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This obituary was originally published in the Bakersfield Californian.
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Sundie Smith
March 7, 2019
I will never forget you! I'm going to make sure your memory lives on through your boys and myself! I love you and miss you soooooo much
March 5, 2016
Missing you bad today nukka.
January 18, 2016
Thinking of you
November 23, 2015
Love you
October 6, 2015
Love you bubs. Happy belated birthday
January 18, 2015
I'm struggling so bad lately. Always wanting to numb the pain anyway possible. I haven't been the same since you've been gone, and as hard as I try to I don't know if I ever will. I'm more lost than ever, even more than when I was at Rock bottom and had nothing. I should be thankful and good with what I have now, but a huge part of me is missing which makes it so much worse. I hope to see you one day very soon. Love you bro
December 8, 2014
I miss you so much and think about you a lot! I really hope you know how much I love you and wish you were here. You're always on my mind. I love you tons!
September 5, 2014
Miss you
July 2, 2014
Thinking about you everyday and it doesnt get any easier!
June 27, 2014
Missing you!
May 16, 2014
Love and miss you dearly!!
April 25, 2014
Missing you
Tootie
March 5, 2014
The years seem to be flying by. Seems like only yesterday and not over 2 years that we were hanging out at my house...you, Erin, Dre and I. I know a loy of us would give up everything for you to be here with us. My love for you will never fade and I will never stop thinking about you. Gone but never forgotten!!! I love you ninja?
Tootie
December 27, 2013
Missing you a ton this holiday season. Got to see your mom and Andrea today. Love those girls. Your mom is still just as nutty and funny as ever:) Didn't get to see the boys but I will be back soon. Love you
Sundie Smith
October 4, 2013
Well B today is your birthday and I so wish that I could celebrate with your family like last year but that just wasn't possibe this year. I will just have to settle for spending it with you instead? as I know you're still with me. Its still hard to even get outta bed sometimes, more often than not, but today is your special day and one that should be celebrated as hard as it may be to do...its all about you B! Time to get up and put on my party kicks and celebrate you! Dang how I wish we could go bar hoppin again and party it up like we used to. One day we'll all be together again laughing and partying like old times! I look forward to that day. I love you Beaver? Happy Birthday ninja
September 24, 2013
Brandon I talked to chad a couple days ago and god how much he loves and misses you. He's doing good. Amy
Tootie
September 21, 2013
I would do so many things differently if given the chance! You know how much I love you, forever and always so stop messing with me!! Its driving me nuts knowing ur around to mess with me but not around for me to talk to or see! I sooooo love you and would give anything and everything to tell you face to face! I can't wait until the day I'm able to tell you just how much you mean to me.
Sundie Smith
September 13, 2013
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Sundie Smith
July 16, 2013
I miss you more and more everyday. I love you?
Sundie Smith
June 16, 2013
Happy fathers day brother Beav! I can't imagine how hard today must be for the boys but we know your watching over them and are always by their side and will continue to stay with them through thier journey through life. I love you so much!??
Sundie Smith
June 10, 2013
Wishing I could hear your voice so much! It really doesn't get easier. I love you dearly Beave!
Lacey, Mikey, ad Lexey Ivy
April 18, 2013
We miss you every day brother! There is not a day that passes when we do think of you!! I wish you could've know just how much you were and are loved and cherrished!! Its still affecting the kids as well. Especially Mikey!! I'm so glad we got that time with you before you left us!! Those are the last memories we have and the kids just DON'T understand!! They will one day though, and then we may all have a little peace. UNTIL THEN, WE SEND OUR LOVE EVERYDAY ALL DAY!!! LOVE YOU BUBBA!! MAY YOU ALWAYS R.I.P. LOVE YOU!!!
Sundie Smith
April 17, 2013
I miss you Beave!!
Love, Your Little Sis
March 7, 2013
I LOVE AND MISS YOU
Sundie Smith
March 6, 2013
I can't believe a year has passed already! Man I miss being able to call you just to talk & you always being there to listen and make me laugh. I will always cherish the memories. I keep thinking about the night Andrea left you with Erin & me at my house & we watched Erin follow the hose around the backyard in the dark. I still laugh when I think about it. We had so many good times through the years. I miss you so much B! It doesn't seem to get any easier. I love you my ninja! You will always be forever in my heart!
