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Carter Kingman Berardi HURLEY- Carter Kingman Berardi passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, Jan. 12, 2014. He was 23 years old and absolutely adored and cherished by his family. We are devastated by our shared loss. The outpouring of support we’ve received from his many friends across the country has been extraordinary, and the stories they have shared remind us that Carter’s actions touched so many people in important ways. His pithy wit and gentle smile will always be with us. Carter was born April 30, 1990 in Kingston, and lived in Hurley, and New York, N.Y. He attended The Browning School in New York City, the Telos School in Orem, Utah, and Landmark College in Putney, Vermont. His greatest gifts were his compassion for others and humble optimism, which he used to empower others to overcome many of the same challenges that he faced. We will always remember him as irreplaceable - a loving and vibrant young man who brought people together and rejoiced in life’s simplest moments. Carter spent his childhood summers growing up on Martha’s Vineyard where he was an active member of the sailing program at the Vineyard Haven Yacht Club. He had many lifelong friends in the community there, and worked on the island part time in more recent years. He is survived by his mother, Elizabeth Shults Berardi; his father, Eugene J. Berardi, Jr.; brothers, Eugene J. Berardi III and Alexander B. Berardi; his grandfather, John R. Shults, Jr.; and a large and loving extended family. A celebration of Carter’s life will be held 2 p.m. Saturday, Jan. 18, 2014 at the Old Dutch Church in Kingston, N.Y. A separate memorial service will follow on Martha’s Vineyard this June. In lieu of flowers, the family would be grateful for any donations made in Carter’s name to Vineyard House (Martha’s Vineyard Sober Living) at P.O. Box 4599, 15 Church Street, Vineyard Haven, Mass., 02568. Arrangements entrusted to the care of Eric Keyser, light a candle in memory of Carter at www.Keyser Carr.com.

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Published by Daily Freeman from Jan. 14 to Jan. 16, 2014.

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Leonard

January 18, 2015

I am so sorry for your great loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" sustain you during this difficult time. (Isaiah 61:1, 2)

My deepest condolences.

VERONICA

January 13, 2015

RIP CARTER...YOURE IN A BETTER PLACE NOW.

Graham Dunnege

January 23, 2014

Gene, Liz, and family,
As a parent I can only imagine the depth of your sorrow. I am thinking of you, and I know that loving families survive tragedy with only good memories.

January 22, 2014

His soul is in flight

Lynnelyn Van Wert

Over Yonder Cay
Exeuma, Bahamas

bud Devoti

January 21, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

January 21, 2014

memories last forever - love keeps them

lara zaleski
Kitty Hawk, NC

Rhona and Don Friedman

January 21, 2014

Our thoughts are with you and your family. Know that your friends send their love to you.

January 20, 2014

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Michael & Sissy Provenzano

January 20, 2014

We are so sad to hear of your great loss. We remember Carter as one of the kindest and most generous to all his friends. He truly had a big heart and will be sadly missed. He left this world way too young, but Heaven will be brighter because he is there. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Ashley

January 19, 2014

I knew Carter fleetingly in pre-school, at Winter Bear, and will always remember days of fun and learning there. May his family find peace during the extremely difficult time. My deepest and sincerest condolences.

Ronnie Colgan Hazzard

January 18, 2014

Carter Berardi…. I'm watching the stars shine tonight. Keep them aglow and polished to remind us to Carry On and Be Kind. We love you sweet boy. You are deep in the hearts of all you touched in your short time.
May the love from Winter Bear reach up to you and envelop your family. Always. Always. Always.
Ronnie Hazzard

Jean Salzer

January 18, 2014

I am so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you all.

Ellen Morone

January 18, 2014

Dick and I are so saddened by your loss. We were in town when our friends told us of your loss. May you all find strength in knowing we are praying for you. Peace...

Janet Snyder

January 18, 2014

So sorry for your loss; I can't imagine your sorrow.

Ann Scandariato

January 18, 2014

My heart broke when I hear of Carter's passing. So many fond memories of the children growing up in Hurley. My prayers are with you today. I am so sorry for your loss.

Ann Scandariato

January 18, 2014

My heart broke when I heard of Carter's passing. So many fond memories of the children together in Hurley. I am so sorry for your loss.

Allen Stauble

January 18, 2014

Liz & Gene,
Truly sorry for your loss
May memories comfort you and your family at this time of sorrow
Allen & Shelley Stauble

January 18, 2014

Rest in Peace Carter Bear.
We will always think of you fondly.
Christine and Marie

Joe Scesny

January 17, 2014

Geno, my prayers are with you.....Joe

January 17, 2014

Gene and Liz- I am so so sad to hear this. To lose a child is one of the most painful experiences that I wish you did not have to face. May you have strength, and each be surrounded by the love of family and friends, and carry the wonderful memories you have of him to sooth you in tough times. Peace to you .... Patti and Larry

Judy Gessner

January 17, 2014

Dear Liz, Gene, and family,

Bil and I are saddened to hear of your loss of Carter. Children light up our lives. We hope your memories will comfort you.

Bill and Judy Gessner Family

Patrick Scully

January 17, 2014

Gene, deepeset condolences to you and your family on the loss of your son.

Diana Balling

January 17, 2014

To the Entire Berardi Family: I was shocked to learn that Carter passed away. Lean on each other and your friends during this very difficult time! You are in my thoughts and prayers! RIP Carter!

