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Mr. T. Dennis Barney

T. Barney Obituary

Leave condolences for the family of T. Dennis Barney, a Valley developer and philanthropic leader.

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Published by The Arizona Republic from Jan. 5 to Jan. 15, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for T. Barney

239 Entries

Kent Gardiner

January 30, 2014

Dennis Barney or Elder Barney served in the British South Mission with me. I learned quickly to love the man because he was so kind and thoughtful. He made the mission fun even though we worked hard. I remember him with great fondness

Susan LaGanke

June 17, 2009

Dear Barney Family,
Dennis was truly a kind and generous person. I only worked for Dennis a short time but have the utmost respect for him and what he has done for the Gilbert community. His vision of what Gilbert "could be" is now a reality for all of us to enjoy every day. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Lindsay Shaw

February 12, 2009

Sister Barney,

I did not know you but I knew Nedra she is in my stake Relief Society and her parents are in the same ward as mine in New Mexico. I feel your loss and sorrow. The day before Brother Barney passed away I lost my own mother to a heart attack. I have visited the singles wards several times and always felt the love he had for us. Though the times of loneliness and sorrow that our families will face I know that our Heavenly Father loves us. May the Lord bless you and your family during this trying time.

Phillip & Barbara Hale

February 7, 2009

1. http://memoriesoftalmagedennisbarney.blogspot.com/

Friday 5 February 2008

Oh Ann,
Darin Nielson emailed us about Dennis. The wonderful video you prepared was very comforting, and though our time with him was not long we join you in grieving and needed comforting.
I remember back in 1965 when I opened the front door of our big, cold, old Victorian house in England and saw Elder Barney and his companion on the porch; I thought, “Now why did they send a cowboy to England?” Which goes to show how little we understand the mind and will of the Lord. We came to know Elder Barney for pure gold, and the work he did as a missionary in England is still bearing fruit.
He and his companion lived with us for a time, and what a blessing that was – at least for us. We loved hearing about their investigators and having some of them over for dinner. I did not take offense at his pulling the bottle of Tabasco Sauce out of his breast pocket and spraying it on whatever I was serving for dinner. I knew he treated all his hostesses the same. Barneyisms are still part of our vocabulary, like “ever so ta.”
I was so impressed to know that he had earned the money for his mission himself. He credited his father, though, and I’ll never forget the story he told of going with his dad to buy a new tractor. He watched as his dad payed for it in cash. They were feeling jubilant on the way home, but when Dennis rolled down the car window and threw out his empty pop bottle, his dad slammed on the brakes, threw the car into reverse, and made Dennis get out and pick it up. “That bottle’s worth two cents!”
I taught the adult Sunday school class in Addlestone Branch. One Sunday, wanting the class members to think about how they would want to be remembered, I invited them to write their own obituary. I think I still have Elder Barney’s at home in my box of remembrance, but I don’t need the copy to remember what he said: after his mission he wanted to go home to Arizona, marry Ann and raise a great big family unto the Lord.
How we’ve loved getting your family picture every Christmas and watching his dreams coming true. And with so much zest and style! You were always at the center of his dreams, Ann, and I have no doubt that in his spare time up above he is preparing another and an everlasting and an eternal mansion for you and yours.
Meanwhile we pray the Lord may comfort you continually.
We send our love,
Elder Felipe y Hermana Barbarita Hale
El Templo Villahermosa, Mexico

Tara Mabry

January 20, 2009

Dear Barney Family.
We love you all so much. We will continue to pray for your comfort and peace. Thank you, each of you for the examples and friendship to us. Your Dad was amazing. We will never forget his kindness and love to us, and for his amazing generosity to our family. You all have an AMAZING guardian angel watching over you. We love and appreciate all you do.

Pam Hoffer

January 18, 2009

I met Dennis Barney only 1 time. My friend, Judy Brown, arranged the meeting. At the time, I was going through a painful divorce & felt afraid of my soon to be ex-husband. He talked with me 1 afternoon & offered me his help to get my things moved out of my apartment so that I would feel safe. His encouraging words helped me to feel stronger & to continue on with the difficult process of closing that chapter of my life. Many people helped me through that time, but I was always touched by his kindness b/c he didn't know me but was willing to help someone in need. It is a "Kindness of Strangers" story that I have told again & again in the last 13 years. I am honored that I had that 1 chance to meet him & am deeply sorry for the loss for everyone. You are in my thoughts & prayers.

Julie Skousen-Lucchesi

January 17, 2009

Dennis Barney was adn will always be an amazing man. He truly set such a good example for everyone to follow. Him and his wife have raised a great family who are just as good as he was and will always carry on his good name. I am blessed to have known him and have been influenced by him.

