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John Shettle Obituary

On September 15, 2020, John F. Shettle, Jr. passed away peacefully at his home in Oxford, Maryland at the age of 65. John is survived by his beloved wife of 36 years, Abbey Smith, his sons Josh, Adam and David, and his grandson John "Jack" F. Shettle IV.

As a result of Covid-19, services and interment are private. You may watch a livestream of the Funeral Mass on the Cathedral's YouTube page: https://www.youtube.com/user/cathedralofmary/videos. In lieu of flowers, John requested you consider a donation to either The Boley Centers http://boleycenters.org/about/ or Catholic Charities of Baltimore https://www.catholiccharities-md.org/.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Baltimore Sun on Sep. 20, 2020.

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Fr. Kevin Mackin OFM

September 14, 2022

John, you brought light into the darkness of the homeless men/women you encountered in St. Petersburg, you extended a helping hand to the needy you met. May the angels already have led you into paradise.

Kevin Downey

September 22, 2020

They say a disciple is someone who follows Jesus Christ and an apostle is someone who proclaims Jesus Christ. John was a true apostle of Jesus Christ for his life in word and in deed proclaimed his faith in Jesus Christ. He was as St Francis would describe him as a “true instrument through which God worked to build His Kingdom”!! May his memory challenge us on our faith journey.

Fitzpatrick Mary

September 21, 2020

John was an angel on earth and now he in Heaven watching out for all of us. He helped so many, I was one of them. Won't go into details but much love to his family. They are also wonderful. So Blessed to have known John. He will be missed.

JACK and Connie Norrie

September 21, 2020

No farewell words were spoken, no time to say goodbye, you will be missed on earth for sure and only God knows why. We will miss you. JACK and Connie Norrie

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Kevin Mahon

September 20, 2020

I knew John at Loyola High School as a member of the lacrosse team. I saw him briefly several times over the years. He was a kind, decent man - the type of person that will most surely be missed in today's society. I will keep him in my prayers forever.

Kevin Mackin

September 19, 2020

May God grace you, John, with eternal life. In the six years I have known you, you did all the good you could, to all the people you could especially the homeless, in all the ways you could, as long as ever you could

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