have made a big impact on a lot of peoples lives and I know they cant wait to see you again, as I know they will. God bless and good night
Your Loving Brother
January 12, 2008
Hey buddy just wondering what it like up there? I really miss you alot. Things won't ever be the same without you. I hope you know that I love you, Bryan
Dad
January 12, 2008
MATT, I LOVE AND I MISS YOU, DAD...
Destiny Friend
January 12, 2008
Dear Matt,
The Friend family says hello and we know we will see you again someday! Smiles & Hugs
Love,
The Friends
Holly Wagner
January 9, 2008
Mattie Cakes,
To this day it's hard to believe you aren't here with us physically. You brought so much joy into so many lives it's incredible. I think about the 2 amazing years we had together often and wish I had expressed that to you more often in the past. I'm sure you hear me now though... Yuva Yuva
Holly Dolly
Laura Playford
January 8, 2008
All of the memories that I have of Mattie make me smile. I remember when we were all up at Lake Powell and he was water skiing for the first time. He was having so much fun that he wouldn't let go! I'm sure that it was the same way with his quad. He had such a passion for adventure and excitement, yet he was the sweetest person. He helped Michelle and I move while suffering with a torn MCL. What a guy!
I will miss you always Matt! Thank you for being a part of my life! We will see each other some day, but for now, look after all of us and your family. We all love you!
Aunt Kathy & Uncle Lee
January 7, 2008
In his infinite wisdom and grace, God took you home to keep you from any more pain or harm that the future would bring. This is the only way we can cope with your loss, knowing you are in peace in his heavenly kingdom. We love you!
Mom
December 13, 2007
My Dear Mattie Cakes,
We just passed the first hurdle of one year since your leaving this earth. It's been difficult facing Thanksgiving without you and then shortly thereafter realizing one year since your death. The family gathered, (all 6 of my siblings and their families), at the gravesite. They all surprised your Father and I by individually laying Poinsettia's, then they were surrounded with Christimas Tea Candles in little hurricane lamps. It was the most beautiful site, yet so sad as to why we were gathered there. Shortly thereafter we went to the scene of your accident, where you layed, and family and friends placed tall candles in your memory as well as additional Poinsettias and flowers. Matt Dear, I know how much you hated attention directed at you but feel this is well deserved as you were a great friend to many, brother to Bryan and son to your Father and Me. We'll love you forever and can't wait to be with you again.
I love you.
Denise Dominguez
December 10, 2007
Dearest Matt,
A year ago today our family was deeply saddened and changed forever. I am missing you and I want you to know that you have taught me a very valuable lesson. I will never again take family for granted and squish my kids and Jesse with hugs and kisses daily as I now know life can be cut short and we never know when trajedies can happen. The family is grieving and even through our grief some wonderful changes have arisen with the lessons you have taught us. Billy, Toni, Tyler, Jared, and Maxine have moved here and so has Aunt Chris and Uncle Rich. We are all closer and remember the lesson you taught to us. I saw Tanner, Heather, and baby Braeden Matthew this past weekend at your mom's house and actually see a little bit of you in him. He was born on your birthday and I know you had a hand in that. It couldn't possibly be a coincidence. We will be celebrating your life this evening with the family and know you will be right there with us. I will never forget our last words and hugs you gave to me the night before you passed- you always had the strongest most real hugs of anyone. I miss that. So godson I love you and may you rest in peace. I look forward to the day we are together again. Know you will be the first at the gates with arms out wide with one of those great big Matt hugs.
Love Always,
Your cousin/Godmother Denise
Brad Playford
December 10, 2007
Hey Matt, missed you the other night at your place. We all had a pretty fun time. There were guests in town to visit and there was a lot of socializing going on. I still have the picture from the same event last year on my fridge at home. It was the last (heck, maybe only) picture that we were in together. Well, I have to get going, but you take it easy & we'll see you tonight.
Holly Huntimer
December 10, 2007
You are in my thoughts and prayers today and every day.
Monica
December 6, 2007
Matt,
Last year this time I knew you would be at home to help your Mom and Dad open your home to family and friends for the holidays. You were always a smile in the backround watching our family and giving a helping hand. Everyday I remember the last time I spoke to you and wish I told you so much more. You were a great cousin to me, tickling each other as kids, letting me stay in your room when I visited AZ as a young teen, and helping me to my car with baby stuff when leaving your home. My little blonde cousin I miss you.
Everyday you are in my thoughts and pull on my heart strings, all my love is sent to you and your family this weekend.
