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Joanne DeMark Obituary

Joanne Frances DeMark

April 27, 2024

Bellingham, Washington - Joanne F. DeMark, a renowned LGBTQIA+ advocate and Western Washington University (WWU) leadership educator, passed away peacefully at the Christian Health Care Center, Lynden, Washington, during the early morning of April 27. Dr. DeMark leaves a legacy of achievement in the causes of social justice, diversity, inclusion, and leadership development. She was 75 years of age.

Joanne was at Western Washington University for more than 16 years, having come to the university in October 2007. As a Leadership Specialist at WWU, Joanne led the Viking Union Leadership and Community Engagement program after teaching in the Morse Leadership Institute for several years. At WWU, Joanne developed campus leadership programs, taught leadership and management to students and staff, and initiated a four-year sequential leadership program for a select group of students.

"Joanne was a passionate and fierce advocate for students, particularly those from marginalized backgrounds, to develop themselves as leaders and find their passions," said Dr. Karen Stout, director of the Morse Leadership Institute and Bowman Distinguished Professor of Leadership Studies. "It was easy to have a conversation with Joanne that could last for years before you realized how much time had passed."

Joanne devoted decades of her life to the important, methodical work of building coalitions, fostering equity, and creating avenues to help people recognize and lessen prejudicial attitudes. She was a trainer and activist for 32 years with the National Coalition Building Institute (NCBI), an international leadership organization, and was a senior leader of the women's and LGBTQ+ caucuses, "With smarts, passion, and humor, Joanne mentored people around the world," wrote Miriam Jefferson and Debra J. East, two leaders within NCBI. "She pushed people to be their best selves and better leaders, and never gave up on anybody -- all with fierceness, love and a twinkle in her eye."

One highlight of recent years: On two occasions, in 2017 and 2018, DeMark brought her in-depth expertise in leadership to an international conference in the United Arab Emirates on tackling the negative consequences of climate change. She chaired panels and presented leadership strategies that would help promote compliance to ameliorate climate change. While in the United Arab Emirates, she savored the spectacular scenery, delicious foods, and fascinating dialogues with educators, scientists, and other leaders from around the world.

Joanne Frances DeMark was born in New Castle, Pennsylvania, to Charles DeMark and Susie Cini DeMark. The second of four daughters, Joanne grew up in Wampum, a small town in Western Pennsylvania, in an extensive Italian-American family, particularly aunts, uncles, and cousins. These roots stayed with Joanne throughout her life, enhanced by various travels in and a passionate love of Italy, its cultures, foods, and language. Those who knew and loved Joanne recalled how integral her love of Italy was to Joanne, how easily she conversed or sung in the Italian language.

Education was very important to Joanne's mother, Susie, who influenced her girls through her pursuit of a career and graduation from nursing school in the 1960s after their father Charles' death in 1959. Following Joanne's graduation from Lincoln High School in Ellwood City in 1967, Joanne received a bachelor's degree from Indiana University of Pennsylvania in 1971. She ultimately earned her doctorate in psychology in 1988 from the University of Florida.

While living in Atlanta, Joanne held various teaching and consulting positions, including at Emory University's Rollins School of Public Health; health and medical information systems company McKesson-HBO & Company; and the Matrix Leadership Institute, in addition to her work with NCBI. At the time, she also had a private practice in counseling psychology.

Long after teachers and educators have passed, their impact is felt in the world, like planting and nurturing seeds that continue to bear fruit. Andriy Semenyuk, a Ukrainian-born cinematographer and a former visual journalism student at WWU, called the word of Joanne's passing, "incredibly sad news." On a Facebook posting about her death, Semenyuk wrote, "Joanne changed my life when I was a student at Western. Her incredible spirit and determination let me work on my first video projects. I met my wife filming one of the projects with Joanne. I'm forever grateful for all her help and support." Semenyuk said he was happy that he was able to see Joanne in 2023 at the WWU's Pickford Film Center. The event was the showing of Semenyuk's documentary, "Wounded Land." He co-produced and was cinematographer for the film, which tells stories of Ukraine's vintners and farmers keeping their businesses going during the war with Russia.

Joanne legacy will be honored with a Memory Brick that will be placed on WWU's Memory Walk in front of Old Main, a gift that staff members joined together to purchase. The Memory Brick is carved with the words, "In Honor of Joanne DeMark, PhD - LGBTQIA+ Advocate."

The DeMark family plans to organize an online memorial for Joanne in late summer.

Survivors include Joanne's three sisters, Charlene Shackle, Rosemary Roberts, and Susan DeMark; Joanne's soul friend, Mimi Pfeil; and heart sister, Dr. Christina Van Wingerden. In lieu of flowers, donations in Joanne's honor may be made to GLSEN (https://www.glsen.org/), a national organization and network that works to ensure that LGBTQ+ students as well as students of marginalized identities are able to learn in a safe school environment. Joanne's family is deeply grateful to the Christian Health Care Center (CHCC) and PeaceHealth Whatcom Hospice for their exquisite care of our beloved sister.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Bellingham Herald on May 5, 2024.

