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W.J. Bethancourt Obituary

Bethancourt, W. J. "Joe" III
bid farewell to the mortal side of this realm on August 28th, 2014. He is survived by his wife of 33 years, his children, grandchildren, sister and extended family plus scores of fans who followed him for years as a musician, known locally and internationally. Joe was a man of immense talent, having mastered over 65 stringed instruments, ranging from the traditional banjo and guitar to historic Appalachian mouth bow, to the historical Celtic Harp and Cittern. He was masterful at playing numerous musical styles including Blue Grass, Folk, Celtic, Middle-eastern, Filk, Medieval, Baroque and traditional Western. In 2013 after a lifetime of achievement, Joe was inducted into the Arizona Music and Entertainment Hall of Fame. He had been a musician in the Phoenix area since the coffee house days of the 1960's (learning banjo at age 9) and was talented enough to play with musicians like John Denver, Carol King, Jimi Hendrix, the Nitty Gritty Dirt Band, The Dillards, Doc Watson, Ricky Skaggs and the Moody Blues to name just a few. Popular country music singer Lynn Anderson called him a genius in the 2007 issue of "Western Way" magazine and his recordings are now on file at the University of East Tennessee's Appalachian Archives Folklore collection. Joe was active in the local music scene, having played at Funny Fellows Restaurant for more than 15 years. He was a regular guest of the iconic Wallace and Ladmo Show and an Artist in Residence for the Arizona Commission on the Arts where he taught and entertained countless Arizona children through that program. In addition to being an extraordinary musician, he actively participated in historical reenactment groups, including the 9th Cavalry Buffalo Soldiers and the Single Action Shooter Society. He was a founding member of the Society for Creative Anachronism in Arizona (SCA) Of his personality, one thing can be sure; there were many sides to Joe. Often zany, sometimes serious, but never anything short of purely entertaining. He could bring an ear to ear smile to your face with a ridiculously short song about a murdered frog, gales of laughter with songs like "Sunshine on My Shoulders Makes Me Sweaty" or bring mistiness to our eyes with a tender ballad sung sweetly to the gentle background of his Celtic harp. The softer, more serious side became beautifully clear when he sang "The Rose" or a dedication to "The Redhead". To his grandchildren, he has been "Papa", a teller of stories and someone who always made them laugh. To his family and closest friends, he will always just simply be Joe. To his longstanding and loyal fans, he will be the iconic minstrel extraordinaire. To all of us, he will always be a legend in his own time and one that will live on through his music for many years to come. A private memorial service will be held for immediate family. In lieu of flowers, to commemorate his love of Greyhounds, please make donations through Paypal @ GPA-AZ.com or to GPA-AZ; PO Box 2365; Glendale, AZ 85311-2365.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Sep. 3, 2014.

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Viki Thompson

December 3, 2024

I knew you for a very long time. You protected me. You sang at my wedding. I will always love you. I'm very happy your life came full round. Still love you. I hope you are one of my guardian angels

Kristina Efimenko

November 5, 2018

I just wrote a long memory, but I think it was lost. So, I will summarize: I met Joe sometime in 1965-66. Maybe I met him while he was playing with Society for Creative Anachronisms. I think it was on the field of Phoenix Country Day School. I invited him to a party at my home right next door along with members of a drama class I was taking in summer school there at PCDS. I then adked him to perform at a session of Phoenix International Folk Dancers, of which I was a member.I saw his amazing ability. Another interesting thing to me was that he could not speak without stuttering, yet he could sing with such special talent. I wish I would have kept in touch over the years. I wish I could meet his family, any of them.
Kristina Efimenko

Bill Howell

July 2, 2015

Joe,
My mentor, friend and co-conspirator.
I would not be the adult I am today without your taking me under your wing during my college days, and I am saddened that I was never able to thank you for it.
I hope you take pause entertaining the angels with bawdy verse to hear my heartfelt thanks that we met, and my gratitude for all you did for me.