Cousin Monica
Judy Koestner
December 5, 2007
Dear Janie and family, I wanted to write some words of comfort and support, but find myself lost for words. Somehow, I pray you sense the love and compassion of many to carry you through this difficult time. Brad continues to have a special place in his heart for Matt. Sincerely, Judy Koestner and family
Mom
December 4, 2007
My Dear Mattie Cakes, It's getting closer to the one year anniversary of your death, yet often feels like yesterday. It does seems forever since I've seen you. I'll never forget when you left home that night, 12/9/06. Wish I would have called you when the TV didn't work. Only you could have fixed it and I know you would have come right home to do it. At least I could have talked to you and told you I loved you one last time. I'm sorry I wasn't with you to hold and cuddle you at the time of your death. It all happened so quickly. We didn't know at the time so we couldn't be there to help you. I miss you so much and am still in disbelief at times. Your Father and I still mourn you every day and will the rest of our lives. We're so grateful for 20 yrs. of memories and joy that you brought us. We were so blessed. I often question the Lord selfishly, "why, why Matt" as you were the most precious gift to us. We'll never really know the answer, but pray it was to save you from any further pain and anxiety. In your short 20 years you faced so many challenges and always made it through them. It's so hard to say "it was your time", whatever that means. I hope and pray to be with you again someday soon my wonderful son, Matt. I miss you and will love you forever.
Michelle
October 6, 2007
Today is a rough one. I woke to find your face on the front page of the newspaper. I think about you most of the days, but today, today is a doozy... Its like I am right there on Dec. 10th again! I am really sad today :-( You are missed tremendously...
Glenn Space
August 10, 2007
Matt,
I wish I knew you, because we both love motorcycles. I went to school with your mother in southern California, and knowing her then, tells me that you have a good mother and therefore a fine upbringing. May you rest in peace in a kindler and gentler place.
Janie Hartmann
July 3, 2007
My Dear Son, Matt......Our family continues to grow...your Cousin, Michelle,gave birth to a baby boy today and named him Bradin Robert MATTHEW Dockall, Jr. Of course the Matthew is after you. Heather gave birth to a baby boy and Tanner and Heather have named him Bradin MATTHEW Cook. Again, after you. He was even born on your birthday, April 29th. Your cousin Monica, gave birth to a baby girl, Brooke, in February of this year. I celebrate the births, but I still mourn your death. I miss you so much and am so depressed living life without you. Can't wait to be with you again son. I Love You Mattie Cakes, MOM
Monica Waddle
April 29, 2007
Hey Matt,
So it's your 21st birthday today. Wish we were celebrating it differently. Today is a sad day, and at the same time an enlightenment. You have reminded us how precious life is, how a family can stick together, and how much love you have for your children. I will celebrate your life today and keep thinking of you everyday of mine.
We miss you and love you, cousin Monica
Denise Dominguez
April 24, 2007
So sad as it is approaching Mattie Cakes 21st Birthday on Sunday. Like Laura I hear "Calling all Angels" by Train too and think of Matt. It was on his video we made. I hope to see everyone on Sunday as we celebrate Matt's birthday. I know he will be there with us and couldn't miss his 21st.
Laura Playford
January 26, 2007
Hi Matty ~ Like Michelle, I just heard a song that reminded me of you, "Calling All Angels." It's funny how I stop everything that I do just to listen to it and to think about you. It's such a great song, because it makes me want to cry and laugh and smile all at the same time. No matter what I do, I am thinking about you and everyone that you touched and are still touching as our Angel. I love you and miss you so much!
Your cousin,
Laura
Michelle
January 22, 2007
Alright Matty-cakes, I heard a song that made me think of you. It made me sad right away, but the sadness suddenly turned to a smile on my face. You were so adorable! I still think about you every day. I hope you are having fun in heaven... miss you!!!
AUNT MARY PAT & UNCLE MIKE
January 9, 2007
DEAR MATTIE CAKES,
WE MISS YOU, WE MISS YOUR SMILE, YOUR FRIENDSHIP, YOUR STRENGTH AND YOUR LOVE. WE WILL SEE YOU WHEN WE
MOST NEED YOU. YOUR MEMORIES WILL ALWAYS KEEP YOUR LOVED ONES GOING
ONE DAY AT A TIME.
William Steffen
December 25, 2006
Matt, as your Godfather, I feel guilt for going separate ways. To deliver your eulogy, was twisted fate, and has left a deep scar. I never want to feel this pain again, so we're moving to Phoenix this summer, to be closer to family. Matt, I heard you, thanks for the life lesson.
Janie, Steve & Bryan: Our hearts and thoughts are with you this Christmas evening. I look forward to sharing Christmas 2007 in Phoenix.
We Love You! Billy, Toni, Tyler & Jared
Brandon Creech/Hosey
December 20, 2006
Dear Janie, Steve & Bryan
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I am sorry that I was unable to attend Matt's memorial service. I have researched his life and can only say that he was an amazing person. I hope that someday I can learn to give the way Matt did. He truly touched everyone he met and I feel honored to have known him. If I can assist in any way please give me a call. Brandon
Mike and Ada Cook
December 20, 2006
Steve, Janie and Bryan,
Thank you for allowing Mattie Cakes to be part of our family. We will always cherish our family trips camping and duning with Matt. You will be in our thoughts and prayers always. Our hearts are broken.
