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Stephen Graham Barton

1950 - 2007

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1950

DIED

2007

Stephen Barton Obituary

We, the family of Stephen Graham Barton sadly announce the passing of our loved one Stephen. Stephen passed away at his home in the arms of his partner, Gail Howlett. He is survived by his mother, Jacque Barton of San Luis Obispo; his partner, Gail Howlett of Bakersfield; sisters, Susan Barton and husband, Gary Clark of Los Angeles, Judith Bean and husband, Rob Bean of Los Osos; brothers, Christopher Barton of Bakersfield, George Barton and wife, Denise of Hollister; nephews, Matthew, Andrew and Timothy Clark, and Seth Bean; and many friends. We miss and love you Didi Rest in Peace G loves S Stephen Graham Barton Dec. 20, 1950 - June 18, 2007 Davis Rose Funeral Home

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Published by Bakersfield Californian on Jun. 24, 2007.

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July 23, 2007

S, you helped me thru a tough time in my life and I'd like to think I helped you. You were the man I waited for. I never knew love could feel this way. I miss you terribly. Four years was too short. I found one of your cards, yes, I feel the same about you. I love you more than life itself too. Love, G

amanda moody

June 29, 2007

stephen your smiling face is missed at rite aid
gail we are very sorry to u and family about your loss he was a very good man for the short 5 years i have known u guts as customers . #1 rite aid cashier amanda

Erin Howlett

June 28, 2007

Steven was the best thing that could have ever happened to my mom (Gail Howlett), I truly have never seen her so happy. He was an amazing man, full of wisdom, energy, and love. He helped me through hard times when i didn't believe in myself, and reminded me of what a strong person i am. Thank you for everything Steven, i miss you.

Darrell & Lynda Smith

June 28, 2007

Stephen was truly a nice guy and a person worth knowing. He wasn't with us long enough.

Vanessa Robinson

June 28, 2007

Stephen somehow convinced me to get on his Harley. I really enjoyed his spirit and energy. I don´t know how many people would be able to dress me up in leather and get me to ride a motorcycle! I am sorry for Gail's loss. Life is such a fragile thing and the loss of love the hardest.

Shannon Howlett

June 26, 2007

I'm so thankful my mom was able to meet and fall in love with such a nice, intelligent, unique, and funny man like Stephen. I can still remember going to The Red Pepper, and I think I might have only met him once before this, and I mentioned that I thought the waiter was cute. The next time the waiter came over, Stephen told him what I had said! and was trying to get his number for me! :) He knew life was too short to take too seriously. Thank you for touching my life and teaching me not to take myself too seriously.

George Barton

June 25, 2007

Steve was my hero growing up. He paved the way for me (getting in trouble first; that way it wasn't so bad when I did the same thing...). I remember a time when I was in elementary school and was getting picked on by the neighborhood bully. All of a sudden Steve came flying over a wall and pounded that bully into the ground. My favorite quote from Steve, "Civility costs you nothing." My favorite memories: the beach fires in Santa Cruz with the "Gang".

John Wittenberg

June 24, 2007

Thank you Steve, for all the great times we had together and for introducing me to Janice. You were my best friend.

Janice Strubbe Wittenberg

June 24, 2007

Through Steve I met and married my husband, John Wittenberg. For that, I will be forever grateful to him.

Way back when, we were just a gang of kids. Deborah, Steve, Burr, Christie, Bink, Buckwheat, George, Chris, Andy, John and myself. We shared many laughs and many adventures. I'm pretty sure we all thought we'd live forever

After many years of being out of touch, I'm glad we got a chance to reconnect. It was quite a gift. And I am so grateful that Steve had Gail in the end.

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