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Ruben John Pulido

2006 - 1970

Ruben Pulido Obituary

Ruben John Pulido, age 36, died on Sunday, December 17, 2006 in Palos Verdes, California. Ruben was born on September 11, 1970 in Redondo Beach, California to Ruben and Baselisa "Bashie" Pulido. He attended both Nativity Catholic Elementary and St. John Fisher Catholic Schools, and then attended Bishop Montgomery High School before graduating from Miraleste High School in 1989. A strong athlete, Ruben John participated in many sports including football, baseball and wrestling. After high school Ruben attended Harbor College for a year and continued playing football, and receiving an AA from Marymount College in Palos Verdes. He then moved on to Holy Cross College, and University of Notre Dame in South Bend, Indiana. Ruben John had a strong love for his family, and just 14 months ago became a father to his beautiful son, Riley. Throughout his life, Ruben had a strong passion for music. He was very artistic and talented, and he pursued his passions of music, acting, and writing and being an artist. Just this year, he started his own record label where he wrote, created and produced his own music. Another passion of Ruben's was his love of Notre Dame football. Attending games with his father was a joy, and had seen many games in South Bend, Indiana. Above all, Ruben John will be remembered for his fun-loving spirit. His warm, handsome grin, his sense of humor, his storytelling and his contagious laugh will forever be remembered by all who knew and loved him. He will always be in our hearts! Ruben is survived by his precious son Riley Montana and his mother Cynthia Walters (of Long Beach), loving parents Ruben Sr. and Bashie Pulido and his wonderful sister Lisa Pulido. He is further survived by his many aunts and uncles, cousins, and numerous friends and relatives. A rosary will be held at 10am on Wednesday, December 27, at St. Margaret Mary Church, 25511 Eshelman Avenue, in Lomita. A memorial mass service is planned following at 11:00am. In lieu of flowers, a memorial contribution can be sent to the Riley Montana Pulido Scholarship Fund. We would like to thank all of the wonderful friends and family who have been so supportive during this difficult time. Thank you for your loving words, support and prayers. Ruben John Pulido Dec. 17, 2006 - Sept. 11, 1970

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Published by Bakersfield Californian on Dec. 25, 2006.

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vince imbriale

December 17, 2020

Fond memories of my friend Ruben, in which i had the privilege to go surfing with him at his parents condo right on the point at k38 at Clubmarena which was so much fun, my friend left us way to early and so sad of this unperceiving tragedy RIP Ruben

December 12, 2010

"Dearest Bashie, Ruben and Lisa...I was shocked to learn that "little Ruben" had passed on. I clearly remember him as a iittle boy coming to the restaurant and then as a young man who seved as a DJ at my wedding. He did such a great job! I am deeply sorry that he is no longer here on this earth. God Bless you...Diane Lizardi Villa

Tammy Garcia-White

May 8, 2009

I met Ruben in Palm Springs in 1986 cruising the strip. He was an incredible guy and I looked forward to holidays because I knew he would be visiting Palm Springs with his family and friends and I would get to see him. I am heartbroken to learn of his passing. I will treasure all the great times we had together.

Adam Wright

November 7, 2007

Dearest Pulido's,

My life and God have brought many challenges and many angels to help overcome those obstacles. Ruben was one of those angels. I was a scared teenager, who had just moved from Florida to CA with his mother and soon to be stepfather. Ruben took me in as a friend and a brother playing football, baseball, wrestling at MHS and surfing/skating in our spare time. It is with deep sorrow and heartfelt sadness that I receive this news, my sincere condolences to your family and to the world for this tragic loss. God Bless.

You will be missed dude!

SELENE

July 20, 2007

I miss you cousin...

Paiman Kalayeh

June 9, 2007

Rueben was a good man with a big heart. I am grateful to have met you... May you rest in peace my friend.

P

KAI MACKEY

January 23, 2007

ME AND RUBIN WERE GOOD FRIENDS DURING HIGH SCHOOL.WE LOST TOUCH AFTER THAT BUT I JUST REMEMBER HIM AS BEING A COOL GUY.I RAN INTO LISA YEARS AGO IN SAN DIEGO AND LISA YOUR BROTHER WILL BE MISSED.

The Homicz Family

January 14, 2007

We are deeply sorry to hear of Ruben's death. Everyone will truly miss him. He was so full of fun and energy all the times our family knew him in those elementary and teenage days at St. John Fisher and BMHS. We hope God will provide you with comfort and the spirit to carry on despite this great loss. Ruben and your whole family are in our prayers.

