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Robert Leonard Obituary

Robert Lee Leonard aka "Big Dad" With the fight of a warrior chief, Dad left this earth on Sunday January 1, 2006. This giant of a man accomplished more in his 72 years than most would in 3 lifetimes. His proudest achievement was to capture the heart of his lovely bride, Bette. They partnered in all things in life, and were an iron clad united front, a force to be contended with. He started his life on 10-11-33, nicknames included Porky or Bubba, but he was Big Dad to everyone. His mother and siblings always looked to him for support, and he was the pillar and foundation for so many. He never knew a stranger and had no prejudices. Daughters Cindy and Tina, and sons Bob Jr. and Rick were the light of his life as were grandchildren Shelli, Ross, Nate and Vinny. But his great-grandson, Gibson, was his "Big Buddy" and they shared many memories especially at the family cabin this past summer. These were days that Dad treasured the most. Imagine Mom and Dad traveling about in Sun City with a child's car seat loaded in their 4 Runner, chasing around a 3 year old, getting a high chair and senior discounts in the same visit at restaurants. Someone failed to tell this man that a mastery of skills took formal training and that acquiring top management positions in the US Postal Service required at least a high school education. So he got his GED to appease them, and proceeded to exceed all expectations. Dad was most proud of his 30 years of sobriety which he celebrated in May 2005. We were planning a "53-53" party in March to celebrate their 53 years of marriage which began in 1953. He is also survived by his brother, Milo. The time up north with Milo, and his niece Ona and her husband Tom were special days for Dad. There are many more nieces, nephews and extended family that he was "Big Dad" to as well. Kids were particularly drawn to Daddy, and his lap was never too full for one more. He magically always had a dollar for the kids and come to think of it, for adults too! It is impossible to begin to adequately share what this loss is to our family, and this world will never know another one like Big Dad. There will be a huge celebration of his life, and all are welcome. We will celebrate his 72 years of life, the 53 years he shared in marriage with Mom, and his 30 years of sobriety. We will laugh until we cry, and then laugh more to honor Dad. This is how he would have it. The family requests in lieu of flowers, that you make a donation in Dad's name, to the charity that would mean the most to you. Dad would request that we all live each day to the fullest, hold no grudges and have no regrets and to always love your family and cherish your friends. We are supporting the Annual Homeward Bound Diaper Drive, so feel free to bring packaged diapers or a cash donation to this celebration, if you are so inclined. The celebration of Dad's life will be on January 15th. RSVP to Cindy at 623 266-7008.

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Published by The Arizona Republic from Jan. 7 to Jan. 8, 2006.

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Cindy Leonard

January 1, 2021

Dearest Dad we wake on this New Year mourning the loss of your #1 son, your namesake, Bobby. I have no sense of how to sort it all out but I keep hearing your wise words that life is for the living, so we will persevere to do so. Mom's heartache is beyond measure yet she continues forward but this family is not the one you left. We need you to find order and lead us thru it all. This year has been a test for the world and all we can hope for is a better 2021. One Day At A Time. I love you and I miss you but each and everyday I continue to be guided thru challenges, equipped with the abundant wisdom of your treasured words. You always made me feel so loved, never doubting in me and am so grateful. I love you. #1 Daughter

June 22, 2017

My apologies for the belated greeting. Life gets busier each day but thoughts of what you and mom went through for all of us keeps me looking forward. Pet the kids for me and say hello to Harold. Love, Bobby.

June 18, 2017

Happy Father's Day Daddy. I've been at the cabin this past week after Tina and I brought Mom up the week before. The ebb and flow of this thing called life gets harder, your wise words, your powerful influence and kind love is missed in this family. Usually your words are always there for me, but it gets quieter each day. Humor and laughter to balance the struggle seems to lessens each day. This too pass is all I can say and I look forward to those words coming to fruition. Thank you for your unconditional dogmatic commitment to your family. LoveIAM

Cindy Leonard

October 11, 2016

Happy birthday Daddy! Mom and I spent the weekend at the cabin which flooded last winter. We were unpacking 300 boxes, and I'm happy to tell you that the cabin has new cabinets, new floors/baseboards, new paint, new toilets and new plumbing in those "boogered up" places. It will be all good to go by next summer. We will gather for dinner tonight to celebrate yours and Larry's birthdays. I miss you more than words can say. LoveIAM #1 Daughter

June 19, 2016

Happy Father's Day Daddy. Your #1 daughter misses you every day and is si grateful for your wisdom and strength that I draw on all the time. LoveIAM

June 19, 2016

Happy Fathers Day. How about that Great Grand Daughter of yours, Autumn? Seeing that baby makes me understand the feelings you and mom have for all our family. Times are starting to turn for the better, with the exception of politics. I love you and I miss you. Pet the kids for me and say hello to Harold. Bob Jr.

