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Brian Douglas Kileen

1991 - 2013

Brian Douglas Kileen obituary, 1991-2013

BORN

1991

DIED

2013

Brian Kileen Obituary

Brian Douglas Kileen June 29, 1991 - June 11, 2013 Brian Kileen, beloved son and brother, went to be with the Lord on June 11, 2013. Brian was a student at Fresno State University, working towards a degree in Nutritional Science. Brian is survived by his parents, Doug and Angie Kileen, brothers Stephen and Jack, and sister, Meagan. Other survivors include sister-in-law Brianna Kileen, brother-in-law Hugo Andrade, and numerous cousins, aunts, and uncles. Brian is preceded in death by his grandparents, Don and Louise Kileen, Carl and Rosemary Lamberson and Russell W. Dunlap. Brian grew up in Bakersfield and attended Laurelglen Elementary, Tevis Junior High School, Bakersfield High School and Bakersfield College. He was proud to be a fourth generation Driller. Brian was a wonderful son and brother, full of life and compassion, with a smile and spirit that would light up a room. He had an outgoing personality and a special gift for making everyone he met feel special. Although he left us too soon, we were blessed to have Brian in our lives and he will remain in our hearts forever. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations in Brian's memory be made to the St. Francis Counseling Ministry, 900 'H' Street, Bakersfield, CA 93304. Mass of Christian Burial will be held Wednesday, June 19, 2013, at 9:00 a.m. at St. Francis of Assisi Church in Bakersfield. The family extends thanks for all the support and prayers of friends and family. DOUGHTY-CALHOUN-O'MEARA www.bakersfield.com/obits

This obituary was originally published in the Bakersfield Californian.

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Published by Bakersfield Californian from Jun. 16 to Jun. 18, 2013.

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Anonymous

June 29, 2023

It´s been 10 years and I still miss you everyday brother. Can´t wait to see you again.

Kelly Ornellas

March 28, 2022

Years later, your passing weighs so heavy on my heart. When you passed away, the world got darker and silence settled over Fresno State. Classes were never the same, study sessions were so dull, and life was just forever altered without you there. You were one of my favorite people in Fresno and you truly helped me through so much. I wish I could tell you one more time how much I appreciated you in my life and how much greatness you deserved. I hope you´re singing Gangnam Style up in Heaven and making everyone laugh. I´ll always miss you, friend. Rest easy.

Love,
Kelly

Mandy Xiao

September 18, 2013

Dear Brian,
I miss you like crazy--there hasn't been a single day since we've met when you weren't on my mind. I will never forget all the amazing times we've spent together for the past few years. From my very first rave to college, you've always been there for me. You were my best friend, teacher, partner in crime. I miss you so much.

Jacob Courtneay

June 30, 2013

I'll never forget the times Brian and I would play trumpet and march together, or all the times we'd all go out for lunch together. I wasn't as close and don't have as many flowery words as many of you, but he was an amazing person to know and will be missed.

Meagan Andrade

June 29, 2013

Bri Bri... Today you would be 22. It's hard not celebrating with you because we celebrated all 21 of them together. I love you and I always will. You have a place in my heart forever. You will always be missed. Thank you for all the amazing memories and smiles you gave me. I love you my bri bri.

Tamer Hassan

June 22, 2013

Mr. and Mrs. Kileen, and family,

I heard this sad news a couple hours ago and still cannot believe that Brian is not with us anymore. At the moment I do not find many words- let me just tell you that he will be deeply missed by all of us.

Brian, was a great guy, and in many ways, far beyond a friend to me--- a brother actually. I don't know whether he knew that, but I hope he did. His influence on my life is unforgettable. He was a brother to me. It's like a piece of my life is missing now. I will remember him forever. I'm deeply sorry I couldn't come to the funeral.

I loved him, and I love him.

With fondest regards,
Tamer Hassan

Kelley Orlando

June 20, 2013

To my cousin Brian,
What a tragedy! You will be missed by countless people. I will always remember you as the boy who caught the garter at my wedding. You were only in the 6th grade. It's memories like that one that make me smile. My deepest sympathy goes out to Uncle Doug, Aunt Angie, Meagan, Stephen, and Jack. It gives me great comfort knowing we will see you one day in heaven. I love you! See you later.

Abbie H

June 20, 2013

Sending my prayers

hector campos

June 19, 2013

Today just showed how many people you've touched,they all came to say "we'll see you later Brian". We laughed, we cried and we reflected on the good times we had together.You will always remain in our hearts and we know you will be by our side.You are now on His side waiting for us, so i will see later Brian

Heather Lemaster

June 18, 2013

I only met you twice, but you were so nice and hilarious. Another one taken so soon, your safe and home with The Lord. Thoughts & prayers for your family sleep sweet bud.

