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Patrick O'Keefe Obituary

O'KEEFE , JR., Patrick M. On August 8, 2009, PATRICK MICHAEL O'KEEFE, JR. of Perry Hall, loving father of Erica A. O'Keefe, beloved son of Drema K. Brocato (nee Cook) and Patrick M. O'Keefe, Sr., cherished brother of Tiffany N. Brocato and devoted best friend of Lido. Also survived by many loving family members and friends.
A memorial service will be held on Saturday, August 15, 2009, 12 noon at Holly Hill Memorial Gardens, 10201 Bird River Rd, Middle River, MD 21220. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Maryland SPCA, 3300 Falls Rd, Baltimore, MD 21211. A Celebration of Life will be celebrated immediately following the services at American Legion Hall, 20 S. Marlyn Ave., Baltimore, MD 21221.

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Published by Baltimore Sun on Aug. 13, 2009.

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ERICA O'KEEFE

September 1, 2009

I love you so much, and there are no words to describe how much i miss you right now and will forever. I will always be edy jr. your junior. I love you so much dad. I have your sence of humor, your lack of patience, and your confidence. I love you sooooo much dad!

PS: Thanks for the good looks = )

Rest in peace dad

Kelly Duarte

August 23, 2009

My sincere condolences to the O'keefe and Brocato families,my thoughts and prayers are with you.Pat was a sweet spirit with special gifts,gifts that he gave to everyone.Pat and I were teenagers when we met in ocean city,only to find out we both lived in Perry Hall.We had alot of fun at the beach and the Jackson Browne concert we never made it home from.Pat, you'll always have a sweet spot in my heart.I feel that you are with the angels now,helping out with anything you can.May God bless you and your family.

Kelly Duarte and family (Perry hall, MD.)

Marguarite Eberwein

August 21, 2009

Pat was a wonderful and kind soul, he helped me during the blizzard of 2003. We spent several hours laughing our heads off and making up our own words to songs. He was always good to his family. I will miss him and his crazy laugh.
Marguarite Eberwein

Amanda Bierman

August 20, 2009

Mr. Pat and Drema,
I am so sorry for your loss. Pat was my dearest friend. I will never forget Pat's smile or laugh. My girls will remember his sweet smiling face. I will remember our crazy karaoke nights and our crazy dancing. We were supposed to get married next year on Valentine's Day if we still hadn't met the right person. Well I never did and I still have the ring Mr. Pat found and you gave to me. I am sorry we will never get to do that. Thanks for the best memories( Atlantic City, Wild Wood, Flea market, Applebee's to name a few)
Love you forever,
Amanda, Kaylee and Madison

Amanda Bierman

August 20, 2009

Mr. Pat and Drema,
I am so sorry for the grief you and your family have faced. I am going to miss Pat so very much. Pat was my best friend, there was no one like him. My girls and I will remember his sweet smiling face. I will remember all the crazy nights we spent dancing and singing Karoke. I can't belive your gone. Love you forever,
Amanda, Kaylee and Madison

Raymond & Christine Shanklin

August 20, 2009

Dreama & Mr. O'Keefe;

We cannot even begin to imagine to feel the depth and magnitude of your loss. Except to say, for us the shock is entirely overwhelming. We have been blessed to have the memories that Pat gifted upon us. Our memories are filled with images of his comedic nature, the comments and sayings he tainted with his great wit, humor, and zanieness. Pat was able to make us laugh!! Pat was also a rareity. He was a man that cared deeply for his fellow man. Pat always had a place for anyone who was in need; And if not he would make room. Pat sincerely gave of himself,without question, condition or expectation. His heart like his laughter was saturated in kindness and warmth and we will miss you tremendously. THANK YOU KIND FRIEND, UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN!!

Sue Turnbaugh

August 17, 2009

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Ann Logan

August 15, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Heidi Scribner

August 15, 2009

Drema and Family,
I first met Pat when I was 18, he took me in to his home when I had no whare to go. He became my friend and my father figure. As I reminisce about all the times we stayed up late watching movies, exchanging stories about all the crazy experiences we'v had and things we'v done, and talking about what we wanted for our future, It makes me miss him even more. Im still wating for a phone call and to hear his voice on the other line.
I will miss all our inside jokes, adding on to "The house that Pat built" and your smiling face that could light up the whole room. You tought me how to grow up, and for that I thank you.
Your in my heart forever.
With love Heidi

August 15, 2009

It is with great sadness I learned of Pat's fatal accident. I read about it in my local paper and sadly he lost his life in my neighborhood. Pat and I dated in high school and had many great times together. He took me to my senior prom. We had not see each other for the last 20 years as most often happens with high school friends, you get married, move on and start families but you never forget memorable times with special people throughout your life.