Brianna Matar

January 17, 2009

I thought I would write this still even though it is so late to write anything on here. I wanted to before and didnt get the chance. I would like to say how amazing President Barney was to my life. He really was an example to me and also my family. My mother has known him since she was a young girl and even to her he was always a great example. He really knew how to be a Child of God and follow His promptings for us on earth. He was a great church leader no doubt. I will miss his smiling face everytime in church when I pass by him and he says hello. I remember just this summer going up to the Barney's Ranch and being up there for girls camp. He was such a giving person to our Young Women in our ward and Always had a smiling face along with it. He would always ask how my family is doing and how life is going for me. I always knew that I felt special around him even though I didnt get to know him as well as some others. I love him very dearly and I will miss him. I know that he is in a better place with our Heavenly Father. Love you President Barney. :).

With Love,
Brianna Matar (age 14 Lindsay Ward Young Women)

Gregory Allen

January 16, 2009

Dear Ann and Family:
On the day of the funeral, I got there at 7:30 and by 9:30 the Val Vista Stake Center was filled for a service starting at 11:00. I had the previlege of working with Dennis, Brent Gardner and George Peterson in the Lindsay Ward Bishopric. There were over 140 young men and women in the ward that Dennis Barney had a major influence on. Over 60 young men and women made the decision to go on a mission. Dennis made sure they were prepared to go on their mission or they didn't go. Many times we would be at meetings or out to eat and he would receive a call or make a call to check on a young man or woman that he was working with. Dennis had that special quality that he related to young and old. Everyone new he wanted them to succeed and each of us thought we were his best friend.
Dennis was the best person that I have met on this earth and I would do anything for him. It doesn't matter if you were at church or in business, he was the same. I have met many good people, but none that inspired you to be a better person like Dennis did by just watching him.
Once we took our teachers and priests on a Super Activity to Moab, Utah. Dennis had bought a cot to sleep on. The first night, it broke and he didn't get any sleep. Dennis wouldn't let me go back to town for a air mattress, but instead slept the next three nights sleeping sitting up in the front seat of the surburban. I think it was preparation for a long church meeting. Dennis was always there for the youth and they knew it.
On this same trip, we went whitewater rafting down a portion of the Little Colorado River. The river ended up being prettty mild and so the rafts on the river got into a large water fight. I kept Dennis and I just out of reach of the others. One boat of people from England wanted to participate, but didn't want to get their expensive cameras wet. They ask Dennis if he would hold their cameras and he proceeded to take the cameras and put them in a dry bag. One lady thanked him and then completely out of character, he threw two five gallon buckets of water on the entire boat. They never got us on the river, but Dennis and I got paid back on land when we were loading the boats.
All my stories and experiences with Dennis were the best and I will miss him like no other. We were truly blessed for knowing him.

john & ann walsf

January 15, 2009

dennis your heart was as big as a mountain. i can still see you riding bye on that big horse. you were the best neighbor we ever had, always offering help when something hit the fan. ann and family our prayers are with you.

Debie & Bob Fultz & family

January 14, 2009

Ann & family,
Our thoughts & prayers go out to you at this time. Dennis was a wonderful, kind, and extremely gererous man that truly will be missed. Your families business put a lot of food on our table and you will never be forgotten.
With loving memories,

Rafael Aguilar

January 13, 2009

Dear barney's

may god bless you Barneys family!
Dennis was a great man and help me out through all the years that i known him. MY prayers go with you. Due to the fact of me being uot of town i wasnt able to attend the funeral but my love and prayers were with you that day. He will be miss and remeber always!

With Love The Aguilar family.

Dave Lingenfelter

January 13, 2009

It's been many years since I've spoken to Dennis, that would be back when I coached Darin in soccer, but he never failed to wave as he went by the house. He had a way of making you feel like a life long friend.

I cherish our friendship. My best to you always - Alan Moore

Alan Moore

January 13, 2009

A very inspiring funeral service yesterday. I'm glad I was able to attend and honor you, my good friends Dennis and Ann Barney. As was mentioned in the remarks, its hard to imagine life without Dennis. We will always have our good memories. I can still hear his voice saying "Howdy" to me. We love you and will pray for the whole family.

Dorothy Ray Shupe

January 13, 2009

Ann,

What a wonderful husband you have. Always thinking of everyone else first. The only memories I have of Denny are good ones. I remember as a child growing up in the same ward I always thought of him as the Jolly Green Giant because he was always tall and always happy. I was just the little sister to his friend but he never treated me like that. He always had a smile for me.

May his wonderful memories encircle you until the two of you can be together again for eternity.

Love,

Dorothy Ray Shupe

January 13, 2009

Michael and Melisa Pomeroy

January 12, 2009

Ann and family,
We just want you to know we were glad we could make it today to honor Dennis's life. Michael has so many fond memories of growing up with you , and he was so honored that you mentioned the story about the horse trough; yet so glad you didn't say names! We will NEVER forget the day Dennis, Edwin and Shannon came to Tucson to give our son, Kyle, a blessing! They went out of their way to take time out of a busy schedule for us when they didn't have to. That shows the kind of people you are--family comes first...no matter what!!! You always have a way of making us feel welcome and comfortable! We wish we could spend more time with all of you. You are such a strong, loving, and wonderful family! We hope you will visit us the next time you come to Show Low. We do believe Kyle is still here because he was blessed by wonderful people like you!
Love to all of you in this difficult journey!
Michael, Melissa, Haley, and Kyle Pomeroy

Elizabeth & Max Koepnick

January 12, 2009

My sympathy goes out to the Barney Family. May God Bless your Family during this loss of such a loving individual. I know he will be missed.