Tommie Lou Rogers

January 24, 2015

Every time I see or hear something Joe would like, I reach for the phone or the laptop and then, like a ton of bricks, it hits me that he isn't there anymore. The missing him and the pain that goes with it are still fresh. He was a one in a million kind of person. A friend like Joe is very hard to find and even harder to lose.

John Craig

January 19, 2015

I started listening to Joe in 1973 at the "Rear End Room".One night,after his show,he jump-started my car when I had a dead battery.I love that guy.Vaya con Dios,Joe.

Iain Sherwood

October 25, 2014

I first met Joe at the old Blue Goat in Scottsdale in November, 1968, and attended the first SCA revel on New Year's Eve that year. We were good friends for many years; when I moved to California in 1990 we lost touch, but we reconnected on the internet several years ago. I always admired his musicianship and knowledge; we even did a couple of Wallace and Ladmo shows together to promote the Highland Games in the 80s. I'm sorry we were never able to reconnect physically, and now we never will.

Fair winds and following seas, my friend; may your journey forth be ever enlightening....

Steve Morrell

September 25, 2014

I knew Joe for 37 years, both in and out of the SCA. I had a great respect for him, his amazing musical talent, and his wide range of knowledge. I enjoyed many conversations discussing with him a topic very close to both of our hearts -- heraldry, and I learned much from him. I'll truly miss him. He and his loved ones are in my prayers.

September 21, 2014

Kelly Reed

September 16, 2014

My first memory of you is you saying "I demand my right!" and then
you played a song.
A fan from afar.

Kirsten Houseknecht

September 14, 2014

like ripples in a pool of water, i know your music and your life touched a lot of people you never met in person. We spoke so often online that its easy to forget we never did get to meet up at one of the conventions or events. Now i have to wait until we get to that big one ....
i miss you, and your Cds still bring a smile....

September 13, 2014

I have very fond memories of him singing at court but one memory that sticks with me about Joe, there is a song that he sang that is one of my favorites, celtic circle dance and i got hear him sing that song with those other verses that he did not include on his cd. I felt so privileged to hear them! You will be missed Brother!

Wendi and Sheila Iserman

September 13, 2014

Goodnight to a distant friend. May your journey to the next land be peaceful. May G_d bless and keep you, and watch over your loved ones.

September 13, 2014

This bard's tongue is mute. Not much I can say except thank you for that last visit under the hanging purple flowers, watching the hummingbirds flit around. Gonna miss folk-geeking with you a lot.
43 years was a long time to have a friend: I am truly blessed.
TSivia

Sharon Bradford

September 12, 2014

It has taken me some time to get to the point that I wanted to write something in this book.

Joe - you were always and inspiration and mentor for me. I miss you on levels few understand. I will always be grateful you accepted me with open arms and open heart into your family. I still think of you every day and will be eternally proud of you and your accomplishments. Thank you for everything...everything! Love you papa

The Marine

Sandy Caywood

September 11, 2014

I'll miss you a great deal Unka Joe. Hope to run into you when I go behind that final curtain.

Tommie Lou Rogers

September 10, 2014

Joe was a dear friend and mentor. There are no words for how much I will miss him. My life is much richer for the 30 years we were friends. He made the world a better place. Good bye my dear friend, hope to see you on the other side.

Tom Tuerff

September 9, 2014

Joe, you were an inspiration to me before I met you and an immediate pal from that moment on. I will miss our discussions on instruments and folk songs and kidding each other at festivals and shared gigs. I will never forget you and never stop telling people about you and your music. Thanks for everything.

Janice Titgen

September 8, 2014

I used to live near "Funny Fellows" and saw him play often. I even went out to Scottsdale to see him play at the "Blue Goat Pub!" Thank you Joe for all the wonderful music and humor!!!