Angela Stotler

June 18, 2013

I'll always remember him as "Baby Brian". He'd fall asleep in his high chair while eating lunch and I'd carry him up to his crib and think what an adorable child he was. I have such wonderful memories of this dear, sweet boy and the Kileen family. I love your family dearly. My heart aches and I pray for you all to find peace and comfort.

Marcia Thompson

June 18, 2013

Angie and Doug~ May God give you comfort and peace at this difficult time. I'm so sorry for your loss, and my prayers will be with you.
Blessings of healing to you~
Marcia Berchtold and Family

kay copus

June 18, 2013

Such a great loss, but they gained a very special angel in heaven.....my prayers to all family and friends, my heart goes out to you all

Jasmine Tatman

June 18, 2013

Brian was always a happy person, never saw him without a smile on his face. I'll always remember him as the kid who could make any situation positive. Love you, man.

Emily Elkins

June 18, 2013

Brian was one of the funniest, outgoing, sweetest guy I've ever known. He was there for me as I was him. Forever in my memories & heart.

Hector Campos

June 18, 2013

It was a true blessing to have known Brian,he was a great youngman and will truly be missed. My heart goes out to all Kileen family and may God bless his soul

Erika Ireland

June 18, 2013

To Brian's Family & Friends,
Brian was a dietetic student of mine this past semester. I can say he was always in good spirts and had a way to make our whole class laugh with his insight. Our students and faculty will miss him very much.

To Mr. & Mrs Kileen - I wish you comfort now, peace soon and warm memories forever - With Sympathy.

June 18, 2013

Heart felt sympathy to the Kileen Family.
Rick, Deb, Ryan and Jessica White

Linnea Sanchez

June 18, 2013

Brian, seeing you walk through the credit union doors with your big warm smile & your sweet wave will be so missed. You sure did make everyone feel special. Like the old saying goes,"the apple doesn't fall too far from the tree." Doug & Angie are absolutely wonderful people. I am proud to say I knew you Brian. May the lord comfort your loved ones.

Deanna Calley and Family

June 18, 2013

Our cousin Brian Douglas Kileen,

Words can not express how much you will be missed. Your great sense of humor, infectious smile, and kindness all touched so many of us. You have left us with a treasure trove of memories that we will hold close to our hearts.

Our thoughts and prayers are with Uncle Doug, Aunt Angie, Stephen, Jack, and Meagan. We love all of you and are here if you need us.

June 18, 2013

Doug~
I worked for you 20 years ago at the CU on Oak Street as a teller. I am so sorry to hear of this tragic loss in you and your family's life. Your son looks like a very special young man. I will be praying for you all.

Carrie(Melville) Tatum

Tom Mullins

June 17, 2013

Doug, I am very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with your Son, You, and your Family. I consider myself not only your customer, but your friend.

Brenda Cadena

June 17, 2013

My deepest condolences to the Kileen family. I will always have the best memories of Brian and our times in marching band . He truly was one of a kind.

Mike & Wanda Lake

June 17, 2013

Words can not express the sorrow and pain we feel for the loss of Brian. With our deepest sympathy,our hearts and prayers are with you during this time most difficult time.

Mike Kileen

June 17, 2013

Though you are gone you will never be forgotten my little cousin. As previously stated by all friends and family, I too will always remember your big smile and positive attitude. I know you are now with god and that can hopefully give comfort to your family and all that are mourning. Will see you again.

Marissa Perez

June 17, 2013

Im going to miss you so much my friend, we had so many good times together at bhs. I will always remember your huge smile you would always have on your face. My prays go out to your family during this time. You will never be forgotten. I love you Brian.

Todd and Cindy Jackson

June 17, 2013

Doug and Angie - Although we didn't know Brian, we know you and Meagan and have no doubt that Brian was everything and more but truly AWESOME. How could he not be coming from Kileen roots. Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you. Please keep comfort in knowing that you will be together again.

Jordan Marquez

June 17, 2013

Brian- I knew you when I was very young...I came to your house all the time to hang out with your brother, Jack. You were always playing with power rangers, and always wanted to be with us when we were trading baseball cards. I always think of you as this sweet, innocent kid with an incredibly kind heart. You will be genuinely missed, and I will always remember the big smile you consistently wore on your face.

