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Abigail G. Shrader

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Abigail G. Shrader obituary, 2000-2017, Baltimore, MD

BORN

2000

DIED

2017

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Abigail Shrader Obituary



On July 31, 2017, Abigail Grace Shrader, Beloved daughter of Lisa Marie Elliott and Mark Shrader, granddaughter of June and Donald Shrader and Carolyn and David Souders. Niece of James and Matthew Elliott, John Shrader, and Stephenne and Shan Khan. Cousin of Hannah Shrader and Jhan Ali Khan. Goddaughter of Mark Quinn. A memorial service will be held at a later date at the Epworth United Methodist Church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her name to the Joshua Frase Foundation, 124 Crossroad Lakes Dr., Ponte Vedra Beach, FL 32082, the MDA of Baltimore 8501 Lasalle Rd, Towson, MD 21286 or to Chive Charities https://chivecharities.org To sign the family guestbook, please visit www.burgee-henss-seitz.com

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Published by Baltimore Sun on Aug. 2, 2017.

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Melissa Hawkins

September 23, 2017

What I remember most about Abi was her smile. She lit up the room when she came in. I remember her coming to hard rock with Mark. She would chat with everyone, but her main focus was always her dad. It was so nice to see a dad and daughter with such a great relationship. She was funny, sweet and made the world a better place. My heart is broken for you all.

Hannah Fallon

August 23, 2017

Abi was such a WONDERFUL young woman and friend, and I thoroughly enjoyed our tutoring sessions together over the summer of 2016! I loved just chatting with her for 2+ extra hours after we finished the actual tutoring :D She will be GREATLY missed, and she will forever have a place in my heart!

Love and prayers always!

Brittney Steele

August 13, 2017

I didn't have the pleasure of meeting Abi but from all that I saw,she seemed to brighten a room with her smile. She seemed to have the most caring and loving family with best support system. I send my condolences but best of all I send love to your family in this time of loss. Keep her alive in your memories and heart!

August 12, 2017

Mark and Lisa,
There are not words to say how sorry we are for your loss. All the condolences show just how much she touched people's lives. May you find comfort in God's care knowing she is watching over both of you from heaven. She will live on in our hearts. Our prayers are with you and your families.

Brian and Bonnie Cummings

Katie Quackenbush

August 12, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss Mark. Abi was such an amazing soul that could light up the room with just her presence. She is your guardian angel now as you were hers during her time here. She will always be by your side and in your heart.

My thoughts and prayers are for you and your family
- Katie Quackenbush

Forever young. Forever remembered.

Maria Stokes

August 12, 2017

I remember one of the first pictures I saw of Abigail on Facebook was the one of her in her blue wig all dressed up for Comic Con. My daughter Sophia and I were drawn to her. We knew, even without meeting her yet, that she had such an amazing personality all wrapped up in this beautiful young girl. My family & I enjoyed getting to know her through her photos and her parents (Lisa & Mark) stories. We kept saying "We can't wait to meet Abi and her family!" It is surreal how you can grow such an attachment to people in such a way - but we did. Our hearts ache for you. We are so deeply sorry to hear of Abigail's passing. My entire family and I will hold Abigail in our hearts forever. Lisa and Mark, we will continue to pray for your comfort. Abigail was a brave, beautiful and strong willed young girl that made such a positive impression on this world and WE will NEVER forget her. Abi's spirit will continue to live. I pray that our daughter Sophia is with Abigail in Heaven laughing and telling each other about their wonderful life here on Earth. Our deepest sympathies.
All our love,
The Stokes Family
Darren, Maria, Dalton, Landon and Gavin.

Bernie Diehl

August 12, 2017

Mark, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during these times of remembering a special blessing you had the honor of being her father. The pictures you shared of Abi and the times you talked about her showed how big a blessing she was here on Earth, especially all of those gleaming smiles that made those pictures tell anyone seeing them how special a part Abi is. Heaven gained an angel of unlimited eternal blessings, and she'll be watching from her great heavenly sky box seeing you bless more people like you were with her.

