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Ruben Estrella "Blackie" Baldenegro

Ruben Baldenegro Obituary

Ruben "Blackie" Estrella Baldenegro, a lifelong resident of Chandler, Arizona went to be with our Lord on October 14, 2005 at the age of 72. He was born on May 28, 1933 in Chandler, Arizona. Ruben was the assistant golf pro for San Marcos Country Club for more than 20 years. He broke (and held the record for many years) the amateur record for the par 72-hole course with a score of 64 with a back nine score of 28 which has never been broken! Ruben also worked for over a decade at Chandler-Gilbert College, where he creatively landscaped the campus with beautiful flowers, including his favorite, roses. Ruben was instrumental in scholarship fundraising for the college by using his BBQ talents. He will be remembered for his warm smile, generous heart, and great golfing talents. His parents, Manuel F. Baldenegro and Joaquina Estrella Baldenegro, precede him in death Ruben is survived by his children, Sylviann (Carl) Johnson, Eddie (Kim) Baldenegro, and Sallie (Rick) Edwards, as well as, his former wife and the mother of his children, Connie Meraz. Ruben also leaves behind eight grandchildren, Nikki (Hugo), Drey, Casy, Kevynn, Isaiah, Brandon, Taylor, Austen and three great- grandchildren, Isabelle, Isaac, and Bianca. Ruben will also be greatly missed by his brothers, Jesse, David, Ray, Manuel, John, Henry, and Alex Baldenegro. Rosary will be held at Bueler Mortuary, 14 W. Hulet Dr Chandler, Az., Thursday, October 20 at 7 PM with visitation from 6-8 PM. Funeral services will be held at St. Mary's Catholic Church, 230 W. Galveston St. in Chandler on Friday, October 21 at 10 AM.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Oct. 16, 2005.

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Taylor Baldenegro

June 14, 2010

Dear Tata,
You have been gone for 4 1/2 years now, i can't even believe how long it has been..I go on everyday thinking about you, there isn't one second that i live that you aren't on my mind. I really miss you, and i wish that i could bring you back but that won't happen..My brother just graduated&I really wished that you would be there for it but you weren't. Also, mine is next year but i know you will be watching me from heaven. I remember all of the good memories we had together like sitting down on the floor with my big purple pillow eating sunflower seeds watching t.v. those were the good times.. Well, someday i will be up there in Heaven with you..
I love you Tata
P.S. watch over me, you are the GREATEST

Love Always,
Taylor Baldenegro

Dad made the best fajitas ever!

June 7, 2007

Chandler-Gilbert Community College Fundraiser

June 7, 2007

Good times hitting balls with Tata

June 7, 2007

Dad coaching Austen onhis golf swing

June 7, 2007

Chandler-Gilbert Community College Fundraiser

June 7, 2007

Connie Meraz

June 6, 2007

Ruben your Birthday has come and gone, we remembered you all day, like everyday, Ruben, you left a vacant spot in our hearts but you did not leave us, you took part of us with you, we continue to miss you, and we will meet again someday, the kids can't get over you, Bianca thinks you are in church and she thinks that that is where heaven is, and you continue to be Austen's favorite tata, love chelo

naomi jean johnson

October 25, 2006

A loving note of remembrance to all of the family who love
Ruben, and to friends as we all recall him today and always. Naomi

Connie Meraz

October 17, 2006

Ruben it has been a year, that you have been gone, and the pain does not get any less, it is so painful to watch my kids and grandkids and knowing that you are not here to see them grow, I watch Brandon play and wish so bad that you were there to see him. life is so unfair, my feeling get hurt so easy, sometimes I wish it should have been me instead of you. We think of you every day and it does not get any easier. We miss you dearly

Kimberly Baldnegro

October 15, 2006

Dad,
We think of you every day and remember the way that you touched each and everyone one of us in such a positive and wonderful way. We miss you so much. We love you.
Love,
Kim

kimberly Baldenegro

June 18, 2006

Happy Father's Day Dad! We miss you so much. You are always in our thoughts and prayers.

Love,

Kim

kimberly baldenegro

March 24, 2006

Dad we continue to miss you and think of you everyday. I see all of the flowers starting to bloom and they remind me of you and your special gift of growing such beautiful roses. Know that we love you so very much and rejoice in the fact that we will be with you again in Paradise one day.