Mike Schwartz

January 9, 2007

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Pulido and Lisa
Ruben has always been a true friend to me and my family. My sister has some great stories that are 100% because of Ruben. I have many fond memories of vacations, football games, and the non-stop laughter. I learned alot from Ruben and enjoyed all my adventures with him. Ruben had so many classic expressions. I still hear his laugh. I miss him.

January 8, 2007

Dear Pulido Family,

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. We want you to know we are thinking about you during this difficult time. We will be praying for your strength and comfort.

The Evans Family,
Owen, Andrea, and Gregory

Erika Zimmerman

January 8, 2007

To the Pulido Family:

My sincerest condolances over the loss of Ruben. It was a blessing indeed to have met him and shared some unforgettable humorous moments with him. You should be very proud for the man Ruben was. He was a very good friend to me and for that I am truly thankful.

My very best,
Erika

Rod Wallace

January 7, 2007

My memories playing in forts with Ruben when we were growing up are some of my fondest memories of California. My condolences on the loss of a great growing-up friend.

Joanne Benson

January 6, 2007

Ruben,Bachie,Lisa,May God give you the strength of prayer, family,
friends to go on each day.I am thinking of you in my prayers...
especially you Bachie.

Tiffany (Reiff) Young

January 5, 2007

To The Pulido Family,
Just wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.I went to Miraleste with Ruben.Many months back I ran into him @ 24 Hour Fitness, it was so great to see him again and his beautiful smile . He will never be forgotten.

Linda Ortiz

January 3, 2007

Pulido Family --

You may not remember us but Ruben and our son, Pete, attended Nativity and Bishop Montgomery together.

There are no words to express how sorry we are for your loss. God bless you and give you strength.

Ortiz Family

Reynolds

January 2, 2007

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Pulido and Lisa,

All of our prayers are with you. Our memories of Ruben when he was beuatifully lit up with joy is how we will remember him, and how we know he is now and will eternally be.

With love and deepest sympathy,
Georgiana, Jim, Sharon, Alyson, Sarah, Jim and Ann Reynolds

Kelly DiMond

January 2, 2007

Dear Mr. & Mrs. Pulido and Lisa,
I was so shocked to hear about Ruben my thoughts and prayers are with your family during this very difficult time. I have so many funny
stories about Ruben from our St.John Fisher days. I will always
remember how he laughed and I will miss him. God Bless!
Kelly DiMond (Hawkins)

Yolanda White

December 31, 2006

Ruben, Bashie and Lisa, you are all very special to Mike and I and my family. I am so so sorry we weren't there for you. Please know we are all praying for you, for your strength and your perseverance. Lisa take care of your Mom and Dad for me, I know you are. I wish I could take away your pain. I want you to know all the great times and memories I have of your whole family. Ruben is forever in my prayers. I miss you guys so much. Bashie and Ruben you taught him Love and it was evident in his smile. Take care and may our loving Father comfort you always. Yolanda and Mike White

Sarah Reynolds

December 30, 2006

Mr. and Mrs. Pulido and my dear sister Lisa,

For 20 years you have been like a family to me, and Ruben was like a brother. He protected me and cared for me, in ways I will never forget. He brightened my day whenever he was around, with that incredible, warm smile, genuine character and loving, free spirit. I feel fortunate and blessed to have known him, he was such an incredible guy.
I am shattered and so saddened by his passing, yet so so so thankful that I have such wonderful memories with him. Please know that your precious son/brother will always be in my heart, and he will NEVER be forgotten.
May you find refuge, strength and comfort in God's promise that Ruben is indeed at peace, and that one day you will see him again.
Though the years go by, and we are across the miles, you are still my family and I will always be here for you. I love you all very much and you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers.
With love,
Sar

J Scalzo

December 29, 2006

One of the nicest most caring persons I ever met. I was blessed to work with Ruben and he always made my day better. I will miss him dearly.

Debbie Romero

December 29, 2006

Mr.and Mrs. Pulido and Lisa:

I was so sorry to hear about Ruben. I went to BMHS with Ruben and became good friends with both Ruben and Lisa. Ruben was such a wonderful person and I have so many wonderful memories of him, your family has suffered a great loss. May the love of family and friends comfort and strengthen you at this sad time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

With love and sympathy,

Debbie Romero

Blodgie Rodriguez

December 29, 2006

Our precious Pulido's,
I wish there were words that could help ease your pain and fill the huge hole in your hearts. Unfortunately there aren't, but please know that there is comfort when we look to God to ease our pain. I KNOW that my precious cousin is in heaven and has finally found the peace that he has been seeking for so long. I love you all greatly and share your broken heart.

