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1962
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2009
Shirley Valverde Obituary
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Mia Valverde
May 11, 2025
Hi mommy its you little girl i miss you so much , im so happy you get to be with dad now you guys are finally back together i bet hes so happy, IM often lonley but nicos keeping me together . I miss you both so much but happy mothers day you were such an amazing mom i wish i had more time with you , im 22 now and i was 6 when you passed still think about you everyday . Happy mothers day beautiful
Daughter
October 24, 2022
Hi mom miss you so much tell papa I said hi and I miss you both so much one day we will be reunited and a family again until then keep watching over me I love you!!
daughter
December 27, 2020
Hey Mom Im 17 now i miss you so much theres still a hole in the family we still miss you alot i wish you were here so our christmas couldve been together i love you and miss you
cody valverde
December 27, 2011
i still think about u every day mom. Even though things have gotten easier and we have gotten used to u not being here anymore, its still hard not having u here to talk to and be around. my peace of mind has been absent for awhile and i cant seem to get it back. this song playing brings back memories of when u passed.
i love u mom
cody
R.....
June 19, 2011
I miss you.....
Christina Hunt
January 14, 2011
People come into our life for a reason, and even if only for a short time, they still helped to shape us into who we are. Thanks for being a part of mine!I can still remember your beautiful smile. My mom taking me and Shawn to your house in the mornings. and you would take Josh, cody, me and Shawn to school. then after school go back to yours and Rudolfs till mom picked us up later. I love you, you were like a 2nd mom. and we were truly blessed to have all of you in our lives.You will forever live in my heart.
your son cody
April 13, 2010
Not a day goes by that i dont think of you mom, how u left all us behind, me, dad, josh, mia,kadynce and connor, how u loved all us in such a special way, a way ive never seen a mother love her family, u were one of a kind, everyone that knew u knows that, u were one of a kindand im so grateful for having u in our life, dancing with josh on his wedding day, getting the little girl u always said u wanted, and yer 2 grandbabies u loved unconditionally. U were always there for us WHENEVER we need u, no matter what, u corrected us when we were wrong, u picked up the ball when we dropped it and there to talk to us, hug and kiss us and teach us the right ways of life and stand up for what we know is right. i still feel disbelief, how could this happen to us? we are trying so hard to hang on for dear life here, even after u been gone for 6 months. You and god know, your job was done here, u would still be here if it wasnt, we are all the exact way u wanted us, especially mia, u gave us something special that we will carry on through her and yer grandbabies. i wish u were here. thank u everyone for all the kind words, means alot.
i love u mama. always...and forever.
sarah Kandler
March 17, 2010
Wow shirley its been forever since i last seen or talked to you.. I really miss you so much.
We moved away from the street. i hated leaving everyone. i really wish you were still here i wannt to tell you so much. you were so nice to me and always there for me. One day dosent go by when i dont miss you
Patricia Pelayo
March 16, 2010
Dear Shirley,
I will never forget the deep conversation i had with you at josh and sabrinas about being a mother. i never got to get your secret to your pasta salad, but thank heavens your daughter in law sabrina is taking that over for you. You will always be missed.
March 16, 2010
My beautiful cousin,what are we gonna do without you.I dont know life without you.So many memories so many tears.I love you forever.Terri Smith-Juarez
Amy Smith
January 24, 2010
My Aunt Shirley,
I miss you more than you could imagine. I'm sure you can see us down here suffering, unlike what you would want.. but how can we not suffer when you are not with us? I love you so much my aunt. I wish you were here with us.
Lindz rizzo
November 1, 2009
My dearest mema shirley, I miss hearing your voice and seeing your smile, your laugh and your funny faces! Im glad god put you in my life and in my family. Shirley was my 2nd mom, She was apart of my other family. No not the second family you hear about on Oprah but Cody, Josh Meghan and I have a hard time explaining how we are related but We just are! Shirley was such a sweet warm hearted person and she will be greatly missed. i love you shirley!
Cherie Stephen
November 1, 2009
To the Valverde and Smith family...my heart goes out to you all. My prayers are with you during this very difficult time. I am very honored to have known such an amazing person. May you all find comfort soon in knowing that she is in the house of the Lord. May God be with you all.