Nana Berly

August 11, 2017

In the short time I met you it created wonderful memories of a wonderfully special girl.

Joanne Tomlinson

August 11, 2017

My dear Lisa &mark
How do I put into words all we feel.
Abi was so wonderful .
What fun we had the time we shared together!
I will never be able to thank you enough for that .
We will never forget Abi .
Our hearts ache for you .
Jo & David

Gwende Mozeik-Walker

August 11, 2017

Paul, Gabrielle, Madeleine, Adelaide and I are very sorry for your loss. Although I did not have her in my class, I remember seeing Abi in the hallways of Roland Park. She was very sweet and kind. Our thoughts and prayers are going out to your family.

August 11, 2017

Please accept our deepest sympathies on the loss of your daughter. I think the hardest thing for a parent to endure is the loss of a child. May Goo Bless and console you and your entire family at this time. Sincerely, John and Barbara Whisenant {Berlin MD}

Janell Lewis

August 11, 2017

Lisa and Mark, I am so sorry to hear of this tragic loss. I remember Abi in my 6th grade social studies class. She was such a bright mind and so sweet. I absolutely adored her in my class and even after 6th grade enjoyed the times we got to visit in the RP halls. She will be missed and my thoughts and prayers are going out to your family at this time.

Maria Bussard

August 11, 2017

We never had the privilege of meeting your sweet daughter, but she was such a light to me during a very dark time when our daughter was first diagnosed. We looked up to her and how much joy she emitted and how much she enjoyed life. I feel really selfish about this, but her passing really shook me and I wasn't able to comment until now. I'm so very sorry for your loss and wish from the bottom of my heart that you weren't having to go through this. We are sending all our love and strength to you. Love Maria, Chris and Emilia Bussard. ❤❤❤

Rita Zoey Chin

August 10, 2017

I will never forget meeting Abi at my book event at Ivy Books. From the moment I saw her, I was awash in her incredible radiance and beauty. I loved chatting with her, and I so appreciated her honesty, engaged presence, and open heart. In fact, meeting Abi was one of the most memorable things about my entire trip to Baltimore, and I have thought of her often ever since. Thank you for giving me that gift, which I will always cherish. My heart and sorrow go out to you more than I can say.

John Shrader

August 10, 2017

This world will never be the same without you. I don't know anyone who in such short span of time was able to branch across the world and grow friendships and build relationships the way you were able too. You were amazing!!I can't thank you enough for all the wonderful memories we shared as a family.
I will love you always,
Uncle John

John Shrader

August 10, 2017

This world will never be the same without you. I don't know anyone who in such short span of time was able to branch across the world and grow friendships and build relationships the way you were able too. You were amazing!!I can't thank you enough for all the wonderful memories we shared as a family.
I will love you always,
Uncle John

Gem Heyns

August 10, 2017

The flame of this candle is symbolic of the light and love Abi put into our lives. She will always shine through.

Keith Jackson

August 10, 2017

Mark,

I didn't know Abigail, but I enjoyed the pictures & posts about her on Facebook. Her smile lit up her face & I'm sure it lit up your heart as well. Words can't express my sympathy or your hurt, but I hope you can find comfort in the fact that she is with Jesus in Heaven. My prayers are with your family. I look forward to meeting her one day in the Lord's Kingdom.

Blessings,
Keith Jackson
aka Mighty Quinn Nash

Universoul Circus

Tracey Chapman

August 10, 2017

Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted. So sorry for your loss Lisa and Mark. Abigail will always be with us. Love Naiya,Kathy, Tracey

Paul Brewer

August 10, 2017

All of the special memories that were created while Abigail was here will live on with us. We must remember and keep the love that she shared with us alive .

Gro Ingebrigtsen Thorup

August 10, 2017

I am very sorry to hear of your loss, Mark. Thinking of You and your familiy In this tragedy and sending You warm thoughts. I hope You have the best support from friends and familiy in the difficult time Warm wishes from Gro

Michael Tomlinson

August 10, 2017

Lisa & Mark,
Whilst my time with Abi was short, I am certain that everyone who knew her will look back on their time with Abi with fondness and love.

