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Ernest A. "Sonny" Stokes

Ernest Stokes Obituary

Sonny went home to celebrate with his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on April 11, 2006. He was surrounded by his loving family and left this earth in peace. Funeral Services will be held Wednesday April 19, 2006 at 10:00 a.m. at St. Peter RCCM 510 E. Brundage Ln., Bakersfield, CA. a viewing and visitation is scheduled for Tuesday April 18, 2006 from 1:00 - 6:00 p.m. in the Chapel of Beloved Care Funeral Services. 115 18th Bakersfield, CA. A hour of Mediation/Wake will be conducted from 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Sonny was born to Ernest and Eva Stokes in Memphis, TN on May 27, 1946. The family relocated to Bakersfield, CA when Sonny was twelve years old. On Christmas Day 1964, Sonny united in marriage to Rita Oliver. To this union one daughter was born, Andretta. On November 11, 1975, he married his present wife Charlotte. To this union two children were born. One girl and one boy, Chaka and Marcellus. Sonny was a wonderful husband, father, and grandfather. There was never a day that we did not know that he loved us. He loved his family and was happiest when we were all together. Sonny worked over ten years for Sunland Refinery and over ten years for Kern City Civic Assoc. He also established, owned and operated "The Burger Mine". First in Tehachapi, CA and later in Bakersfield on Union Ave. He was known for his great tasting burgers and everyone loved his famous BBQ. Sonny had an infectious laugh, one of a kind personality. sense of humor and a genuine love for all people. He truly enjoyed life. He also had another Love- MUSIC! He wrote many beautiful songs that he and his band "Sole Purpose" performed. His CD "God's Calling" continues to be listened to and enjoyed by many. One of his greatest pleasures was performing his music with his band. Sonny was preceded in death by his mother, father and a special niece, Renee; He is survived by his wife Charlotte, daughters Andretta (Kenny) and Chaka, son Marcellus (Carolina), six grandchildren Joshua, Anisha. Tylor, Isaac, Max, and one on the way; Big sister Earlene of Riverside, CA who he affectionately called "Baby Sis" and big brother Jack(Pro Bowler) of Chicago, IL; three nieces Stella. Cheryl. and Etta of Riverside, CA; and Andre (Maria) of Anaheim and his mother-in-law Rosa, whom he loved dearly. Sonny also loved his son-in-law Kenny like a son and they referred to each other as "My best friend", Kenny affectionately called him "Dad". A special thank you to Ralph of Riverside who was like a big brother to him, came to visit him every weekend and drove Ms. Daisy (Baby Sis). The family would like to give a special thanks to: John, Pam, and Amber for all the beautiful cards you sent each and every week. To Earlene and the Riverside crew for your weekend visits, your rarely missed a weekend. To Rita, for taking him to his appts and making him chicken soup. To Ollie for calling every week and asking "what does Sonny want to eat". To Kaiser (Dr. Tuns Office), Memorial Hospital Nurses, Halls Ambulance and Optimal Hospice for your love and care during our time of need and a very special thanks to all those who prayed for him, he loved the Lord and all your prayers were greatly appreciated. Sonny was loved by so many people and will be missed, but God loved him best and knew exactly what he was doing when he took Sonny home. For God only takes the best! Ernest A. "Sonny" Stokes Mar. 27, 1946 - April 11, 2006 Beloved Care Funeral Services Legacy.com

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Published by Bakersfield Californian on Apr. 16, 2006.

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Ava Palmer

April 27, 2006

Andretta and family, sorry for your loss. I know from experience how hard it is to lose a parent but know that he is in a better place for there will be no more pain or suffering. I always loved to see Sonny's smiling face waiting with hugs/kisses and pleasant words. He would always ask about my mom and now they will be rejoicing together in our Heavenly Fathers arms.



God Bless you All

(Andretta) Your Friend

Ava Palmer

Sharon Collier

April 19, 2006

To the Ernest A. "Sonny" Stoke Family

Thinking of you and praying God will comfort you because he is with you in your time of sorrow and always. Today is a going home celebration of life for Ernest. He is absent from body but present with the lord. He is just leaving is old home and going to a new home that's not made by man. God said that he would never leave us or forsake us. Weeping and endure for a night but joy cometh in the morning. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. Please keep the family up in prayer.



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Steven, Julie & Anthony Fambrough

April 18, 2006

Charlotte & family,

Please accept our deepest sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May your faith and memories comfort you.

Nicole Moore

April 18, 2006

I would like to express my greatest condolences to Stokes family. He will be greatly missed by all. God bless.

Alycia Bowers

April 18, 2006

My prays and thoughts are with the family, I will always remember Stokes with that big smile on his face. We all loved him very much, but we know that God loved him more. To my cousins I love you, and will always keep you in my prays. Charlotte, Chaka, Andretta, Rita, you guys stay strong and be there for each other. I wish I could be there in body, but I will be there in mind. Take care and let God see you through this time.

Cynthia Morgan

April 18, 2006

My deepest sympathy and regard to this graceful family reeling with loss and grief. Andretta, and those closest to you, please accept my love and prayer for peace in your heart as you move through this process of loss.

Cynthia A. Morgan, RN

Loreal Wilkerson

April 18, 2006

Charlotte and Chaka

We are so sorry for the loss of your father our prayers are with you and your family



Love Bruce & L'Oreal

Roy Brown

April 17, 2006

My wife and I were sadden to hear that "Stokes" had passed away. He was like a brother to me. He will be missed. May God bless you and your family.

JACK AND CARLA FISHER

April 17, 2006

CHARLOTTE AND FAMILY, OUR DEEPEST SMPATHY. SONNY WILL BE GREATLY MISSED.

larene Meng

April 17, 2006

Andretta and Chaka so sorry for the loss of your father he seemed to be such a sweet loving man.know he is in a better place but know he will never stop loving you and always watching over you just as he did here on earth. all my love and prayers for you and your family in this time of need. love Larene

Beverly Johnson-Sloan

April 17, 2006

To Sonny's family and friends, may God be with you. He was such a nice person to be around that one cannot help but feel at a loss at his passing. My family and I had not seen him in years until a couple of years ago when we were delighted to see that he had not changed. He was still the warm and friendly guy he had always been in Junior High and High School. Our payers are with you all. May God Bless.

Frances Patterson

April 17, 2006

Condolences goes out to Charlotte and Family (My cousins) and Andretta (My cousin and close friend), my heart goes out to you. Sorry I can't be present there,as much as I want to be there. But do know I think of you at this time and I will continue to pray for you. Love you guys, I'll call soon.

Brenda Taylor-Jones

April 16, 2006

Charlotte,

My prayers are with you and your family.

Ron and Karen Young

April 16, 2006

My dearest Charlotte and family, Sometimes people come into our lives and we know right away that they were meant to be there..to serve some sort of purpose,teach us a lesson or help us figure out who we are or who we want to be come..Our dearest Ernest, you have helped us realize that you were apart of our lives for all those reasons, we well always love you my friend, no bond is as great as that between a parent and a child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve,May god bless you all..Ron and Karen Young

Gail Lack

April 16, 2006

My condolences to Ernie's family. I worked with Ernie at Sunland and he was always the friendliest and most pleasant guy. My prayers go to his family.

Mary Wattenbarger

April 16, 2006

Andretta, my deepest sympathy for the loss of your father. My prayers are with you and all of your family. He appeared to be a well loved man.

Tammye Golden

April 16, 2006

God bless Ernest Stokes family at this time of thier loss, he had an infectious smile and was a very pleasant man, always kind, he will be missed here at the office, sincerely Tammye

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