Shelli Davis

October 12, 2015

Sure do miss you Big Dad. Facebook popped up this memory post today. It's actually Calli's 16th birthday today. Chris is an amazing dad and she's super smart, beautiful, and talented.

G & I were hoping to get to the cabin this week but it may not work out as Aunt Peg passed away yesterday. Depends on the services plus

The love of your life is still as beautiful as ever. We're so blessed to have her and the love she shares.

LoveIAM - Bean Butt

Cindy Leonard

October 11, 2015

Happy birthday Daddy. I'm at the cabin with your bride enjoying those gorgeous Indian Summers in "Paradise" you built. Took Mom to Payson yesterday and she shopped until I dropped. I'm not buying how her feet hurt, she can go the distance further than anyone of us.

My life took a few twists and turns this spring, but landing on my feet with yet another home. This one I hope to keep, but it certainly pushes my retirement back a few years.

Gibson is tall, and tolerable as teenagers go. He'll be up at the cabin with Shelli and Mom later this week.

Hudsyn owns the world, that sums it up.

We are well, but never the same without you. There is not that same magic and certainty you so generously exuded. But I'm eternally grateful for all you provided and the unconditional love you gave to your family.

Kisses and neck hugs to you, and to Liam our Courageous Warrior of Love. We miss you both greatly. LoveIAM #1 Daughter

June 21, 2015

Happy Father's Day dearest Dad. There is not a day that goes by that I'm not quoting you or feeling equally happy and sad thinking of you. You gave so much to all your family, and many more, some that will never know you were the source of unexpected gifts and needs fulfilled. You always did so much so effortlessly that we find ourselves floundering to figure out where, how, what, when! We continue to be very blessed and pursue living life as you would, full of love, optimism, drive and passion - always family first. Thank you for being the most amazing father! I will always adore you. Sweet kisses and neck hugs to you. LoveIAM

June 21, 2015

Happy Fathers Day,Dad. Things are starting to turn for the better. Mom found a place by Tina and Tony and is very happy with it. I have a chance for a good job at the VA Hospital and am hopeful for full time employment. Any time someone comments on my work ethic I always give credit to you and Mom. Pam still treats me like a king and I treat her like a queen. I miss hearing your voice but I know your spirit is with us all, giving the guidance you always offered. Pet the kids for me, I love you, Bob Jr.

March 3, 2015

Happy Anniversary Dad and Mom. Daddy your bride has bought her 1st "doll house" and finally downsizing. She did this on her own terms and her own time because as you know (and we now know) she does not like to make a decision. Bobby is taking care of all of her "honey-do" lists and she will be less than a mile from Tina and Tony. We are hopeful she'll be in her new place before she heads to the cabin, but again on her OWN TIME! Gibson is taller than most of us, and a perfect, sweet and SMART young man. Hudsyn rules the world, just get out of her way. But she adores Gibson, and he is a wonderful cousin to Ms. Bossy Pants. She would have stolen your heart Daddy, I like to think she is a mini-me. We are all fighting the good fight, and hopefully making you proud always. I start every morning and again when I head to bed looking at yours and Liam's pictures. I miss you so. It gives us great comfort to know you both are "dinging around" heaven. LoveIAM - #1 daughter.

October 14, 2014

Happy birthday Dad. Sorry about the delay but things have been stressful of late. We're all trying to stick together and push on in this world and you would have us do . I love and miss you daily as situations confront us. Pet the kids for me, Bobby.

October 11, 2014

Happy birthday Daddy...we are celebrating yours and Larry's birthdays today. I attended a service today for Cathy and Lois' mom. It was said that as long as we remember, the loved ones we've lost will live on. You are remembered Daddy, each and everyday I feel your guidance, wisdom, passion for life and boundless humor. The cabin was locked down yesterday, and thanks to Mick, Chris and Callie they drove mom and her 2 baby dogs back to Sun City. Mom says this is the year she moves, we'll see...she is never one to make a quick decision as you all too well know! I'm hugging your neck Daddy, hanging on your arms, asking you to pick me up...always. LoveIAM - would love to know those adventures you're taking Liam on!