YOURE LITTLE SISTER AGAIN! FATTY FATTY LOL
December 11, 2012
Thinking of you nonstop! I miss you Brother and need your love and blessings through this very rough time. I'd give anything to have one more day! I would be the best sister in the world! The best I could be just to make you smile and keep you happy! I wish I could've done something. Wish I could've been there. Im still pretty dam lost and I have no idea which way to go. Would be nice to have my big brother telling me shut up SEESTER, and keep moving on. ;) I'll never stop missing you! Please please help us get through this Christmas! Its going to be different that's for sure! Dad's been sick too, so a little healing would be wonderful! He's been hurting so bad since you've been gone! We all have! I wish you knew how much you are loved Bubba! Good bye for now, but not Forever! XOXO LOVE YOU FOREVER!
chad and amy weaver
December 9, 2012
I wish i would of got to know you better since you are going to be my brotherinlaw. What i knew of you was good. Chad misses you soo much and i do too. Chad and i are moving to bakersfield when he gets out of prison. Love and miss you brandon.
amy and chad lofstedt and weaver
October 5, 2012
misss you brandon love you.
Sundie Smith
October 5, 2012
Happy birthday ninja! I cant believe you would be 31 yesterday. Do you realize just how long we've been friends? WOW! Who would have thought back in the day that we would have ended up so close! 7 months ago today everything changed and the nightmare began. I cant believe its been that long...feels like just yesterday and still hurts as bad. I got to spend time with your boys yesterday for your birthday and cant believe what a little man and awesome big brother Kaden is. He had chili fries at Zingos so he is definitely your son.lol You did good with him B. They both are getting so big it makes me sad. Thanks for putting a smile on my face and reminding me whats in my storage:) I felt peace at that moment & know it was all you. I love you Beaver
Lacey Weaver Ivy
September 11, 2012
I LOVE YOU BROTHER. I THINK OF YOU EVERYDAY, AND I MISS YOU REAL BAD! I JUST WISH YOU COULD COME HOME! I LOVE YOU ALWAYS!
Sundie Smith
September 9, 2012
Idk why my messages don't get posted anymore, but was thinking about you a couple days ago and it feels like just yesterday and not 6 months ago. I would give anything to have a talk with you even though you made me angry sometimes telling me about me and a certain someone and how he was no good for me and using me, I needed to hear it from someone that actually cared about me and I know that now, but if it had been anyone else telling me how wrong he was for me things wouldn't have been so nice. You were sometimes my heart speaking to me so that I could hear and telling me things that I needed to wake up and realize were going on because I was blinded by what I thought was love for him. Thank you for not holding your tongue and just letting me go on and continuing to be used and hurt when my heart was all in it with him. No one else could have made me listen or gotten the message across. That's 1 reason I need you so much now! Idk who to trust to tell me how it really is no matter if it hurts me in the process. That's what a true friend does and Beaver you definitely proved to be just that....a real true friend. I love and miss you always!
-Tootie
Your Baby sis I MISS YOU BOTHER!
September 2, 2012
Its almost been 6 months Bubba! 6 months since I woke up to the worst news that a little seester could possibly bare! No need in going into details right now. Just wanted to say I Love and Miss you with all my heart! Wish you could just come home! I think of you daily! Without you in my heart and by my side, I wouldn't be able to go on. I know you're here with me though in spirit! Hope that never changes. Till we meet again! Love always! Your Seester!
alyse osuna
September 1, 2012
you are a constant reminder of how precious life is and how quickly it can be taken from us. I miss our senseless bickering we used to do that irritated my sister to no end. We had many differences, but we understood each other in out own way and I wouldnt have had it any other way. Love, Alyse
Aunt Tammy
August 24, 2012
Brandon, I think about you everyday. Everyone is still struggling over god taking you from us, still doesn't feel real, I sometimes think I see you walking down the road, then my heart hurt's because reality sets in. Love you and miss you
Sundie Smith
June 18, 2012
Thinking about you a lot lately & looking at all the pic's people have posted of you on facebook. You were loved by so many I don't think you know how much you mean to a lot of people! Keep watching over the boys! I hope they know their daddy is with them everyday. Today is fathers day(well it was about 3 minutes ago.lol)and I know they are missing you badly! Happy fathers day to a wonderful father and great man!! I love you and miss you!
