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Hugh Hay

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Hugh Hay obituary, 1949-2020, Bakersfield, CA

Hugh Hay Obituary

HUGH RICHARD (DICK) HAY
August 15, 1949-September 20, 2020

Born the youngest of five children to Byron and Betty Hay on August 15, 1949, Dick was a lifelong Bakersfield resident. He graduated from Bakersfield High School in 1967 and went on to study at Bakersfield College and Cal Poly San Luis Obispo. In 1972 Dick partnered with his older brother Dan to start what would become Hay Brothers with 6 head of sheep that were sold to hospitals for medical research and a small farming outfit growing grain and rice in Buttonwillow. From these modest beginnings later grew their home base of operations called the Meadowbrook Ranch. Over the next 50 years those 6 head of sheep built a business and partnership that spanned five counties in Central and Northern California and today includes commercial sheep and cattle operations and a farm growing cotton, hay and almonds.

In 1977 Dick started dating the love of his life, Debbie Douglas of Caliente, Ca. They married in 1980 working side by side building their cattle business in Kern County. They shared a love of cooking, backcountry packing, raising good horses, quality cattle and nice ranch dogs. Together they went on to raise four children in a traditional ranch setting as well as mentoring a number of other young people.

In addition to being a rancher and family man, Dick enjoyed bird hunting in the US and Canada, rarely missing a dove opener at the Meadowbrook. As well as his annual fishing trip to Mexico.

He was a collector and admirer of double barrel shotguns and fine silver bits and spurs as well as handcrafted rawhide work.

He is survived by his love of forty three years, Debbie Hay of Bakersfield. His children, Allie (Dugan) Whisler of Independence, Ca; Ben (Emily) Hay of Arvin, Ca; Millie (Miles) McCleary of Lodge Grass, MT and Nick (Alex) Hay of Tehachapi, Ca. Grandchildren Evelyn and Charlie Thornburgh, Stella and Hugh Whisler, Thomas and Suzanne Hay, Maisie McCleary, Sawyer and Sullivan Hay, and favorite niece, Josette Binns.

He leaves behind older siblings, Lynn Rudy of Jenner, Ca; brothers Tim and Dan Hay of Bakersfield, Ca; and sister Kate Hunter of Tehachapi, Ca. Dick's many dear and beloved nieces, nephews, family and friends also mourn the loss of a great man.

A private burial will be held at Union Cemetery. For information regarding the celebration honoring Dick's life and legacy, please contact an immediate family member. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Dick's name to the Kern County Cattlewomen's Scholarship Fund. P.O. Box 81436, Bakersfield, Ca 93380.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Bakersfield Californian on Sep. 26, 2020.

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Randy and Sharon Beem

September 20, 2021

We consider it a privilege to have known Dick these past 10 years. He is obviously missing when we gather as Family and friends.

Amy Regan

October 2, 2020

We have such fun memories, gathering cattle, the Halloween gatherings at our place were a blast. Taking the traveling babysitters with us to Vegas.
Easter gatherings, oh my gosh, such a great group and a variety of locations. The kids and adults always had great fun. Good old Hank dog came from you guys and made us happy.
We are so sorry for your loss. Dickie was a great guy. A toast to the big guy, may he RIP. Hugs to you all. He was so proud of all of you kids and all the grand babies. He was happy to have Debbie with him to enjoy their family.

Don Hill

October 1, 2020

To the family, what a great loss and we all shall miss him. My memories as a kid always were Dick and Dan, and the old Chevy headed up the hill to the bunk house. Peace and fond thoughts, Oscar, say hi to my Pop.
Don and Debbie Hill, Caldwell Idaho

Luanne Aakhus

September 29, 2020

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

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Christina Butler

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Mary Schembri

September 28, 2020

We were introduced to “Uncle Dickie” at our daughter’s wedding to his nephew, John. He was welcoming, funny, and kind. He will surely be missed by his wonderful and loving family and all who knew him.
Peter and Mary Schembri, San Francisco

Randy & Sharon Beem

September 27, 2020

Dick & Debbie were the couple we’d seek out in a crowd. Their warmth & genuineness made everyone feel welcome & accepted. It won’t be the same without Dick.

Greta Carver

September 27, 2020

Dear Debbie and family, we send our deep sympathy to you for the loss of Mr. Hay. I know your loss will be shared by many who knew him well. Sincerely Dennis and Greta Carver, Betsy and Samantha Carver.

Carol Silicz

September 27, 2020

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

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Sonnet T Barr

September 26, 2020

I am shocked. What a loss for the family. He leaves a huge hole in many hearts. Prayers for comfort and strength for all of you. Blessings, Sonnet Thornburgh Barr

Justin Harer

September 26, 2020

Condolences and prayers to the Hay family! God bless you guys!

Jay and Kris Busby

September 26, 2020

Our thoughts are with you and your family Debbie
Jay and Kris Busby

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