March 3, 2014

Happy Anniversary to you and Mom, the best partners, the best parents ever. You are thought of everyday Dad, and so many wonderful memories to cherish, but none as spectacular as knowing how much you loved your bride, our mother. Thank you for showing us all how to live fully each day on this earth with respect for the gift it is. LoveIAM - #1 Daugther

Bob Jr

June 16, 2013

Happy fathers day dad. We're all working to keep together and be supportive of each other as you and mom would have wanted. Times are still rough for some of us and I am ever thankful for everything you and mom did and still do for us and those we pass it along to.
Yesterday we had an event to assist Pam after her accident and even Mom attended. We were deeply touched by the attendance and generosity of those who participated and the words of kindness many expressed to Mom about Pam and I. As always I gave credit for the man I've become to the influence and support of you and Mom. When Pam thanked everyone for attending since she has no immediate family , excepting we Leonards , everyone shouted out that the biker community is her family .
I love you and miss you greatly dad, please pet the kids for me and know I am doing my best to be the son you and mom raised .

June 16, 2013

Happy Father's Day Daddy. You are missed but very much a part of our daily lives. So many times a day I think of you, have some treasured memory or stellar advice to get me thru challenges. I miss you more than can ever be expressed. Mom is amazing, as I told someone yesterday. She makes me so proud, living fearlessly independent and always there for all of us. I am never at a loss for how you were completely captivated by her. I hope we make you proud and you know how very much you are loved. I'm comforted knowing you have your arms wrapped tightly around Liam - our courageous warrior. LoveIAM Your #1 daughter - Cindy

March 3, 2013

Happy 60th anniversary Daddy! Your beautiful bride is the love our lives and we miss you so much. Thank you for how you love Mom, always making her first above all else. She enjoys the comforts you provided but not a moment goes by that she (we) all feel your presence. Your face would always light up when you she walked into the room. This is one of many cherished memories along with our gratitude that you knew what was important in life. LoveIAM - #1 Daughter

Bette

October 11, 2012

Happy Birthday to my love. I miss you so much, every day I see something that brings me a memory. I will bake you some brownies today, with lots of nuts, and will celebrate this day. I know you are watching over us, watching you Big Buddy grow up to be such a fine young man, and ...that Hudsyn!!! She would so have you wrapped around her finger. we all love you and miss you. Bette

October 10, 2011

Happy birthday Dad, and I apologize for my lack of contact recently. I am hustling to stay afloat and want to thank you and Mom for all your love and guidance.
The world is going to heck in a handbasket but we still love and support each other as you and Mom taught us to do.
I miss your laugh and your smile and hearing your voice, but I know you are present in all of us.
Thank you again for everything and Happy Birthday.
PS Pet the boy for me, love always Bob Jr.

Cindy Leonard

August 11, 2011

Hello Daddy. You are so missed everyday, you have no idea! Your bride continues to amaze us all. She truly is our ROCK. She has not yet landed at the cabin this year but a recent "girl's trip" up there sure wetted her whistle so I suspect it will be soon. So many times we all just need to talk with you and if I am very quiet and still I can usually get your messages that resonate thru me. Gibson is SO tall and he is so tight with Mom, they are the best of buddies. Hudsyn is a pistol, Ross has his hands full! I see your picture every morning and every night, and Liam's picture right there too. It is so comforting to know you have Liam held tightly in your arms. I miss you Daddy, I love you so much and I hope you know what a difference you made in this world! PS: We finally got Mom back to Seattle and great visits with Karen and Lee...wasn't sure we get her to come back to Phoenix! Oh, oh and Mom snuck away in the 4-Runner in the parking lot in Payson and left me and Tina standing there, it was TOO funny!! What great times our family has had. LoveIAM - Cindy #1 Daughter.

Heather Holman

June 22, 2009

Are angel faces silent and serene
Bent on the conflicts of this little scene,
Whose dreamlike efforts, whose unreal strife
Are but the preludes to a larger life ?

~Oliver Wendell Holmes

bob leonard

June 21, 2009

Happy Fathers' Day Dad,and what a year it has been. Living here reminds me that your influence is still with us today in the people we have become. All you and Mom provided and continue to provide is what gives us strength today. I love you and miss you, Bobby. PS pet the boy for me.

bob leonard

June 21, 2009

Happy Fathers' Day Dad, and what a year it has been. Living here reminds me so much of what shaped us all growing up, and how your influence is still with us today. I love you and miss you, Bobby. PS pet the boy for me.

June 21, 2009

Happy Fathers' Day Dad, and what a year it has been. Living here always reminds me of good times and great memories. You always were and always will be a source of peace and reason when we needed you. Thank you for all you provided and continue to give us all. I love you and miss you,Bobby
PS pet the boy for me.

