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Oakley Frost Obituary

Oakley M. Frost M.D. 1932-2011 HOOSICK FALLS, NY - Dr. Oakley M. Frost, retired surgeon and former longtime resident of North Bennington died unexpectedly Monday May 16, 2011 at his home in Hoosick Falls, N.Y., he was 79 years of age. Born in Middletown Springs on February 23, 1932, he was the son of Oakley T. and Lillian (Gentles) Frost, he received his early education at the Whitney School in Old Bennington and was a graduate of Plattsburgh (NY) High School. He continued his education at Williams College in Williamstown, Mass., where he received his under graduate degree and then Albany Medical School where he obtained his Doctorate in Medicine Degree. He pursued specialized training in Vascular and General Surgery at Albany Medical Center and the Veterans Administration Hospital in Albany where he served his internship. A resident of the Bennington area since 1965, he was a Vascular and General Surgeon at the Southwestern Vermont Medical until retiring in 2005. Dr. Frost was a Korean War Veteran serving in the US Navy aboard the USS Boston. He was a member of the Zion Episcopal Church in Manchester Center, Mt. Anthony Lodge Free and Accepted Masons, Bennington Rotary Club, Sage City Symphony, Union College Symphony and a board member of the new England Tropical Conservatory. He thoroughly enjoyed music and was a member of the Sage City 6 Dixieland Band, Frosty 4 Barbershop Quartet with his sons and has sung with the Mendelssohn Club of Albany. He also enjoyed gardening, maintaining a large garden for many years at his home and was known for growing beautiful dahlias, he loved his 59 Corvette which he has owned since being a young man. He leaves his wife Carol (Comar) Frost whom he married November 3, 1996 in Bennington, his former wife Dorothy Frost of North Bennington and their children daughter and son in laws Elizabeth Anne and Jeffrey Silva and children Conner and Rowan of Ipswich, Mass., Kristina Kim and Jeffrey Moll and children Remy and Sami of Middleton, Mass., Laura Maria and Eric Van Denbrulle and daughter Eve of New York City, son and daughter in laws John David Frost of Burlington, Robert and Julie Frost and children Olivia, Hannah and Addison of Monroe, Conn., Matthew Joseph and Susie Frost and daughter Kyana of North Bennington, Jonathan Jay Frost of West Palm Beach, Fla., Eric Scott and Nancy Frost MD FACS and children Erica and Adam of Bennington, Randall Oakley Frost of North Bennington, Gary D. and Laurie Frost and children Alicia, Alexis, Rachel and Kristina of Stuart, Fla., step daughter Angela Pugliese of Bennington, sisters Margery Sherman and son Andrew of Sidney, Australia and Cynthia and Timothy Moran and children John and Tim of Glenrock, Pa. Dr. Frost was predeceased by a sister Betty Ann Frost. FUNERAL NOTICE: Funeral services will be held on Saturday May 21 at 10 a.m. at the Hanson-Walbridge Funeral Home with the Reverend John Mitchell, rector of the Zion Episcopal Church officiating. Burial with full military honors will take place in the Frost family lot in Pleasant View Cemetery in Middletown Springs. The family will receive friends on Saturday from 3 to 6 p.m. at the Pangaea Resturant in North Bennington. Friends may call at the funeral home on Friday from 5 to 8 p.m. when the family will be present. Memorial gifts in memory of Dr Frost may be made to the New England Tropical Conservatory in care of the Hanson-Walbridge Funeral Home, 213 West Main Street, Bennington, VT 05201. To send personal e-mail condolences to the family, please visit www.sheafuneralhomes.com. All member of the Mt. Anthony Lodge F&AM are asked to meet at the funeral home on Friday evening at 6 p.m., to conduct services for Dr. Frost, all members of the Bennington Rotary Club are asked to meet at the funeral home on Friday evening at 5 p.m. to pay their respects to the family.

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Published by Bennington Banner on May 18, 2011.