Carol

September 8, 2014

Joe was a true original. I loved seeing him in concert and was always amazed at his musical skills and the variety of instruments he mastered. One of a kind! You will be missed.

john fioredda

September 8, 2014

You will be missed. I always looked forward to our talks and I always walked away learning so much. You will always be a part of me. And a lot of the wisdom you passed to me I have used in being a father myself, so one day that same Joe wisdom will be passed to their kids. It is the greatest memorial anyone can have. Your words will live forever. God bless and rest my friend.

James Kosky

September 7, 2014

Joe - you are missed, but your music will stay with me always. I still have my Locksley tassel.

LeeLee Robert

September 7, 2014

My Friend and Teacher, Joe. We played at the same coffee houses in the 60's: I say we were always friends...just didn't know it yet. He taught me his "claw hammer style" and some other instruments. I will miss hearing his amazing thoughts and watching his one-of-a-kind performances. See you "backstage" my friend: thank you for sharing your gifts with us.

Mark Farrell

September 6, 2014

We are not human beings having a spiritual experience; we are spiritual beings having a human experience.
~ Pierre Teilhard de Chardin

His spirit journeys on.

Joe performs at the 2010 Fireland Phoenix Faerie Festival

Rowan Wakefield

September 6, 2014

I can't even begin to say how much Joe will be missed. His incredible talent, love of music and dedication to community has been a huge part of my live for more than 20 years. May the Great Mother give you peace and spin you back to us again.

Larry Billar

September 6, 2014

There's an empty spot. Joe redefined music for me. Our lessons were more than just technique and fluidity, but included feeling and spirit. We discussed all sorts of topics, and shared like-minded thoughts and concerns. Joe was not just a master of musical talent. He was a sage, mentor and a friend. Farewell dear friend. We will all meet again soon. To your wonderful wife, kids and grandkids, I offer my deepest sympathy and share your sorrow. God Bless.

Mary Creasey

September 6, 2014

Your friends and fans in the Science Fiction/Fantasy world miss you here...but the ones in Heaven will cheer when you headline the stage Up There with all the other great ones! RIP, Joe!

Wayne McCormick

September 6, 2014

Although I never had the pleasure of meeting him personally, I have been able to enjoy his music on Jim Pipkin's albums. My sincere condolences for your loss. We have all lost a great talent.

Daniel Arthur

September 5, 2014

Cher -- I'm so sorry to hear about Joe. Debbie & I loved his music. We both remember the good ole' days at Funny Fellows and have the fondest of remembrances. *Hugs*

red & Darlene Veazey

September 5, 2014

RIP Joe. We have known you for a long time & never tired of listening to you & your music. You will be missed more than you know.

Red & Darlene Veazey

September 5, 2014

RIP Joe, our prayers have been with you for some time now, we will miss you & your wonderful music.

Jim Pipkin

September 5, 2014

The world is rarely graced with a talent as large as Joe's. When it comes with a heart and soul to match, it is a once in a lifetime treasure. It was an honor to call you friend, and an absolute delight to experience your performances. See you on the other side.

Victor Johansen

September 5, 2014

I will miss your presents at the various folk festivals here is Arizona. Rest in peace old friend.

Gary Kieft

September 5, 2014

Forty years of friendship was not enough. I cherish my many and varied memories of Joe, as musician, as Lord Ioseph, Sam Hane. My daughter always referred to her "Uncle Joe". My most sincere sympathies for Cher and all of Joe's extensive family, friends and fans.

Gary "Dr, K" Kaplowitz

September 5, 2014

Cher,
Words can not express how sorry I am for this great loss. I will always remember the long talks Joe and I would have about life, family and world events. He was a remarkable person and I will miss my friend very much.

David Foster

September 5, 2014

I have know Joe since 1980 and was astounded by his mastery of all things stringed. I also attended his well deserved induction into the Arizona Musicians Hall of Fame. Your audience will miss you as well as friends and family. May our grief be short and fond remembrances long.

Susan Hooley

September 5, 2014

Cher, so very sorry for your loss. Prayer are being sent for you and your family. Love to you, Sue Hooley

Your Friend

September 5, 2014

Good-bye and starlight lead you back again.