Cousin Suzie Creech
December 20, 2006
I can't believe you are gone! The family will never be the same with out you. There will be a constant void whenever we are together. Matt, watch over our family, give your mom, dad, and Brian an inner peace that you were meant to do greater things. I love you!
Jesse and Irene Dominguez
December 19, 2006
We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you in this time of sadness and sorrow. God will give you strenght. Alway remember the good times. He will be with you forever.
Jodi & Denny Allen
December 19, 2006
Dear Janie, Steve & Bryan
You have been in our prayers since the news of Matt's accident. Our hearts go out to you at this time of sadness. I "believe", and know that Matthew is in heaven with all the family that has gone before him. Honor him by living your life to it's fullest! All our love,
Michael Steffen
December 19, 2006
You were here to share your life with everyone and i regretfully missed out in so many ways :< !!! I am saddened like so many in ways i never imagined possible. Only my hope of finding a supressed faith that you are somewhere special doing the special things you do will allow me to find the answer to my most troublesome question - WHY? why You? I can only hope we can all find a why greater than ourselves, greater than any logical explanation. Until then may our hearts continue to mend and memories continue to sooth this unbearable pain. I Love you. All of you that Matt was blessed to have ventureing down the following outpour of love and emotion that cripples and at the same time comforts.
Janie, Steve, Bryan, Family - Love you all so much - Cousin Michael
The Foley Family
December 18, 2006
Our hearts go out to the whole Hartmann family. Matt will be missed. We were fortunate to have known him, and am grateful for the time we shared with him. You will be missed Matt!
Robin Johnston
December 18, 2006
Dear Janie,Steve,& Bryan,
Our dear friends, there are no words. You have our compassion, love, and prayers for strength to find peace through this deep sorrow. Hold each other tight.
God bless,
Chris & Robin Johnston & family
Kris Stamatis
December 18, 2006
Dear Mattie Cakes;
I will admit that I was angry at you and still sometimes am. Mostly now I am just overwhelmingly sad. Sad that your Mom and Dad will never be the same, and that Brian no longer has a brother beside him. Sad for our family who will never again be together without the pain in our hearts missing you. I am sad for your friends who are hurting and grieving. Sad for all of the life experiences you won't be sharing with me. You will be so dearly missed and the heartache really won't ever end for us. I do thank you for the lesson that life is short and family so dear. Matt, I promise that I will never again take for granted all of our aunts, uncles and cousins and spend the time now and not plan on later. I love you Matt and I am sorry I did not tell you that. Your big cousin Krissy
Carmel Weaver
December 18, 2006
Dear Janie and Family, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you all, may God ease your pain and bring you confort today and always. Your friend, Carmel
Denise Dominguez
December 18, 2006
Aunt Janie, Uncle Steve, and Bryan,
I love you guys so much and am just so incredibly sad my godson is gone. Thank you so much for giving me that incredible honor as he couldn't have been sweeter. Matt was incredible and he will be missed every second of every day. I can't wait to see him again someday.
Destiny Friend
December 17, 2006
Matt - You were a great neighbor and friend. I know I will see you again someday. Until then, I hope you will be watching over all of us. We miss you!
Love,
Destiny
Ashley McDonnell
December 17, 2006
I have very little words to express how i feel. like many others my heart feels empty knowing i will never see your face again or hear your voice. i miss you so much. its hard to think that you are never coming back. you will be dearly missed and i hope that you are looking down upon all of us. i know a lot of people just got one more guardian angel. i still try calling your phone hoping that you will answer and every time you dont... i love you very much and i will see you again some day. *ASH*
Tim Huntimer
December 17, 2006
Matt was the best person I knew. Him and I used to make some really silly stuff out of cups. I am really going to miss haveing all the great times with him. Love Tim Huntimer
Holly Huntimer
December 17, 2006
You are my cousin, my friend. I will miss you and I love you.
John Dalton
December 17, 2006
Hartmann family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know what I'm going through and can't even imagine what you guys must be going through. Just know that Matt is well loved and will be missed by anyone whoever got to meet him. Matt is in a better place now, where nothing can hurt him. He is waiting for all us. Be strong, our hearts and prayers are with you.
Love you guys
John Dalton
December 17, 2006
Matt. I love you man. Sat. was the worst day in my life man. I still can't believe it. Our friendship ment so much to me and I'm so gratefull that I got to know you. So many memories that I will charish forever because of you. We can laugh about them when I see you up in Heaven. I miss you Matt!!!
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