Love,

Kim

Kimberly Baldenegro

December 14, 2005

It's been 2 months Dad, and it's still hard to believe that you won't come walking through the door again. I will miss your help making the tamales and other goodies for the holidays. I think of you each day and remember all of the thoughtful things you did. I hope you know how much you were appreciated and loved. I miss you very much.

Kim

naomi and larry johnson

November 18, 2005

Dear Ruben......it is hard to believe that you are not down in Chandler tonight with family or friends having a good time. It is hard to be separated for now, but you left them and all your friends many happy memories. When we had our best conversation, I think of the family gathering a few years ago. It was at the clubhouse near Kim and Eddies other home. Your Mom and Connie's Mom were both there... you were your usual smiling self, and when we talked, you were so excited that your Mom had cooked a special dish that was a favorite of mine.....I was so honored..and it was so special. Everyone was very happy at the celebration, and you and I had a good talk. Please know that Larry and I remember the kind, smiling friend named Ruben, a man we will never forget. Goodbye for now, Naomi and Larry

connie meraz

November 15, 2005

You have been gone one month, and it seems like only yesterday you were here. you left an empty spot in everyones heart, they miss you a lot and wish you were here. my kids loved you so very much. I am trying to make things better, but you can't be replaced. we will meet someday. sneakies are still being sneakies.

Sylviann JOHNSON

November 14, 2005

It's hard to believe Dad has been gone one month. Casy and I went to Seattle on the bus last week, I cried because Dad and I took our yearly bus trip to Seattle every August for the last 20 years. I am thankful for all the memories I have of spending time with Dad. Though I know he's in a wonderful place-Heaven, I wish he was still here with us. I miss him.

Sylviann

Kim Baldenegro

November 14, 2005

Dad,

It's been one month today since you left us, but seems like much more. We feel empty without you, and are having difficulty adjusting... I miss your smile and your little faces that you always made. They made me laugh. I am so happy that you are part of my life, forever. I will see you again someday.

Love,

Kim

Eddie Baldenegro

October 26, 2005

Dad some of my best summers were spent hanging around San Marcos with you. Even when I look back today, it just seems like yesterday, you were out practicing like no tommorow. Although you never had to say I love you, I could tell by your actions that we had a special relationship. You never pushed me in to something I never wanted to do, but yet you were always supportive. I can only hope that I can be as good to my kids as you were to all of us. Your the first true close person that I have lost, and the pain I feel each day is difficult. I am glad that you spent the time that you did with me, and my family. My kids, wife and myself will miss you dearly. I hope the golf club that was burried with you is one that you can use! If your mad, please be mad at Sylvia as she is the one that picked it out. I would have sent you your favorite putter. Anyways dad, I look forward to meeting with you again some day. We will always be thinking of you. And don't worry I will keep the two Sneakies in line.



Love your Son (Eddie)

Ciera Olea

October 20, 2005

Tay, Sorry to hear about your Tata. Luv ya.

Tiffany, Gabe, Zach, and Ciera Olea

October 20, 2005

Eddie, Kim, Bran, and Tay sorry to hear about your Dad/Tata. I know how special he was to all of you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your extended family. Our sincere condolences.

Juanita and Joe Guardiola

October 20, 2005

Eddie,Kim,Brandon and Taylor. (Pinky)Sally,Rick,Austen and Connie, our deepest sympathy. You guy's have alway's been very good to our family, and welcomed us into your's when we couldn't be with ours. Thank you for that, Ruben is in a far greater place. One day you'll meet again. Till then he will be greatly missed. We also give are sympathy to your extended family. Your friend's alway's Juanita, Joe, Joe jr., Jackie and jonathan Guardiola

DAD AND BIANCA

October 19, 2005

Julie Baldenegro-Lopez

October 19, 2005

My prayers are with you all. I know my dad (Ray) will deeply miss Ruben, I know they were pretty close. I hope the memories of Ruben will help console all who are mourning. God Bless. Love Julie

