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SUSAN HARVEY
January 26, 2005
I MISS YOU SO MUCH. RACHEL MISSES YOU. WE LOVE YOU, BRI. OUR HEARTS ACHE, BUT YOU WILL NEVER BE FAR FROM US. THANK YOU FOR TAKING CARE OF US DURING YOUR LIFE HERE AND FOR TAKING CARE OF US, EVEN NOW. THANK YOU FOR LOVING US, UNCONDITIONALLY. THANK YOU FOR YOUR COMPASSION, YOUR KNOWLEDGE, YOUR UNENDING DEVOTION TO OUR FAMILY, AND YOUR UNDYING FAITH IN THE LORD. THANK YOU FOR YOUR LOVE OF ANIMALS AND ALL LIVING THINGS. (RACH AND I WILL TAKE GOOD CARE OF FRIDAY.) THANK YOU FOR YOUR ORNERY SENSE OF HUMOR. THANK YOU FOR YOUR LOVE OF ALL HOLIDAYS AND HOLY DAYS. THANK YOU FOR YOUR DEVOTION TO AND DEEP LOVE FOR YOUR FRIENDS. THANK YOU FOR THE NUMEROUS TRIPS TO OUR HOUSE WITH JUICE, WHEN WE WERE SICK. THANK YOU FOR PRAYING FOR US AND NEVER LOSING FAITH IN US. THANK YOU FOR BEING HONEST AND ETHICAL, EVEN WHEN IT MEANT TAKING THE HEAT FOR IT. THANK YOU FOR STANDING UP FOR YOUR BELIEFS AND FOR ACTING ON THEM FOR THE BETTERMENT OF THE WORLD AROUND YOU. THANK YOU FOR YOUR LOVE OF MUSIC AND ART, AND FOR YOUR WONDERFUL ARTISTIC TALENT. THANK YOU FOR THE MANY WONDERFUL CULINERY TREATS!! (BUT NOT SO MUCH FOR THE USE OF OLIVE OIL.) THERE'S SO MUCH MISSING, WITHOUT YOU. WE'LL SEE YOU WHEN WE ARRIVE "HOME". WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH. SUSAN AND RACHEL
Dennis Davidson
January 25, 2005
BRIAN, THANK YOU FOR 14 GREAT YEARS!!! YOU ARE MISSED BY, FREINDS, MEMBERS, BOARD OF DIRECTORS, OFFICERS, PRESIDENT DENNIS DAVIDSON.
SWANSEA IMPROVEMENT ASSN.
SWANSEA IMPROVEMENT ASSN. BOWLERS
January 24, 2005
BRIAN, WE MISSED YOU ON OUR LAST TWO WEEKS OF BOWLING. IT JUST WASNT THE SAME WITHOUT YOU! WE ALWAYS ENJOYED SHARING OUR HOMEMADE GOODIES WITH YOU. THANKS FOR ALL THE MEMORIES. THE SIA BOWLERS.
Nate Allen
January 9, 2005
While working at Swansea Improvement Association, I had the priviledge of working the shift that preceeded Brian's. That meant as soon as his drawer was counted, I got to be his customer. Not because I needed a drink... But because Brian always had and inexplicable way of constructively shedding light on nearly any topic of conversation. He was the kind of guy you could learn a lot from, but he'd always leave you with the impression that you figured things out for yourself. Plainly put, he made people around him feel good about themselves and left all of us great memories to reflect upon.
You're greatly missed Brian
Kimi (Harris) Banach
January 3, 2005
A son, a brother, an uncle, a friend...Job well done, Brian.
Rest in peace.
James Chaffee
January 1, 2005
"I have loved and that's enough, I have been loved and that's everything"
Craig Cies
December 30, 2004
I met Brian at 18 after becoming friends with his two younger brothers, Pat and Jeff who were my peers. I always looked up to Brain as the elder statesman of the current generation of Harvey’s. If it hadn’t been for the friendship of those brothers, and the acceptance of the entire Harvey family, Lord knows if I would have survived to write this,
Brian was one of the warmest, most genuine souls I have had the privilege of knowing and there is something missing in the world today without him.
It was my great privilege to have known Brian and I hope that I can conduct the remainder of my existence with a small portion of the integrity and dignity that Brian exhibited in his own life every day.