Debbie & Carson Stewart

August 9, 2017

A great soul has departed, but the memories will never fade. Your loss is huge and I can only share in your pain. Abi was a beautiful and caring girl. Her smile was contagious . A Lot of memories we shared, Medfield Elementary, RPEMS, North Bay, school trips and graduations.I am so sorry for your loss. Keep Faith and Courage.

Gerri Hoy

August 9, 2017

Mark and Lisa - you were blessed to have a beautiful and spirited daughter like Abi and all of us are blessed to have known her in some way. I love you both. Prayers, peace and hugs to you both.

Erin Iredale

August 9, 2017

To Mark and Lisa,
Abi was such an amazing person, her untimely passing has left a hole in the hearts of all who knew her.

Amy Tomlinson

August 9, 2017

Abi, You were one of the bravest,most bold and feisty woman I have ever met. I wish that we could have spent more time together but the time we did have are memories I will cherish forever.

Amy Tomlinson

August 9, 2017

Abi, You were one of the bravest,most bold and feisty woman I have ever met. I wish that we could have spent more time together but the time we did have are memories I will cherish forever.

Jennifer Canavan Jacob

August 9, 2017

I pray you will forever hold onto the light that Abi brought into life. Know she is always with you and now walks along with the Lord. Oh what a beautiful place to be! All my love Jen Canavan

Barbara Shewbridge

August 9, 2017

To Mark and Lisa,
There are no words to express our grief at the sad news of your daughters passing. Our hearts are filled with sorrow for you and Lisa. Dennis and I send our love and our deepest sympathy to you both.

Barbara Shewbridge

August 9, 2017

To Mark and Lisa,
There are no words to express our grief at the sad news of your daughters passing. Our hearts are filled with sorrow for you and Lisa. Dennis and I send our love, and our deepest sympathy to you both.

Barbara Shewbridge

August 9, 2017

To Mark and Lisa,
There are no words to express our grief at the sad news of your daughters passing. Our hearts are filled with sorrow for you and Lisa. Dennis and I send our love, and our deepest sympathy to you both.

Barbara Shewbridge

August 9, 2017

To Mark and Lisa,
There are no words to express our grief at the sad news of your daughters passing. Our hearts are filled with sorrow for you and Lisa. Dennis and I send our love, and our deepest sympathy to you both.

Barbara Shewbridge

August 9, 2017

To Mark and Lisa,
There are no words to express our grief at the sad news of Abi's passing. Our hearts are filled with sorrow for you and Lisa. Dennis and I send our love, and our deepest sympathy to you both.

Jason Carr

August 9, 2017

I did not know Abigail but from what I saw she was very loved and I remember her father Mark from when I was a kid and he was an MCW wrestler. Prayers are with the family at this time of loss and may she rest peacefully.

Nikki Sinon

August 9, 2017

"It's so much darker when a light goes out than it would have been if it had never shone."
Mark, her light was so bright, that I could see it in you. Your love and pride for her is so beautiful and I know you will never let her light truly fade. May all of the happy memories you shared help bring you joy and light in this darkness.
love and hugs,
Nikki

Richard Tomlinson

August 9, 2017

Although I didn't spend a lot of time with her. I quickly learned that Abi was a smart, kind and brave girl and was devastated by her loss.

Barbara Jankiewicz

August 9, 2017

Mark, Ed and I would like to let you know how sorry we are to hear about your beautiful daughter's passing!! She was such a wonderful young lady and we cannot imagine what you are going through at this time. If there is anything we can do to help your sorrow, please let us know. Big Hugs!! You know she will be your guardian angel now!!

David Smith

August 9, 2017

To Mark and Family and Friends- May you find some comfort and peace during this difficult time. My condolences and prayers are sent your way.

Tara Meyer

August 9, 2017

So very sorry to hear of this tragedy Mark. Thank you for sharing so much of your lovely daughter though the pictures you have posted over the years. I can see how special she was and wish I could have met her in person. Thinking of you always my friend!