Pat will be missed, he was a great guy with an outstanding personality. I am lucky to have known him and been a special part of his younger years.

My sincere sympathy to his family.

Tracy Cederborg

Brandis Lee

August 14, 2009

You have always been the most free spirit I've known ... I remember all the crazy karaoke singings and when we were younger you and Roger putting together picnic tables and making us paint them bright red... A million damn picnic tables in the alley just for us to make ends meet... but you did what you had to ... and never let us go without... and the shrimp salad subs u guys used to sell at the football games. The big red barn thing u built for Jayme and I in the back yard . All of us singing the Monday night football song...you taking me to Bengies saying we would run away to get our own place some day, the way you danced not caring who was around, your spirit was brighter than anything and no one could bring you down which is how the life of Pat has been and should always be remembered.....You always had your own way of entering a room which made everyone aware that you were there and to think that you're gone is unbearable.....im more sorry about things ive never said than you could ever know.

STEPHANIE O'KEEFE-PERSEGHIN

August 14, 2009

PAT, WE SPENT 15 YEARS AS A FAMILY TOGETHER. YOU WERE A GOOD FATHER, AND WE WILL NEVER, EVER FORGET OUR MONDAY NIGHT FOOTBALL DANCES, THE HOMEMADE PICNIC TABLES, AND ALL YOU OTHER MONEY MAKING IDEAS. YOU HAD A SENSE OF HUMOR LIKE NOONE ELSE. YOU WENT WAY BEFORE YOUR TIME PATRICK, WE WILL MISS YOU AND NEVER, EVER FORGET YOU. ITS SO HARD TO THINK OF LIFE WITH OUT YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR, WE LOVE YOU PAT, AND WE KNOW YOU ARE LOOKING DOWN ON ALL OF US.

Jayme Pratt

August 14, 2009

I love you

TINA REED

August 14, 2009

PAT WAS A VERY UNFORGETABLE PERSON I HAD MANY GOOD TIMES HANGING OUT IN OC WITH HIM AND KURT AND DANIELLE.HE WAS TRUELY A FUN TO BE AROUND PERSON AND COULD MAKE YOU LAUGH AT THE DROP OF A HAT.I WAS TRUELY BLESSED TO HAVE KNOWN HIM FOR 4 YEARS AND I'M STILL IN SHOCK .I WILL MISS HIM DEARLY AS HE WAS A GREAT FRIEND.

Carl Torsch

August 14, 2009

It was with great sadness that I learned of Pat's passing.We shared many good times but also I worked along side of him many years at Precision Concrete where he did project layout. Pat was always doing something around the house and I was amazed to see his progress He wil be missed. Sincerly,Carl Torsch

Fran

August 14, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Kurt Shipman

August 13, 2009

Dreama & Family,

Our prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. Pat touched so many lives with his humor, kindness, and his caring heart. He has been in my life for a very long time. Pat will be deeply missed. He will be in our hearts forever and is truly unforgettable.

Bill & Mary Trefsgar

August 13, 2009

Dear Drema
Our thoughts and condolences are with you in this time of sorrow. May your memories of Patrick provide you with much consolation.

August 13, 2009

Dreama & Family,


My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of need.Pat was a wonderful friend and will deeply be missed.His sense of humor and great personality touched so many people.He was one of a kind and he will live in our hearts forever.

Jayme Pratt

August 13, 2009

Ill miss you pat. I wish I could have spent more time with you. You were in my life for 17 years and raised me as a baby. I will remember the good times and you will never be forgotten. I love you Dad. -Jayme-

August 13, 2009

Dreama & Family,

I was shocked to hear of the news and my thoughts are with you at this time of sorrow. Pat was a great guy and we shared many laughs together. He left us all too soon. If you need anything I'm there for you! David Tooma

August 13, 2009

Dreama & Family,

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Pat was quite a character that made us laugh and had a big heart. You are in our thoughts.

Cindy & Mel Perkins

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