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Judith Bender Obituary
She is survived by her husband of nearly 70 years, Melvin Bender, of Arnold; two daughters, Lisa and Jory; grandchildren, Jesse, Ryan, Chase, Amy, Lindsey, Anyka, Jordan, Wyatt, Keller, and Rowen. A virtual celebration for Judy will be held Saturday, Feb. 13 @ 4pm. Contact [email protected] if you would like to participate. Contributions can be made in Judy's memory to: https://community.stjohnscollege.edu/mggive.
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13 Entries
wyatt bergeson
May 19, 2023
hell i am wyatt bergeson one of her greaqt grandson i obed her and very much miss her
Dr. Gwen Myers
February 5, 2023
I worked with Judith licensing childcare centers in the late 1980´s. She was so very kind to me. She was a mentor and a role model. I respected her and admired her. I am richer for having known her professionally. My sincere sympathies because I know she is missed. Seeing all her grandchildren listed here, I recall her saying "I love children in mixed age groups!" I am glad she had that in her family.
Dee Senters
March 30, 2021
Ms. Judy was always smiling and so sweet. My heart goes out to her family and friends - I'm sorry for your loss.
Joan Weingartner
February 14, 2021
Judy was a dear friend and a person I greatly admired and loved. Her philosophy for Early Childhood Education was unique and creative, and had a profound positive influence on so many, including myself. There are many happy memories of swimming at her house, parties, family gatherings and good conversation. I will cherish her friendship forever . There could never be another Judy Bender! I will miss you, dear Judy, but never forget you.
Jodi Altendorf
February 13, 2021
Judy was an integral part of my life in Severna Park. She helped me find me first real teaching job and gave me the support I needed working in an environment that hadn't yet accepted her ideas about early childhood. Judy and my mother Joan were my mentors in the area of early childhood education. That was probably Judy's greatest gift to me. I had no idea she'd gone to the Maryland Institute - I remember Mel giving me a ride home sometimes when I went there and had transportation. They both gave warmth, encouragement, wisdom, humor, color, and wonderful smiles to my family and to the whole community. Thank you to the family for sharing her.
Tammy Ramos
February 13, 2021
I have wonderful memories of crabbing and swimming off the deck at her house. Her home was filled with interesting treasures. When I had children, we would see her at the Children’s Museum in Annapolis. She was a wonderful lady and I was blessed to know her. Tammy (Montor) Ramos
Jeff and Susie Jordan
February 13, 2021
So blessed to have known Judy. She was a bright light and a blessing to everyone who encountered her. She will be missed.
Cary Melnyk
February 13, 2021
To Mel and family, I am deeply sorry for your loss of Judy. Her life's work most certainly left this world a much better place. You are in our thoughts and prayers as you heal.
Patricia A Barland
February 12, 2021
Dear Mel, I am so sorry to hear of Judy's passing. You two made such a wonderful couple and contributed so much to the Arts and the Annapolis community. She will long be remembers for her contributions.
With sympathy to you and family, Patricia Barland
Dee Senters
February 10, 2021
My deepest sympathy to the Bender family. She was a sweet lady!
Jo Ann Rich
February 10, 2021
Judy and Mel were one of the sweetest couples that I knew. They always put a smile on my face.
JoAnn Rich
February 10, 2021
Above all, I remember Judy's smile.
Carol Strohminger
February 9, 2021
Please accept our sincere sympathy on the loss of your mother and grandmother! We remember Judy well. She was indeed a great lady!
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