Delia (Gonzales) Carrasco

December 28, 2006

I am saddened by the news of the loss of Ruben John. I know how hard your loss must be, and I am keeping your family in my prayers. God will give you the strength and peace during this difficult time.

Sorry you had to go Ruben. Thanks for the great times!

Joe Carton

December 27, 2006

To the Pulido Family,

My deepest and most heartfelt sympathy goes out to you for your loss. I really enjoyed my time with Ruben and will miss him greatly. He always brightened my days with his positive outlook and wonderment in life. He reminded me of an eternally young boy that loved life so much. He was always kind to me and was very giving. When I think of Ruben I smile and for that I am thankful!

Darrin Del Conte

December 27, 2006

Mr. and Mrs. Pulido: My most heartfelt sympathy to your family as Ruben's loss is felt by many. Be very proud that in his far too short years with us, he has been able to touch, and be a part of so many. As my experiences with Ruben go back to his high school years, I have very fond memories of Ruben's talent on the football field, and his people skills talent off the football field. I saw a young kid come to Miraleste maybe a little bit confused, and two short years later I saw a young man graduate from Miraleste with the respect of all. As I have lost touch with Ruben over the years, I have not lost touch with some of the kids I coached, and enivatbly Ruben's name will come up in conversation. I will celebrate Ruben's life with my cherished memories of all the good that Ruben has created, as a special person such as Ruben does not deserve to be forgotten. My most sincere condolences...Darrin Del Conte

Steve, Lura & Cassie Jones

December 27, 2006

Mr and Mrs Pulido and Lisa,

We are so sorry to hear about the loss of Ruben John. Our deepest sympathy to the Pulido family at this most difficult of times.

God Bless,

Alice Kerney

December 27, 2006

Ruben, Bashie & Lisa,
I was very saddened to hear of your loss of Ruben John. My prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Alice Kerney (friend of Dick Ollivares)

Sam and Misty (Ornelas) Coronado

December 26, 2006

Aunt Bashie, Uncle Ruben, and Cousin Lisa,
We are so terribly sad by the loss of Ruben John. Sammy did not get the chance to know him very well, but I loved him more than words can express....So many of my happiest childhood memories have him in them. And even some of the not so happy ones....man, did he LOVE to pick on me! When I met Riley the other day (for the first time), he made me so happy! I know he will do the same for you, he's a little piece of Ruben John left here for us on earth. We love you all and please know that you're in our thoughts and prayers.

Andrew Jaksic

December 26, 2006

With Deepest Sympathy

Jennifer Peabody

December 26, 2006

To the Pulido Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Growing up, Ruben was always around. He was like the second brother I never wanted, but loved nonetheless. He and Brett were two peas in a pod, always up to something and always available for commentary on my boyfriends, friends and my clothing. It was hard to get away with anything with those two around. Ruben was a great friend to my family and especially my brother. He will be missed, but will always be remembered for his smile, laughter, friendship and keen wit. May he rest in peace.

Loretta Nevarez

December 26, 2006

Nina & Nino...may God bless and comfort you at this very difficult time. I am very sorry for your loss.

Loretta Garcia Nevarez

Roy and Susan Mirelez

December 26, 2006

Uncle Ruben, Aunt Bashie, cousin Lisa. For reasons we will never understand your precious son and brother were taken from you to soon. When I saw little Riley, I saw Ruben John. He is a beautiful little boy and I pray that when you hold him in your arms you will feel some comfort and peace. I believe that when Ruben John left this place that the Angels took him to heaven where Tia, Paul and Liz welcomed him with open arms.

sharon gilboy

December 26, 2006

Ruben,Bashie and Lisa.
We were shocked and saddened by the news of ruben john's passing. Our prayers are with you all at these difficult times, may you take comfort that ruben is at peace and is always with you in your hearts and thoughts.