Dana and Michele Walton

January 12, 2009

Dear Ann,
It is difficult to conceive that Dennis could be gone. How sweet is our memory of sharing a few moments with you recently during your trip to Salt Lake. He truly is a gentle giant that has left an incredible legacy of family, love, hard work and service. His funeral was a visual representation of his spiritual beliefs as each child expressed what Dennis taught them about the Savior and shared experiences of how he exemplified those beliefs. What an incredible and eternal family you are.
Our love and prayers are with you during this time of great loss. May you feel him close around you always.
Sincerely,
Dana and Michele Walton

Brent and Dina Gardner

January 12, 2009

I served in the bishopric as one of Dennis' counselors when Dina and I lived in the Lindsay ward. Early one morning (2:00AM), Dennis called me at home and said, "What are you doing?" "I was sleeping, thanks for asking." He told me he had just received a phone call from a man claiming to be a member of our ward. The man said he was at one of the casinos on the reservation and he needed some help from his bishop. Dennis said to me, "I'm coming over to pick you up, and bring your gun." I was a Police Officer at that time. I got dressed, concealed weapon and all. Dennis and I then drove to the casino where we recognized a man standing out front. He had actually attended our ward the week before, and was definately not a member of our ward. I sat in the back seat behind this man who smelt like a brewery! The man was a smooth talker. I laughed as I watched Dennis look at this man with a "Yeah right" look on his face as the guy told us his 'story'. Dennis encouraged the man to clean up his life and get back into the church. We took him to a hotel where Dennis paid for a room and handed him a twenty dollar bill. Dennis told him he could use the money to buy a meal. The man claimed it wasn't enough for a tip and all. Dennis started to pull out more money. I stood behind the guy and shook my head "NO". As we sat in front of my house, later that morning, we talked about God's children. We laughed together and felt good about what had just happened. That early morning, Dennis taught me simple yet correct gospel principles. Whenever I read the Sermon on the Mount, I think of Dennis. I am reminded of how I watched him exhibit Christ's teachings of love and compassion on many occasions. What a great, great man!

Kaitlyn Williams

January 12, 2009

Brother Dennis Barney was like a second father to me! I spend more time at the Barney house than my own home. I was always so welcome and felt to comfortable in their home! Dennis was the greatest example to me and his example has helped strengthen my testimony! I am so grateful to have spent so much time with the Barney family and to love them all! My last memory of Brother Barney was the friday before his passing my friends and I knelt in their home with Lindsey, Ann, and Dennis for family prayer and Brother Barney hugged each of us and told us he loved us! I will always remember Dennis and his great example! I am so grateful to have had him in my life!

Nivla Hatch

January 12, 2009

Ann and Family,
Thank you for the beautiful Graduation Program for Dennis! It was a spiritual feast. We thank you for the book-mark and for your tender example of an Eternal Family.

Candace Robinson

January 12, 2009

Dear Ann and family:
May you find comfort and peace from the many memories and words shared in this memior. Dennis was a pillar to so many and loved by all. During your time of healing may you remember the love, compassion, service, friendship that he gave so freely to all of us. May we remember his example, strength, Love for God and his never ending service be our guide through out all our days! He certainly is one of a kind! May you be blessed in this difficult time. Our prayers are with you.
--Gently on our minds,

Candace, Cory, Kip, Karly (David) Robinson (Lindsay Ward -1987-1992)

Joni Lang

January 12, 2009

Dear Ann and Family,

What a beautiful tribute to your husband, father, and grandfather today. What an amazing man who has touched so many lives. Thank you for the bookmarks with such a beautiful message. In honor of Dennis, I now hope to "live my life while I am still alive".
Our prayers will continue to be with you.

Mary Ann Easterwood, Mother of Kimberly Lester

January 12, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Emily Yungfleisch

January 12, 2009

My love to all of you,
He will be greatly missed. I always thought of him as "the gentle giant." His stature was great with a heart to match. I'm grateful to have known him. What a legacy of faith. My prayer for you...Carry on, Carry on, Carry on!

January 12, 2009

Dear Ann and family,
We were so saddened to hear of Dennis's passing last Monday.
When we think of him we remember how humble he was, how kind, how hard-working, how forgiving, how magnanimous in giving his time here to uplift and help others.
He cherished his children and was so proud of them; we can just see him hugging them on his lap.
We can only imagine how busy he is right now on the other side--doing much of the same things he did here. We would love to see the loving embrace he will receive from the Savior; he was so much like him; "he went about doing good."
Today is his funeral--how we wish we could be there. Be assured you are in our thoughts and prayers.
May the Lord bless and comfort you, Ann. We love you!