Cindy Leonard

May 23, 2009

Hello Daddy. I am remembering the many years of Memorial Day parties in our family. That little house on Puget seemed magically able to accomodate one and all. You and Mom made such an amazing life for us all, and still do. We have the honor to support a food pantry at our new church...and they have bestowed it "Big Dad's Pantry" as you believed no one, especially children, should ever go to bed hungry.

09 has been a very difficult year. I take so much comfort in knowing that you have your big hands securely holding Liam; we miss him so much. You are giving Larry your love and support as you all watch over us. I bet Granny, Ma-Ma, Aunt Wilma and Aunt Rene are just eating up our angel baby Liam!

Bob, Tina, Rick and I are our usual rowdy and out of control brood. We are blessed to have been shown how to live, laugh and love!

Ross and Daradee are so amazing, brave and courageous. I know you are proud of them as we all are. They are quite the pillar of strength in their community.

Gibson has had an incredible year with Bill, Jo & Josh. He is most anxious to get up to the cabin and we hope Milo and Kay can join us.

Shelli seems to have found her niche and her co-workers truly love her.

Your bride gets prettier every day and keeps this family in tow. She is stunning, loving and so generous of her heart and spirit. She is a treasure to us all.

Daddy you are in my heart always and wisely guide me through my days at work. I miss you so much, this world truly is not the same without you.

LoveIAM - Cindy # 1 Daughter

Heather Holman

May 19, 2009

For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are asleep. ~1Thessalonians 4:15

I have my family in my prayers. I'm praying that you all find strength through Jesus Christ. I love you.

Bette Leonard

May 18, 2009

My Love, I know you welcomed Larry with open arms as you always did . You can now celebrate October 11 together again and remember other birthdays we celebrated together. I know you both will be watching over all of us as we continue with the daily challenges of life. As Rev. Michelle quoted Sunday, there is no need to fear challenges as they are a gift.
give our precious Liam kisses and hugs for all of us. I miss you every minute of every day and night. I'll be loving you, ALWAYS. LoveIAM, Bette

Ross Murray

January 22, 2009

Big Dad

I know you’re watching over us right now, I can feel your presence around us. Liam is a true “warrior” and is fighting for his life. I know he is at peace right now since your holding his hand through this tough time. You’d be so proud of his determination and stubbornness for life. I can see you in him; I can’t wait to get to know him.

We all miss you Big Dad but I know you’re with us everyday, we all say things you use to say, we do the things you use to do. You taught us how to work, love and live life. You taught us well.

Love and miss you


Ross, Daradee and Liam

Bette Leonard

January 21, 2009

My Love, we need your strength to help us right now, Sweet Precious Liam is having a "bump in the road to his recovery". send us the courage to face this day and the days ahead. He has your medallion on his crib watching over him, we know you will always be the firm foundation for this family. Missing you every minute of every day. as I always said....
I will love you always, Bette

Cindy Leonard

December 18, 2008

Daddy we are all missing you more than ever. Your family is facing some challenges but ever grateful for the foundation that you and Mom provided. As for me I listen to your voice and my heart is comforted with your strong presence in my life that I am so thankful for. You'll have a new great grandson any day now and we'll be sure he knows Big Dad. You will never be forgotton and you will always be loved. Merry Christmas Dad. Love ALWAYS, Cindy

Cindy # 1 Daughter Leonard

July 7, 2008

Hello Daddy. I've returned home after not enough days at the cabin, truly paradise. Mom and I had girl time with lots of laughs, movies, puzzles and eating! Uncle Mike is coming at the end of the month and we'll get busy on Gibson's (and our NEW grandbaby from Ross and Daradee...in January) fort and play house. Gibson is getting so big, and keeps us laughing, and gives us so much joy. I miss you Daddy although you are ALWAYS in my heart and mind, still giving me hugs and advice that I need. I can't wait to get back up to the cabin again! Thank you for providing such an amazing retreat for your family. I love you and miss you!

Bette

January 28, 2008

HELLO MY LOVE, I had Gibson with me all last week. we had so much fun . Did you see him riding the race car and saying "hey, you want a piece of me?" I could hear you laughing and telling every one about that. All your #1 children and their loves joined together at Durant's saturday night to celebrate Bob Jr,'s.birthday. we had a great time as we always do when we get together, we have a wonderful family as you know. we all miss you so much, including your "baby" Mitzie. I know you are watching over all of us. I'll be loving you always.

