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Elaine Rothberg Engel
November 7, 2023
Jerry and Clare; Again, as always, on the anniversary of Richard´s passing, my sincere condolences. Please get in touch. I´m on FB. I would love to share photos I have of Richard on the boat.
Elaine Rothberg Engel
November 7, 2022
Clare, Jerry, and Family,
Fond memories of Richard as a toddler. He especially loved the boat. We all had such good times together. May his memory be a blessing.
Please keep in touch.
Love, Elaine Rothberg Engel
Elaine Rothberg
November 7, 2021
I have a wonderful photo of him on the boat. We have to re-connect, Jerry. [email protected]
I´m in Hollywood, FL
Ben Plesset
May 10, 2021
Richard was my closest and dearest friend for the first 7-8 years of our lives. We were born 2 days apart(we used to say our moms were holding hands at West Penn Hops when we were born).
If Richard wasnt at my house we were at his. Especially after the pool was done. We swam forever it seemed like back in those years.
I will miss you Richard.
Condolences to Sheha. Clare. Jerry. Susie. Jon and Julie too.
Love and Prayers
Benjamin Charles Plesset
Elaine Rothberg Engel
November 7, 2020
I remember being on the boat and have a photo of Richard sitting on Jerry’s lap while driving the boat.
Rmembering the good times our families had when Suzie and Richard were little. Miss you. Stay safe.
Love, Elaine Rothberg Engel
Bibby Mathew
February 19, 2005
Dear Sneha and Lehman Family,
We are saddened to hear about Richard. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bibby and Lisa
Aref Ghayyath
December 3, 2004
Sneha,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I just got the news and truly know how difficult it must be to lose such a wonderful man, I really am sorry for your loss. Knowing Rich, he is in a better place and I hope that we all can recover from such a loss. He was an example of GOOD. He is truly gonna be missed. My prayers are with you and the rest of his family.
Sincerely
aReF Ghayyath
Robyn Wechsler
November 27, 2004
Assaf and I think of Rich every day. This Thanksgiving, we are thankful he was part of our lives. We will never forget him - even my front tooth would not have been the same without him.
We are sending all of you love and strength. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to make this time a little easier.
Love,
Robyn
Breyon & Walidah Justice
November 23, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I had the pleasure of meeting Rich at Pitt. "INSPIRATIONAL" is how I will always remember him! I pray that God will bring comfort to your family and mend your broken hearts.
Dr. Wilma McPherson
November 22, 2004
Sneha,
My heart felt sympathy and prayers to you and the Lehman family. I remember seeing you and Rich last year at Yankee. Even after dental school he maintained his warm smile.
Dina Bambrey
November 22, 2004
When somebody dies, a cloud turns into an angel, and flies up to tell God to put another flower on a pillow. A bird gives the message back to the world, and sings a silent prayer that makes the rain cry. People disappear, but they never really go away. The spirits up there put the sun to bed, wake up grass, and spin the earth in dizzy circles. Sometimes you can see them dancing in a cloud during the day time, when they're supposed to be sleeping. They paint the rainbows and also the sunsets and make waves splash and tug at the tide. They toss shooting stars and listen to wishes. And when they sing windsongs, they whisper to us, don't miss me too much. The view is nice and I'm doing just fine.
In memory of a great man.
L'chaim,
Dina Bambrey
Elizabeth Gordon
November 20, 2004
A knock at the side door, a smile at the window, and Rich was over for a visit. We were always glad to see him. He'd come in, laugh and talk with us whether or not Assaf was home. A great friend to Assaf, he meant a lot to all our family. We will miss him. Our thoughts are with you.
Jerry Gordon
November 20, 2004
We have known Rich from high school and we welcomed his many visits to our home to visit Assaf. One day I came downstairs and was pleasantly surprised to find Rich sitting alone in our family room. I asked how he entered the house and he said he used the key in the rock from the backyard! He was a terrific friend of Assaf and we will miss him.
Bill & Erika Aippersbach
November 20, 2004
To the Lehman Family:
May we express our deepest sympathy during this difficult crossroad in your lives. We will always remember Rich for his compassion, enthusiasm and gentle spirit in the days that we spent with him at Pitt. Please know that our thougths and prayers are with you now and in the days to come.
All of our love,
Lee Heid
November 18, 2004
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I will always remember Richard as that smiling, friendly dental student that I met at Pitt. His contributions to society, and to his profession will be missed.
Cate Kruljac
November 18, 2004
The gifts that people bring us... I am honored to have been a recipient and an observer of his contributions so long long ago.
My thoughts, wishes, and prayers for his family and friends.
cate
mark kline
November 17, 2004
Dear Jerry, Elizabeth, Sneha, Jon, Suzie, Julie, and Michael,
Words can not express the sadness i feel.Richard will forever be imprinted in my heart and soul,anyone who knew him loved him.Please call on me for anything at all during this most difficult time and beyond."A special wish of love from my kids to there Uncle Jerry" We love you all!!