Steve and Jane Harward
Springville, Utah
(But always from Gilbert in our hearts.)

Wayne & Elaine Hills

January 12, 2009

Dear Barney Family,
A Kind and Loving Friend will be enormously missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Karen Finlinson

January 12, 2009

Richard and LaVon Finlinson

January 12, 2009

A side trip to the Temple for a few of the Finlinson's

January 12, 2009

After Karen's Memorial Service in Mesa

January 12, 2009

Eric & Karen Finlinson Savage

January 12, 2009

Love- The Richard & LaVon Finlinson Family

January 12, 2009

Robert Ballard

January 12, 2009

I am saddened by the loss of Dennis. I found him to be a shining star of business ethics and a charming person to know. I would never fail to come to his request...His image of what a business person and a personality should be was the guidebook for us all to live our lives ...Goodby my friend...you'll never be forgotten by me! I expect his children will continue his legacy....

Chris & Jacque Mosley

January 12, 2009

Dear Ann and Family,

We were saddened when we heard the news last Monday. Our lives are better by being in Dennis and your presence. Our thoughts and prayers are forever with you and your family.
Our memories are long, but not long enough.

Brad and Kimberly Lester

January 12, 2009

This is for Dennis, from our family, written by Brad:

STANDING ON THE SHOULDERS OF GIANTS

"Standing on the Shoulders of Giants
gives me a giant view,
and opens up a world of things
that I would like to do.
A helping hand to others
is a wonderful place to start.
It helps me feel the great big love
inside a Giants heart.
A kind word and a smile
may at first not seem like much,
but they leave the huge impression
of a Giants loving touch.
And when the day is done
and your time together is through,
My greatest wish is that I can be
A Giant Just Like You."

All of our love, Brad and Kimberly Lester Family

Amber & Dallin Payne

January 12, 2009

Bishop Barney: truly the most humble, gracious, loving, understanding, Christ-like example a man could be. We loved his BIG teddy bear hugs. We will miss him tremendously. Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. Thank you, Dennis for a life that blessed millions with the light of Christ.

Brad Gietz

January 12, 2009

God will always remember his heart! And his love for other people! Thank you!

David and Jan Jarvis

January 11, 2009

Dear Barney Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you.
Every Jarvis Family in Mesa

John and Rita Phillips

January 11, 2009

Dear Ann and Family,
Dennis was a great man whose ability to show love, generosity, integrity, and compassion to others set him apart. He was our home teacher along with Darin, Bryan, then Justin, for at least twelve years. He never missed (not even once) and while teaching and caring for our family, he taught his sons how to be a great home teacher. He made everyone feel as if they were the most important person in the whole world. His example gives us all something to strive for. We feel so blessed to have counted you and Dennis as friends. Please accept our heartfelt thoughts and prayers.

Bizzy Darger Esplin

January 11, 2009

I am very sorry for the death of your husband, father and grandfather. I was privileged to be in your home in October for DeAnn's open house. When Dennis saw us, he got out of the line and came directly over to make us feel welcomed and appreciated. After so many years of being away, it was wonderful to see all of you again and to have had one last visit and hug from such a great man. I am praying for your family that you will be at peace and supported during this difficult time.

January 11, 2009

We extend our love and sympathy to you and your family at this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

We always loved hearing Bro. Barney speak in our Lakeside Ward when he was on the High Council.

Sincerely,

Evans and Sylvia Heywood

Kennedy (Burke) Nicoll

January 11, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Barney Family. I am so sorry for your tremendous loss. Your husband, father and grandfather was and is such a wonderful example to everyone that knew and loved him. When we lose someone that is such a huge part of our lives the void is enormous. Please find peace in the wonderful promises of the Plan of Salvation.

Gary Phair

January 11, 2009

We just remember Dennis Barney as a very gracious, kind, and loving friend. He was always interested and concerned about others. All of our love, the Gary and Sherry Phair family.

Greg Phair

January 11, 2009

I have a lot of wonderful memories from Mesa 30th Ward when he was my priest quorum advisor. I remember him riding his horse when we were on a 50 mile hike. He loved his horses as well as everyone else. He was such a kind and loving man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mary & John Sentz

January 11, 2009

We wish to express our deepest sympathies to the Barney family on your loss. He contributed greatly to the Town of Gilbert for which we are all grateful. He will be missed!

Don Skousen

January 11, 2009

Very few individuals if any, will leave the legacy of service,accomplishment, and love to their fellowmen as will Dennis Barney.
To the family just know how much he loved and was loved.
Now pick up the Barney Torch and continue to live the way you know he would want to live.
With fond memories and shared sorrow.