Bobby Leonard

January 26, 2008

Hello Dad, it's my birthday and we're all going to meet for dinner tonight and we'll all miss you.I am still amazed at your accomplishments and the fact that it wasn't about you.You were always concerned for those around you and how you could help them.Your passing truly left a void in so many lives that can only be filled by the memories of a man such as yourself.All my love,your no.1 son ,Bobby.PS, pet Colin for me.

Shelli & Gibson

October 11, 2007

Happy Birthday Big Dad! We just got back from visiting Daddy a little bit ago. It was sharing your birthday that sealed the deal for me :) I can still remember how surprised I was when he told me. Love always, Super Pooper (there, I'm brave, I'll admit it)

I love you Big Dad! Gibsonnnnnnnnnn

Cindy Leonard

October 10, 2007

Happy Birthday Daddy. Mom and Mitzi came down from the cabin but we'll all go back to close it up for the winter. Your family is taking care of each other, laughing, loving and living every day. We all miss you more than seems bearable at times but we honor your life, your legacy and your example hoping we make you proud. Gibson carries your picture in his wallet and your love in his heart. I love you very much Daddy. Your #1 daughter, big sister to your other #1 daugher, and #1 sons!

heather holman

April 20, 2007

Dearest bigdad: I remember how it was when you were here. I still miss you so much! My promise to you: I will be there for the next holiday gathering....and when we pray.

"The pale-faces speak about the Milky Way, but every Indian knows that that is the way to the Eternal Hunting-grounds."

Shelli

January 6, 2007

It's been difficult for me to find the right words to share here because there is so much to share. But I read something the other day in an article regarding self-motivation, one of those "techniques" articles. It talked about dreaming big and working towards your goals. The author referenced comments from Fred Astaire's first screen test. It read, "Can't sing...Can dance a little." Fred Astaire, for crying out loud! But he believed and that's what made it work. The same way Big Dad lived with belief. And it was his enthusiasm in engaging others in believing as well that made him so incredible. Belief in themselves, in life, in good. There's no other gift like it. Thank you Big Dad, I love you and miss you.

Bob Leonard

December 25, 2006

Merry Christmas Dad,I miss you.Thank you and Mom for giving us life,showing us love,teaching us what is important,and letting us have fun.I have been remembering how much fun you always had at Christmas.We were the focus of your love and kindness all these years,and are better people from all your and Moms examples.Hug Colin for me,your number 1 son, Bobby.

Karee Lansbery

December 19, 2006

"Big Dad" Life just isn't the same without you. Life goes on as you would want it to, but sometimes it is with a heavy heart. We will go on and greet each day with a smile, determined to do our best and give our best, just like you would have wanted. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you...til we meet again, God Bless. Love ya Karee

Eileen Rogers

October 14, 2006

Bob,
Your legacy lives on through the kids and moms at Homeward Bound! It is difficult to comprehend the difference that the gifts provided in your memory make. Beyond physical donations - they create hope for the families that are working so hard for better lives.
We're grateful to you, your family and very large circle of friends!

Bob Leonard

October 11, 2006

Happy birthday Dad.It's been a tough year for us all,I still think of things to ask you because you always had an answer.Now I have to try and think " what would Dad do ?".I hope I'm doing right but it would be so much easier to listen to your advice.I love you and I miss you,say hello to Colin for me,your Number One Son, Bobby.

Cindy Leonard

October 10, 2006

Daddy it is your birthday tomorrow so we'll spend time with your sweet bride and take your 4-Runner in for a good "post-summer" detail. We'll have dinner at one of your favorite places. We'll laugh, cry, cry some more and then get on with living in a way that will make you proud.

I heard a wonderful story about some of the donations made to Homeward Bound in your name. The money was used to provide healing services for 3 small boys whose mother bravely removed them from a very abusive situation. Mom is always buying diapers (using her coupons and rebates of course so she can buy even more!) to donate. She is a champion and saint for those in need.

Ross is planning the 2nd Annual Big Dad Scramble and will be promoting donations to Homeward Bound as well @ www.babydrive.org

The 4 of us went up to the cabin last weekend and buttoned it down for the winter. It was bitter-sweet but you would have been proud of your family. All the examples you set and how your lived your life for your family was not lost on us. Our hard little heads got the message! It does take all 4 of us to get anything done that you would have accomplished easier, faster and cheaper. Mom just graciously tolerates us while we do give it our best. :)

Gibson asks about you often. He slept every night at the cabin with the "Big Dad" towel that you uses to wrap him up in so tightly when he ran into your arms after his bath. He is a very special boy and spends alot of time with Mom. He will forever be your "Big Buddy" and you both are truly the Good Ol' Boys.