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Clara Capron

May 25, 2024

Joanne was one of the most inclusive colleagues I had the privilege of working with at Western Washington University. Her legacy lives on through the lives of the students she educated, the positive impact she had on the University environment and the colleagues she collaborated with throughout the years to make Western a better place. Kudos to you, Dr. DeMark, and all the best to you in your new adventure.

Michele T Rogan

May 17, 2024

I was honored to get to know Joanne during her last few months here. One of her friends said "she loves deep and she loves Big! " and I totally felt that love in the brief time I knew her. Setting up video calls for Joanne allowed me to have a glimpse of how many people's lives she influenced. She was and is a bright shining star and I know she is in the highest heaven. Happy Trails to you Joanne until we meet again!!

Patti Tritt

May 16, 2024

I was so very sorry to hear of the death of Joanne. I am sending our deepest sympathy and prayers toyou, Susan, and your family. May she Rest In Peace.

Linda Porter

May 12, 2024

I didn't know Joanne well, but I was her neighbor for several years. We were both at a dinner party at another neighbor's home a few years ago, and I remember that Joanne was funny, and I enjoyed our conversation. But we didn't have much opportunity to spend time together again. I was sorry to hear of her death and her family and friends have my deepest sympathy.

Alejandro

May 9, 2024

Thank you for all the wonderful memories Joanne.

Molly Ware

May 9, 2024

Joanne was a joyful, spirited, insightful colleague and leader. So down to earth and fun loving while being an incredible advocate for students and bringing a humane stance to higher education. I will miss her laughter and leadership, her support and insight. Onward sister. I´m sure your spirit will continue to light up the universe.

Wendy Johnson

May 8, 2024

So incredibly saddened by the loss of our dear Joanne. My colleague, friend, mentor. She was the most generous educator, so inviting and inclusive, a larger then life personality in that tiny body! We shared songs, poetry, stories, ideas. She has left behind a tremendous mark on this world, at Western, in my heart. Will forever see and hear her greeting me with "Wendilicious" with her smiling eyes and lyrical lilt.

Steven Jarose

May 8, 2024

Joanne's obituary is a tribute to her many superb qualities and accomplishments. Underpinning them all was her love of life and people. She had a playfulness about her, both impish and embracing, that made you feel she was your best friend. And for the time you were in her presence, you were just that.

Margaret Levings

May 7, 2024

Joanne was a dear friend who I affectionately called "Joella." Even though we lost touch over the years after her move to the West coast, we recently reconnected briefly and picked up where we left off. I traveled with her, attended events with her and she had the most incredible sense of humor and laugh! The woman could also out dance anyone! Joanne was brilliant beyond belief and was generous with her knowledge. I miss those days of laughter and fun. But I know she´s directing traffic in the heavens. I love you Joella, and I send my love to Rosie, Char, Susan, and the entire DeMark family. Margee

Liz Mogford

May 6, 2024

Joanne was always so upbeat and inspiring! I still use the outstanding ideas and tools she shared in a workshop on developing skills for engaging in successful group work. She was a passionate advocate and will be missed.

Hilary Schwandt

May 6, 2024

Joanne was a force, a lovely force with a powerful smile. I am sad to hear of her passing. I so enjoyed our moments together, however brief, when they occurred on campus. She inspired me then and now. She will be missed.

Marie Eaton

May 6, 2024

Joanne was such a shining light in her on-going work to make this world a place where all were valued and seen. We will miss her.

Monica R Gagnier

May 6, 2024

An amazing woman who left a lasting legacy! My condolences to her friends and family.

Rosie

May 6, 2024

My sister Susan shared with me that this beautiful poem was in the 1970 Ellwood City yearbook when our dear cousin Freddy passed away too young. This poem now belongs to you dear sister Joanne. We will love and miss you always. Rosie

Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning´s hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there, I did not die.

-Mary Elizabeth Frye
American poet (1904-2004)

Kathy

May 5, 2024

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

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Susan DeMark

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Jim DeMark

May 3, 2024

Joanne was my cousin, friend, and peer in so many ways. We attended the same elementary, high school and college together and Joanne was always sensitive yet tough. She valued her Italian roots and had the tenacity of both her Mom Susie and Dad Charley. She was afraid of nothing and was always looking for opportunities to serve others especially those with less resources than herself. As I read her obituary I learned more and more about the skills she had, the friend she was, the mentor she had become. I was and am so happy to have been a part of her early years and to have watched her grow with passion and love for what she valued and more importantly for its impact on so many others. She and her sisters are tangible examples of using one´s life not only for one´s self but for all. I know she is already and will continue to be loved and missed by many. Cousin Jim

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