May god bless you all,
Sharon gilboy

Leonore Garcia

December 26, 2006

Tia Bashie, Ruben & Lisa – We are so, so, sorry to hear about Ruben. We are praying for him & your family.
Although, my kids never met Ruben, they feel sorrow for their Tia Bashie, who they know & love.
Lisa, I know you are taking good care of your Mom & Dad, stay strong, girl.
May God Bless & give you Peace. We love you.
Cousins,
Leonore Garcia (Bakersfield, CA)
Lawrence III, Felicia & son Jonathan & Carinna & daughter Lisette
& Garcia Family
(Lisa, please call me if you need anything)

Ed & Gen Lara and Family

December 26, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Krista Schlappatha

December 26, 2006

Mr. and Mrs. Pulido and Lisa,
I just wanted to say how sorry I am and may the love of friends and family be a source of comfort to you at this difficult time. Lisa, please do not hesitate to call me if I can help in any way.
Love,
Krista, Tom, Justin, Tyler & Travis

Brett Peabody

December 26, 2006

Mr. & Mrs Pulido, Lisa, Cynthia Walters and young Riley;

God bless you all.
Though we went our seperate paths over the past several the incredibly loyal friendship that Ruben provided me has never been forgotten. A friendship that began in fourth grade in the back of Ruben Sr's El Camino on the way to our Pop Warner football games became an unbreakable bond upon our reunification as Jr's at MHS. A bond and friendship that created incredible memories and experiences, whether it was battling on the Gridiron, cleaning roach coaches, chasing our favorite mice or going on one of our wild road trips / vacations to Mammoth, Tahoe, TJ or Palm Springs Ruben always had my back. His infectious smile, laugh and personality will live on foerever in all of those who knew him. I for one, every time I step on a football field to coach or watch my sons play I will pray for Ruben and the treasure the glowing memories that accompanied our endeavors for it is these experiences that have helped drive me, better me and inspire me. God bless you Ruben Pulido, I hope you are in Peace and can feel and appreciate the love coming from sooo many people who you truly have touched and who love you.

The Peabody Family
- Brett, Celeste, Taylor,Drake & Jake

Steve Cheek

December 26, 2006

Lisa and the Pulido Family....
Our deepest sympathy. So sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you all.
Steve Cheek and Karen Kapen

George De La Torre

December 26, 2006

Dear Ruben & Bashie: There are no words capable of expressing our sorrow for both of you. We cannot begin to feel the saddnes of losing a child that you have loved every day of his life. The Lord works in very strange ways that is not understandable to us mortals. Maybe he just needed another good man at his side. At least you have your grandson to carry on for him. We just feel so badly for you and wish that there was something that we could do to help. Our prayers go out to you and your son. Whatever was bothering him has been put to rest. Someday you will be with him again. Please pass on our deepest sympathies to Lisa.
Our love to you,
Lee & George De La Torre

RAY MASON

December 26, 2006

Lisa, Ruben, & Bashie --
I was so shocked to read about
Ruben John. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all
the rest of your family.

Cynthia Aguirre

December 26, 2006

Ruben, Bashie, and Lisa, my family and I are saddened to hear about Ruben John. Even though as we grew older we really did not see each other he was always in our thoughts. Always asking Blodgie and Bubba how your Lisa and Ruben John were doing. Ruben John will forever be in the Aguirre's thoughts and hearts. We have great memories of him and he has left us with many laughs and smiles. Again our thoughts and prayers go out to Ruben, Bashie,Lisa and Riley. May God give you the strength to come to peace with your loss.

Daye Mota

December 26, 2006

Our heart and prayer's go out to the Pulido family at this very difficult time.
Tom and Daye Mota

Robert L. Ornelas

December 26, 2006

To Ruben ,Bashie,and mija Lisa. Juanita and I know the hurt and pain you guys are feeling We lost our Lizzie, 5 years ago we know shes in Heaven right now showing little Ruben the ropes,with Dolores ,Paul and all our other family and friends who are there too.take care we will see you soon. God Bless and Take Care,
Robert and Juanita Ornelas. Sandra and Vincent Barulich,Bobby and Laura,Chris and Colleen, Shirley and her son Joseph.
The Ornelas Family.

Joseph Flores

December 26, 2006

Casa Palido's, Ruben-John will always be in our hearts and minds he will be missed. He will be in our preyers

Erin Narbut

December 26, 2006

Dear Bashie,Ruben,and Lisa,
I am thinking of each of you as you celebrate Ruben's life and yet say goodbye to him here on earth. He will always be with you in your thoughts and you can always speak with him in your prayers. Remember the joy, and the wonderful times with Ruben,and cherish them forever.
Ruben John, I am grateful to have known you and call you my friend!
God Bless,
Erin and Michael, Brady and Zachary Narbut

Bill Wilson

December 25, 2006

Mr. & Mrs. Pulido and Lisa, I am shocked and sadded to hear that we will not have the blessing of being in the presence of Ruben's bright smile, energetic curiousity, genuine humility and care for his friends and family he loved so much. Ruben touched so many of us with his positive vibrations and energy--I only wish we could have done more to quell his suffering and been with him to comfort him in his last moments here on earth. We had so many good times, surfing together down in mexico and partying (responsibly) after collecting up as a sober surf club.

