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James Benjamen Proctor

1948 - 2024

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1948

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2024

James Proctor Obituary

JAMES BENJAMEN PROCTOR

September 27, 1948 – June 9, 2024

James (Jim) Proctor was born in Delano, CA. He worked and lived in numerous locations, but retired in Bakersfield, CA, close to his family.

He is survived by his sisters Gretchen (Dale) Lee and Judy (Kevin) Folsom, his daughters Diane Proctor, Laine (Wayne) Bean, Lindsay Alvarado, Kathleen Duran, and Jamie (James) Ludington, his stepdaughter Tricia (Michael) Berry, seven grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews.

Described by friends and family as an all-around great guy, Jim's jovial demeanor and willingness to lend a hand endeared him to many. He was dearly loved and will be greatly missed by his family and all who knew him.

A celebration of life ceremony will be held in July. Please contact family for details.

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Published by Bakersfield Californian on Jun. 16, 2024.

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Cheri Flanigan

June 24, 2024

I was so saddened to hear of Jimmy's passing. He just had Patty's Celebration of Life a couple months ago. A friend and I just saw Jimmy about a month ago to clean his house. He seemed to be doing quite well, and remaining very positive, in spite of the loss of Patty. At least they are Together; Never to be Apart again. Heaven got a couple of Firecracker Angels. I feel Blessed to have known them Both. My Sincerest Condolences to their Families. ***I'm not sure Which of James' daughters is the singer, but Sing "Me and Bobby McGee" just one more time for them.

Dan Salcido

June 20, 2024

Worked with Jimmy many years ago for Oilfield Construction Inc., very intelligent guy and loved a good time back in the day. RIP Jimmy till we meet again.

Shane Brandon

June 18, 2024

My dad and I worked with Jim for many years at OFC/ARB. Jim was a great guy and will be missed. The last time I saw Jim was at KC Steakhouse, a few years ago. RIP in Jim

Lola Beyer

June 17, 2024

Jimmy has been a Dear friend to me for 36 years. I Loved him and Patty both like Family. I have so many wonderful happy memories I will forever cherish. Until we meet again.

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LOLA & RANDY BEYER

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FRANK cARAVEO

June 16, 2024

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Judy

June 12, 2024

Judy

June 12, 2024

Judy

June 12, 2024

We were constant companions with many adventures during our childhood on the ranch. So lucky to have such a loving and thought full twin brother He was always my protector and friend.

Gretchen Proctor Lee

June 12, 2024

My first memory is the first time I saw those tiny little babies that were about 5 #. I had been so excited about a baby sibling, I was 5 years old! Imagine my delight when there were two, a boy and a girl, which was a surprise to all of us including our parents! My mother did not find out there were twins until Judy arrived first. Then the Dr. informed her that there was another one coming!

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