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Eve van den Brulle

November 9, 2020

Oakley Frost was my Grandpa, i didn’t know him very well but when i was i baby I was held by him on Christmas, and I always want to carry on his career of music. He was an amazing soul, and i hope that he is having i great time in heaven. I Love you Grandpoppy.

Albert Lafontaine

May 13, 2019

Oakley is in my heart daily, I think of him every time I look at my fishing gear. We had such great times on Lake Champlain. We hold Carol close to our thoughts and hearts as well. Oakley will always be missed and never be forgotten.

Marge Wakeman

May 24, 2011

Carol, We are so sorry and both saddened to hear of your husband Oakley's death. You are in our hearts and we send our love and compassion to you, hoping you are able to feel solace for your pain and comfort in your sadness. And that your whole family will be able to find peace and serenity. Love and Namaste, Marge Wakeman and Shawn MacKenzie

“For small creatures such as we,
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Susan Lake

May 23, 2011

To Carol and the family of Dr. Frost Please accept my deepest condolences.

Theresa Goff

May 22, 2011

God, where do i start,Dr.Oakley Frost is one of the most wonderful and loving man i have ever known.He was my dr.and friend.He saved my life 7 yrs ago when he found melanoma ,while treating me for a severe back injury.I can not say enough words to tell everyone how much he will be missed.May god bless his family with peace .I will miss you so much.

Wanda (Niles) Sayce

May 22, 2011

Dear Frost Family,

My heart was saddened when I got the email from Nate saying that Doc Frost had passed away. There are no words to help you through this grief, only time and being together. Hold close the memories, for as long as you have them Oakley will be near. May the peace that passes understanding help you through this sad time. Though far away, my thoughts and prayers are in Vermont with the Frost Family. God bless you all.

Wanda (Niles) Sayce
Abergavenny
Wales

John Carroll & family

May 21, 2011

To the Frost family,
My thoughts are with you today. Your dad was a lover of life. He always shared that with anyone he came in contact with. I sang with him, and Scott, Randy, and Gary. You, your brothers and sisters are all a heritage, I have no doubt, he was/is SO proud of. He was someone I will never forget. I will cherish all the memories of him at the hospital, soccer, and so many other places his presence made a difference. Deepest sympathies to you all.

Bill Driscoll

May 21, 2011

My deepest sympathy goes out to the Frost family. Oakley was kind, caring, and an inspiration to my entire family. I'm out of state and uable to attend services but you are in my prayers. May memories, faith, and friends help you through this most difficult time.

May 21, 2011

To the entire Frost Family,
Please accept our most hearfelt sympathies....may the memories you hold in your heart get you through the days to come. You're all in our thoughts and prayers. xo
Armand & Jean
Michelle, Tom & Hannah
Hogie, Karen & Logan

Joy Bishop

May 21, 2011

Dr. Frost was surgeon for both my husband and me many years ago. I appre-
ciated both his knowledge and his em-
pathy. My thoughts and prayers are
with you. Joy Bishop

Nicole (Nikki) Cutler-Greene

May 21, 2011

To the Family Of Dr. Oakley Frost, My heart goes out to all of you, I have known this family, since I moved to North Bennington in 1978. I know he will be sadly missed! Keep the memories close to your heart.

Caroline Martel

May 20, 2011

Carol and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of Oakley's passing. He was a great physician and person. He was so helpful to the Rescue Squad when we needed advise and direction over the years. He will certainly be missed but never forgotten. Our Deepest sympathy to all of you.
Caroline and Bruce Martel

Brenda Mears

May 20, 2011

To the family of Dr. Frost, sorry for your loss, he was a great Dr He took very good care of my husband who died in 2005(Joseph King)many years ago. May God help you in your time of sorrow

May 20, 2011

I was always impressed with Dr. Frost's sense of humor and musical abilities. He was a fine gentleman, and I enjoyed knowing him in The Mendelssohn Club. My condolences to his three sons, and to the family.
Stephen Momrow

molly becker ( taylor)