You are good parents who did everything for your son. And Lisa, I know you and Ruben were very, very close--he loved you so. We can take comfort in that Ruben is at last at peace. May he live within us all forever...

Sylvia Alma Marin - Padilla

December 25, 2006

Dear Pulido Family
May ou heavenly father sustain all of you during this difficult time. Your loss is great, but the memories shared with your son will be a great source of comfort to you. May the grace of God shine on you and your family, for God's word says his grace is sufficient for us. God bless you all.

chris Svoboda

December 25, 2006

Ruben,Bashie and Lisa,
I am saddaened by your loss but please remember that there is piece with God and it is one that is irreplaceable. I truly believe that ruben is in a peaceful place. I Love and think of you daily , Love, Chris and jerry Svoboda

Sean Gilboy

December 25, 2006

Rueben,Bashie and Lisa,
I am deeply saddened to hear about (little)Rueben's passing.I will always remember his contagious laugh and ever present smile.My thoughts and prayers will be with you.
God bless,
Sean Gilboy

Carmen Zaragoza Ramos

December 25, 2006

I am so sorry for the loss of your son I sincerely hope god is looking at you which I know he is at this very difficult time. Your fried always

Louis and Irene Ornelas

December 25, 2006

Dear Ruben, Bashie, and lisa. All our love and prayers go out to you in this moment of sadness. We will always remember him and love him. May the Lord be with you always. Your loving brother Junior and sister-in law Irene.

Arthur Ornelas

December 25, 2006

Ruben,Bashie, and Lisa
The Lord has Ruben John with him now! He has always had a plan for him. Trust the Lord. He will give you the strength you need to go on. With all of us praying for Ruben John, the Lord will hear and bless our family.

Our deepest prayers are with you
Art and Mary Lou and family

Olivia Leca

December 25, 2006

Dear Bashie & Family---Our thoughts & prayers are with you during this difficult time. Your cousins,

Sally Ornelas
Irma Ornelas Olivia Ornelas-Leca

Teresa Ornelas

December 25, 2006

Dear Pulido Family,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this time. May the Lord continue to watch and guide you through this difficult time. Cousin Teresa Ornelas & Family

Paul Lemire

December 25, 2006

I wanted to send my deepest sympathies to Lisa and the entire Pulido family. Walking into Casa Pulido every once in awhile and seeing Ruben was always a breath of fresh air. His spirit will always be here and with us.
Much love, peace, and blessings..
Paul Lemire

Alexander D. Ornelas

December 25, 2006

Ruben John you will always be in our hearts we love you . Your Uncle Alex @ Aunt Bonnie Ornelas

Teresa Owens (formerly Ruiz)

December 24, 2006

Dear Pulido Family:

I am so sorry to hear of your loss...know that Ruben is in Heaven watching over you and your family. I went to Nativity and was 2 years older than Ruben....I fondly remember him with that grin that so many people have written about. We have also been to your restaurant when we've returned to the South Bay. Hold Ruben close in your hearts and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Brenda Breeden

December 24, 2006

Mr. & Mrs. Pulido and Family

My prayers are with you now and forever. May you begin to understand that your son is now at peace with the Lord. He is your Angel in Heaven that will continue to watch over you.

God Bless you always. Love and Peace

Brenda Breeden and Father - St. Margaret Mary Parish, Lomita, CA

Rick Russek

December 24, 2006

RIP young man. So sad and way too young. I'll hold a good thought for Ruben and his family

vince imbriale

December 24, 2006

I am very sorry for this loss of my friend ruben, who i have enjoyed surfing with, and as a guest at his parents condo at clubmarena

Louise Barilli (Theresa A.'s Daughter)

December 24, 2006

Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this difficult time. God Bless.

Tracey Savich

December 23, 2006

To The Pulido Family,
Ruben was a good friend of our family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Tracey, Jeff, Karen & Stan Savich

David Magallanes

December 23, 2006

I'm very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with your family .

Frank Ravaglia Jr.