The Klines
judy goldman
November 17, 2004
With sincere sympathy---all of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Judy Goldman (Rachel Blaufeld's mother)
Brenda Nagel
November 17, 2004
Dear Jerry and Family;
Please accept my deepest sympathy over the loss of Richard. His many personal and professional achievements will provide a living legacy for others.
With love to each of you, Brenda Nagel
Deborah Aronson
November 16, 2004
"Remember" by Christina Rossette (1834-90)
"Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go, yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you planned:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad."
Rich's spark is now a star in the sky. Sending warm thoughts of strength and comfort,
Deb (and big wet kisses from Sam)
Nathan Nassif
November 16, 2004
Dear Lehman Family:
Richard will forever represent a remarkable friend, a treasure trove of wonderful memories, and a source of incredible strength. My deepest and heartfelt convictions to each of you. Nathan
Rob Aronson
November 16, 2004
To the Lehman family,
My condolences and deepest sympathies. Richard will truly be missed.
Rob
Deborah Studen-Pavlovich
November 16, 2004
Dear Sneha and Richard's Parents,
You have my deepest sympathy during this sad and difficult time. Richard will always be one of my favorite dental students because of his positive attitude, his dedication, and intelligence. I remember when he was working very industriously on a dental handbook for dental students to use as a reference, and I was reviewing the content for him and Sean Gill. His passion and creativity for the project was excellent. I am sorry for your loss.
Kelly Sweeney
November 16, 2004
Sneha,
I am so sorry for your loss. Rich will be missed by everyone who knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Rich's family.
Dr. Allison Satinsky
November 16, 2004
I am so very sorry for your loss. Rich was a wonderful guy. Very caring and good hearted. Knew him from Penn State and Pitt Dental. Please send my condolences to his family and wife.
Michael Aronson
November 16, 2004
Dear Lehman Family:
My sincere condolences and sympathies.
Shalom Aviv
November 16, 2004
Jerry,
We are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Shalom & Sharyn Aviv
rachel blaufeld
November 16, 2004
Dear Richard's Family and Wife - It has taken me a few days to write because I am so saddened by the loss of Rich. My thoughts are with all of you because I know what a wonderful guy that you all lost. I have terrific, fun memories of Rich - I will never forget him or the fun that we had growing up. Please be in touch if there is anything that Henry or I can do.
Adam Prudoff
November 16, 2004
Rich is a truly wonderful person who will be missed dearly by all. The brief times I spent around him were always times of joy, which will continue to stay with me each time I think of him. Have strength through this trying time.
Debbie Whitfield
November 16, 2004
Sneha,
My deepest sympathies to you and the Lehman family. Rich was always such a bright light in my day with his warm smile. I was blessed to have known him. I pray that you and your family find support and strength in each other in dealing with your loss.
Dr. Lauren Abes
November 15, 2004
i am so sorry to hear about Richard. my thoughts are with y'all. Rich was such a special guy.i'll never forget the day i met him at Pitt Dental. he always brought a smile to my face. he will be greatly missed.
Joan Levy
November 15, 2004
Dear Clare,
I was terribly saddened to hear about Richard. My deepest sympathy goes to you and all the family on your great loss.
Joan Levy
Ram Gordon
November 15, 2004
Dear Sneha and the entire Lehman family,
Words cannot describe the depth of our sadness. Richie was simply the best - handsome, kind, modest, bright, and an amazing friend, both to us and to my brother, Assaf. He was a beautiful person, one who enriched the life of anyone who met him. We will never forget him and always treasure the wonderful times we had together. We wish you great strength at this difficult time.
Love,
Ram & Rachel Gordon
Diane Klein
November 15, 2004
Clare and family---It is with the greatest sadness that I learned of your loss....the family is shrinking much faster than any of us might have imagined and to lose Richard was but another stake in our hearts....he will surely be remembered for all of the wonderful things he did and the loving person he was......his memory will always be strong...as will the family.... Love to all...Cousin Diane and family
Twyla and Bob Sable
November 15, 2004
Clare, Susie, Julie and Jon. I cannot stop thinking about all of you. I met Richard only a few times at our home for holidays, but he was a delight to be with. Richard will always be in your hearts. Please, when you feel up to it, contact me. My heart aches for you and I only wish the pain to heal for you.
Twyla
Len Sogoloff
November 15, 2004
Dear Clare and Jerry: What a shock. There is nothing in this world worse than losing a child. My sincere condolences. Len
Cindy & Greg Stadtlander
November 15, 2004
Dear Clare, Jerry, Suzanne, Jon and Julie,
We are deeply saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cindy & Greg Stadtlander and Family
Rob and Debbie Goldman
November 15, 2004
We were so saddened to hear the news. Our sympathies to the entire family.
