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David Allan Koch

1946 - 2019

David Allan Koch obituary, 1946-2019, Bellingham, WA

David Koch Obituary

On Sunday, May 12, 2019, David Allan Koch died peacefully at St. Joseph’s Hospital in Bellingham, WA. David was born on April 25, 1946, in Petaluma, California to George and Marietta Koch. He received his BA from Stanford University and his MD from University of Washington, and practiced psychiatry in Whatcom County for nearly forty years. In August of 1981, he married Judy Barton, and together they raised three daughters, Tana Barton-Haas (Mike), Caitlin Koch (Lucy Hudson), and Eryn Muetzel (Jim). For the last 16 years, David shared his life with his partner Nancy Quigg, and was a devoted father figure to Nancy’s son, Morgan Longwell. David was an incredibly resilient, determined individual with an uncanny zest for life. Despite physical challenges resulting from a neurological condition, David was consistently positive and was always ready for an adventure. He was an all-around athlete in his younger years, and was committed to sharing his passion for downhill skiing, hiking, and canoeing with his children and those he loved. David also enjoyed bird watching, photography, travel, and competitive games of Scrabble. He had a strong appreciation for the Arts, including architecture, classical and folk music, and Japanese garden design. An advocate for social justice, David was also passionate about politics and advancing progressive ideals. David was gentle by nature, and had an incomparable ability to put people at ease; he was deeply trusted and respected by those whose lives he touched. He will be remembered for his kindness, generosity, determination, and quick wit. David was preceded in death by his father, George; his mother, Marietta; and his brothers Carl and Brian. He is survived by his partner Nancy, his 4 children, Tana, Caitlin, Eryn, and Morgan, and his two grandchildren, Simon and Ella Haas. A celebration of David’s life will be held on Monday, July 1st, 2019 at 4pm at the Alaska Ferry Terminal in Bellingham, WA. Donations may be made in David’s honor to The Audubon Society or National Public Radio.

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Published by Bellingham Herald on May 25, 2019.

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Stefanie Murphy

June 22, 2019

Caitlyn,
I am so sorry for the pain you and your family are experiencing right now. May your hearts be lifted in love by those who lives your father touched. It seems he left a legacy and a piece of himself in many people at different times.
Many you find solace in each other.
With love,
Stefanie

June 3, 2019

Losing a loved one is never easy, but our loving God promises to give the strength and courage you'll need to endure, and to cope with the pain of your loss. He also promises to hold your hand every step of the way. (Isaiah 40:29, 41:10, 13) May loving memories also sustain your family during this difficult time. Ann Smith

Patricia Thomas

May 31, 2019

Losing a loved one is never easy, but our loving God promises to give the strength and courage you'll need to endure, and to cope with the pain of your loss. He also promises to hold your hand every step of the way. (Isaiah 40:29, 41:10, 13)

Lise Waugh

May 26, 2019

Oh Nancy-

You know I love you and I love David. So grateful for all the moments. You have both taught me so much over these many years. Thank you.

with great respect and love

Marilyn MacKinlay

May 26, 2019

Nancy, our sympathy. We didn't know David well so really learned so much about has amazing life from your tribute. Our thoughts are with you xx

Gerri Haynes

May 26, 2019

He graced our world.

Marian Munro

May 26, 2019

Condolences to all whose lives he touched. I only knew him through Nancy's online presence but felt the love this family shared. May you draw comfort from this circle of human kindness.

Hartt MacKinlay

May 25, 2019

It was a pleasure to have met this wonderful man.

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