May 20, 2011

My condolences goes out to the entire Frost family who shared so many memories with me when i was younger! You are all in my prayers, peace be with you

Shawn Comar

May 20, 2011

Aunt Carol and Family of Oakley,
We are so very sorry for the loss of such a wonderful man. My you find comfort during this very sad time. We send you all of our love. x0x Shawn, Melissa, and Addison

May 20, 2011

To the family of Dr. Frost. I am so sorry for your loss. Dr. Frost was an exceptional and caring man. He saved my life in 1986. I will always remember how he would come to the hospital and pull up a chair and talk to me. I haven't had a doctor do that since. Melanie Brown (Valley Falls, NY)

Union College Orchestra

Beth Geragosian

May 19, 2011

Oakley was such a kind and very talented man. I greatly miss him in our cello section at Union College. We will be playing for him Friday night at our concert. So very sorry for your loss.

Cheryl Kresky

May 19, 2011

Carol- So sorry for your sudden loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of loss.
Cheryl Ann Kresky

Scott Williams

May 19, 2011

Oakley Frost was an exceptional man. He was a perpetual learner and an engaging instructor. He will be missed near and far. I will miss his barbershop high notes and the quizzically raised eyebrow when you made a joke.

Timothy Johnson

May 19, 2011

To the Frost Family: Oakley was my (cello) stand-mate in the Union College Orchestra. He drove many miles every week to attend rehearsals in Schenectady. Last week at rehearsal, he was passionate in his playing of Brahms' German Requiem, and was a very accomplished cellist. Everyone in the cello section admires him, and mourns his sudden passing. Having known Oakley for the last 4 years has been a great privilege, he he will be very much missed. His life is an example to be admired.

Tracy Moyer

May 19, 2011

Aunt Carol - I am so sorry for your loss. Oakley was a very special man and we all loved him so much. I am thinking of you every day and want you to know we are all here for you. I love you.

Dorothy Stall

May 19, 2011

Carol, I pray it will help you to know that the thoughts, prayers and love of many others are with you at this time of sadness. I think of you so often and when you come to mind, I will say a prayer. Love, Dotty Stall

May 19, 2011

Carol, So sorry about your loss. I hope the happy memories will get you through this time... Nancy Casey Hoyt

Wendy Comar

May 19, 2011

To all the frost Children.I'm sorry for the loss of your Dad.Oakley was a great inspiration to us all. We loved him with no restrictions. Hold him deeply in your hearts. You will find comfort in his love.

Wen (sister)

May 19, 2011

Carr,I'm sorry Oakley has left you.Remember how much he loved and admired you. Hold that deeply in your heart.And know how much you are loved by all.Your love for each other was a compliment to you both. Thank you for bringing him into our family. We will all miss him greatly. Ed and I love you with all of our hearts

Carrie Croft and Michael Briggs

May 19, 2011

The Frost Family is in our thoughts and prayers.

May 19, 2011

TO THE FROST FAMILY
I AM SO SORRY TO HERE OF YOUR LOST. DR FROST WAS A GREAT GUY TO WORK. AND MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH ALL OF YOU . DOROTHY BEHAN

May 19, 2011

To the Frost Family;
Wishing you all much peace and healing and sending sincere ocondolences on the loss of Dr. Frost.
Peace and many Blessings
Julie Creel

May 19, 2011

To the Frost Family-You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Becky and Arnie Fallon

Lianne Levin - Rush

May 19, 2011

To the Frost family, I was saddened to hear of Oakley's passing. He was truly a "rennaissance " man in his own own right. You all should be so proud of who he was and what he did for his family and countless other people he encounter throughout his lifetime. You where all truly blessed to have this man in your life. Hold your memories close to heart and he will be with you forever.

Sheri Fafunwa-Ndibe

May 18, 2011

Dear Frost Family,
I am saddened to hear about the passing of your Dad. Our family has fond memories of the times we shared together when we visited North Bennington from Nigeria. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort and peace at this very difficult time. Best wishes.