December 23, 2006

Mr. And Mrs. Pullido, Prayers and my Heart go out to you. I miss my Brother Rube, words cant describe the person he was. He made me the person I am today,
Lisa," If you need anything, talk, someone to listen, pictures...etc. please call me! I feel so hurt!

Kathy Higgins

December 23, 2006

12-23-06

Please accept my deepest sympathy....May All know his Angels are with him, and His Spirt and spirts are strong.
No Bond was/is greater than All:
Ruben Sr. Bashie Pulido, and Lisa Pulido,and this gift of a beloved child Riley Monanta ( to grandpa, grandma, and aunit lisa,) but most to Ruben Jr and Cynthina Walters....is a blessing from God.

May Blessing be with you in this grieving time, my pryers are with you all.

Your forever friend and cusomer ( old insuance agent).

My Love be with you all.
Kathy Higins

Roberta Awerkamp

December 23, 2006

To The Pulido Family,

No words can describe how sorry we are to hear of your loss. We have learned that the Lord does work in mysterious ways. He has a plan for Ruben that is greater and more wonderful than any of us could provide. Please accept our prayers and thoughts that are with you at the time.

M.L.&Danny Williams

December 23, 2006

Although we did not have the privilege of knowing your son Ruben, we do know your lovely daughter.We wish the Pulido family peace...peace...
M.L.,Danny,and Michelle Williams
Riviera Mexican Grill

Larry and Darlene McCleary

December 23, 2006

With Deepest Sympathy

Mike, Linda & Zachary Russo

December 23, 2006

Our Hearts go out to the Pulido family.

Brad Barez

December 23, 2006

Dearest Pulido Family:
Words cannot describe the sorrow I feel for Rubin, and the amazing family he left behind. The first time I met Rubin he ran full speed into me carrying the football at MHS. Instantly, I gave him respect and started a great friendship. I could always count on Rubin for anything. He had solid character, sincere heart, and a memorable sense of humor. One thing I’ll always remember is seeing the overwhelming family support from Lisa, Mr. and Mrs. Pulido at every football game. Losing Rubin is like missing a family member. Experiencing this lose makes everyone cherish their family and friends at a much higher level. Rubin will ALWAYS live in our hearts forever.
Love,
Victoria, Brian, Dantyza, and Brad Barez #88

Frank Bostrom

December 23, 2006

From the gang at USC who forgave your Norte Dameness: Bernie Lopez, Jason-Alyssa-Rebecca-Frank Bostrom, Steve Colin, Johnnie Colin, Kella and Joan from the front Row, Steve Remington.........We will miss your salutes when Norte Dame did something!

Dan and Nora Graham

December 23, 2006

Ruben, Bashie and Lisa,

We were so sorry to hear of your loss...we pray for you, we grieve with you and we love you.

Lorenzo and Emma Gomez (and Family)

December 23, 2006

Rubin and Bashie, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We know how hard it is to loose a son,Lorenzo and I found comfort in knowing that what ever pain they were in, that god had healed them and has them in his loving hands. We pray for you and your family.
Love,
Lorenzo and Emma Gomez

Ted Boyd & Family

December 23, 2006

Our thoughts & prayers are with the Pulido family during this difficult time. We are so sorry for your loss.

christopher ornelas

December 23, 2006

Uncle Ruben, Aunt Bashie, and Cousin Lisa, Colleen,and I were so saddened to hear of the news. We will always have fond, funny , great memories of him. My cousin Ruben John was a beautiful soul and person,he lived a full life in the seemingly short time he was with us. All our prayers are with you in this trying time.Our faith, family, and friends will
help all of us to accept what we cannot change,and it is our faith, belief,thatwe will see and be with him again. Love Always Chris,Colleen,Robbie,Olivia,Ornelas

Vicki Allen

December 23, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief

Doris Brands

December 23, 2006

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Rhonda Johnson

December 23, 2006

To the Pulido family, I just want to tell you how very sorry I am for the loss of Ruben Jr. I just know that he is with God smiling down on you. I love you all and I am praying that God will give you the strength you need to get through this. May all the happy memories find you and may you have the peace that you need knowing he is in a better place.
With Love,
Rhonda

Marty & Ramona Rougeaux

December 23, 2006

Our warmest memories of a wonderful young man.
Marty & Moe
Bombay Cigar Society
Avenue I

Val Schafer

December 23, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I hope in someway it helps to know how many people care.
Love, Val Schafer ( Your customer for as long as you have been in business)

Johanna Marin

December 23, 2006

My heart and prayers will forever be with you all...

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Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

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How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

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How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

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