Blake Clarkson

January 11, 2009

Darin, Megan & Barney Family,
We wanted to send our sincerest sympathies to you at this time. We feel honored to have known your dad, such an amazing man in so many ways. May the knowledge of our Savior's plan bring you comfort in this diffiuclt time.
Love,
Blake & Jen Clarkson

Meghan Roussel

January 11, 2009

I've known him since before I can remember he was a beloved Bishop, neighbor and friend. I'll never forget all the loved that he shared with my family and I. He let us hang out at his ranch house, hosted daddy daughter activities and always knew how to make anyone smile. I love the Barney Family so much and am very grateful for him and for them. You all have taught me so much by your examples and the light of Christ that you hold in your hearts. Thank you for sharing this wonderful man with us he has touched more lives then I think he even knew:) I love you, you all are in my prayers.

Howard and Becky Craig

January 11, 2009

To Ann and the family we wish to extend our sympathy and prayers. Dennis was a wonderful man and he will be missed by all who knew him. May God be with you and comfort you.

Paul V. Scoville

January 11, 2009

Dennis always was very kind to me, when ever I saw him at Church He always came up to me and shook my hand asking how I was doing and to see how everything was going. This earth has lost a great and wonderful Man, the Heavens have gained a loving and kind servant of the Lord. May the Lords choicest blessing be upon the Barney family as they are parted for a time from their father, companion, Grandfather and bestfriend. I was always be grateful I had the privledge of knowing T. Dennis Barney.

Preston and Hillary Stapley

January 11, 2009

It is no secret what a wonderful man Dennis Barney is although many of his acts where unknown. Dennis was my bishop when I left for my mission and almost everytime we would run into each other since, he would lovingly remind of a nice letter he received from my mission president. I'm sure he received hundreds of letters for others as well yet he took the time to remember specifics about people and like many others have said he always made you fill loved. Thank you Barney Family for your friendship and love towards myself and the Stapley Family. We wish to add our voice to the many others of the affect Dennis had on us as a friend, church leader, and example.

Preston and Hillary Stapley

January 11, 2009

It is no secret what a wonderful man Dennis Barney is although many of his acts where unknown. Dennis was my bishop when I left for my mission and almost everytime we would run into each other since he would lovingly remind of a nice letter he received from my mission president. I'm sure he received hundreds of letters for others as well yet he took the time to remember specifics about people and like many others have said he always made you fill loved. Thank you Barney Family for your friendship and love towards myself and the Stapley Family. We wish to add our voice to the many others of the affect Dennis had on us as a friend, church leader, and example.

Ryan and Tiffany Fish

January 11, 2009

Dennis Barney exemplified everything good in life. He was a wonderful man and left the world a much better place than he found it. We love you Barney Family and hope you will feel our thoughts and prayers.

LISA ALANDT

January 11, 2009

TO THE FAMILY I GIVE MY SYMPATHY.HE WAS A GREAT MAN AND FATHER

Ronald (the barber) Lepianka

January 11, 2009

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Your Influence Lives On In Everyone You Touched

Mark Christensen

January 11, 2009

Barney Family,
I am just one of many who were touched by the heart of T. Dennis Barney...I seemed to always bump into him in local Gilbert restaurants! Just a few weeks ago Dennis, Ann and I were the last guests to grab a quick meal at Pei Wei..we had the whole place to ourselves! Then again last Friday we enjoyed seeing a beaming Grandpa Barney holding an infant Grand daughter in his arms as he came and showed her off and said hello to us before their family left Brio Tuscan Grille. Whether it was out in the community, at church or enjoying time out together with his family, he always came and said hello and made time for me!

We will miss his positive spirit and generous heart and I am most happy to know that I will see him once again...until then, everyone that really knew Dennis will continue to feel his wonderful influence!

Thoughts and Prayers to the entire Barney family.

The Mark Christensen Family

We are going to miss our grandpa. We love him so much

January 11, 2009

January 10, 2009

Ben Hatch

January 10, 2009

I am a relative of Dennis (Delcie's grandson). I live in Utah, so I didn't know him personally, but he sounds like an incredible man. He certainly accomplished a lot! I know he will be missed.

Amy (Huso) Varney

January 10, 2009

We love and honor our Unlce Dennis in this family BLOG. Please visit and share your memories with us if you can. We love and appreciate you all. Thank you for your love and support.
www.memoriesoftalmagedennis
barney.blogspot.com

Whitney Trythall

January 10, 2009

Barney Family,
We feel very fortunate to be able to say that we knew your husband, father, and grandfather. He truly was a great man! Although we may have only known him for a number of years, we still felt of his love each time we were able to see him. I remember meeting your family at the time of Gregory and Stacy's wedding. I immediately felt so comfortable, it was like we had been friends for years. Your father always wore a smile and we feel so blessed to have known and your family. We are thinking of you at this time. We Love You,
The Trythall Family Steve, Whitney and Jack