John Cruse

September 5, 2014

My world is smaller now, yours is much bigger.

Vandi Clark

September 5, 2014

Joe, I've known you since high school. I send sympathies to your family and your many musical friends. You leave an immense gap in the Arizona music scene. So long, my long time friend. "'Til we meet again."

Priscilla and Howard Mckown

September 5, 2014

So you will always be in the light you dear sweet man.

Priscilla and Howard Mckown

September 5, 2014

Joe was a close friend, and a good man. He truly loved to entertain people. He will be missed, not only by his close friends and family but by the community at large and all the people that heard him play and sing.A true entertainer , musician and Bard. Until we meet again Joe and I know we will in that great big way out there. Never gone and never forgotten.

Vicki Whitesell

September 5, 2014

I still remember getting goose bumps when you played Ghost Riders in the Sky at Funny Fellows. Heaven will be a better place with you and your music!

Marianne

September 5, 2014

To light your way, or is it to light mine? Since your light on this earth has gone, the world seems less bright. Your memory shines on though, and I know eventually the happy memories will outshine the sad ones.

Rowan Moonstone

September 5, 2014

We were friends for many years. Most of the time across the miles, as we got to see each other face to face so rarely. I will always treasure those times together with you and Cher. Good times, good music, good company. Farewell my friend. May you sing the songs of your people wherever you are. Until at last we meet again. Devin and I love you.

Theo Carracino

September 4, 2014

The part of you that's part of me is bound by the rhythms of the music we shared and played at Funny Fellows. You could leave me in awe, and sometimes in stitches, but always with the joy of a friendship that endured through time and distance. My guitar seemed to whisper memories of you at times, and through the years I was glad for the company. Perhaps some might view this as a farewell of sorts, but in my mind it's just another chapter in the relationship that was so special. Our conversations might be more one-sided now, but I have no doubt you'll find a way to be present. I look back today and still feel the magic, knowing that the part of you that's part of me will always abide in a state of permanent grace. Thank you, Joe.

September 4, 2014

For a Very Dear Friend. You will be Greatly Missed. Love to You and Your Family. 9th Memorial US Cavalry "Buffalo Soldiers"

Lyle Schilling

September 4, 2014

Joe, you brought me a lot of laughs and a lot of joy for so many years. I'm glad I have memories of you and your beautiful music and life. I sure miss Funny Fellows and you!

Kelly Jones

September 4, 2014

You helped me take my love for the banjo and turn it into music. I'll never forget you.My teacher,my friend.

Lark Kirk

September 4, 2014

Gone too soon, my Brother. Gone too soon. The world is an emptier place with your passing.

Harriet Engle

September 3, 2014

You have gone on ahead, but your song plays on in our hearts. See you on the other side, my friend.

Nancy Purtill

September 3, 2014

All my best. He'll be missed by so many people.

Katya Kievskaya

September 3, 2014

We will miss you greatly, my friend and Brother. You were one of the best among us. Too many years since I last got to hug you, but you remained and will continue to remain in my heart. Much love to Cher and all.

Chickie Hughes Enger

September 3, 2014

I grew up with you. See you later.

Susan Huitron

September 3, 2014

North Phoenix High School lost one of our colleagues and friend. You will be missed by everyone in Arizona.. Thank you Joe.

September 3, 2014

Rest in Peace, Joe.
Love, Joanne (Bethancourt) Allen

Jennifer Giurlanda

September 3, 2014

Thank you Joe for the last 18 years. I am so glad that I was able to be part of this amazing family we have. Rocco and Bella thank you for all the wonderful stories and songs you told and sang to them. We will always miss and love you Papa Joe. xoxoxo

Don Danforth

September 3, 2014

RIP my old friend from the Wallace and Ladmo days. Prayers to your family.

D. C. Williams

September 3, 2014

We will miss you "Bojangles"

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