Nikki Mijares

October 18, 2005

Dad- I love you more than you could ever know. You were my "Dad" when I didn't have one and still my Dad even when I did. I will always hold the most special place in my heart for you. I will remind my children of you when they can't remember anymore. Memories of cooking on the grill and how you loved those baked beans. Memories of how you used to call Isabelle "tiny bubbles", Isaac "sponge head" and when Bianca was a tiny baby , how you called her little kitty cat. And my favorite memory of how you would pay me a quarter for every gray hair I could find & as the years went on & the # of gray hairs grew, that quarter would turn to a dime then a knickel then finally a penny. You were the sweetest grandfather anyone could have asked for, but more importantly the best Dad I'll ever have. I love you, Dad. Rest in peace

MOM, NIKKI & DAD LAST NEW YEARS DAY

October 18, 2005

Mary Ramos

October 18, 2005

My deepest sympathy to all the family. I will always remember Ruben. My prayers are with you all.

denise ramos

October 18, 2005

Please Know that you are all in my thoughts and my prayers.

Rick Edwards

October 18, 2005

We will miss you; over the past four years that Ruben lived with us he had become an integral part of our lives; our home will never be the same. I found it very satisfying and rewarding to have gotten to know my father-in–law. Having lived with us aloud him and my son to develop a special bond. I feel very fortunate that my son and his Tata became so close, there will always be a little part of Ruben in my son and I thank him for that. I used to watch them play for hours and no matter what the (kid) wanted to do Ruben always said yes, I would get jealous at times watching how close they became over the years but when you saw how happy they were together it made it all worth it. Once again thanks Ruben for being there for my son you will be missed.

VERA ORTIZ

October 18, 2005

Dear family,

My Thoughts and prayers are with all

of you.Ruben was a nice person he was always part of the family.

The roses won't be the same without you

October 17, 2005

Jose Velazquez

October 17, 2005

Don Ruben, We will always miss you and wont forget the times you spent with HSO in th fajita days at CGCC. The thing we will always remember will be your smile even during those hard times we gave you during the fajita sales and you never lost it, Im sure you are now smiling in heaven to all your loved ones. Our deepest condolences to all the family and love ones. You have taken a step further than us but one day we will meet again in the glory of God.

Irene Pearl

October 17, 2005

My heartfelt sympathy to the family. Ruben was so kind and loving, he was my buddy. I enjoyed working with him.

Renee Richards

October 16, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I wish I could be there in person. I hope you find comfort in the loving memories you have of your father and grandfather.

Espie & Ralph Ramirez

October 16, 2005

With our deepest sympathy for the loss of your father. We will keep him in our prayers. Hope he meets Nana Concha and tells her we miss her.

Eileen & Bob Hackler

October 16, 2005

We had many great years as friends, and people called us the three amigos.Our summers on the deck and those tequila nights will never be forgotten Amigo. Blondie

I think you played your last round of golf with me, and I consider that an honor. Your swing was still golden, even if your scoring was higher than normal. I played cards and dominos with you and soon found out that you were unbeatable, because you could count every point or card and knew where those points were. I always looked forward to your yearly visit, now I'll look forward to playing golf in heaven with you. I'll bet those courses will be beyond belief. Everyone has to make that journey from this life to the next life, and I rejoice in knowing you are with God. Thanks for sharing part of your life with me. BOB

connie meraz

October 16, 2005

Ruben, I loved you dearly, and will always miss you and all the happy times that we shared, it was the most painful moment of my life to see you go. I am thankful for our three kids, that were there for you every minute of your final days, their hearts are broken, but you thought them to be strong, and they will go on with a lot of wonderful memories, I took the back sit to you cause my kids and and family loved you so much but I would not change that for anything. how rewarding when in your final hours you said I was number one, you will always be number one in my heart, my most sincerest condolences to sylvia, eddie pinky, kim, nikki, hugo, rick and carl, brandon, taylor, casey, drey, kevyn andrea, issiah, issac, isabel, bianca, and your very special boy austen, God Bless you and give you strength, and your dad loved you more than life, he tried to be strong for you but he could not do it anymore, he is in a better place love you lots mom

Carl,Sylviann Johnson and family

October 16, 2005

We will miss our dad and grampa very much.

Kimberly, Eddie, Brandon, and Taylor Baldenegro

October 16, 2005

We will be with you again someday Dad(Tata). We love you so very much.

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