Lani Remender

January 10, 2009

Dear Ann and Family,
I spent as much time in Aunt Clarene and Uncle Talmage's house as I did in my own during my teenage years. I watched Dennis (Denny to me then) grow to manhood. I don't remember ever seeing him lose his temper or complain no matter what task he was given. He was a leader even in the days when we were picking cockleburrs, hoeing weeds in the cotton rows, or setting aluminum tubes in the irrigation rows. His example made it difficult to slack off; he applied himself with determination and always set a good example. I'm sure that his attitude about work and duty never changed. He became a great leader and was always a good friend.
My father, Dennis' unlce, also died at 62, and I know the shock that Dennis' children feel. The pain subsides, but a great father leaves a hole in your heart that only the beautiful memories of your time together can fill. So many of us loved Dennis. He will be missed immensely.
My love to you all,
Lani Robson Remender

Stephen W Jackson

January 10, 2009

In March of 1980, my wife and I with our four children traveled to Mesa prior to moving from out of state. Dennis and Ann had previously offered to let us stay at their home while we searched for a house to purchase. It was on a Sunday afternoon that we pulled up to their home, they came out to greet us in that famous Barney fashion and as Dennis and I followed our wives and children toward the house, he calmly mentioned that his father, Talmage, had quietly passed away just hours earlier. I tried to turn the family around and insist that we could get a motel, the last thing they needed at a time like that was to have the burden of six extra houseguests. But Dennis, and Ann, wouldn’t hear of it. We were practically wrestled into their home, given our own room, and treated with graciousness and warmth befitting royalty. On Tuesday evening we sat down to a wonderful steak dinner that Ann prepared; and boy did Dennis ever enjoy a big juicy steak prepared with his Dad’s famous rattlesnake BBQ sauce. I glanced at Dennis’ plate to see if his steak was at least as big as mine….but - it was empty. He was to speak at his father’s funeral the next day and was fasting. He didn’t want to mention to anyone what he was doing and was actually concerned that if he didn’t sit at the table with his guests that he might in some way make others feels uncomfortable. Dennis’ jovial spirit and warmth carried the conversation that evening, and as I recall Ann didn’t need more than a small wash cloth to clean-up Dennis’ drool (…not really). That kind of unassuming selflessness and genuine empathy for others was characteristic of Dennis Barney throughout his entire life.
The late LDS Church President David O. McKay once remarked the he never met a person who wasn’t his superior in something. That idea seemed to define the way Dennis lived. In our current era of self-absorbed glitter and “bling,” he always saw through whatever facades his contemporaries put up to hide insecurities and shortcomings. Instead he had the insight and discernment to see whatever good qualities another possessed, and remind us of our worth and potential, while at the same time humbly learning from each one something that he could use to further perfect himself. For someone so accomplished and multi-talented, I don’t believe I’ve ever known anyone as teachable as Dennis. He learned something from even the most lowly of us. His monetary gifts to charities, community, and individuals may have been magnanimous and many, but perhaps the greatest gift of all was his genuine and compassionate ability to help each of us believe in ourselves. No matter what our station in life, or what actions may have brought us there, he could readily remind us of those hidden talents in ourselves that we had either forgotten about, or just neglected for too long. Through his selfless and unassuming nature he gave us inspiration and belief that we could live up to the best that is within us. After his death, it was said of Abraham Lincoln: “How feverishly ambitious men compete for nameless graves; while now and then some starveling of fate forgets himself into immortality.” All of the things that Dennis was, he worked earnestly to instill in others. In the words of another great and influential man; “I gave it, and gave it, and gave it, until it was mine”. That was the anthem of Dennis’ life. For my family, and especially myself, Dennis’ legacy will forever be one of hope and faith, and gratitude for having known one of humankinds rare individuals.
Steve and Artha Jackson

Regina Nelson-Key

January 10, 2009

My deepest sympathy goes out to your family. I went to high school with Deann and I have many fond and happy memories of you and your family that I will always cherish.

Crystal para

January 10, 2009

Dearest Ann and family,
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Dennis will be in our hearts always.
Crystal Para and family

Phil and Mary Woody

January 10, 2009

Dear Barney family, We are thinking of you and are thankful for your friendship.It is true Dennis treated everone like a life long friend. I'll never forget our time togeather in Utah taking our sons to the MTC and after Justins 11am drop off you waited until we came at 1pm just to take pictures of us walking in. With love the Woodys

scott hon

January 10, 2009

some of my fondest memories as a child was going out to talmage barney home at 2:00 in the morning and with my father and brothers, helping sauce the steaks that they prepared for the residents of their community. the sauce was a special recipe that i still have not tasted since. dennis and family were out there working along side us.
my next most favorite, was a couple of years ago at the interfaith banquet when dennis gave an award to the anderson family. the attmospher thru the banquet was nice and cordial with awards to many who had contibuted to special service that others had given. but, while dennis was talking, he brought the love of christ in the room that no one else did. i felt the spirit there and believe everyone there felt it also. that strengthened my testimony of god and i reflect on that experience again and again. i haven't been close to the barney family in a lot of years but i can say for my family (the don hon family) and i, that dennis will be missed but we look forward to a blessed reunion in the next life.

Louis and Chris Docter

January 9, 2009

Honesty, Integrity, Patience, Kindness...In these, Dennis had no equal.