Michael Bails
November 15, 2004
I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I knew Rich through Andy Aronson and I will remember Rich as being one of the nicest people I've ever met. He didn't have a mean hair on his body. My thoughts are with you in this difficult time.
KELLY MITCHELL
November 15, 2004
I AM EXTREMELY SORRY TO HEAR OF RICH'S DEATH. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO SNEHA AND THE REST OF RICH'S FAMILY.
KELLY (PITT DENTAL SCHOOL)
Maxine Heller
November 15, 2004
Dear Aunt Ethel, Uncle Sol, Clare, Jerry, Suzanne, Jonathan, and Julie,
I was shaken and saddened when cousin Ilene called to tell me of Richard's death. Words are so inadequate to address what you must be feeling. David Mooney (my husband) and I send you our deepest sympathy and hope for healing memories.
Much love,
Maxine
Bill and Amy Felman
November 15, 2004
Our deepest sympathy goes out to the entire family. Rich and I were friendly as children and I enjoyed seeing him around when he returned to Pittsburgh for dental school.
Brian Rubenstein
November 15, 2004
What I remember most is Rich's smile and his unrelenting happiness and good cheer.
You will be missed Rich.
Rose Mangold
November 15, 2004
Sneha,
It seems only yesterday that you and Rich were in dental school. You know that you have the prayers and thoughts of all here at Pitt Dental who remember you both fondly. Please accept my condolences.
Todd Angelo
November 15, 2004
We are truly sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. He was an example for all of us to follow, and I enjoyed working with him at school. May peace be with you in the days ahead. Love, Todd & Sarah
Linda Bickley
November 15, 2004
Dear Sneha, Jerry, Clare, Suzie, Jon, Julie, Elizabeth and Michael:
Words cannot express the sorrow I feel. Richard was an amazing young man and I feel fortunate to have known him. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ed Ries
November 15, 2004
Jerry:
So very sorry to hear about your loss. I will be thinking about you during this most difficult of times.
Sincerely,
Ed Ries
(Linda's Old Boss)
alison and Dr.L.P. charie
November 15, 2004
All our love, and condolances
ellen primis
November 15, 2004
You were very special to our family . We loved you and know you will always be in our heart and thoughts. In your 31 years you made a difference in this world.
Love,
Ellen and Jeff Primis
Amy Lutz
November 14, 2004
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."
-------------
Everyone that knew Rick loved him,
and everyone that loved him will miss him more than words can say.
I know I will.
May you all find comfort in this time of loss.
Love Always,
Diane Heinz
November 14, 2004
Dear Jerry, Elizabeth, Jonathon, Suzy, Julie, and Michael: Please accept my deepest condolences and prayers at your terrible loss. Richard was an amazing young man that anyone would be proud and blessed to have in their family.
Elizabeth Khalil
November 14, 2004
I'm so sorry to hear about this. My thoughts, and those of my parents, are with you all -
(James's cousin in DC -
Gary Kopesky
November 14, 2004
Sneha,
We are so sorry to hear the news. You will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Gary & Jackie
A Friend
November 14, 2004
I AM NOT THERE ~ Hopi Indian prayer
Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there, I did not die.
Debbie Rothberg
November 14, 2004
My deepest sympathies to your family. I didn't know Richard well, but my parents go way back with the Lehman family in Pittsburgh and Suzy and I were the same age. We spent many many trips and family vacations going to the Lehman household in Shadyside. Many nice memories.
Erica and Aaron Strauss
November 13, 2004
We are so sorry to hear about Richard - we will miss him. Our thoughts are with all of you. Love, Erica, Aaron & Noah
Linda and David Gill
November 13, 2004
Our thoughts are with you. Our son Sean has spoken of Rich. Both Sean and our daughter-in-law Jennifer were classmates.
Amy Baudino
November 13, 2004
Sne - at first I loved Rich because you did... then I loved Rich because of who he was. that will never go away.
Sharon Samuels Brusman
November 13, 2004
I am so sorry to learn of your loss. I knew him as a young boy, when he played with the Aronson boys and I was their nanny. I will always remember the two weeks that I spent with the Lehman family in Hilton Head in 1978. It is a very sad day for all who knew him that he has left this life at such a young age. May your memories serve to comfort you in this difficult time.
Mark B. Aronson
November 13, 2004
I cannot find the words to express what I feel. Obviously, my thoughts are with each of you, as they have been throughout Richard's ordeal.
Love,
Mark
elaine rothberg - engel
November 13, 2004
Dear Clare, Jerry, Suzie, Julie, & Jonathan,
We go back a long way, and yet it seems like yesterday that Richard was born. My heart goes out to you. My deepest sympathies and love. Contact me when you get a chance.
Love, Elaine
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