Mary Damian

June 17, 2013

Doug & Angie, Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel about your loss. With thoughts of peace and courage for you and your family.

David Reese

June 17, 2013

To Brian's family and friends. I remember Brian very well as his Principal at BHS. No words that I can say can soothe your souls, but remember Brian for all the positive qualities and his love for life. The Driller Nation lost another bright soul and I can only hope that the family is consoled in the thought that Brian touched many lives in his short time on this earth. Once A Driller Always A Driller.

Emily Jackson

June 17, 2013

My deepest sympathy and go out to the family. I was really close with Megean when we were young and I remember Brian well (always with a smile). My thoughts and prayers are with you and I apologize for your loss.

A. Anaya

June 17, 2013

I'm gonna miss you buddy, you were one of the coolest persons I've come across. Your personality made you someone everyone wanted to gravitate to. Well always remember you and perhaps all of us could learn to always carry a smile and be positive just like you.

Megan Tye

June 17, 2013

Brian I'm going to miss are little chats we would have when you would come visit your dad at the credit union. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Mary Gonzales

June 17, 2013

Dear Doug, Angie, and kids;
I am so sorry for the loss of your son and brother. What wonderful testaments I have read so far and I'm sure there are only more to come. May God keep you in his hands during this time of grief. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Sarah Fein

June 17, 2013

Ill always remember this kid as a little brother.....the one who was always there wanting to join in with everything me and his sister was doing!!!! That smile is who he was!!! You were a great brother to my Meagan, Brian and you will be greatly missed!

Rebecca Espain

June 17, 2013

I went to school with Brian at Larelglen and Tevis. When I heard he had passed, I just remembered those beautiful eyes and dorky smile from so long ago. My thoughts go out to his family. His parents especially. He truely was one of a kind.

Aaron Stonelake (Dietetics, Fresno st.)

Aaron Stonelake

June 16, 2013

My Nutrition Partner throughout my journey at Fresno State and absolutely one of my dearest friends. Brian, you were like a brother to me and we had so many good times at school in all the same classes and outside of school hanging out. Your loss will be felt by me forever bud as you brought so much fun and laughter to my life and helped make life worth living. My sincerest condolences are sent to Mr. and Mrs. Kileen. Although I didnt get to meet you two parents, I know you must be amazing people because your son was a one of a kind individual. May god, friends, and family help you to grieve and survive this tragedy. Friends and family of Brian will be in my prayers nightly and I, too, grieve his loss. -Aaron Stonelake

Ana Chavez

June 16, 2013

I still remember meeting Brian 7 years ago in my freshman biology class at BHS. Such a sweet person. I am so sad to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with your family.

Brian/Stephanie Owens

June 16, 2013

Though i did not know mr. Brian Kileen, i send my condolences out to his family and close friends. Life is so short, always Remember the positive and good times he may have had. May his soul now rest in beautiful pease with the Lord. God blesses. From mr.mrs owens.

Debbie Pena

June 16, 2013

Mr. and Mrs. Kileen, and family,
Please accept my sincerest sympathies and condolences in the loss of your beloved son, and brother.
What I remember about Brian, is that he was a very compassionate, and humble young man. He will be greatly missed. May God Bless you all.

Debbie Pena and family.

Laura Doolittle

June 16, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers

Dalyce Kingston

June 16, 2013

Doug and Angie,
I am so saddened to hear of the loss of your son. I cannot even imagine what you may be going through. My thoughts are with you and prayers for God's comfort to you in this time of tragedy.

June 16, 2013

To the Kileen family, your "new" family in Fresno is lifting you up continually in prayer. We consider it the highest honor to have been united with your family through our "kids" marriage...and consider Brian our family as well; we will forever remember his beautiful smile and kind heart. Our hearts are breaking with yours; please know we are here for you and will be praying for God's strength and the gift of wonderful memories to carry you through the days ahead. We love you all. ~Steve and Denise Baronian...and family

Ricki Powers

June 16, 2013

Doug and Angie, please know that you and your family are very special and in my thoughts and prayers at this sad time. The love you two have for each other and your families will help ease your sorrow. We have all been friends for years and all the memories made will help. Doug and Angie, I might be miles away, but my concern and love is with you always.

June 16, 2013

Brian, you will be missed beyond measure and the only solace I can find at this time is knowing that you are with God. Thank you for all the wonderful memories, your thoughtfulness, your kindness and laughs shared. Aunt Mary

Cindy Reimer

June 16, 2013

God must have needed you to take you so soon. I`m glad I got the opportunity to know you. I will pray that the lord will comfort your family during this time.

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