-Tootie
Lacey
June 8, 2012
Missing you bad! Love you Bubba!
Sundie Smith
June 7, 2012
Thinking about you today. I lost Indika yesterday so look after her for me if you could:) I'd give anything just to talk to you right now! I love you Beave!!
YOUR SEESTER
May 11, 2012
You're killing me smalls!
I MISS YOU!
Sundie Smith
May 9, 2012
I will never forget you my friend. It hurts that it took such a tragic event for me to realize exactly how much you mean to me. You were a better friend than I gave you credit for, but I didn't like to give you credit for much.lol I'm always right:):) I love you Mr Beaver!!
Sundie Smith
May 1, 2012
Still thinking about you a lot and missing you more and more everyday. I love you and hope that you know just how much.
diane miller
April 26, 2012
i love and miss you bubba....hettie bell
YOUR SEESTER ;)
April 26, 2012
It's me again Bubba Head! ;) Just wanted to say I love you and I'm missing you like crazy. I wondered why I felt a little more sluggish than usual today, then I realized that it would've been Grandma's 69th Birthday! Wow how time flies! Next month is mine and I'm sure going to be needing a little sign of your presence. You were here last year and we had so much fun! Just hangn out in the country at ol' Dan Wilson's ;) MISS YOU BROTHER! Remembering the good times with a smile! Kiss Grandma! Love and Miss You Always!
Kimberly Taylor
April 25, 2012
Praying for your boys an your family. They fight for your justice everyday. You are loved an missed by so many people.
YOUR BABY SISTER!
April 23, 2012
Still thinking of you everyday! Your little sister is so lost! Hopefully one day soon I will be able to understand better, but right now everything is all so blurry! If you could help me out in any way Bubba, please do because I need you now more than ever! I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART!
Sundie Smith
April 22, 2012
I miss you my ninja!
Sundie Smith
April 15, 2012
I love you fool! I know you're watching over us and we will see each other again one day:)
Jennie Laney
April 14, 2012
Brandon I never knew you but have been praying for your precious little boys! Hopefully we will meet in heaven one day! God bless you and your family. The Laneys
Jaime Kerhulas
April 13, 2012
Hey B, just wanted to get on here and send u a message. I want u to know how much u were and r loved, soooo many ppl and I wish u could see everyone together again. U were a royal pain and I loved every minute of it :) I think bout u daily, u your family and your kids, u brought two amazing lil lives into this world and I know u will never leave their sides. U have some amazing ppl n your life that I've gotten the pleasure to met and spend time with, u were truly loved mr weaver :) make sure to check in from time to time k. Forever love B xoxo
Mirage
April 13, 2012
Prayers and thoughts are with your family, rest in peace.
mandi cardwell
April 12, 2012
I love you my friend until we meet again...
Jay Ivy
April 12, 2012
Brandon you were one of a kind. We had our ups and downs, but you were truely the best Brother anyone could ask for. We had a lot of good times working, me yelling at you to take your head phones off and you would yell something smart back and say I only have one in Jaaaayy lol I can hear you and the music! Don't sweat me fool! Haha I love you Bro! I'm glad we got to know each other a little bit! You will always be remembered from all our memories! Frog giggn haha! Fishing too! It hurts me to see your sister like this too. Please help guide all of us through this awful tragedy. Till we meet again Bro! Love always, Jay
April 11, 2012
Brandon our thoughts and prayers are with your family and especially your boys, we will miss you!!
Bob and Maryann
grma and grpa Shelton
Osuna's
April 11, 2012
Brandon, we love you and will miss you, you were a part of our family,taken from us way to soon! though we didnt always see eye to eye, you knew we were always there for you, seeing you spend time with the boys at our house your last couple of weekends here with us was such a blessing, seeing how happy the boys were playing baseball with you , taking a walk around the block and just sitting on the grass talking to them, they will always have those great memories.
the boys look for the brightest star in the sky at night saying thats were daddy is so keep your star shining bright and always watch out over your sweet little guys!!!!
