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Dr. John J. Fahey M.D.

Dr.  John J. Fahey M.D. obituary, Towson, MD

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John Fahey Obituary



Dr. John Joseph Fahey, 88, of Baltimore, Maryland, succumbed to Alzheimer's at his home surrounded by his family on August 17, 2014. Born in Toronto, Canada, he was the son of the late James and Estelle (Harrison) Fahey and lived most of his professional life in Baltimore, MD. Dr. Fahey was the first Chief of Orthopedics at St. Joseph Medical Center. He was drawn to the specialty because "there are a lot of happy outcomes relatively soon. I got great satisfaction out of replacing a hip or doing knee surgery and, before too long, the patient was walking like new again." When Dr. Fahey began practicing in 1955, there was no such thing as a sub-specialty. He and the other orthopedists in the Baltimore area saw and did everything related to the bone. His enthusiasm for studying a Japanese technique satisfied his desire to make surgery a less invasive process. Learning the technique, orthoscopic surgery, put him on the leading edge of his profession and made him an early pioneer in that skill. Being a man of deep Catholic faith, he could not have found a better place to practice than St. Joseph Medical Center. During the early part of his career, it was managed by the Sisters of Saint Francis, whose commitment to caring for patients matched Dr. Fahey's upbringing and values. The Sisters would let Dr. Fahey know who was unable to afford care and he would find a way to help them, making house calls a regular part of his days. In the late 1950's he volunteered at what was then the Pediatric Ward at Johns Hopkins Hospital. There he met his future wife, Betty, a social worker. Their marriage produced three children who learned from their father that "medicine should not be practiced for prestige, money or notoriety, but rather the good feeling you get after helping relieve pain and improve a patient's quality of life." Dr. Fahey credits his mother for the choices he made. "She was the cornerstone of our family and continued to be the strongest influence on me throughout my life. She lived her faith and encouraged my siblings and me to trust in God and to extend His love to others. It was wonderful to be able to do that through the practice of medicine. I'd do it all over again. "An honorary society, the Healing Hands Guild, which honors physicians who have contributed greatly to St Joseph Medical Center in Towson, MD gave John an award. He is one of 15 physicians who received this award. He was honored at a ceremony on June 11th 2013 and a plaque was placed on prominent display next to the chapel in the hospital with information about his professional and personal achievements. When John Fahey was honored, it was said of him, "His work ethic is second to none. He has a gentle hand. There are a lot of quiet things he has done." These three simple sentences are the essence of a life exceptionally well lived. John is survived by his wife Betty of 50 years, son John Jr. and wife Kathryn (Davis), and daughters, Julia and Jeanne and husband Daniel (Rodriguez Algarin), brother James Fahey and wife Elizabeth, sister Doris Morris, loving grandchildren, Jack, Liza, Neeley, Cate, Kai and Naia, many loving nieces, nephews and other friends. A special thank you to the White Horse Village in Newtown Square, PA for their loving care and support. Funeral services for John will be at St. Joseph Catholic Parish, 100 Church Lane, Cockeysville, MD 21030 on Saturday, August 23 at 11:00 am. Visitation prior to funeral at Ruck Funeral Home, 1050 York Rd, Towson, MD 21204 from 9:30-10:30am. Interment will be at a later date at Mount Calvary Cemetery in White Plains, NY. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Alzheimer's Disease Association, 399 Market Street, Suite 102, Philadelphia, PA 19106. Arrangements by The Donohue Funeral Home, West Chester, PA 19382, 610-431-9000.

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Published by Baltimore Sun on Aug. 20, 2014.

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February 25, 2020

I think of Dr. Fahy every day and miss him terribly.

Elaine Slear

Katie Cussen

August 26, 2014

I knew Dr. Fahey as a child. I was close friends with his daughter, Julie, while at Cathedral. I remember Dr. Fahey being so kind. I will always think of him with a smile on my face. My prayers go out this family at this time.