Mitzie claimed stake to the brand new Lazy-Boy Mom had bought you. She too "asks" for you. Mom is taking good care of your girl.

So Happy Birthday Daddy. We love you, and we miss you, and are so grateful to have blessed with such amazing parents. You are one-in-a-zillion!

Love you ALWAYS, Cindy

July 7, 2006

Big Dad. I think about you all the time! I think about the summers when you would drink iced tea from the most HUMONGOUS plastic cup in the world!! I miss you.

I was getting the mail the other day from the mailman. I asked him how he liked his job. I mentioned how my uncle had retired from the USPS, and he asked me his name. I said "Bob", and he knew who I was talking about immediately (I had no idea you were so famous). All at once, he went on to tell me story after story.....each memory of which he spoke was followed by a pause, and a smile.....(and then a laugh). You are still making people laugh and smile. You are truly a wonder!! My mailman didn't really look like he was having a good day until we spoke of you. He even walked away smiling! as did I.



XOXOXO

Cindy Leonard

June 14, 2006

Happy Father's Day Daddy. We will be together at Tina's on Sunday and we'll know you are there with us.



Your first born son celebrated his 50th Birthday. Your sweetheart got a valentine from us kids; a picture of you both with your words of love you wrote her in her year book. Your anniversary gift was "found" by Mom and your words of unconditional love for all of us is so very cherished. We had a surprise birthday for Mom, and many friends and family came because she is so loved. Easter, Mother's Day and your 31st AA Birthday have all been celebrated by us. But Daddy, as much as we try, it is just not the same. Only you have that magic that makes every minute of life special, that makes every person around you feel unique and wonderful. Only you.



I am sure the song by Keith Urban "Memories of Us" was sent to Mom by you. So many songs of love, but none fully portray how much I know you love her, and she loves you.



Gibson goes to "Big Dad's Park" and he asks if you are in Disneyland (are you?). We'll be at the cabin this summer and create cherished memories for him, as we all have of our childhood there.



I continue to be inspired and motivated because of you. I miss you more than I can bear sometimes, but I am your daughter, I will be strong and I will live this life, love my family and try to make you proud. I Love you and miss you so very MUCH!

Kandy Leath

March 20, 2006

So many memories will always be with me. Cindy was my best childhood friend and I have so many after school and week end memories of her Dad.

So much fun. Softball and eating hot dogs after school. I'll never forget. Love Kandy Madison Leath

March 12, 2006

March 12, 2006

bobby leonard

February 22, 2006

Thank you to all who remembered my Dad.It's taken me this long to gather my thoughts about Dad and write this.I've lost my best friend,mentor,and companion.Dad was always fun to be around even when there was work to do.I never had any doubts about his love even when I fouled up.

No matter if I was across the ocean across the country or even in jail he was always at the end of the phone,willing to help if I could just tell him how.

I do truly miss the ready access to his encouragement and guidance and lament for all who lost the friendship of this incomparable man.I love you and I miss you Dad.

Love always,#1 son,Bobby.

Sandra Lentz

February 11, 2006

Uncle Bob, my Uncle was a "TRIP". I'm writing this entry the day after my Mom, Aunt Wilma, passed away, 9 years ago. Memories are swirling in my head. I have several memories to share:

First, I want to thank Uncle Bob and Aunt Bette for all the help they gave Mom, Ona and myself when Dad was overseas in Greenland and Vietnam. Mom didn't drive and we never worried as Uncle Bob and Aunt Bette were just down the street and always there for us. Uncle Bob was a substitute Dad for me. Thank You and I Love You Both.



Uncle Bob had several names for me, Scrouge was his favorite. Shows I was always hanging the home on Puget Lane.



Memories of the trailer in Payson.

He took all of us kids in the back of a pickup with a primitive camper shell for a ride down Woods Canyon Lake Road. All the lights on the roof of the camper were broken from our heads smashing the top as he drove merrily along laughing his rear off.



His favorite story of me - mind you not mine. It was bed time at the trailer, we had been talking about bears and of course, I needed to use the outhouse. I had just made it to the outhouse and I believe Tina fell down the hill, bumping into the outhouse door. Needless to say, I had an accident all over myself. Uncle Bob had such a good time kidding me about it and laughing at me. As a 10-12yr old girl I was mortified.



Uncle Bob you are loved. Your niece -Sandy

Karee Lansbery

February 6, 2006

I dedicate this poem in memory of "Big Dad" Bob Leonard.



