Matthew Steinke

1983 - 2025

Matthew Aaron Steinke, a beloved son, brother, partner, and friend, passed away unexpectedly on September 14, 2025, due to complications from a stroke. He was 42 years old.

Born on August 3, 1983, Matthew grew up in Whatcom County and graduated from Ferndale High School in 2001. Shortly after graduation, he pursued his passion for music by becoming a guitar technician-a career that took him around the world. Known for his dedication, precision, and easygoing spirit, Matthew worked closely with countless artists and bands across the world over the years.

In 2020, Matthew turned his creativity in a new direction by founding High and Lonely, his own line of specialty incense products. What started as a personal interest grew into a thriving business. The brand, a reflection of his unique style and soulful presence, will continue on in his honor.

Matthew loved dogs and adopted Daisy, his beloved English Bulldog rescue. Daisy remained faithfully by his side until the very end, a constant source of comfort and joy.

Matthew was deeply loved by his parents, Don and Gayle Steinke; his sister, Tara; and his partner Emily and her children, Mikayla, Rylee, and Cole, who brought warmth and meaning to his life. His circle extended far and wide-made up of the many friends, colleagues, and fellow travelers whose lives he touched with his kindness, humor, and gentle heart.

Matthew lived his life authentically and fully. His absence leaves a void that cannot be filled, in lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made in Matthew's memory to the Whatcom Humane Society.

(Please note: "In memoriam – Matthew Steinke" with your donation).

Rest easy, Matthew. You were one of a kind, and you will be missed beyond measure.