On Saturday, July 18, 2020, Matthew E. Elky, 76, of Reisterstown, beloved husband of Kathryn L. (nee Shinners) Elky. Father of Stephen and his wife Junghie Elky, Mark and his wife Angel Elky, and Barbara Elky. Grandfather of Sophia, Ian, and Heather. Brother of Pamela and the late Warren and Gilbert. Services are private. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to Trinity Lutheran Church, 109 Main St., Reisterstown, MD 21136. Arrangements are by ECKHARDT FUNERAL CHAPEL, P.A., Owings Mills, MD, and online condolences may be offered at www.eckhardtfuneralchapel.com.

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Published by Baltimore Sun on Jul. 21, 2020.

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Steven Spak

June 24, 2025

Mr. Elky was my band teacher at Randallstown Elementary in the early 70s. He taught and inspired me, helping me learn how to play the saxophone competently. I just came across this notice. I spoke about Mr. Elky to many friends. I regret not connecting with him over these many years. I appreciated his joyous approach to band.

Anton

September 11, 2022

Mr. Elky was my first orchestra teacher in the late 90s. He taught me violin and foundational music theory, which is still the backbone to my understanding and teaching of music today. I had the fortune of meeting him again in early 2017 by sheer chance, in an encounter that served as a spiritual linchpin in my pivot to a musical career. I may still be in a soul crushing situation were it not for Mr. Elky's kindness and wisdom. God willing, I'll carry his teachings and grace through my work and travels.

September 13, 2020

Mr Elky was my flute teacher at Randallstown Elementary School when I was in fifth and sixth grades, in the 66/67 and 67/68 school years. He was kind and patient and made everyone feel special. My condolences to the family.

David Rhen

July 29, 2020

I'm sorry to hear about Mr. Elky's passing. He was my cooperating teacher when I was a student teacher at Randallstown and Church Lane Elementary in the spring of 1985! His guidance inspired me to continue teaching and I still have student mementos from that experience in my "memory" drawer. His gentle nature and passion for music and teaching was infectious. His legacy will live on in the music world! I'll see you again one day old friend. Thank you for everything!

Terry Glendenning

July 27, 2020

We are so thankful for all the music and service Matt brought to Trinity Reisterstown for all the years. He will be missed !

Tina Asher

July 22, 2020

Hi Kathy,
We were sorry to hear about Matt. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. May hi memory always be for a blessing.
Tina and Buddy Asher.

Tina Asher

July 22, 2020

Hi Kathy,
We were sorry to hear about Matt. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. May hi memory always be for a blessing.
Tina and Buddy Asher.

Tina Asher

July 22, 2020

Hi Kathy,
We were sorry to hear about Matt. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. May hi memory always be for a blessing.
Tina and Buddy Asher.

Cathleen A Steffen (it was Shiplet then)

July 22, 2020

I have not seen Matt for years and years and when I heard about his passing, I know that many would mourn the loss of his presence. I remember acting with him in Come Blow Your Horn at the Reisterstown Community Theatre (which he also directed) and remembering his time there with fond memories. Kathy, I pray for you and your family, that God would keep you in this difficult time. God bless you!

Michelle Cummings

July 21, 2020

What an amazingly giving soul! He and his wife touched our lives through Heather and CCM! May his memories and music bring the family peace and comfort!

July 21, 2020

I will always remember him as just Mr. Elky. He was my music teacher at Randallstown Elementary in the mid 1970s. He was a cool teacher and a nice patient man. Sad to hear he has passed....

JUDY E.

July 21, 2020

Mr. Elky taught me violin at Randallstown Elementary. I remember his patience. He was a wonderful teacher.

Charles and Carol Ryan

July 21, 2020

My very deepest condolences to the family. Matt was a dear friend for 55+ years. He was an exceptional person. Some of my fondest memories are those of performing music together. He was a musician of the highest caliber. He was an inspiration to many who knew him, including fellow musicians, music students and numerous friends and family. He will be greatly missed. Im sure he is already playing his music at heavens gate! Rest In Peace, dear friend. ❤

Carol Ryan

July 21, 2020

Matt was a dear friend who will be missed greatly. Knowing him and Kathy for 55+ years, I have so many wonderful memories too numerous to mention. He was an exceptional person in every way...a wonderful husband, father and grandfather, a stellar member of his church and community and a musician of the highest caliber. My fondest memories are those of sharing music performances with him. He was a kind and gentle soul who will be missed by so many. Enjoy making your beautiful music in heaven, Matt! Rest In Peace.

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