Diana and Anthony
Sundie Smith
April 11, 2012
I miss you so much. I still can't believe this is real. I love you more than you know!
Austin Wagoner
April 11, 2012
Brandon, I will continue to burn one for you everynight, miss you everyday
LACEY WEAVER
April 10, 2012
Wow this is really happening! Its more real everyday Brother. I just got off the phone with Dad and was telling him how I was doing a little better, but it is still so hard. Sometimes worse than others. I think I will always shed a tear for you bub! I know your suffering is over, but there was so much unsaid and undone. You left us too soon for sure. You are at peace now! I try to say that to make it easier. Not going to lie, its not working yet, but I'm not giving up. You are in all my thoughts! Every song I hear, every time I see Mikey and Lex, driving down the road, or looking at my love seat lol. Wish you were here jammn to Pandora or showing me something funny u found on utube. :) I never thought that the morning you left for the airport headed back home would be the last time I would ever see you! I remember I couldn't stay awake so you woke me up b4 you left and I got mad because you took my suitcase. I felt so bad when you walked out the door so I called to say sorry and tell you how much I love you and was so sad that you were leaving. I cried and stayed up waiting for your call. I miss you so bad! :.( I did get a little more than 2 months with you running from tornados, fishing, arguing, me trying to kick you out lol. Yes I'm a brat! I'm ur sis, I'm suppose to be ;) it was the best few months I've had in a long time. I had a blast until you left. I will remember every moment we shared and forever cherish all the times we haad! Good or bad, you were the best brother ever! I love you with all my heart BUBBA! PLEASE WATCH OVER MOM and DAD ALONG WITH THOSE HANSOME BOYS! Give Grandma and Grandpa a big hug from me and kids! All my love with you for eternity! Till we meet again....R.I.P. BIG BROTHER! LOVE ALWAYS! YOUR ONE AND ONLY LIL SEEEEEESTER :) P.S. I HEAR THE MUSIC NOW BRANDON! I CAN HEAR EVERY WORD THIS TIME! :)
Tamsin Enos
April 10, 2012
I think about you everyday. You made me who I am. Showed me from a young age that I was a girl worth loving. You would do anything for me and I tortured you throughout the years but my funniest memory was freshman year. You wanted to be my boyfriend so I said I would go out with you if walked me over some chocolate milk in a pink cup two miles to Anne's house. Haha You totally showed up outside 45 minutes later. You were a hopeless romantic. A loving man, friend, and most of all father. I will always carry you in my heart as one of the most influential people I've ever got the privilege to know and love.
Stephanie Popplewell
March 31, 2012
You will be missed
Kristin Eckhoff
March 31, 2012
Brandon,... you were truely one of a kind. From the day I met you, I considered you family. You insisted on looking out for me even if I didnt think I needed it. You always had the most kind hearted, forgiving way about you that was truely inspiring. I am honored to have been a part of your life, and you will live on forever in mine as well as so many others. Im at peace knowing you struggle no more, love you Brandon.
Tiffany Hicks
March 25, 2012
Can't believe this happened to such a great person. Brandon I will miss you so much. Until we meet again friend..
Larry Embry
March 21, 2012
So sorry to hear of Brandon. We have not seen him since he was a little boy, but have seen some of his family. I know he will be missed by those who know and love him.
March 13, 2012
You will be missed Brandon! Prayers for all who knew you and loved you. May you rest in peace friend!
Tammy
March 13, 2012
Thoughts and prayers to all you are missed everyday. We will pray for Dre and the boys that peace will come.
Nick & Amer Adams
March 13, 2012
I can't believe you are gone Beaver. We will miss your smile and sarcasm. We will be here for your boys for whatever they need. Watch over them from up there. It's so hard to say goodbye, but Atleast we have the boys to remind us of u. We love you!!!