August 26, 2014

I knew Dr. Fahey as a child. Julie, his daughter, and I were best friends for several years. I remember Dr. Fahey being one of the kindest people I has ever met. I will always think of him with a smile on my face.

Katie Hooper Cussen

Jacque Law

August 26, 2014

Dr. Fahey was a true gentleman, well respected and loved. I am grateful to have had the opportunity to work for and with him at the Bellona office. My condolences to the Fahey family. May God comfort your hearts with sweet memories.

Sheila Wharam

August 25, 2014

Dear Betty,
My sincere condolences. Only found out when your dear husband was prayed for at Mass on Sunday. May he rest in peace.

Betty Mason Dickinson

August 23, 2014

In my rush to attend Dr. Fahey's funeral on Saturday, I didn't realize that I could have met his wonderful family at Ruck's.
I am particularly indebted to Dr. Fahey for his fine hand in my surgery to correct a
badly broken ankle. Other doctors had said I would have a permanent limp.
But lucky me. after staying in St. Joseph's for a few days for the swelling to go down, I "drew" Dr. Fahey, at 3 a.m. in the morning, and thus I have absolutely no limp and will always be grateful for his
expertise and grace.

August 21, 2014

My sympathy to the family. May you find comfort knowing that God is near you and is a refuge during this difficult time.
Psalms 9:9

Marge Stiemly

August 20, 2014

The Stiemly family was privileged to know Dr. Fahey not only as an orthopedist but also as a friend. He first treated my mother in law in the 1950s at the old St. Joseph Hospital on Caroline Street. He and Jean were both of Irish descent which gave them an instant connection.

I first met him in October 1965 at the same facility after a painful ambulance ride and an even more excruciating trip over the cobblestone drive way. He was very patient when I refused to let the nurses cut off my new, electric blue capris. They slowly inched the precious garment off for Dr. Fahey to relocate my badly dislocated knee. He told me I would need a little cast and promptly cast me from ankle to hip.
That knee was going to stay put.

In the following years, Dr. Fahey set broken bones for my husband, daughter, sons and father in law but not me. I have very strong bones and though I never broke one, I could always count on Dr. Fahey to take care of my dislocations.

By far the most important help he provided was that of medical adviser when my husband Gene was diagnosed with Hodgkins Disease. He told me to get rid of any printed info because it was already out of date and to call him if I had any questions for which I couldn't get answers. It was a comfort just to know I could turn to him for advice. He was indeed a kind, caring man.

I could go on but this already is lengthy.

The entire Fahey family has our deepest sympathy during this difficult time.

The Stiemly Family

John Wise

August 20, 2014

My mother, Katherine Wise, was Dr. Fahey's secretary for many years. She always spoke very highly of him. He treated me for a bad knee, and I remember him as a good doctor and a fine gentleman.

Jim Carberry

August 20, 2014

Dr. Fahey performed my 1st knee surgery for torn ACL about 40 years ago. The scar he left lasted through many arthroscopic surgeries in later years until the scar from a total knee replacement replaced it.

Raymond Brocato

August 20, 2014

Dr. Fahey was a very good man and an excellent physician. He treated me for a shoulder injury. And his wife was a customer at my shop, The Silver Fox were my sister Rose and I had a close relationship with Betty. They were both down to earth friendly people. Dr. Fahey was always kind and patient with all the people he helped and cared for. The world is a poorer place with his passing. But because of our shared faith, I believe He has reached his final reward, in his Father's House.

Thomas Young

August 20, 2014

My elbow was shattered in an unfortunate incident 40 years ago. My father, Dr. Latimer Young, took me to Dr. Fahey. He fixed me up as good as new. My long scar reminds me daily of the great care Dr. Fahey took with me in my time of need. My father always praised his ability. Remember all that he did with you and for you, and he will live in your heart forever.

scott marshall

August 20, 2014

As a former patient of Dr.Fahey's. He was a great doctor...He told you wanted to know about your condition. I will miss miss his professional advice. Rest in Peace...

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