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Margaret Lally Obituary

KINDERHOOK, N.Y. -- Margaret F. Lally, 76, Kinderhook, formerly of Bennington, Vt., passed away on Saturday, Oct. 11, 2003, at home surrounded by her loving family.

She was born on June 24, 1927 in Yonkers, the daughter of Edward A. Fay, Esq., and Margaret Heffernan Fay. She received her education in Yonkers and attended the College of Mt. St. Vincent in Riverdale. She graduated from the Berkeley Secretarial School in New York and the H.W. Putnam School of Nursing in Bennington.

Mrs. Lally earned her bachelor of arts, summa cum laude, from Southern Vermont College, where she was valedictorian of her class.

After raising her family, she worked as a nurse, a social worker and as a travel agent. She was a member of the Kinderhook Garden Club, where she previously served as vice president and secretary. Her home, family, painting, gardening, traveling, swimming in her pool and reading were her main interests.

She married her husband, William F. Lally Jr., Esq. on June 18, 1949. He survives.

She is also survived by her sister, Mrs. Robert J. (Joan) Brennan Sr. of Northport; her brother, Edward A. Fay Jr. of Scituate, Mass.; four daughters, Mary Ellen Lally-Pinette of Roswell, Ga., Monica L. Myers of Frederick, Md., Maria Lally Clark, Esq. of Valatie and Mary Frances “Casey” Morris of Rexford. She is also survived by two sons, Christopher M. Lally of Concord, N.H. and Sean P. Lally, Esq. of Kinderhook; plus nine grandchildren.

She was predeceased by her son, William F. Lally III, and her daughter, Siobhan de Kervor.

At Mrs. Lally’s request, there will be no calling hours. A memorial service will be held on Saturday, Oct. 18, 2003 at 11 a.m. at the First Presbyterian Church in Valatie. Donations may be made to the Kinderhook Garden Club Scholarship Fund, P.O. Box 373, Kinderhook, NY 12106-0373.

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Published by Bennington Banner on Oct. 13, 2003.

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Amy Gerling

October 23, 2003

I was so saddened to hear about Margaret's passing. My deepest condolences to everyone.She will be truly missed.

I enjoyed working with Margaret at East Greenbush Travel, remembering all the times she shared her knowledge on things...especially when my son was born! I still wear the bracelet she brought me back from Italy.

Courtney Fitzgerald

October 18, 2003

To all of the Lallys --

You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this time and I hope that all of your wonderful memories of Baba help to ease you through this period. I will always look back fondly on the fun dinners and beautiful parties on W.S. Drive -- made possible by the always warm and enchanting hostess Baba! She will be missed.

Love, Courtney

Jill Gautie

October 17, 2003

So Sorry to hear of Margaret's passing. I worked with her at East Greenbush Travel...she was a fine lady!!I'm sure she will be missed.

Sandra Sullivan

October 15, 2003

My deepest condolences to all the Lally family. I worked and traveled with this incredible woman and I feel so fortunate to have had this treasured time with her. She inspired me with her enthusiasm. I will miss her.



Sandi Sullivan

Gwynne Balson

October 14, 2003

My thoughts and prayers go out to your Family. We shared time spent in the travel industry. As small in height as you were, your heart, your smile and willingness to help could never be measured. I would almost guess you are now trying to make sure everyone reaches heaven safely as you did with all your clients and making their trips go so smoothly. You will be missed.

Girls at East Greenbush Travel

October 14, 2003

We are sorry to hear about the loss of a wonderful lady. Margaret was a pleasure to work with. She was also a wealth of knowledge and always had a kind word for everyone. She will surely be missed.

Girls at East Greenbush Travel

mary bradt

October 14, 2003

I met BaBa a few years ago when we attended a class together. She wasn't merely a woman, BaBa was a real lady. She didn't flaunt her education or accomplishments; in fact, she was probably the most low keyed in our five person group. I'm sorry I didn't have the opportunity to know her better. My most sincere synpathy is extended to BaBa's family, for I know what it is like to lose your mother.

Polly van der Linde

October 13, 2003

Margaret "Baba" Lally was an amazing woman. She came to all of my piano concerts locally and served as my parents travel agent (which allowed them lots of sun and peace when my Dad was so ill with

leukemia) for many years. Best of all, she loved that Maria and I

kept up our friendship ever since our Mount Anthony High sShool years as well as throughout our college, grad or law school, marriages and having kids. We shall miss this dear woman who gave so much to others. My heartfelt condolences to all the Lally's.

Polly van der Linde

Sally and Roy Thomson

October 13, 2003

'Think where one's glory

most begins and ends,

And say my glory was

I had such a friend.'

Mary and Dawn Titus

October 13, 2003

Our deepest sympathy in the loss of your mother. Time will heal the pain, but the memories you cherish will live forever. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this time of sorrow.

Darleen and Jay Benner

October 13, 2003

Our prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family during this time of sadness.

Susan Wiskoski

October 13, 2003

My most hearfelt sympathy is sent to all the Lally family, especially to Bill and Sean--whom I know the best

I remember Margaret so fondly and I admired her--her determination, humor, her "smarts", her kindness, her generosity. I don't know if she knew it, but I often used her as an example to follow when I felt overwhelmed. I will think of you and pray for you all. Much love, Sue Wiskoski

Joan reddan(Howard)

October 13, 2003

I workded with Margret at a local Nursing home in the Bennington area and found her a a real joy to work under and fond she was very compassionate nurse. I enjoyed her smile The family has my deepest sympathy

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