Debra Deal
March 13, 2012
I hope the memories, the pictures, the good times, will get this family through their heartache. Brandon, you need to guide your children and Andrea will need help to make the right decisions for them, they still need you, your job is far from done. Andrea just know that he will be watching over all of you. In time the heartache will fade, but the memories will last forever. Rest in peace.
nicole ruiz
March 12, 2012
You will be missed by many we all love you.. You will always be my brother from a diffrent mother...
Susan Eribarne
March 12, 2012
Roxanne, I just want you know you are in my thoughts and my heart goes out to you, his boys, and the rest of the family!
Aunt Gloria
March 12, 2012
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Cindy Montoya-Nord
March 12, 2012
To all family and friends,
Although its difficult to see beyond the sorrow...may looking back in memory help comfort your tomorrow's
Diane Hughes
March 12, 2012
To the Weaver family,
I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers during your time of loss....I hope you will find comfort..in your memories of Brandon.. Im so sorry....may he rest in the arm of god now.....Diane Hughes -(Miller)
Shelby Moore
March 12, 2012
You were a good friend to me and my family Brandon! we will miss u, but u will always be in our hearts! You better say hi to my Bro and Please give him a huge hug for me!!! .. to all of Brandon's family, i am very sorry for ur loss, you are all in my thoughts and prayers! R.I.P Brandon Weaver!!!
Pat Espasandin
March 12, 2012
You will be missed Bubba, Prayers are with all those who love you.
Aunt Tammy
March 12, 2012
Brandon, you were always there anytime I needed your help (always get beave and Lani they will help) and watching over Kristin for me cause you were like her big brother she never had. there has always been a special place in my heart for you and I'll think about you everyday. I love you Brandon Weaver you will be truly missed. Go fly with the angels now
Jennifer Foster
March 12, 2012
I'm truely sorry for your loss..Prayers for the family, for peace in this hardest of times and understanding...God has received a great Angel..may he watch over you all and may you all feel his wonderful presence!!
Susan Adkisson
March 12, 2012
I don't remember if I ever got to meet your son, but I'm so sorry for your loss, Roxanne. And, I too, don't know how one could find peace with this kind of tragic end. I can only pray that someday, somehow you do and that God be with you every moment of the way. So sorry...God bless
Tonya Comstock
March 12, 2012
I love you Brandon, you will forever be with me! Mom
Matthew Moore
March 12, 2012
My heart goes out to his family. He will be missed. God bless his little boys.
Rest in peace my dear cousin.
CAROLANN PARDO
March 12, 2012
I love you cousin and miss you even though we did not know each other. Rest in peace.
Shirley Oglevie
March 12, 2012
Brandon I didnt get to meet you, however I know Andrea and Kellan. Andrea is my niece. I know you are in the arms of our heavenly father and all we meet one day. I pray for your family and loved ones. Rest In Peace.Aunt Shirley
Karen LaRue
March 12, 2012
my prayers are with you at this time, may God comfort you.
Jose Quinones
March 12, 2012
I didn't know his young man. but my heart goes out to all his family. im so sorry this happened.nothing i could say will ease your pain.i will pray for you all.
Sundie Smith
March 12, 2012
I am going to light a candle everyday for u. I still feel like this is a dream but I cant wake up. I will never forget so many of the hilarious times we had just chillin but I wud give anything to hear u say "Tootie" 1 more time! I love u Brother Beav...taken way too soon
Tana Smith
March 12, 2012
May your light shine over those precious boys and may you watch over and guide them
Kara Jeter
March 12, 2012
Sorry u had to go like you did. Hung around you a couple times, you were really funny, God needed a funny person by his side. You will be missed forever and a day.
Jessica
March 12, 2012
I still feel like this is a dream... I do know now u can be at peace and that Is the only way to feel any comfort... Please watch over kaden and kellan, the love and miss there daddy! RIP Brandon...
Andrea Osuna
March 12, 2012
Brandon I'm lost without you. Please guide these boys thru life. I will never forget the memories. I love you!
Andrea Osuna
March 12, 2012
Brandon Im lost without you! I will never forget the memories. Please guide these boys thru life. I love you!
Sundie Smith
March 11, 2012
Beav I can't believe you're really gone. Your light will shine forever my ninja!..I love you
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