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Charles Cheatham Obituary

Charles (Chuck) Cheatham September 14, 1927 - March 17, 2012 Charles Homer Cheatham was born September 14, 1927, to Charlie and Vivian Cheatham in Abilene, Texas. Following the family drilling business, they moved on to Wyoming and eventually settled in California, where Chuck attended Venice High School graduating in 1945. It is there that he met and fell in love with Lorna Dee Gretch. Chuck attended and played football at Loyola College, Chuck left college before graduation and enlisted in the Navy, a true patriot, Chuck was proud to serve his country. After an honorable discharge, Chuck returned home and in August 1949, Chuck and Lorna were married and settled in Bakersfield, CA, where they raised their two sons Denny and Mike. Chuck spent his entire career in the structural steel fabrication business with Griffin Steel, Kern Steel and Hopper Inc., he truly loved his work. Chuck was a loving son, husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather and a true friend. He was happiest surrounded by his Bride along with their family and friends sharing stories and a few good laughs. If you were to add a fishing pole, a good horse pushing along a herd, shooting squirrels, the beep of his metal detector finding his latest treasure, and a cold yellow belly or two Chuck's day would have been complete. Lorna preceded Chuck in death in 2003, though Chuck's faith never wavered, his courage became tested when he was diagnosed with Alzheimer's. He faced that challenge like any other put before him with dignity and strength. In his final days in the true "Chuck Cheatham" way, he made sure that his family was safe and quietly returned home forever to dance with his bride. Chuck is proudly survived by sons Dennis (Michelle) Cheatham of Glennville, CA and Mike (Pam) Cheatham of Bakersfield. Granddaughters Krystal Selby, Michelle Lanham, Jennifer Machado, Tracy Proffitt and Ellie Cheatham and 10 Great-Grandchildren. It was a long Journey but with everyone's help and prayers he is safely home. A special thanks to Pacifica Memory Care. The services will be held Saturday, March 24th, at 10:30am at Hillcrest Memorial Park & Mortuary. www.bakersfield.com/obits

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Published by Bakersfield Californian from Mar. 22 to Mar. 23, 2012.

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March 26, 2012

I am so sorry to hear of your fathers passing. I was a little girl when I first met your Dad. My Father Walter Adams worked with yor Dad for many years in the steel bus. The last time I seen your father was when I lost my Dad in 1998. Chuch was so special to us in many ways. He will never be forgotten. God be with you in this trying time.

Kay Adams Jarms

Bob Sappenfield

March 24, 2012

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Penny Tull

March 23, 2012

Denny, Mike, & Pam, & all the family,
I can see Lorna and Chuch dancing across the dancefloor. What great times those were. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. My sincere sympathy for your loss. Penny (Bakersfield, Ca)

March 22, 2012

Denny and Mike will miss Chuck, sorry we can,t be there with you I'm working in portland ore. Are love is with you Jim and Terri Albitre

Ashley Boone

March 22, 2012

Mike, Pam and girls...u all are in my thoughts and prayers. He was a great and loving man. He will be greatly missed.

Will Hanna

March 22, 2012

My mind is flooded with the many wonderful experiences I enjoyed with the entire Cheatham family and I thank God for those times. Chuck and Lorna raised two fine sons who are now carrying on. Blessings from Arkansas, you are in our prayers during this time of celebration and change.
Will and Waltina

Laurie Owens

March 22, 2012

Mike, Pam and girls,Denny and Family~
Chuck was a wonderful man, always enjoyed the time that we spendt with him, your Mom and your families. I know this is a tough time...know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Laurie Owens and Family

March 22, 2012

Mike, Pam and girls,
You are in our thoughts .....
Dan and Cathy

Gary Watson

March 22, 2012

Chuck was a true Mans Man,I am proud to have known Chuck. He was so understanding,trustful and a pleasure to be around.I can say I do share your loss, R.I.P Chuck

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