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James W. Meskun

1947 - 2014 SHAFTSBURY James Wesley Meskun, 66, a resident of Westview Place, died Friday, June 27, 2014, at the Vermont Veterans Home in Bennington, following a brief illness. Born on July 26, 1947, in Torrington, Conn., he was the son of the late Wesley C. Meskun and Florence (Everett) Donlay who survives. Jim was a 1965 graduate of Woodbury, (Conn.) High School. He joined the United States Marine Corps in 1966 and volunteered for two tours of duty in Vietnam where he served in Chu Lai as an aviation avionics technician supporting both the 121st and 223rd VMA Attack Squadrons. He was honorably discharged in 1969 with the rank of Sergeant. Jim married the former Linda McMahon at Our Lady of Good Counsel Church in Valley Falls, N.Y., on July 17, 1971. Jim was employed as a customer support specialist by Xerox in both Connecticut and Vermont from 1970 2003. Very active in the Shaftsbury community for several years, Jim had served as a town auditor, chairman of the Shaftsbury Veterans Committee, current treasurer of the NorShaft Lions Club and longtime member of the Shaftsbury Fire Department. Jim was a lifetime member of VFW Post 7330 in Oakville, Conn., a member of both the Marine Corps Association and the Marine Corps League and also the NRA. He also coached both youth baseball and soccer in Shaftsbury. Jim enjoyed gardening, hunting and fishing and was an avid collector of stamps, coins, gems and minerals and antique tools. Survivors include his wife, Linda Meskun of Shaftsbury; a daughter and son-in-law, Jennifer and Dalton Frazier of Nantucket, Mass.; a son and daughter-in-law, Matthew and Jennifer Meskun of Puerto Rico; his mother, Florence Donlay of Kent, Conn.; two grandchildren, Dalton Frazier II and Zoey Meskun; three brothers, Gerald Meskun of Colebrook, Conn., Scott Meskun of Plantsville, Conn., and Keith Donlay of New Milford, Conn., and several nieces, nephews and cousins. Jim was predeceased by a brother, Gergory Meskun. FUNERAL NOTICE: The funeral will be held from Four Chaplains All Faiths Chapel at the Vermont Veterans Home on Wednesday, July 9, 2014 at 10 a.m. Burial will take place in the family lot in St. Johns Cemetery, Schaghticoke, N.Y. Friends may call at the MAHAR SON FUNERAL HOME on Tuesday, July 8, from 5 to 7 p.m. when the family will be in attendance. Should friends desire, contributions in James W. Meskun's memory may be made to either the Shaftsbury Veterans Committee or the Wounded Warriors Project through the office of the Mahar & Son Funeral Home, 628 Main Street, Bennington, VT 05201. Guest book condolences may be made at www.maharandsonfuneralhome.net.



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Published by Bennington Banner on Jun. 30, 2014.

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Bill Sharpe

June 28, 2022

I have a photo of Jim and his family in my office that I look at often. I remember how proud he was of the people in that photo as we both would brag about our family's. I often think of Jim's laugh which was one when you heard it you knew who was laughing. And I hope when I get to my spirit life I will hear that laugh again,

Becky Miller

July 16, 2014

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

July 8, 2014

Dear Jen, Dalton and your family,
Please know you all are in our thoughts and especially prayers during this time of deep grief and sorrow..There are no words that can comfort you, but know you are not alone. May God's grace and peace cover your hearts.
With our love, Ken and Dianne Lopian

July 7, 2014

Linda, Jennifer, and Matthew, I am very sorry to learn of Jim's passing.
I worked with your husband and Dad for many years. He was simply the best. Customers loved him, he was so accommodating and friendly to one and all. He had the highest level of integrity and work ethic that I have ever witnessed. He was a wonderful man and you all should be very proud of the way he conducted his life. He will be missed. Again I am sorry for your loss.

Gil McCormack
Rutland, VT

Cathy VanWagner

July 7, 2014

Linda, Jenn & Matt...our family sends our heartfelt condolences to you at this difficult time.

Karen Mellinger

July 7, 2014

Dear Linda and family,
The town has certainly lost one of its best citizens. He will always be remembered for his diligent work as an auditor, volunteer to our Fire Company and a passionate advocate for our veteran's - living and passed on.
We are left with wonderful memories of his kindness, devotion to his family and friends, generosity of his time and - of course - his great humor, which brought a smile to all around him. My prayers are with you and the family, Linda - he loved you all so very much.

