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Pamela Sands Obituary

Pamela A. Sands 1947-2010 BENNINGTON Pamela A. Sands, 62, a resident of Woodford Road, Bennington, died Wednesday, September 22, 2010 at Albany Medical Center following a long illness. Born in Connecticut on October 29, 1947, she was the adopted daughter of the late Walter and Flora Downing Hoffman. Pamela received her education in the Hoosick Falls schools. In earlier years she was employed at the Polygraphic Company in North Bennington. Pamela especially loved time spent with her grandchildren. She also enjoyed various crafts and was devoted to her family. She was the lifelong companion of Ralph Quackenbush Jr. of Bennington. Survivors include her four children, Darlene Willette and her husband, David Sr. of Bennington, Wayne Searby and his wife Sherrie of Bennington, Michelle Flanders and her husband David of Rutland and Dane Searby and his wife Jessica of Bennington; fifteen grandchildren and three great-grandchildren; a sister, Linda Sweener and a brother and sister-in-law, Walt and Stella Hoffman, all of Stephentown, New York; several nieces, nephews and cousins. Pamela was predeceased by a son, Ralph Richard Searby and by a sister, Lois Springer. Graveside committal services will be held Saturday October 2, 2010 at 11 a.m. at White Chapel Cemetery in Bennington. Should friends desire memorial contributions in Pamela Sands memory may be made to the American Diabetes Association through the office of the Mahar & Son Funeral Home, 628 Main Street, Bennington, VT 05201. Guest book condolences may be made at www.maharandsonfuneralhome.net.

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Published by Bennington Banner from Sep. 24 to Sep. 25, 2010.

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Susan Wiskoski

September 26, 2010

To Pam's family
I am so sorry to read of Pam's death. She was a lovely lady and so thoughtful! She was often on the front porch with neighborhood people, especially the children, around her. I always had a good laugh and good stories to hear. She will be missed. God bless you in your loss. Sue Wiskoski

Terri Decker-Milliman

September 25, 2010

Darlene, Wayne and families...sorry to hear of your loss.

Shelly Thomas

September 25, 2010

Darlene & Family,
Sorry about the loss of your mother. Your mother was a very wonderful lady, all who knew her knew that. I loved you mom to pieces. I enjoyed coming to your home to take care of mom, and to listen to her storys that she would tell me when i was just a lil girl. I am so glad that you all r a part of my life, your mom did name me b4 i was born and i am so grateful for that....Your mom will truely be missed by all who knew her. You all are in my thoughts and my prayers..

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