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Gary Joe Leary

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Gary Joe Leary obituary, 1942-2025

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Nov. 19, 2025

9:00 a.m. - 9:30 a.m.

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Gary Leary Obituary

GARY JOE LEARY

July 19, 1942 - November 6, 2025

Beloved Husband, Father, Grandfather, and Friend

Funeral services will be held on Wednesday, November 19, at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church, 124 Columbus Street in Bakersfield for 83-year-old Gary Joe Leary, who passed away on November 6 with his family by his side. Visitation in the church will begin at 9 a.m., followed by the Recitation of the Rosary at 9:30 a.m. A Requiem Mass will be con-celebrated at 10 a.m. by Father David Lopez and longtime family friend, Monsignor Michael Braun. Interment will follow at Historic Union Cemetery.

Gary was born in Bakersfield, the only child of Joseph and Ernestine Leary. Growing up on a dairy farm, his father instilled a great work ethic in him at an early age. Among his responsibilities, he was expected to help milk the cows before heading to school.

Gary attended South High School and was a member of its inaugural graduation class. He also attended Bakersfield Junior College and Cal Poly. He joined the United States Marine Corps and served during Vietnam as Lance Corporal. He was a gun and rifle instructor and the recipient of the National Defense Service Medal.

After the service, Gary met the love of his life, Deborah Cerri on Valentine's Day in 1968 at Pyrenees Cafe, the iconic cafe her family ran. To this day, that date remains one of the most important to them. The couple married two years later, and would have marked their 55th wedding anniversary next week. Their union produced two boys - Anthony and Joey.

Gary and his father also raised horses and passed down the equine tradition to his children and grandchildren. Most of his career was spent in farming and agricultural sales, the past 15 years with Ag Water Chemical.

Gary was a dedicated church and community volunteer. He converted to Catholicism shortly before his marriage. As a lifelong devoted Catholic, he served as a Eucharistic Minister and Lector at his home parish of OLPH. Gary was a hands-on father and grandparent, attending every game, practice, and activity of his children and grandchildren, and often mentoring some of his boys classmates.

Gary was among the original barbecue fundraising crew captained by Gary Icardo which served up delicious steak dinners for organizations such as Cal State Bakersfield, Our Lady of Perpetual Help, Garces Memorial High School, and St. Vincent de Paul Homeless Center.

Growing up on a farm, Gary had an affinity for animals, and he never met a stray that he didn't bring home. He was also an avid outdoorsman who loved to fish and hunt. He never missed an opening day of dove season. For many years, he hunted with his former pastor, Monsignor Logan, who would bless the day with a prayer and a swig of brandy. After Logan's passing, it became a Leary family hunting tradition to fire the first shot in memory of Monsignor Logan.

Just weeks before his death, Gary finally participated in an Honor Flight to Washington, DC. It was years in the making. When the program that transports veterans to the nation's capital began, he never felt worthy of taking a space he thought someone else deserved more. That was Gary. Always thinking of others. He was the consummate gentleman who endeared himself to others with his kindness and warm personality.

Gary was preceded in death by his parents, and his in-laws Alvin and Catherine Cerri. Those left to cherish his memory are his wife, sons, grandchildren Hunter and Lauren Leary, sister-in-law Susan Cerri Buck and husband Grady, brother-in-law Michael Cerri and wife Karen. Gary is also survived by his niece Catherine Cerri, nephews Dominic, Alexander, and Dylan Cerri, and Godson Steven Teglia. He is also survived by stepbrother Jeryl Matthews and his son Randy Matthews.

Pallbearers will be Hunter Leary, Marc, Matthew, and Steven Teglia, and Dominic and Alexander Cerri.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Gary's memory to Honor Flight Kern County, 8200 Stockdale Highway, Suite M-10, Box 255, Bakersfield, CA 93311, or Hoffmann Hospice Home, 4325 Buena Vista Road, Bakersfield, CA 93311.

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Published by Bakersfield Californian from Nov. 15 to Nov. 18, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Gary Leary

Nov

19

Visitation

9:00 a.m. - 9:30 a.m.

Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church

124 Columbus Street, Bakersfield, CA

Nov

19

Rosary

9:30 a.m.

Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church

124 Columbus Street, Bakersfield, CA

Nov

19

Requiem Mass

10:00 a.m.

Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church

124 Columbus Street, Bakersfield, CA

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Susan Covey

Yesterday

We were so saddened to hear the news . Debbie , Anthony, Joey you are in thoughts and prayers!

The Darters

Yesterday

Our hearts are saddened to hear this news . We too are thinking of the many memories we share with the Learys as our children attended OLPH together and formed lasting friendships. Gene especially remembers him and Gary "chaperoning" the boys on their 8th grade Magic Mountain trip . They had a blast ! All our love to you Debbie, Joey and Anthony and family . Love the Darters

Mike Stricker

Yesterday

Condolences to Gary Joe's family and my pryers for Gary -Fellow Rebel
Mike Stricker

Don & Suzie Noble

Yesterday

Dear Debbie, Anthony & Joey,

It is with great sadness to learn that Gary has passed-he has left behind so many wonderful memories for all to cherish. We will always remember his devotion to his family and church. Don & I got to know Gary thru the many fundraisers at OLPH and Garces. How wonderful our girls became lifelong friends as we did with Gary & Debbie. We will cherish the memories. May Gary rest in peace. Love Don & Suzie .

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