Tara Meyer

August 9, 2017

So very sorry to hear of this tragedy Mark. Thank you for sharing so much of your lovely daughter though the pictures you have posted over the years. I can see how special she was and wish I could have met her in person. Thinking of you always my friend!

David Smith

August 9, 2017

To Mark and Family- My heartfelt sympathies go out to everyone. May you find some comfort and peace during this difficult time.

Steve MacMillan

August 9, 2017

Although I did not know Miss Abigail Shrader, I am truly saddened by her loss. I have known her father Mark Shrader for many years and he is a good friend. I am sure Abby was a wonderful kid because of who her parents were. Though, I do not know Abby's mother, as stated previously, I do know her father, and based on that the world has lost something special and Heaven gained another Angel.

William Blake

August 9, 2017

Our deepest condolences and heartfelt sympathy for your family. Nothing is ever lost when it is always remembered. In her photos Abi was always happy and smiling and the sun shined on her. She'll always be there, in the flickering rays of the sun, smiling down upon you. Bless you my friends and Godspeed.

Kathleen Pauley

August 9, 2017

Mark, I still remember when she was born. I never got to meet Abi but I loved seeing all of the photos of her growing up on FB. Your immense love for her came through in every photo. Light and love to you and your family.

Justin Mauritz

August 9, 2017

Mark, it was amazing and inspiring to see how much you loved your daughter. Most people can only dream of having a father like you, and it was beautiful to see. I know times are hard right now, but at least you have amazing memories to look back on. I'm so sorry for your loss. I love you Shark, hit me up anytime.

Justin Mauritz

August 9, 2017

Mark, it was amazing and inspiring to see how much you loved your daughter. Most people can only dream of having a father like you, and it was beautiful to see. I know times are hard right now, but at least you have amazing memories to look back on. I love you Shark, hit me up anytime.

Jessica Shepherd

August 9, 2017

All of my love and prayers as you grieve in the most difficult time you will ever face. The love you have for Abigal is one of a kind. Your face would light up so big sharing stories with us about her.
Abi too well loved to ever be forgotten ❤

Lache' Speight

August 9, 2017

A Beautiful Angel is gone too soon. She left a lasting impression. Well spoken, polite, a beautiful light, we love her to the moon. Your pain all gone but your face, spirit, resilience, engraved forever in our hearts. Rest in Heaven my beautiful friend and lovely Angel Abby.
I'm glad to have been your friend, Respectfully Submitted, Lache' Speight

Brian Holthaus

August 9, 2017

Mark,
I only got to meet Abi a couple of times in person. So 99.9% of my thoughts and memories of her are through pics. Every pic I ever saw she was smiling or doing something adventurous. Pics of her traveling were fun to enjoy also. These pics also showed something special and that was a Fathers love for his daughter. Prettiest picture ever taken. Mark you were not only her Dad but her friend also. All my love , thoughts , and prayers to the entire family. Rest Easy Abi ❤❤❤❤

Sara Marques

August 9, 2017

Never met Abi, but from what I heard you say she was an angel ❤. Prayers are with you and your family Mark.

Judy Egerton

August 8, 2017

So very sorry my friends. A little piece of my heart went with her. May God hold you close

Judy Egerton

Suzanne Lawson

August 8, 2017

We are so saddened to hear of Abi's passing. What a light she was and always will be. May God's peace be with you.

Suzanne and Isabeau Lawson

Sharon & Cash Miller

August 8, 2017

My family and I are truly saddened to hear of the loss of Abby. Our hearts, thoughts & prayers go out and up for you all, your family & friends. I volunteered for Western's Unity Day this year & enjoyed taking with Abby before all celebrations ended. She will be truly missed & never forgotten. Please take comfort in your faith & each other. We'll be out of town this weekend; sending prayers up & thinking of you & your family. Peace, Love & God's Blessings, Sharon & Symirah Miller

Lisa Martin

August 8, 2017

I am so sorry for you loss. Even though we haven't seen each other since we were kids, I could clearly see what a wonderful loving mother you were to her. Your love for her shined brightly in every photo posted and words written. Sending you love and strength.

ms Pat Trimble

August 7, 2017

I was very shocked to hear about Abigail, She was in medfield heights elementary after school program.Abigail was such a joy , she was always happy and got along with everyone. My heart goes out to her Mom and Dad Please know that while in my care I was always looking out for her. I pray your family will soon be filled with happy memories of your beautiful Abigail.