Finn and Jennifer Jensen

January 9, 2009

Dear Barney Family,
How blessed we were to know your husband and father. What an amazing man he was. Only knowing him a short time, since Greg and Stacy have been married, we feel so blessed to have shared his company. He made us feel like we had known him forever! What a kind and gentle man he was. How lucky Greg is to have had him as an example in his life. Our thoughts and prayers are with you! With love, The Jensen Family Finn, Jennifer, Max, Abby, Sam and Kate

Mark and Betty Sutliff

January 9, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

Kimberly Smith

January 9, 2009

Dearest Ann,
I grieve with you and your family over the loss of Dennis. He was an extraordinary person, an example to us all. Bishop Barney saw me through the darkest days of my life. It was his unconditional love and compassion that carried my family after the loss of our daughter. It was his wisdom and patience that helped me understand and accept her loss. It was thru his strong faith and committment that my own faith was renewed. His passing is great loss to all of us still living but be assured that all of those who have gone before are rejoicing at his home coming.
All my love
Kimberly, Jonathon, & Kaleb Smith

Marv Turley

January 9, 2009

Dennis was one of this world's genuinely nice people. He was always kind to everyone he encountered, no matter their status in life. Although he was very successful in business and his financial affairs early in life he always made everyone around him feel equal and important. We have always enjoyed our association with him and Ann and feel so deeply for Ann and the families loss. We know how great your loss is and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marv and Janis Turley

Wayne and Gail Snow

January 9, 2009

Ann and family, We were so sorry to hear of Dennis's passing. Our thoughts and prayers ar with you at this time. Love, Wayne and Gail Snow

The Edgar Family

January 9, 2009

Our condolences to the Barney family. We are so thankful to have known Dennis and experienced his great kindness.

Heather Fullmer

January 9, 2009

Dear Elder Barney --
Just wanted you to know that you have so many up here in Alaska who are thinking of you and praying for you and your family at this time. You were a great missionary and I'm sure your dad was so very proud of you. I'm glad he was able to come up and share some of your mission with you. We love you!
Love, The Palmer Alaska Fishhook Ward

Stan Barker

January 9, 2009

Ann & Family,
Our heartfelt sypmathy goes out to you and your family. We have been gone from Mesa for a long time, but the time spent working with Dennis and at your home will always be remembered fondly. We are often fondly reminded of you and Dennis through my brother Glade and his wife Gail.

I (Stan) have always looked at Dennis as an icon. Now that I have read the accounts of some of the things he has done since we moved it stirs my heart to try to be a better man. I hope that when I pass over, I can meet with a hearty welcome from my mortal father, as I'm sure Dennis has and hear "Well done thou good and faithful servant, enter into my rest," from my Eternal Father. May God bless and comfort you and your family, from our family.
(Stan & Susan Barker & family)

Ryan and Julie Duncan

January 9, 2009

Our condolences to the Barney Family. Dennis was the best example of what to strive for both personally and professionally in life. He will be very missed.

Ryan and Julie Duncan

Kent and Lynne Christopher

January 9, 2009

Ann and family
We're so sorry to hear about Dennis' passing. Although we haven't seen much of each other since high school, I can't help but keep track of the Barney family during all these years and hear of all the good that you both have brought into the world. We're so grateful for the knowledge of the eternities and that someday we can spend time with Dennis, you, and your family again. May the Lord bless you with peace in the days to come.

Clyde and Marty Dillon

January 8, 2009

We will pray for your family. God bless you all and we are thankful that families are forever.

April Harrison

January 8, 2009

Ann,
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. You and Dennis have contributed so much to so many lives, as well as ours. Much love from the Fagergren and Walton families.

Amy Peterson

January 8, 2009

We are saddened at your loss, and all of you are in our thoughts and prayers. What a great man, father, grandfather, leader and example Dennis has been and always will be.
Shawn and Amy (Zimmerman) Peterson and family

Alan Turley

January 8, 2009

I think Dennis and I became acquainted at about the 4th Grade in Mesa. We played saxophone in the Mesa High Band, and graduated in 1964. Dennis encouraged me to open an Architectural firm after I became registered, and assisted me to purchase my first office condo to house that operation. I can honestly say I never have heard anyone who knew or worked with Dennis who didn't have the absolute highest regard for his personal integrity and sense of fair play in all aspects of his life. If I had to pick a word most describing Dennis, it might be "integrity". His loss is not only immense to his immediate and extended family, but to everyone who knew him in any aspect of life. My kindest thoughts and prayers go to Ann and their children, their spouses and grandchildren. As family members, you each have had an opportunity to be a part of the life of an exemplary individual. I feel a great sense of personal loss, but I am sure those closer to their family are affected far more. I extend my love and condolence at this time of Dennis' passing.

Linda and Gerald Williams

January 8, 2009

Dennis always had a sincere greeting and a warm handshake. I really appreciated his wisdom in business and in church affairs. We will sincerely miss him.

