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Ruby Lee Smith

1914 - 2010

Ruby Lee Smith obituary, 1914-2010

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1914

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2010

Ruby Smith Obituary

Ruby Lee Smith February 22, 1914 - September 8, 2010 Services will be held Wednesday for Ruby Lee Smith, who died Sept. 8 in Bakersfield at the age of 96. The daughter of Emory J. Hulett and Mollie Minyard, Ruby was born on February 22, 1914 in Newton, Texas. She and her sisters, Ruth and Ronnie, and brother, Willy, grew up in various Texas locations, where their father worked as a salesman and educator, and their mother operated boarding houses. The family eventually settled in Austin, where Ruby attended the University of Texas and became a lifelong UT supporter. Ruby loved teaching and working with children. Upon graduation from UT in 1935, she taught briefly in Texas, before moving to California in 1940, where she first worked as a substitute teacher and then as a full-time teacher in the Arvin Elementary School District. She later moved to Wayside School in Bakersfield, where she taught for 25 years until her retirement in 1974. Her marriage to Woodrow Smith in 1941 lasted 55 years, until Woodrow's death in 1996. The couple had two sons, Mark and Keith Smith, who describe Ruby as a "committed mother," who kept them involved in music, scouting and sports while they were young and on through college. Until her death, she was an ardent Bakersfield College football fan and season ticket holder. Mark also recalled that his mother was way ahead of her time regarding diet and nutrition: "From 1950 forward, she was committed to making sure her family ate a diet of the highest nutritional value, whether we liked it or not. There was never any junk food in her house. Sodas and candy were never purchased, and if there was a dessert, it was usually homemade. In her later years, she did buy ice cream, but it was soy based." Ruby was active in her church, First Baptist and later Olive Drive Church. She also was active in the Order of Eastern Star, serving as Worthy Matron Libertas Chapter. With the American Cancer Society, she drove cancer patients to appointments for many years. She enjoyed sewing and made many doll clothes for her granddaughters when they were young. Ruby is survived by her sons, Mark Smith and wife, Debi, and Keith Smith and wife, Sharon, all of Bakersfield; five grandchildren, Tessa Andrews, Randall Van Bebber, Sunshine Huffman, Jenna Hale and Lani Chevoya; and nine great grandchildren. Services will be held Wednesday at 10 a.m. in the Hillcrest Memorial Park Chapel. Graveside services will follow. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the BC Athletic Foundation, 1801 Panorama Dr., Bakersfield 93305, or the HBS Foundation, P.O. Box 1290, Lake Worth, FL. 33460. The family extends special thanks to her faithful reader Candace Gomez, her personal assistants, Delores Torres and Gloria Reyes, and the caring staff at Hallmark of Bakersfield and Lifehouse Parkview. alifesstory.com www.bakersfield.com/obits

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Published by Bakersfield Californian from Sep. 14 to Sep. 15, 2010.

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Paul Watson

September 22, 2010

I always liked Aunt Ruby. She was one of the most positive people I have ever known. After my mom got Alzheimer's I would get phone calls weekly from her checking on her baby sister Ronnie. She was about 20 years ahead of the health movement and knew all the right foods to eat. She and my mom could remember every persons name what they did and what their kids did. She had an amazing memory. I have several pictures of her and Mom when my Dad went off to WW2 as a B17 pilot, they lived together when Steve was born. Let me tell you they were some good looking women. Not sure what happened to our genes after that but they had great looks and very smart brains. What is really sad is all that family history we have lost. My memory is no where near the level of those two sisters. I am so glad Steve and I got to visit her and her "boys" a few years ago. Our Love to all of you. You had a great Mom!

Ramona S. Smith Burnette

September 22, 2010

I will say our condolences from our Smith family - Dennis P. Smith, wife Barbara Jean Perry Smith, Ramona Sue Smith Burnette, Paul G. Smith, Peter B. Smith, Roxanna Marie Smith Miller (Keaton). At least she is now with Great Uncle Woody and her family. It's shame the Smith family seems to be spread out over the USA for we really don't get to know our family line. (D.D. Smith Family) I am in Albuquerque, New Mexico and the rest of the Smith crew are in Richmond, Virginia.

Steve Watson

September 21, 2010

I always felt like her favorite nephew. Maybe I was, but she had a way of making every person she spoke with feel like her favorite person, and that was her most inspiring quality to me. Such a kind, generous, giving spirit she had.

Yes, she made eating healthy food a constant focus, but she made it fun. She probably added years to the lives of anyone who would listen.