August 7, 2017

Mark, Les and I are so very sorry for your loss.

Dalene & Les Robinson.

Dan Pontious

August 7, 2017

We are so sorry. Abi was such a sweet, lively, courageous girl. We are all thinking about your family a lot in this time of unimaginable loss.

Tammy Houck

August 6, 2017

I am deeply sorry for your loss. Although we have never physically met, I could feel Abi's sense of humor in your posts and could always see the love in both of your eyes. It is truly heartbreaking to lose a loved one, but even more so when it is so sudden. May you take comfort in knowing that many thoughts and prayers are with you, and Abi touched people far and wide with her courage.

Cat Scotto

August 6, 2017

An angel has entered the pearly gates of heaven. Abi may you continue to grow, guide and bless your family until everyone meets again. Rest in peace Sweet Angel Abi!

Beth Bauer

August 5, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express my sadress for you. May all of your happy memories comfort you! Blessings and peace to your family!

Tom Jackie Kourtney Rivers

August 5, 2017

We are very saddened by the passing of Abi. No words can fully comfort a loss like this but please know we stand with you and are here to help whenever and wherever needed. Abi was a true blessing and touched all those who met her. She will never be forgotten and will live on in everyone who met her. We will continue to pray for all and will continue on the fight to find a cure to hopefully stop this from happening to others

You will be in our thoughts and prayers now and always

Rachel Bronstein

August 5, 2017

Sending your family lots of love and warm thoughts. I met Abi at the RYR-1 conference and she was an amazing young lady. I am so sorry for your loss.

Sophie Valkenberg

August 5, 2017

Abi and I were good friends through most of middle school. We grew apart after, but I value the time I did have to spend with her. She was a great friend to me and I hope I was an equally great friend to her. I miss her so much and I hope she knows that I cherished our friendship❤

Scott, Staceyanne & Mason Fontana

August 5, 2017

Lisa & Mark... your sweet Abi is such a beautiful, bright light to this world, one that this new heavenly distance is only going to grow & shine even stronger, as her legacy of happiness touches so many hearts. She was full of so much sweetness , so many giggles & smiles, so much silliness & pure joy in life... that was a precious gift she learned from you, one she grew & spread because she always knew she was secure in your overwhelming & unconditional love. Abi's life was filled w/ laughter & adventure, w/ determination & strength... but above all else, every single moment, she was surrounded by love... we pray these precious memories comfort & bring you peace. Sending you both so much love...

Fly high, sweet girl... spread those sparkly wings & explore the beautiful wonders of heaven... send angel kisses to your mom & dad, and know that you will be forever loved by so very many

Christi Rocha

August 5, 2017

So very sorry for the loss. There are no words that I can say to comfort you at this time. Be as strong as possible and If you can't be strong, that is ok too!!
Gone to soon. Abi I know your dancing with all your family and CNM/MTM brothers/sisters. Prayers and Hugs to all

Robin Solomon (Doodle Family)

August 5, 2017

Lisa and Mark- thank you for sharing your beautiful Abi with us. Thoughts of your loss are unbearable, I hope knowing how loved she is by all of us gives you some comfort. Abi's love of life and courage will remain an inspiration to me - sending love and light to you today and always.

Mayumi Shigeno

August 5, 2017

Abi was such a wonderful young girl. She touched so many people's lives including mine and left such a positive influence on us. She will always be in my heart.

Chessa Maiorino

August 4, 2017

Dear Lisa,
Thank you for sharing your daughter's courageous journey. Your family has been such an inspiration & I was heartbroken to read of Abi's passing. Her beautiful spirit & smile will always be with you.

Sending love & prayers for strength and healing.
Chessa Maiorino (Doodle Family)

Bernadette & Smittty

August 4, 2017

Abi, the brightest star you will see every night that you look to the heavens and say goodnight. The softness of a light breeze as it touches your face. Lisa and Mark you raised an amazing daughter. She was so full of love, her smile could light up a room. My heart goes out to both of you and the rest of the family. We will be with you in thoughts and prayers. Our love to all of you.