Edward Casper

January 8, 2009

One of the true joys of my life was serving with Dennis on the board of the Arizona Interfaith Movement. He was one of the finest people I've ever known. I will miss him very much. My best to his family. You're all in my thoughts and prayers.

Floyd and Jean Stapley

January 8, 2009

In 1952 I started working with and for Dennis' father,Talmage and worked for him for 10 years. During that time I had the priviledge of spending time wth Talmage's children. I learned to love Sue Ann, Dennis, Kathy and Jeannie. The Barney Family will always be in my memoriy of some of the outstanding moments in my live. A few years ago one of my grandsons was married. Dennis and his family opened their home for their reception. What a special time in my life to be able to spend some time remonising some of the good times past. We have always had, and still do, have very fond memoriies of the Barney family.
Floyd and Jean Stapley Family (Pinedale, Arizona

Bret & Kathy Hon

January 8, 2009

I was a benefactor of Dennis’ friendship at a young age, as I was his “Lawn Executor” (I mowed his lawn as a youngster). I’m sure he could have had a lawn business come in and do the work, but he taught me to take pride in what I did. I'm grateful for the association of this great man as he now continues his great work on the other side. I can say that my family was greatly blessed by his association. I tried to think of one word to describe Dennis and that would be that he was "charitable". His presence will be missed, but his influence and that great smile will always be with us.

Rulon Gardner

January 8, 2009

I don't think that words can express the loose that the Barney family is feeling. Knowing Dennis and hearing all the great stories about him and his family made me wonder how could I be a better man. Dennis supported me on following my dreams to make it to the Olympics. He was one of the first people who told me I could. He was there with me when I won the Gold in Sydney Olympics. Dennis was with me in my journey. I hope the Barney Family knows all the sadness and all the prayers that are have gone out to Dennis and the Family.
Thanks for being such a great example for us all and you will be in all our memories. I know Kade is blessed to be in such a great family, God Bless the Dennis Barney Family.
Your friend always
Rulon Gardner
2000 Olympic champ

Delbert Davis MHS 64

January 8, 2009

Our prayers go out to your entire family and all who knew and loved Dennis. This is heart wrenching and the pain is unimaginable and unquantifiable. We always looked to Dennis as the ultimate example of defying the odds with strength, courage and hope in the face of life’s adversities. Dennis we loved you and will miss you until the rivers run still and the four winds we know blow away.

Vanna Guszak

January 8, 2009

Jason, Traci and Barney family, we are sorry to hear of your loss. We were blessed to have known such a caring and loving man. Our love and prayers go out to you all.
Ray, Vanna, Christina and Jessica Guszak

Rivon Ray Woolf

January 8, 2009

Dear Ann and Family,
Growing up with the "Jolly Green Giant" was terrific. The Barney's have always been part of my life. My prayers and sympathies go out to you at this difficult time.

Sande and David Wiggs

January 8, 2009

Ann and Family -
I worked with Dennis for more than four years at Val Vista Lakes and Circle G Ranches. He was a great boss and an innovative real estate developer as well as my friend. Our sympathies to you at this difficult time.

Kay Gift

January 8, 2009

Dear Barney Family,
What a great honor to have known Dennis Barney---our family was enriched by knowing him. Thank you Barney Family for sharing him with all of us...Gift Family

TJ & Katie Zaharis

January 8, 2009

Barney Family,
Thank you for sharing your amazing Husband and Father with so many of us! He was a great visionary and example. I'll never forget hoping over an irrigation ditch to listen to him tell my family about his vision for the original Circle G. No matter how long it had been he always remembered you and greeted with a warm smile and handshake. May the Lord bless you all during this time.

Jim & Michelle LeCheminant

January 8, 2009

Ann & Family,

Our love, prayers and sympathy go to you at this time. T. Dennis was a great example to us for all these years. We loved and admired him.

Richard West

January 8, 2009

Dear Barney Family, I want to send our condolences and sympathies to you for the loss of Dennis. He was an outstanding person and representative of his church and businesses. Over the past 20 years of knowing Dennis as a business collegue, fellow board member and, occassionally, competitor for deals he was always fair-minded, thoughtful and a valuable associate. I know he is happily watching over you all as he always has. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rick West

David Ray

January 8, 2009

Dear Ann and Family,
To have been a part of the Barney Family as long I can remember has truly been an honor. Denny will be missed by many people here on this Earth. His love for all is second to none, I love your family deeply.

Chanara Astle

January 8, 2009

Aunt Ann and the rest of the Barney family, I am blessed to have had Dennis as my uncle. From horseback rides up at the ranch to the many Christmas parties and of cores the hugs (whenever you greeted him you could always expect a great big bear hug!) we have had some great memories that I will cherish forever. He was truly one of the greatest people I have ever known and he lived a full and amazing life. He touched so many people's lives and always supported me. Knowing him has definitely affected my life in so many ways. He will be very missed by so many but he will never be forgotten. I love you guys

Love,
Chanara

Elton Ray

January 8, 2009

Dear Ann and family;
My prayers go out to.
We will miss the jolly green giant.
Elton

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