Mary Everett

July 4, 2014

DearLinda and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sorry I can not be there with all of you but know I am in spirit. Jimmy was a great guy and we loved him very much. Will always remember his great smile and laugh. He will be missed by many. God Bless.
Love, Aunt Mary

Bill Sharpe

July 4, 2014

My Xerox years with Jim were fun every time I worked with him. He was so respected by both his team mates as well as his many customers. I was so looking at spending time with you and Jim in our retirement years. I'm sure the lord had a reason for taking him so soon from us and that some time in the future we will learn why. My thoughts and feelings are with you at this difficult time. Bill and Sandy Sharpe

Beth Ciarcia

July 3, 2014

Dear Linda,
I am so thankful that you and Jimmy kept me as a part of your family all of these years, and I always ALWAYS enjoyed our visits, sporadic though they were. I am sad about Jimmy's passing as he was taken too soon, but at the same time rejoice that he is no longer suffering. My thoughts are with you, and my heartfelt sympathy goes out to you, Jennifer & Matthew.....
Love, Beth

Robbin Stokes

July 2, 2014

Linda ~
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I am sure there is a empty place in the family that no other person can ever fill. When I think of true marriages- yours is always one of the first to come to mind- how fortunate that you found each other. May your memories bring some solace and peace. Thinking of you and saying many prayers ~

Joseph and Melissa Valliere

July 2, 2014

Our thoughts are with you during this time.

Jim Judy

July 1, 2014

Linda and family; So sorry to hear about Jim. Hang in their take it one day at a time.

Jim Judy

July 1, 2014

Linda and family, So sorry to hear about Jim's passing. Hang in there one day at a time.

July 1, 2014

Our heartfelt prayers are with you and all Jim's family. May God's peace be with you and may Jim enjoy the happiness of His company.
Don and Elena Banks

July 1, 2014

Jen and Family, Sending prayers to you and your entire family. Thinking of you.

Amy Maroney (Dziadul)

July 1, 2014

Linda and family-
You have our deepest sympathy on the passing of Jim. He was simply a wonderful person who always had a good attitude and was willing fo help anyone in need. It was always great working with him. Peace and blessings- Connie and Tom Cooney

John Violette

July 1, 2014

Dear Linda and family,

So sorry to hear about Jim. He was a great guy to work with. Great attitude and full of enthusiasm. He will be missed.

June 30, 2014

Please accept my sincerest condolences. May God and your fond
memories give you and your family comfort and peace during this difficult time.
Ms Porter

Aaron Chrostowsky

June 30, 2014

Linda-
So, sad to hear of the news. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Sincerely, Aaron Chrostowsky

Vern & Carol Bean

June 30, 2014

Jenn & Matt:
Our deepest sympathies go out to you. A special angel is now watching over you.
Love, Uncle Bub, Aunt Carol & family

Abby Raetz

June 30, 2014

Matt, Jennifer and Family,

My deepest condolences for your loss. May the warmest of memories and reflection of a wonderful man guide you through.

Bekah Bruneau (Percey)

June 30, 2014

Linda, Jen, and Matt,
I am terribly sorry to hear about Jim's passing. I still can't believe it. It meant a lot to me when Linda and Jim came into the school to say bye to me before moving south. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
God Bless,
Bekah Bruneau (Percey) ??

June 30, 2014

Linda
You and your family have our heart felt condolences.
Homer &Jean

John and Melissa Rodriguez

June 30, 2014

Dear Meskun Family,

The neighborhood won't feel the same without Jim. He was a welcoming neighbor and kind person who was always willing to help anyone in need. We'll truly miss him and his big infectious laugh.

Sally, Bob, Rob,& Christopher Eastman

June 30, 2014

Linda, Jen, and Matt,
So sorry to hear of Jim's passing. Our hearts and prayer go out to you during this difficult time. Such a dedicated Veteran. We will remember all the good times we had while our kids were growing up.

Tyler Resch

June 30, 2014

I was shocked and saddened to learn of Jim's death. He was such a great citizen and contributed so much to his community. His work as Shaftsbury auditor will be specially remembered.

Barbara Bruce

June 30, 2014

Dear Linda and Family:
Jim was a good friend and neighbor. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

June 30, 2014

Dear Linda and Jenny and family,

I was so sad to learn of Jim's passing. My heart goes out to you during this hard time.
Love always,
Amelia Silver

June 30, 2014

Scott, so sorry. Laura

June 30, 2014

Jim,
You Fitz and I went into the Corps on the buddy plan. Through boot camp and onto our time in Viet Nam at Chu Lai.
So now it looks like you have both gone on ahead to prepare a better place. Through tears I salute you my friend. Carry on.
Semper Fi
Sgt. USMC RET
Art and Lind Banks
New Preston, CT

Phil/Marylou Young

June 30, 2014

We will always remember you making sure small USA flags were placed at all the veterans graves in Shaftsbury cemeteries each Memorial Day.. Your devotion to your town, your country and your beautiful family made you a very special guy to know.... Shine on in heaven dear friend..

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