Philip Frasier

May 18, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Frost family. We were fortunate to know Oakley as an outstanding physician as well as a wonderful family friend. We enjoyed listening to him sing with his family on many occasions, and were thankful to him for appearing as Santa one Christmas for our girls. One of their best Christmas' ever! Bennington has lost one of its finest... Sincerely, Nancy Frasier, Philip and Robin (Daigneault) Frasier and family

Stephanie Zito

May 18, 2011

Oakley sounds like he was a highly gifted person all will always remember. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Mrs Edward Cutler

May 18, 2011

To the entire Frost family:
My thoughts & prayers are with each of you during these difficult days. Remember the good times, they will help get you through.
My deepest sympathy.
Marlene Kilburn Cutler

Kevin & Sherry Davis

May 18, 2011

To the entire Frost family, Our thoughts and prayers are with each and everyone of you at this time of sorrow.

Sandy Schneider

May 18, 2011

So sorry to hear about Oakley's passing. He was our first friend when we moved to Bennington in 1972. Spent many hours on the Hockey Rink. Great family and friends. Our sincere condolences. Sandy and Lou Schneider

May 18, 2011

To the Frost family: Our hearts are breaking with the news that such a man has passed from our presence. Oakley was a great doctor, a caring person, and a fantastic musician. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. John and Cindy Riddle, Rutland, Vermont

May 18, 2011

To the entire Frost family, our deepest sympathy. Oakley frost was truly a man. He will be missed. kim &charles and steven Forrest

May 18, 2011

Bob,

I am so sorry to hear the news about your father. I often think about the stories you shared growing up in Vermont. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.
Mark Stern

Jerry Clayton Jr.

May 18, 2011

Condolences to the entire Frost family. I know most of you from all the years we lived across the street from you in North Bennington.

Jim Carroll

May 18, 2011

To the entire Frost family,

My mother, June Carroll and your father were great friends and had a tremendously warm friendship. Often, after work, your dad would give mom a ride home and the two of them, then so young and vital, would sit together and talk about work and life sitting in that wonderful Corvette... sometimes for an hour or more.

Transfixed by the curves and chrome of that Corvette, I was often nearby listening to them and it was a lesson on how two adults talked to each other in a warm, compassionate, good-natured and forthright way that still resonates in my mind.

They respected each other.

The last time, and everytime, that I spoke with your dad, I was reminded again of how "authentic" he was. There was no artifice or pretense about him and he was absolutely fearless in his approach to any topic and to life in general.

He was always insightful, always compassionate, gentle and wise.

After our conversations would end, I would say to myself, "I need/should/want to be more like him."

I can pay no higher compliment than that he reminded me of my own dad.

I will be by on friday, but forgive me if I am unable to speak.

With great love and affection,

Jim Carroll

Mindy Jo Barber

May 18, 2011

Carol I was saddened to hear of the loss of your husband. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

May 18, 2011

Dear Carol and the Frost family,
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
With sympathy,
Mary Wicker

Tina Frost-Moll

May 18, 2011

Dad Thank you for all that you taught me and your support. You will be missed.I will always think of the good times we had.Great memories. Thank you to all for your support and kind words at our time of grief.

Denise Maxon Betts

May 18, 2011

Gary and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your fathers passing. I will keep you in my heart and prayers.

May 18, 2011

To all the Frost family - Condolences at this sad time.
Judy and Randy Krum, DeLand, Florida

Nancy & Dave Wickenden

May 18, 2011

To The Frost Family-Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Dr Frost will be remembered as the most compassionate and devoted Doctor, he will be greatly missed and always remembered by many-our thoughts and prayers are with you and you families.