Jim Barteau
December 30, 2004
Brian,
It all started one cold January morning at three AM. in 1967 and like the tsunami you left on, it rolled out and engulfed thousands. So many have so much thanks to give for how you shaped thier lives. The world is an emptier place without you
nora harvey
December 30, 2004
Brian was one of the first hippies in Belleville. He always had an open mind, an open heart and an open home for dozens of wayward young homeless souls. We would hang out all day and night in his bedroom attic at his family's home on Washington street or spend hours drinking endless cups of coffee at the kitchen table until the first sign of dawn, watching the sun come up after hours of mind-expanding conversations about ourselves, our dreams, our interpretations of music lyrics. There was light-show slidemaking, nightly visits to the all night donut shop and adventures driving around the country or occasional music sessions with local bands. It was a time of endless time when we would unconditionally delve into the unknown every day with curiosity and camaraderie, seeking answers that only had meaning in the here and now. There was always a welcome seat for anyone at the supper table and each day we would return with unspoken acceptance into this extended family of friends. We now have gone on to find our own individual paths, but we will never forget that time when time stood still, when we professed to be forever young, when anything was possible. We are proud to have had the extreme fortune of knowing Brian, because that was all you needed to do to be a part of this incredible experience. He was Patrick's and my best mutual friend. A more giving and compassionate person you will never find. We will miss him but we feel fortunate that again he is paving the way for us into the next dimension. I love you Bri-nora
Balde, Rennetta &Michael Silva
December 30, 2004
Brian,
I can't remember a time you weren't in our lives. You will be dearly missed, but you memory lives on.
Let this be our song to you:
"Uncle John's Band"
Well the first days are the hardest days, don't you worry any more,
'Cause when life looks like Easy Street, there is danger at your door.
Think this through with me, let me know your mind,
Wo, oh, what I want to know, is are you kind?
It's a buck dancer's choice my friend; better take my advice.
You know all the rules by now and the fire from the ice.
Will you come with me? Won't you come with me?
Wo, oh, what I want to know, will you come with me?
Goddamn, well I declare, have you seen the like?
Their wall are built of cannonballs, their motto is "Don't tread on me".
Come hear Uncle John'n Band playing to the tide,
Come with me, or go alone, he's come to take his children home.
It's the same story the crow told me; it's the only one he knows.
Like the morning sun you come and like the wind you go.
Ain't no time to hate, barely time to wait,
Wo, oh, what I want to know, where does the time go?
I live in a silver mine and I call it Beggar's Tomb;
I got me a violin and I beg you call the tune,
anybody's choice, I can hear your voice.
Wo, oh, what I want to know, how does the song go?
Come hear Uncle John's Band by the riverside,
Got some things to talk about, here beside the rising tide.
Come hear Uncle John's Band playing to the tide,
Come on along, or go alone, he's come to take his children home.
Wo, oh, what I want to know, how does the song go.
Your song lives on in our hearts,
love,
Sandy Dennett Schutze
December 30, 2004
I always felt like I had truly come home whenever I saw Brian. I will never forget his wonderfully wicked laugh and the way he drew everyone in around him. I envision a big brass band marching down main street in Belleville to celebrate how big his life was. Much Love to Brian and everyone in the Harvey family and to all of his friends. I'm sorry I can't be there, but my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jack Browning
December 30, 2004
Brian was a real mensch: a human being of the highest and truest order, and a smiling locomotive of a man who took us all, over the years, along for the ride. A life worth living is never lived along a straight line, and, in the end, it is the crooks and bends that provide its measure. Toeing a line is for those who lack the intelligence, imagination, and courage to do otherwise.
Brian was a brother to us all. He was one of us, and will forever remain a part of us.
Sorry for the second entry, but I just didn't get it right the first time.
Toni Salisbury
December 30, 2004
Brian, you were such a gift to all of us. Your whole life was a light show. And each of us will carry a bit of your light as we continue to fight the good fight. I am expecting a quantum leap in the beauty of sunsets.
Much love,
Eric, Nan, Stuart, and Alex Ruwe
December 29, 2004
I met Brian when I was 19 and he was a powerful influence and someone who raised my consciousness. The Harvey Family and Friends were a warm second home and love flowed through you the moment you joined them. Brian was a Mystic, a Hippie, a Teacher, a Chef, a Christian, a Poet. Brian, I hope to go where you now are and I will always remember your friendship and great wit. May God Bless You.....
Kevin Sandefur
December 29, 2004
Dear Bri:
Hey man, no fair leaving the party so early. There's still way too much wine left.
Thanks for showing me that it's okay to be who we want to be. I promise not to let the brown shirts win while you're gone.
Say hi to Jerry and Moe for me, and try to save me a seat backstage, okay?
See you later. Love you...
Diana (Johnson) Bensen
December 29, 2004
I am glad I got the chance to meet Brian. I will remember him always!! His smile could light up the darkest day. So could his laugh!
Jody Travous Nee
December 29, 2004
I am so sorry.
Colin Murphy
December 29, 2004
What a sad loss. I knew Brian for many years starting at the old Lil's Corner Tavern and through my late-partner, Stephen Johnson. He was a champ at Jeopardy, always leaving the rest of us in the dust and his urbane wit was unrivaled. My condolences to the Harvey family. He will be missed.
Scott & Carla Frillman
December 29, 2004
We were very sad to hear of the passing of a long and dear friend. Brian and I had gone through the computer, cell phone, and E-mail learning experience together with many mistakes and laughter. My friend, You will be missed! To the family, Our deepest and heart felt sympathies in your time of loss.
Victoria Johnson
December 29, 2004
In the past few years, Brian and I reconnected; talking life and politics, remembering the light show days and all the friends we made. I will miss you Brian!
Jack Browning
December 29, 2004
The world is a poorer place in his absence.
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