Karen Leonard
October 31, 2009
She will be greatly missed by all that knew her. She was a great friend of mine,There when I needed someone the most.So kind n loving n never judgemental.the world has lost one of the kindest n loving souls n heaven has gained one. My deepest sympathys go out to her family She"ll be forever be in Our Hearts. I LOVE YOU SHIRLEY ...
Lori Timblin
October 31, 2009
To Shirley's family... I am so sorry for your lost. My heart is broken for you all. My prayers are with each of you. Shirley was one of my very favorite foster mom's. I will always love her. God Bless you.
Fonda Winslow
October 31, 2009
I did not know Shirley, but I am one of Cody's instructor's at SBBCollege and she must have been a wonderful person because she raised an outstanding young man. Cody, my heart goes out to you and your family during this very difficult time. I pray that you find strength and peace in your time of grief.
Mandy Decker
October 30, 2009
I will miss u greatly you was a big part of my life growing up and i am going to miss you soo ,,love you Shirley ann Valverde,,wonderful lady,, walk with the lord now ...Mandy and Family
Terrie Valverde
October 30, 2009
Rudolph, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. It was a great shock to hear of Shirleys passing. May the Lord bless you and your family at this time and always. As the days turn into months may your sorrow and tears turn to laughter and joy as you remember all the love and little things that Shirley did for you. God Bless You,
Cshelle Bustamante
October 30, 2009
I first met Shirley when my mom and I moved to Bakersfield almost twenty three years ago. We lived right across the street from her, Rudy, Josh, and Cody. As a little girl I would walk across the street and hang out at her house for hours, just talking about anything and everything. She was so easy to talk to. As I got older and of course moved out on my own, I could always count on her saying hi and waving from across the street when I would come to visit my mom. Our daugters would even play with one another when my mom would babysit for me.She had such big heart and anyone that knew her would agree. You could see the love in there family anytime you were around them all. I can't imagine what the family is going through right now. My thoughts and prayers are with each and everyone of them. We will miss you and love you always Shirley.
Tiffany Luaces
October 30, 2009
she was a mother to me, she took me in when i needed help,she kept me on the right track.She Belived In Me Whin Others Didnt.I'll Miss Her Very Much.Her Husband Rudolf Is The Best Husband And Dad Any one can ask for He has a heart of gold,they were a match made in heaven.Her Boy's Josh And Cody are the most carring, loving boy's I know. I Wish The Family the best of luck,my heart goes out to you.I love you All
Robbie Valverde
October 30, 2009
Shirley was a root in many people’s lives for many different things. For me she was solid and constant. Irreplaceable. She built strong foundations in the lives of her children who will undoubtedly do the same for theirs. Believe in God, believe in yourself and stand up for what you believe is right. That’s just the way it was for her.
A huge void is left in our lives, but those of us blessed to have known her; we carry many memories of her ever-present smile. I will miss drinking coffee and chitchatting about life in general whether it was in person or over the phone. I try not to be selfish and remember that an earthly angel was taken but an eternal angel was gained. We all miss her so much.
Jessica Kays
October 30, 2009
I am so sorry. I can't even imagine how hard this has to be for everyone. My heart aches for all of you. She was such a strong and loving person. It's so sad that such good people have to leave in such a short time. The closeness that your family felt was heartfelt no matter who was around you. And that is something that you will have with you forever. My prayers are with your family. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Cindy Kays-Robinson
October 30, 2009
I remember what a great mom you were to your boys. I remember you always having a smile on your face, especially when you saw your boys. My heart goes out to the whole family. I am so sorry for your loss. My daughters were so upset to hear of such an unfortunate and unexpected loss. We all knew you were such a loving and protecting mother- the same I am with my daughters. I can only imagine the pain they're going through and I wish to them all of the strength in the world.
Corey Manos
October 30, 2009
Ana - I am so sorry for your lose. I will keep your family in my prayers.
Nancy Jacobson
October 30, 2009
Ana and Family, it broke my heart to hear of Shirley's passing. Although it's been years since I've seen her - I remember her bigger than life spirit and her great laugh. It was always fun when she was around! My heart goes out to you and your family.
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