January 16, 2014

Our deepest sympathy goes out to you in this time of sorrow.
Dave and Sue Delehant

January 16, 2014

Dear Gene Berardi Family
We want you to know that our sympathies are with you at this time of sorrow.
Ildra & Carl Morse
Albany, NY

January 16, 2014

Dear Berardi Family: You have our deepest condolences! Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Bill, Karen & Jared Telovsky

Michael Kirk

January 16, 2014

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Mike and Maureen Kirk

Rachel Finch

January 16, 2014

My deepest condolences to the Berardi family during this very difficult time.

Cathy Jones

January 16, 2014

My deepest sympathies goes outto the Berardi family. May your hearts be lightened by his homecoming. Let his soul soar with the angels.

Beth Cohen

January 16, 2014

Liz and family, Thinking of all of you at this time. Such fond memories of Carter, and all of the boys when they were little. Much Love, Beth

Tony Mosier

January 16, 2014

I remember Carter as one of my favorite students. Compassionate, brave, filled with light and love. Funny, kind, always there for the underdog. My sincere prayers to Liz, EJ, and the rest of the family, and to Carter's many, many friends. The word is better for having him in it.

Shaun Christian

January 16, 2014

My condolences to Liz, Gene, and Berardi family. Carter was a empathetic, soulful, caring, magnetic, young man. I think of times past with Carter and smile. I'm grateful for him and the positive way he influenced my life.

Rocco Garro

January 16, 2014

My heart goes out to the family.

God Bless all

Jason and Sara Vroman

January 15, 2014

Berardi Family, we are so sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.

Natasha Agrama

January 15, 2014

I love Carter so much. He filled my days with companionship, conversation, and compassion; I can't believe how lucky I am that I got that time with him. He taught me about having heart, being loyal, open, funny, and KIND. What a guy, I love him so much.

January 15, 2014

Dear Liz, Gene, Gene, and Alex,
Please accept our deepest sympathy and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dale, Hank and Kate Thompson

REBECCA INCANDELA

January 15, 2014

My heart breaks for you all. I adored Carter. His being here in the world has made it a better place. Liz I wish I could be there with you. I will never forget Carter. Becky

January 15, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of profound loss of your son,brother,grandson,family member and friend Carter.
Prayer and joy filled memories of Carter's young life will hopefully sustain you in days to come.
May peace be with all of you at this time,and may the bright light of Carter always shine.
With love and sympathy, Flo Hyatt

Lemus

January 15, 2014

Words cannot express how deeply sorry we are for your loss.
~ Juan and June Lemus

Colleen Dunham

January 15, 2014

I remember Carter fondly from his years at Myer School. What a bright, kind young man he was. My deepest sympathies to all of you.

Glenn Wells

January 15, 2014

I am so sorry to hear of this tragic loss- I remember Carter coming up to Wiltwyck with his grandparents, John and Betty. He was a delightful person. My deepest sympathies to Liz and Gene an family.

Lauren Metell

January 15, 2014

To: The Berardi family:
Carter was such an amazing person an has always touched each sole that's crossed his path. Even to those who only knew him little they will always remember him and his ability to genuinely love life an spread his joy throughout. I will never forget all the times I was lucky to spend with him. Most of all I will always remember his exceptance of everyone as they were an brought out the best in everyone. I extend my love an prayers to you guys. Gone too soon but will be never forgotten.
Lauren Metell

Jolie Dunham

January 15, 2014

Liz, Gene, Pete and the entire family: My heart is broken with you at this tragic loss. He is with God's grace and love now and will forever be with you. My continued prayers will be with you.

Karen Gill and the Gill family

January 15, 2014

To Liz, Gene and your immediate and extended family, we are so sorry to hear of your terrible loss and send our most sincere condolences to your entire family.

Colin Davies

January 15, 2014

My condolences to the whole Berardi family. Its so sad to hear about someone taken so young, especially knowing what potential he had.

Judith Fisher Freed

January 15, 2014

Carter will be remembered with love from the Atlantic to the Pacific.

Maureen Bowers

January 15, 2014

Our hearts ache for you. Our love, prayers, and deepest sympathy are with you.
Maureen & Stacey Bowers & Family

January 15, 2014

Gene

Barry and I just found out this morning about this terrible tragedy. I went through this last year with a good friend who lost his son at 16. Lean on family and friends. This is when you need them the most. If you need anything, let us know

Todd

January 15, 2014

From out family to Yours, we are so sorry for your loss and want you to know we are here for you for anything you need. Love you all , The Acker Family

Grace Canfield

January 15, 2014

To know you was to love you....R.I.P. my friend......

sally Fisher

January 15, 2014

I send my prayers to you all He was very special and will be missed greatly.

Cathy Fleck

January 15, 2014

Liz, Gene, Gene and Alex,
We are heartbroken and want you to know that our love, thoughts and prayers are with you. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy.
Cathy, Ken, Chris, Kate and Alyssa Fleck

January 14, 2014

We are so sorry for your loss.
Richard and Jean Mertine

January 14, 2014

Liz,Gene, Gene and Alex,
There are no words........our love,thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Deb and Bill Null

Nancy Griggs Brucker

January 14, 2014

My prayers are with all of you A kiss to young Gene

Bill Schiff

January 14, 2014

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my sincere sympathy.

Kyle Tochterman

January 14, 2014

Our deepest condolences to the Berardi family for your loss. Extending our thoughts and prayers through this tough time! Kind regards Kyle and Tanya Tochterman

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