Search by Name

Search by Name

Ansley Soltys Obituary

Ansley Soltys
Ansley Winter Choi Soltys, 9 months, of Menlo Park, Calif., born Dec. 27, 2007, in Stanford, Calif., died on Tuesday, Sept. 23, 2008, at her home.
Ansley is survived by her loving parents, Drs. Scott Soltys and Clara Choi of Menlo Park, Calif.; her paternal grandparents, Robert and Carol Soltys of Swansea, Ill.; maternal grandparents, Sue Choi and James Davis of Los Angeles, Calif., her aunts and uncles, Dr. Robert and Norma Soltys of Austin, Texas, Alex Choi and Ellen Park of Los Angeles, Calif.; and her cousin, Sophia Choi of Los Angeles, Calif.; her paternal great-aunts Kathy Lemansky and Janis Mehelic and Stella Cisiewski; and her paternal great-uncle, Tony Lemansky.
Memorials may be made to Ansley Winter Choi Soltys Foundation for Pediatric Brain Tumors in c/o Scott Soltys and Clara Choi. The foundation is being established in California and donations or condolences may be mailed to Robert Soltys at 3307 Rand Lane, Swansea, Ill., 62226.

You Live In Us

I will not stand at your grave and weep,
You are not there you do not sleep.
You are the silent winds that forever blow,
You are the diamond glints
in the winter snow.
You are the brightest star
that shines at night,
You are the warmth
we feel in day's sunlight.
Each day that passes
you are safe in our hearts,
A special place where we'll never part.
So we will not stand
at your grave and weep,
You are not here you live through us.
We love and will miss you.

Your Loving Family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Belleville News-Democrat from Oct. 26 to Oct. 27, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Ansley Soltys

Not sure what to say?





Al and Pat Isaak

December 2, 2008

Carol you and Rob have our deepest sincere condolences Al and I feel your pain as we are also losing our grandchild. God be with you both.

Joe, Debbie, J.C. & John Wondolowski

October 28, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Stephen Smith

October 28, 2008

To the family of Ansley Soltys, Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time of sorrow and loss. Having been raised in Menlo Park and now living in New Baden, and being the surviving parents of our firstborn, we feel a connection with you beyond the emotion of the moment. Please accept our sincere sympathy and offer of support however needed. Sincerely, Pam and Steve Smith

Stacy (Raab) Rhault

October 27, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

angela hernandez

October 26, 2008

from one family to another i am deaply sorry for your loss, i will keep you all in my prayers. keep the faith

Mary Fischer

October 26, 2008

Dear Carol and family of Ansley,
I am so sorry to hear of the death of you beloved granddaughter. Words are like feathers when it is this much pain but please know that even though I am far from Belleville and my Red Hatters I think of you all often and hold you close in heart.
God be with you as you celebrate her life.
Mary Fischer

October 26, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful little girl.
I did not know you, but I wanted to send all of you my condolences, and to let you know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
a mother who feels your pain.

Showing 1 - 7 of 7 results

Make a Donation
in Ansley Soltys's name

Memorial Events
for Ansley Soltys

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Ansley's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Ansley Soltys's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more