Dorris van Gaal

August 4, 2017

Dear Lisa and Mark,
It has been an honor to know Abi, as Sophie and Rachel's friend in middle school. I remember her as a tough young lady, who would insist to conquer the stairs to our front door on her own, who did her own creative work when we had a girls party at the glazing company, and who just loved her anime and the Japanese culture...
These memories we will carry in our hearts, always...
May Abi rest in the love of the light eternal and may this light surround you, Lisa and Mark, with love and compassion.

Dorris van Gaal

August 4, 2017

A candle for Abi to remember, to find comfort, to know that the light of love lives eternally
Dorris van Gaal & Sophie Valkenberg

Callie Watkins

August 4, 2017

Abi was one of my bestest friends! I promise to live my best in her honor!

Don and Jo Hunt

August 4, 2017

Lisa and Mark,
We are saddened by the loss of your precious daughter
Abi, but joyful that she is in the loving arms of God who loves all the children. We will continue to pray for your families. With loving thoughts of you all, Uncle Donald and Aunt Jo

Karen Griffin

August 4, 2017

Abi was the longest and closest friend I had and I am so grateful that I met her. Praying for her parents.

Vince Fortney

August 4, 2017

Abi, you were always a joy to be around. You always had a positive outlook regardless of whatever was thrown at you. Every time I'm in South Korea, I'll think of you. Rest well and try not to take over Heaven.

Melissa Kessler (Doodle family)

August 4, 2017

Lisa,it has been such a pleasure getting to know you, Abi and Tucker over the last 3 years. Thank you for sharing your beautiful daughter with us all. Her spirit will continue to inspire myself and others to always strive to do better and to never give up, regardless of the challenges we face. May her memory be a blessing.

Marilyn Benjamin

August 4, 2017

Lisa-my heartfelt prayers to you and your family. I am so sorry for the loss of your precious, beautiful daughter Abi. She will always be your angel, forever in your hearts.

Lorna Cummings

August 4, 2017

Abi was an old friend of mine. She was a beautiful, brave, and funny girl. She never let her disability stop her in life. I still find it hard to believe she is gone. I hope that whever she is now she is at peace. My thoughts and condolences go out to her entire family.

Karen Carter (Doodle Family)

August 4, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Monica Hallin

August 4, 2017

Lisa, my heart breaks for you and your family. I know heaven gained a magnificent angel with Abi. My continued prayers for your family to find peace at this time. Monica Hallin (Doodle Family) (Medford, Oregon)

Diana Spanos

August 4, 2017

There are no words to soothe your pain right now, but I pray that you find peace in the endless memories and love that your beautiful daughter, Abi, brought to you and your family... Prayers for you and your family, and Blessings for Abi as she soars. She is your special Angel.

Lucinda Lee

August 4, 2017

Abi was an amazing girl. The world won't shine quite as bright without her light.

Jennifer Alfonso of Doodle Family

August 4, 2017

I have never met you nor Abi. One thing that always struck me from the pictures I saw of Abi was the fierce sparkle in her eyes. Without even knowing her I could tell she was a special person with a lot to offer. No words to express my sorrow and sympathy for your loss. I hope one day you can look back and remember the sparkle she had with a smile even if your heart is heavy.

Vinnie Wolfe

August 4, 2017

There aren't any words to take away your pain and sense of loss but sometimes it helps to know that you have touched so many hearts❤❤

Gina Danzi ChiveMD

August 4, 2017

My heart breaks with the news of Abi's passing. She was such a kind-hearted, loving, and all around happy girl. She will be greatly missed!

Corine De Leng

August 4, 2017

I have no words I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter Abi.
Sending lots of hugs and prayers and will burn a candle in her name ❤❤

We are from the Netherlands but that was not on the list

Patti Marsho (Doodle Family)

August 4, 2017

Oh Lisa- My heart hurts for you. I have been and will continue to hold you close in my thoughts and prayers. May your memories be a blessing.