It's so hard

to say

goodbye,

and even harder

to let go



All this pain

and

loneliness

has become a

giant void



But time is a

great

healer,

turning pain into

precious memories.



Karee Lansbery

Mary Maxson

February 4, 2006

I met Bob and Betty through their daughter, Cindy about 10 years ago. Bob was always making you feel like one of the family and wanting to help out anyway he could with never any thought of a return payment. I had just purchased a home and began a conversation about the possibility of removing a wall between my kitchen and living room. Cindy mentioned that Bob had the type of saw required to do such a job. So Bob and son, Bobby, came over because they said I could use the saw, but instead they proceeded to take the wall down themselves. I now have a beautiful open area in my home. As a result, I will always have my memory of Bob Leonard "close to home". Bob you were a wonderful gentleman who will be missed by many.

heather holman

January 18, 2006

My unle Bob was always kidding. I knew if he wasn't when his eyes locked with mine with a seriousness that would not let me look away. I wrote this in memory of him:



Storm(in time of fear)



What would you do

if the fiercest wind blew

and then took out your world with one breath?



You could deny

but consider to try

and make a new life from this death.



If you insist to deny

and refuse to comply

you are willing your heart to grow cold



Then you are left only to run

with a burdening ton,

one in which gives you nothing to hold.



If this storm ever returns to my sky I know not to worry, and for you this is why:



Tomorrow when the sky appears clear, calm, and blue

Let it be a reminder:

Embrace what is most dear to you.







by heather holman

anna anderson

January 17, 2006

I will always remember the summer vacations spent at my Uncle Bob's and Aunt Bette's house. They always made sure that I had a good time when I was there.

The one summer I remember the most, was when we went up to the trailer in Payson. I had got into some wine while I was there, and I kept hitting my head on the top bunk everytime I tried to get up. Uncle Bob would then laugh at me and give me a hard time, and the best part was he never told my parents what I did. :) Also, I remember driving around in the old dune buggy with my Cuz Bobby at the wheel and having such a blast.

I know my children always rememebered Great Uncle Bob and his magic money, and the laughter that always followed him.

We all will miss him very much!! Anna,Ron and kids

Cindy Leonard

January 16, 2006

I know in my heart of hearts, that Daddy very much enjoyed the reuniting of family and friends at the celebration of his life. He was probably never more proud of his beautiful bride and partner in life, Mom, as well as all of his children.



Our family thanks ALL of you for your support and outpouring of love. The lifetime sponsorship from our friends at Scottsdale Children's Group of this guestbook is such a wonderful gift for our family. All the diapers, and money for Homeward Bound, as well as the many other donations made in Dad's name, speaks volumes about the kind of people we are blessed to have in our lives.



A special acknowledgement to Craig Wade who traveled from Washington just for the day. Craig's eloquently spoken words truly captured the essence of Daddy, and was such a concise tribute to this giant of a man. Thank you Craig, we hope you will stay in touch with us.



We are eternally grateful to everyone for all the calls, cards, flowers, donations and mostly for sharing YOUR memories of Daddy with us.

Stephanie Pharris

January 16, 2006

I've known Bob as "Uncle Bob" my whole life. My grandmother, Wilma Ann, was his sister and he was my mother's (Sandy) favorite uncle. Bob was always the most kind man with the very best sense of humor. When my granmother passed away 10 years ago, it was very hard for me because she and I were VERY close and her death was the first death that I had ever had to deal with. I remember being terrified and upset at her funeral services and wondering how I was going to get through it. I was sitting in a chair at the back of the funeral parlor and Bob sat down next to me. He was the only person who talked about her and told me funny stories about her and kept me laughing throughout the whole ordeal. I am so very grateful to have his caring humor to get me through that time. That is truly a moment that I will always remember, cherish, and appreciate from "Uncle Bob"

Karee Lansbery

January 14, 2006

I met Bob about six years ago through his daughter Cindy. The moment I caught the twinkle in his eye, and felt the warmth of true friendship in his handshake I knew that this was no ordinary man. He had a way of making you feel right at home; as thought you had been friends forever even if you had just met.



"Big Dad", as everyone called him had a heart the size of the Grand Canyon and it radiated out onto everyone he knew and loved. He had a way of making you feel special. His gift of friendship always left me with a smile on my face, and a chuckle in my heart.



I know he must have been a GREAT fisherman, because there were many times that he hooked me with one of his tall tales and practical jokes. I think the thing that I will always remember about "Big Dad" is his smile and great sense of humor. I will miss him.

