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John Wesley Stillwell

1952 - 2005

BORN

1952

DIED

2005

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Mission Family Mortuary - Bakersfield

531 California Avenue

Bakersfield, California

John Stillwell Obituary

John Wesley Stillwell Mar. 27, 1952 Dec. 14, 2005 John Stillwell was born March 27, 1952 to Bob and Billie Stillwell in Sherman, Texas. John moved to Bakersfield with his family at a young age and resided here until his passing. John is survived by his loving wife, Kelly Marlene Stillwell; his parents, Bob and Billie Stillwell; sister, Sheron Collins her husband; Jimmy; brother, David Stillwell his wife, Maryann; daughters Michelle Stillwell and Melissa Stillwell, her husband Chris Golden; sons, Benny Stillwell and Jason Balasis, his wife, Kim; grandchildren, Taylor, Kayley, Christian Bubba, and Dylan; nephew, Jeremie; nieces Christina, Jenny and Danielle beloved dog, Shania, and a host of friends. John was an avid outdoorsman. He had a real love of the ocean and fishing. He loved sports and was an avid Texas Longhorns and Dallas Cowboys fan. His love for music was known by all and one of his favorite pastimes was playing his many guitars. He also loved to spend time tending to his garden. John brought laughter and joy to everyone he came into contact with. His greatest joy in his life was spending time with his grandchildren. He always had a joke ready and could always put a smile on your face. His memory will live on with everyone that was fortunate enough to have known him. He will be greatly missed. Visitation will be at Mission Family Mortuary on Saturday and Sunday December 17th and 18th from 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. Memorial services will be held at Mission Family Mortuary on Monday, December 19, 2005 at 11:00 a.m. with a graveside service following at Greenlawn Southwest. Pallbearers will be Jason Balasis, Benny Stillwell, David Stillwell, Jimmy Collins, Chuck Seaton, and Jeff Fessler. For additional service or floral delivery information, contact Mission Family Mortuary (661) 323-3339. Legacy.com

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Published by Bakersfield Californian from Dec. 17 to Dec. 18, 2005.

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Michelle Stillwell

December 24, 2005

My Dad was the funniest person I have ever known. He could always make me laugh no matter how sad or upset I was and even when I was mad at him. He would always tell you the truth and never left any doubt in your mind the way he felt about something. He could be very hard at times but he loved just as hard. His heart was bigger than it was strong, and I will forever miss him. I love you dad, and you will live on forever in my heart.

Waybright Family

December 23, 2005

Miss Kelly



Know that we are thinking of you and your family.

Jimmy Collins

December 20, 2005

My heart goes out to the entire Stillwell family. I've know John for only a short period of time as we know it on this earth. He was more than a brother in-law. He was a true friend to the fullest extent of it. He will be greatly missed by all that he had touched. I wish I could put in to words how much he meant to us all. May god bless everyone left behind.

Jennifer Carlson/Ridgeway

December 19, 2005

Kelly, our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you. Please know that we are truly saddened by the loss of John. I hope you find comfort in prayer and faith. If I can be of any help or comfort, please call. God Bless you and your family. Love, Jennifer

Melissa Stillwell

December 18, 2005

My dad was my inspiration in life, and my love for him will never die. He gave me the strength I needed if ever I was down... He can fish 'till the tides chase him away, and play guitar with the best of them. We miss you but, we know your in a better place now. I love you dad, keep an eye out on me, i still need ya you know?

janet brown simms

December 18, 2005

my sympathy goes out to johns family. i grew up with johnny and am still best friends with his sister sheron. my thoughts and prayers are with you all. janet simms family.

Valley Medical Group

December 17, 2005

John was a great colleague we enjoyed his company and will always remember him. Your, Friends at Valley Medical Group

Alexandria White

December 17, 2005

John-Boy, When we said good-bye when I moved 2 weeks ago, it wasn't supposed to be the last time we saw or spoke. You and Kelly were supposed to come up and go fishin' in my pond. Thank you for always keeping your wit and humor with that chesire cat grin that sparkled! I loved you John-boy.

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Kim Balasis

December 16, 2005

John always had a smile for me everyday that I saw him. I got to spend alot of time with him this last year when he would come over on his lunch break from work. His daily routine never changed. I would sit back and watch him play with his grandson Christian. Christian loved his PawPaw sooo much. I love you John and you will be missed by so many. Love, Kim

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