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Etta Adele Robin

1938 - 2023

Etta Adele Robin obituary, 1938-2023, Bakersfield, CA

Etta Robin Obituary

ETTA ADELE ROBIN

December 6, 1938 September 19, 2023

Bakersfield I was born on December 6, 1938 in Buffalo, New York, as the first child of Lillian and Samuel Epstein. My sister Michele was born three and a half years later. My family moved to several locations, including Chicago, Eau Claire, Wisconsin, and Los Angeles, California. I attended Sun Valley Junior High, John Burroughs Junior High, and Fairfax High School. I was confirmed at Temple Isaiah in Los Angeles and participated in elocution and special exercise classes during my high school years. After attending UCLA for two years, I married Stanley Robin at age 19 in 1958. We resided in Cincinnati, Ohio, where I graduated from the University of Cincinnati with a teaching credential. I immediately began teaching elementary school in 1962. We spent the years 1960 to 1961 living in Israel, where I became fluent in Hebrew. In 1962, Stanley joined the Army as a Chaplain. Initially, we resided in Lawton, OK, where Deborah was born in 1963. We relocated to Munich, Germany, where Stanley served as a Chaplain and resided there until 1966. While in Munich, we traveled throughout Europe, and Daniel was born in 1965.

We moved to Dallas, TX, and Tucson, AZ, and lived in each place for three years. In 1972 we moved to Bakersfield, CA. I began substitute teaching in elementary school as my children grew older. In 1982, I attended CSUB and graduated with a Master's Degree. I became a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist, worked for a substance abuse agency, and simultaneously was the Director of the Shelter for Battered Women, now known as The Alliance Against Family Violence for one year. For two years I was employed with the Office on Aging in Retirement Homes providing counseling for residents. I was a therapist for 37 years, then as a supervisor with the mentally ill, along with those diagnosed of substance abuse for Kern County Mental Health, now known as Kern Behavioral Health. I maintained a private practice in the community from 1982 until 2023 with families and individuals, and also volunteered with the Literacy Council along with the City School District.

I enjoyed multiple travels around the world, and the US, with family and loving friends. I was enriched by the loving relationship of my daughter Deborah her husband Andy, along with my granddaughters Sydney and Charlotte, as well as my son Daniel and his partner Jenny. I was gifted with a beloved relationship with William Tyler as we enjoyed dividing our residences between Bakersfield and Elkridge, MD for several years.

Musical events, attending the theater, and listening to melodic tunes were always enjoyable to me. My long-term relationship with Temple Beth El and its members in Bakersfield has been a gift in my life. I was enriched with loving and embracing friends. Since childhood, I have had a life long passion for reading which has continued to sustain me at the end of my life as well. I feel gratified by my life of accomplishments and gifts of love.

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Published by Bakersfield Californian on Sep. 28, 2023.

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Sean Caras

February 6, 2024

Deborah, Daniel, and all your families, I am so sorry to have waited this long to post a tribute to your mother. I lost my own mother (who was a little over a year older than your mom) six days after your mom passed. Etta was my therapist (through her private practice) for many years before she left town to be with Bill, and resumed when she returned to Bakersfield, and continued until she had to stop due to her health issue. I was her last client.

You have been blessed with having her as your mother, and I hope that you have learned over the years what a difference she has made in the lives and mental health of others.

I have been exceptionally blessed with having her as a part of my life as a therapist for so long. She did maintain the client/therapist relationship and boundaries, but she was never shy about letting her humanity shine through. I could write many paragraphs giving examples of all the ways she has helped me through crises and personal issues, how she built up my self esteem and helped me see my self worth, and how she guided me through my life's challenges. She was the trusted confidant and the sympathetic ear I needed. And ultimately, over the past four years or so, she had prepared me to handle the impending death of my mom. When my mom died, I was emotionally well-equipped to be the strong one in my family to help them cope with the loss as we went through the grieving process.

Being able to talk with someone who was going through the same challenges of aging that my mom was going through really helped me to understand mom's challenges and to best support her as they materialized. Your mom often provided perspective on that, as well as work-related challenges where she shared her own experiences. I treasure the wisdom that she shared with me over the years, and she has definitely made a profound impact on my life.

People say that a person should not get emotionally attached to their therapist, but I cannot help feeling love and appreciation for her. The dear, sweet Etta that I got to know was so admirable in making it through some pretty challenging times, in "finding her own voice," in always learning and growing as a person, and many other qualities that made up the very special person that she was. I can clearly see why her friends loved her so much and why she was so dear to them.

She helped me to be much more assertive in looking out for myself and in having more courage to stand up and get involved when I'm in a situation where I'm not getting what I deserve or asked for.

I feel that your mom was one of the strongest people I've known, but I especially love the sensitive, caring, nurturing, encouraging, and parental qualities she had. I realize that I was paying for her time in her role as a mental health provider, but I always felt that her care and concern was genuine - not just a part of her job.

I am a much better person having been a client of hers, and her impact on my life has been very significant. Yet, knowing her and learning from her and experiencing her endearing personality has been among one of the major highlights of my adult life.

I wish all of Etta's family and friends healing, peace, and comfort as you go through this journey of adapting to this life change. Thank you for supporting her education and training as she prepared for her career in mental health. She has made an immeasurable impact in the lives of thousands of people, including myself.

I will always remember Etta, and I will miss her dearly.

Corey G

October 27, 2023

My sincerest condolences to Debbie and the family. I had the pleasure of meeting Etta through Debbie. Lovely to read about her travels, passions and accomplishments. Kern County is a better place because of Etta.

Rabbi Cheryl Rosenstein

October 22, 2023

Heartfelt condolences to all of Etta´s loved ones. She was a very special human, and will be greatly missed.

Brigette

October 16, 2023

Etta~ I´ll never forget the day (Sunday 1996ish) when she & LeaAnn walked by the salon & stopped in. I was almost never there on a Sunday, but this day, I was meant to meet Etta. A ray of sunshine, full of encouragement & just so positive. Even through her self proclaimed "challenges" she was hopeful & practical. I´ll never forget this lovely lady, who enriched my life in many ways. I will miss Etta & loved her dearly.

Martha Naranjo

October 1, 2023

Dear Etta,

Although you mostly worked and had a friendship with my husband Luis, your kindness always reached me. Sending me school related articles and countless papers to use with my students. Your passion for teaching touched my soul. You will be missed. Love

Cherie Barrow

September 28, 2023

Dear sweet Etta, I´m so blessed to have known you . You have to be the kindest and wisest person I have ever known .your beautiful soul shined so bright and was a beacon of hope and joy for so many . You are an irreplaceable treasure in this world . I´m a better person for having you as an example of what´s ok and "not ok "and how you handled your life´s "challenges" . You will always be an inspiration and an example on how to be a better person . Thank you for the gift of you .

Donna Semar

September 28, 2023

Though I didn't know Ms. Robin, I felt compelled to comment on her obituary. What a unique pleasure to read someone's accounting of their own life.

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