Roy & Cindi Burrell

January 14, 2006

No matter where you go, you will never run into another Bob Leonard. Always in a good mood and always had that off the wall quick wit. We will surely miss him

Claudia & Danny Gayhart

January 14, 2006

You run across a guy like Bob only a few times in your life. He was a genuine, personable guy with a love of life and family and friends. We'll miss his witty and sometimes dry sense of humor. He was a guy who could pull off a joke with a straight face and then look at you like you were off your rocker when you fell on the floor laughing.



Bette, you and Bob have only been our friends for a few short years, but it was an instant friendship. Our prayers are with you at this very difficult time.

Ross Murray

January 12, 2006

Thank you mom for doing such a wonderful job during this difficult time. You would make Big Dad proud.

Love,

Ross

Shelli Davis

January 12, 2006

Thank you to our friends at SCG for contributing such an awesome gift! It is so nice to have an easily accessible site for family and friends to continue sharing thoughts about Big Dad.

Bob Johsnon

January 12, 2006

I had the honor of being Bob Leonard’s neighbor in Forest Lakes for the last 13 years. Bob, Betty and their entire family are the kind of neighbors that everyone wants yet today seem to seldom have.



In the summers when Bob and Betty were there for the season, they would look after my place as I was just a Forest Lakes weekender or a “flatlander” as we sometimes joked about. When something didn’t appear quite right or a strange car was in my driveway Bob would investigate and insure everything was on the up and up. I really appreciated this and it made it easier to leave the cabin for extended periods of time. I would try to return the favor in the wintertime when the Leonard’s were away.



Bob always made a point to say hi and ask how things were going taking a genuine interest in projects and events in my life. Not all of them easy topics but he always managed to listen, give support and give advice that was spot on. He would always remember and ask even if months had past. He was authentic.



There were many weekends I would spend at the cabin by myself working on a project and Bob and Betty would invite me to eat with them or offer to help me load stuff up when heading to the valley. There were many times Bob would give me a hand with something but this one time while mixing and pouring a slab of concrete Bob just showed up with a shovel and started mixing concrete for me. He must have had intuition because that mixer was kicking my butt that day. Or maybe he wanted some peace and quiet because that concrete mixer does sound like a giant rock tumbler, which it is.



That’s just the kind of man he was. He’d give you the shirt off his back and what was his is yours. I’ve got a key that hangs in cabin that unlocks Bob’s tool shed that he gave me one day saying “you might need something in there someday”. Even though I like to think I am very prepared, he was right. I needed something in there more than once.



Bob Leonard was a good man, one that I am proud to have known. Everyone wants a neighbor like that. Bob, I will miss you as my neighbor and as my friend.

Bill & Jennifer Jefferson

January 10, 2006

Bob was our dear & close friend. Bob,Bette,Jen and I would get together for dinner and to play cards and we always had a wonderful time. Bob was a great person to bounce ideas off of, and he never judged your decisions, he only supported them. He was a loyal and true friend. He also, was my tennis buddy till his knee gave out, and we had many hilarious and fun tennis matches. We enjoyed going up to the cabin and spending a week or so with them. We caused Bob a little extra work cutting tree branches so we could get our motorhome down the driveway. We did shame him into installing a 30amp service because we kept blowing out his washer and dryer circuit. Bette was always such a cheerful, accommodating hostess. Our thoughts are with her at this time.

Kenneth Schoentag

January 10, 2006

Bob you will be missed. You were a one of kind boss and it was my good fortune to work for you. Bob promoted me to Postmaster in Kent Washington in 1987 and he was a demanding but fair boss. He always encouraged those that worked for him to do the best possible job and not make excuses. Bob always remembered where he came from and he instilled that into those that worked for him. Bob used to tell us we needed to take a r&p day (run & play) every now and then and enjoy life so I am sure Bob is now enjoying his R&P days unti we see him again.

Michael Turner

January 8, 2006

Bob,



I will miss your smile and constant stories and jokes. I know you will be missed by your family and friends.



Bob was my boss in his executive management position in the Postal Service here in Seattle. He promoted me to a Postmaster position and was always challenging me and my fellow pms to do the very best in our jobs serving our customers, keeping our employees involved and doing their best, but also having fun in doing our jobs.



Bob was tough to work for because he didn't accept excuses, but he would listen to reasons a person was having problems. He would allow you time to inprove your situation if you could provide him a plan to cause improvements. He always had a story to tell and could keep you in good spirits.



He would often use himself as the butt of a joke or story. He wasn't above making fun of himself. He was a great guy.



I'm sure he is now telling stories and jokes to a new group and keeping them laughing too!



Bob will truly be missed.

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