Lonnie & LIbby LU Shapiro

August 4, 2017

So sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. May your memories and loving moments of Abi be in your hearts forever.

Rachel Pontious

August 4, 2017

Abi was a wonderful friend, kind, humorous, and rarely lacking in energy. In the few years that I got to know her, I've watched her grow as a person alongside me. Although she struggled a lot, the last time I saw her she was secure in who she was and she knew her worth. She had an incredible spirit and she was passionate about so much. I'm missing her so much.

Adrianne Matzkin

August 4, 2017

Abi,
We never had the chance to meet in person but through your Mom posts and pictures I have watched you grow! I saw all the marvelous places you have been and how incredibly inspirational you have been to me and so many others!! Thank you for that!!!!

Lisa, please accept my deepest sympathies.

Adrianne Matzkin

McKensey Hoover

August 4, 2017

My heart breaks with the news of Abi passing. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you take some comfort in knowing that you raised one of the sweetest, sassiest and most loving people I have ever had the honor of meeting and getting to know. These past four years of knowing and hanging out with Abi have meant the world to me and I will never forget the memories we made. I will continue to pray for your family. I miss her already and may she rest in peace.
Lots of love,
McKensey Hoover

Sara Sale

August 4, 2017

I remember Abi well from her days at Medfield Heights Elementary School. She was such a strong, thoughtful, kind, friendly girl... truly a sweetheart. You will be in my prayers.

Judy Kurtis

August 4, 2017

I am so sorry about your loss of your amazing and loving daughter. She will always be in your heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Karl Sanzenbacher

August 4, 2017

Abby was a delightful young lady with much to offer - she was a great student, and she will be missed.

The Sanzenbacher-Michalak Family

Helen Stanley

August 4, 2017

We only met Abi once, yet her vibrant, warm and witty personality shone through. Both Keith and I thought what a beautiful and loving girl she was. The World is a sadder place without Abi in it. Much love and peace to Lisa and Mark .

Allie Lehman

August 4, 2017

I got to know Abi through MDA camp for the past few years. She always had a smile on her face and made sure all the new counselors and campers were having a good week. Camp is definitely not going to be the same without her next year. Her love for all things Japan inspired me to put Tokyo on my bucket list of places to go! She was an amazing soul and truly made this world a better place. She will be greatly missed!

Lydia Ladwig

August 4, 2017

Dear Lisa, I don't "know" you guys, just as I didn't "know" Abi....except through our FB Doodle Family. But for the past two years since I joined the Doodle Family (when we got our first doodle pup), I've enjoyed following you and Abi, and seeing all your pictures. I've read about and laughed at Abi's adventures and shenanigans, and I've prayed and cried over her health challenges. As the mom of a daughter, I identified with so many of your posts...the clothes, the hair, the friends. But as the mom of a "healthy" daughter, I had no idea how you managed to get through the difficult times without agonizing over every moment. You handled it with so much joy, and love, and grace. I'm so happy that YOU were Abi's mother, because God gave her exactly the mother she needed. And if I am ever in that position, I will think back on you and Abi. Your strength and your love and your courage showed in every beautiful picture you posted.
Like many others here, I never thought I would wake up one morning, like I did just a few days ago, and read we had lost sweet Abi from our world. I was stunned; I cried for your loss and at the unfairness of it. And then I said a prayer to the newest angel in the sky to watch over us all. I know I won't be seeing any more new pictures of this beautiful young lady growing up, but I hope that you will continue to share past pictures of this amazing person you were privileged to raise. Thank you for sharing her with us. It is a blessing to have known you both. ❤

Jackie Schaffet

August 4, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss of your beautiful Abigail. I pray for peace from the Lord to comfort your heart.
Jackie Schaffer (doodle family)

Holly Dauber (Doodle Family)

August 4, 2017

Our deepest sympathy extended to you and your family...may Abi rest peacefully...God bless you all

Lisa Chaney (Doodle Family)

August 4, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. I will continue to pray that Abi's sweet memories surround you and your family to give you peace and comfort.

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