Julie Fortier

May 18, 2011

Laura and the Frost family, So sorry to hear of your loss. Dr. Frost was a great man and Doctor. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Heather Clayton

May 18, 2011

Our prayers go out to the whole Frost family. Dr, Frost was truley a great man and I have soem really fond memories of him with the wreslers and the wrestling team he always made us girls laugh. His life will continue on through the stories his children tell thier children and so on. May God bless you in this journey and help you through your sorrow.
Heather (Prouty) Clayton and Family

May 18, 2011

The employees at Evans' News on Main Street join the community of people who are saddened by the loss of Dr. Frost. Our thoughts are with his family and friends at this sad time for all of you.

May 18, 2011

Dear Frost Family,

I was sorry to read about Dr. Frost in the paper this morning. Our dad, Maurice Pennock,was also from Middletown Springs and any time the two of them met up, they shared memories and laughter about one of the smallest towns in Vermont! Dr. Frost had a real zest for life and I know his loss will leave a huge hole in your lives. Know that my thoughts are with you all as you go through these sad days.

Sincerely,

Judith Pennock
Bennington

My Dad and my girls. Fall 2010.

Bob Frost & Family

May 18, 2011

Dad, I miss you already. For everything, I thank you. The love and support of family and friends will carry us all through this difficult time. Love Bob, Julie, Olivia, Hannah and Addison.

Sharon Levandowski

May 18, 2011

To the entire Frost family, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. He will be greatly missed by many. He was an exceptional man and physician.

Beth Stedman

May 18, 2011

We are so very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing, Betsy and family. Although I did not know him personally, my Dad (John Dighton) remembers him fondly from their Williams College days together. In a twist of fate, their grandsons became friends many years later, in elementary school!
Our hearts go out to you and may you all take comfort in your wonderful memories.
xo Beth, Molly & Daniel Stedman

Cindy Morrison

May 18, 2011

To the entire Frost family,
Please accept my sincerest condolences for the loss of a very amazing and accomplished man! My heart goes out to you all. Nothing can ever replace him but the memories that you all have will keep him alive in your hearts forever

May 18, 2011

Margery and Cynthia and the Frost family I was sorry to hear of your loss. I can remember the times when Oakley was choir director at the Bennington Methodist. We made many trips to Albany Medical Center at Chrismas time to sing carols and then to his apartment for Hot chocolate and doughnuts. Beatrice ( Peachie) Ayers Brown.

shirley&keith young

May 18, 2011

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

May 18, 2011

carol. our hearts and love go out to you at this very sad time. we are thinking of you and wish you peace and comfort. sincerely will and joanne brown.

May 18, 2011

The family of Dr.Oakley Frost My deepest sympathy to all of you.My thoughts and prayer are with you .Take care.Janet Murray & family.Bennington,Vt.

May 18, 2011

Carol & Family ~ So sorry to hear of your loss. Oakley was an inspiration to many; he will be missed. Thinking of you ~ Barbara Fane, Buskirk, NY

Heather (Frost) Hassett and family

May 18, 2011

To the entire Frost family, Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your father. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of grief.

Tim & Jo-ann Burke

May 18, 2011

To the entire Frost family sorry to hear of your Dads passing he was such a caring man and he never forgot one of the kids from the neiberhood. He would always stop and talked to me when I would see him. He operated on both of my grandfathers and prolonged thier lives. He will be truly missed our thoughts and prayers are with you all

Jim,Lauri and family Wright

May 18, 2011

Carol and family, we are truly sorry for your loss. Let the great memories you have get you though this difficult time. Our thoughs and prayers are with you.

May 18, 2011

Oakley was a true friend to all. He has helped me in so many ways. I will never forget the times spent at the camp on Lake Champlain or visiting at the house. My heart goes out to Carol and all the family. You are all in our prayers and thoughts.

Albert & Laurie Lafontaine

May 18, 2011

To the entire Frost family ; I am saddened by your loss. It is never easy to lose a parent or a loved one , but know he has gone on to his just reward.
Sincerely, Linda Kenyon Lewis

Don and Donna Armstrong

May 18, 2011

So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you all at this time.

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