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Helen Reeve

1927 - 2021

Helen Reeve Obituary

Helen Schmidinger Reeve, PhD. died peacefully at home on December 11, 2021, in Bennington, Vt. She had great joy in connecting with dear friends and family, especially in conversation, over cocktails, or when listening to live musical performances. Words and ideas mattered a great deal - from great literature to the classroom, to the nuances of translation, to the integrity of personal communication. Born in 1927 in Ljubljana, Yugoslavia (now Slovenia), to Friderik Schmidinger (architect) and Larisa Barsova Schmidinger, she grew up in Belgrade; she survived and escaped from internment during WWII, translated for UNRRA, and arrived in the US as a young bride of a US soldier and German scholar, Matthew Cohen. From her years in Chicago, she graduated Northwestern University (summa cum laude, Phi Beta Kappa) and then moved to New York City to attend graduate school at the Russian Studies Institute, Columbia University. She was married 1956 - 1982 to the translator, novelist, and poet FD Reeve. Professor Reeve taught at Connecticut College, New London, for 32 years and was the Hanna Hafkesbrink Professor and chair of the Russian Department. Whether teaching Russian as an introductory language, or delving into the intricacies of poetic phrases, she demanded and inspired students to do their best. She is survived by her three children and one stepson and their spouses, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, her nieces and their children and grandchildren. Her family thanks the loving care provided by AHSC home health and Bayada Hospice that helped her to live well at home. Memorial Contributions in honor of Helen may be made to The Palmer Library (Russian Studies) at Connecticut College, The American Civil Liberties Union, or The Southern Poverty Law Center. Contributions may be sent to the office of the E.P. Mahar and Son Funeral Home, 628 Main Street, Bennington, Vermont 05201. Guestbook Condolences may be made at www.maharandsonfuneralhome.net

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Published by The Bennington Banner on Dec. 15, 2021.

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John Drobnicki

October 22, 2024

I came across this archival document - Helen taught Russian on television in New York City in 1958 for St. John's University.

Resu Frink

December 8, 2023

It is always a moment of peace when remembering Helen. Thank you for your light. Resu

Molly Helms

February 16, 2022

It was just today that I received a message that Helen passed in December.

I was an Administrative Assistant at Connecticut College for twenty-four years. During my last ten years at the college, I worked in Harkness Chapel. After Helen retired, she took organ lessons from Dr. John Anthony. Each week before (or after) her lessons, she would come to my office in the chapel, and we would always have a lively conversation. She had the best laugh.

For many years, she would contact me when her grapes were ripe. I would go to her home in Higganum, and we would pick grapes and have a fine time. I would take the grapes home and make some wonderful grape jelly from her "special French grapes."

I miss her and her wonderful laugh.

I send warm wishes to her family.

Blanche McCrary Boyd

December 22, 2021

Helen was my colleague at Connecticut College, and, like many others, I loved her and respected her deeply. She was generous and brilliant, and I cherish my memories of her. Hers was a life well-lived, and an example of grace.

Esther Beierle

December 18, 2021

I always enjoyed and admired Helen's spirit and perserverence in Tai Chi class. We had interesting conversations on the times I drove her home.

Gail Manning Hanson

December 16, 2021

Sorry for the loss of your mother but glad she lived well with spunk. I appreciated her hosting me when I visited and rides to Connecticut College.

Lucy Gunderson

December 16, 2021

It was a great joy to study Russian under Professor Reeve. She guided me through my Russian major and year of study abroad, and she inspired me to pursue translation as a career. I am forever thankful to her for that.

Tanya Feliciano DeMattia

December 15, 2021

I loved my time at Connecticut College and studying with Professor Reeve was one of the reasons. My life is richer for having known her and studied under her.
Tanya Feliciano DeMattia

Resu Espinosa-Frink

December 15, 2021

Rest in peace, Helen. We still have the chairs you gave us, and remember your wonderful conversation and your love of poetry.

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