She loved stories, and had many old favorites like photos in an album. I really did enjoy just listening. I got to see her a few years ago when my Uncle Al died (Dad's side of the family), and after that I began calling her from time to time. She got me to call an old friend of hers here in Richmond and we chatted some about old memories. Ruby knew so many people, and cared about each of them. I'm sorry she had to go.

I regret not making it to the funeral, because I would have enjoyed seeing my cousins again. I like this guest book though; it's nice to hear from some of the other cousins I haven't seen in a while. My condolences to all her family at the loss.

As for Ruby, maybe I'll pick up the old prayer-phone and send her a message in heaven. Bet she answers, too.

David Halstead

September 17, 2010

I always loved Aunt Ruby's positive outlook.
I know it is a great loss for the family but I also know she is probably having a party with Mom and Aunt Ronnie right about now (Not to mention hugging Uncle Woody again!).
Unfortunately I never could develop a taste for that wheat germ stuff she kept touting, though.
Love, Prayers, and Condolences to all my cousins and the rest of her friends and family, she was a wonderful woman.
David Halstead

Steve Ricks

September 16, 2010

Ruby was one of the sweetest women I ever knew. We lived across the street until I was ten. On the rare occasion when she watched us, she always had a learning lesson (homework) ready for us. I agree with the story told in her obituary about being advanced in heath foods for her time, No candy at Ruby's house. She shared protein tabs, they tasted great I remember as a kid. At Halloween it was an apple, nuts or box of raisins. She will always be one of my fondest memories of my childhood. Mark and Keith, I only saw you a few times. Your mom is with her Lord. May God bless your families with comfort and peace at this difficult time.

Sharon Halstead

September 16, 2010

Although we were physically distant, Aunt Ruby always held a special place in my heart. My sympathies and condolences are sent to my cousins in their time of sorrow. She was a wonderful lady who will be sorely missed by all those whose lives she touched. Vaya con Dios, Tia Ruby.

Mary Lu Smith

September 16, 2010

To Mark, Keith, and your families-
From your Arkansas cousins, Mary Lu Smith, Terry Ann Smith Davis, and your Aunt Dorothy (Wayne's family)----

So many memories of you guys when we were kids. Yes, I remember all the vitamins your mom would bring to our house, and she told us to never run hot water over the frozen orange juice to thaw it - it killed the vitamins!

My husband and I visited your parents in 1976, when we lived in San Diego and our son was newborn. I still remember - Sunshine was little and she called our baby Jason "my brother" and my husband "your other brother".

The last time I talked to Aunt Ruby was probably 6 years ago - we shared excitement about Bible Study Fellowship, in which we were both involved. She was so encouraging to me - always positive.

Before your dad died, your parents called me one night. That voice!-- so much like my father's, brought me right back. You know, Uncle Woody was very special to me, he reminded me so much of my dad. And he gave me away at my wedding.

Your mom could tell a story like no one else! And it might last a while!
I know she touched so many lives while she was here on earth - no doubt she will continue to be an inspiration to others for a long time to come.

Even though we have not seen you guys for a long time, we still remember and think of you. I will never forget one Ruby Smith.

Patty Lowell

September 15, 2010

My teaching inspiration.
Thank you for all your care, concern and support.
You were a wonderful neighbor those years on Fishering. Enjoyed your boys also. Many a nights playing hide-and-go-seek.
If carrot juice is what kept you around so long I'm going out to buy a juicer right now.
Retired after 35 years of teaching.
Patty (Ivester) Lowell

September 14, 2010

God Bless you in your loss

Joy Stamp

September 14, 2010

Oh my goodness what great joy took place the moment Ruby took her last breath on earth and the next one she experienced in the presence of her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ ! I can just see her full out excitement and delight as she saw THE ONE whom she adored her whole life.

I had the priviledge of going to Ruby's home as a young wife and mother back in 1976-1977. This group met each week and shared prayer requests and praises and learned about God and His unfailing love.

Ever so lady like and shy and bubbly and positive and prayerful and available and concerned and giving and unassuming and proper and sensitive and delightful and always with a twinkle in her eye she was.

Ruby gave me some of her Maiden Hair Fern clumps from her front yard for planting at my first home and I have been careful to take some with me to each house since then. I have some in planters at my front door to my fourth home now that are a continual reminder of her :D

I had lost touch with Ruby over the years with the busyness of life, howevr, I thought of her regularly for various reasons and she will FOREVER HOLD A SPECIAL PLACE IN MY HEART.

Your family was so blessed to have such a lovely woman praying for you and being an earthly example of a TRUE BELIEVER.

I am sorry I won't be able to attend her service, I was hoping it wasn't on Wednesday, as I have a commitment as a table leader at a Bible study and I know she would want me there to help influence other women to know Christ more. Eternally grateful to have known her, Joy

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