Eufemia Decena Anama

Eufemia Anama Obituary

Eufemia was born in Alangalang, Leyte Philippines on March 20, 1928 and returned to God on July 24th, 2006. Her life was dedicated to the love of her four "T's" – Togetherness, Teaching, Tradition and Trinity (The Most Holy Trinity). Eufemia studied to become an elementary school teacher and graduated from San Carlos University in Cebu and received her Bachelors Degree in Education in 1951. She started her teaching career immediately following with U.S. Peace Corps after World War II as a classroom teacher. In 1963, she came to the United States and studied and continued teaching. That same year she found the love of her life, the late Ariston "Tony" Anama and they were married July 30th, 1966. She joined Tony's beautiful family of six children; Kathrine, Floretta, Loretta and Ariston Jr., Arthur, and Segundino. They then had a child Sheryl. They were married 17 years before Tony's death in 1983. Eufemia continued teaching and became a kindergarten teacher for the Lamont School District and was there for 21 years before retiring in 1998. She also taught E.S.L. in the evenings for the Kern High School District. She was a devoted wife, mother and especially loved being a grandmother. She was always the one making sure the family was together. She instilled many traditions for the family and always made sure that they continued this every year. She loved to cook, enjoyed being with her friends and just lived life as a servant to the Lord. Eufemia was guided by her Catholic faith throughout her life. She was the founder of the Alangalang Holy Trinity Society in which the members consist of those from her hometown now residing in the U.S. The organization has monthly novenas and fiestas in honor of their patron saint The Most Holy Trinity. The group also sends monetary help to Alangalang's church, schools, and to feed the needy, aged and disabled. We will all miss her deeply yet are happy that she is now serving God and reunited with her husband Ariston, her parents Telesforo and Regina Matela Decena, sisters step children and friends. She is survived by her daughter, Sheryl Rodriguez, son-in-law, Julian; grandaughter, Jasmine; her sisters, Salvacion and Aurora Decena; son, Arthur Anama; daughters, Foretta Anama and Loretta Shaver; her daughters-in-law, Irene and Esther; 13 grandchildren, 16 great-grandchildren, numerous nieces and nephews. Viewing will be Friday, July 28th, at Hillcrest Park & Mortuary, 9101 Kern Canyon Rd., from 4:00 -7:00 p.m., and a Rosary will follow from 7:00-8:00 p.m. Mass of Christian burial will be held Saturday, July 29th, at 10:00 a.m., St. Philips the Apostle Church 7100 Stockdale Hwy., Bakersfield, California and burial will be held at Hillcrest Park following the mass. Eufemia Decena Anama March 20, 1928 - July 24, 2006

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Published by Bakersfield Californian on Jul. 27, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
for Eufemia Anama

6 Entries

Jeff Salters

August 2, 2006

Sheryl and Family, I just want you to know that your mom was, and always will be a special person to me and my family. The memories of growing up with so much good food, her always looking out for us and always keeping Sheryl in line!!! These will be what we think of when we think of Penny. To the Anama family thanks for being such a wonderfull example of love.

Gloria Guerero Gonzales

July 31, 2006

Dearest Sheryl,

I remember your mother very well. She was the love of my uncle, Tony. Your mother and Uncle Tony asked me to take care of you one summer on Virginia Ave. Thus, I witnessed true love between your parents and the love they shared for you and your brothers and sisters, Kathy, Floretta, Lita, Jr., Artie and Dinnie; all of whom were truly a blessing.

Shanna Underwood

July 30, 2006

Sheryl

I am so so sorry to hear about your mom, she was like a second mom to us kids too. I can remember going to your house there in Lamont and eating and playing in the playhouse that we made. Penny was a great lady and very devoted to her family your mom loved you guys so much. She was always willing to open her door to us kids in the neighborhood. Sheryl just know that she is in a better place now with no pain and she is with your dad. If you need anything and I mean anything just call me. Love your friend forever Shanna Underwood

Kelly Ryun

July 27, 2006

Expressing my most sincere condolences to you and your family. My thoughts are with you during this time. While no words can take away the pain you feel, know that you will always have cherished memories that can never be taken away. I know what you are going through and I will be there if ever need anything.

Sheryl Rodriguez

July 27, 2006

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006

Josie Lopez-Ragasa

July 27, 2006

My deepest condolences and sympathy to the family of EUFEMIA DECENA ANAMA.

My prayers are not only for her but for the whole family so that they could cope with this loss and sadness.

Love and prayers, Josie Lopez-Ragasa

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