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Richard Tinkham Obituary
1990;2016 The man. The myth. The legend. Richard Charles Tinkham (Tink), 25, of Hoosick Falls, NY passed away Thursday September 22nd. He is the beloved son of Pam and Rick Tinkham and the brother of Leah Tinkham. He was born on October 13, 1990 in Bennington, VT and graduated class of 2008 from Hoosick Falls Central School. As a child Richards favorite book was "Where the Wild Things Are", he seemed to carry this sentiment with him through out life. Growing up he participated in many extracurricular activities, including: football, baseball, BMX and guitar. He was particularly fond of his cherished Beavers Baseball team and the school trip he took to Italy. He also enjoyed working on cars. For a time, he loved driving his signature "ahooga" truck to school and around town. Although Richard would rather be getting his hands dirty than sitting in a classroom, he excelled in his college education. He graduated cum laude from Hudson Valley with an Associates of Auto-Body-Repair and received a certification from the Modern School of Welding. Richard was a skilled craftsman. He currently worked at Momentive as a union Welder. His creativity and attention to detail shown through in his welding and ability to play pranks (much to the dismay of his sisters boyfriends). As an adult Richard became a bit of an unofficial Hoosick Falls town historian. He appreciated the history of the town and valued the people in it. He remained an active part of the towns social scene by frequently visiting his favorite people and watering holes. Music was also an important part of Richards life, from playing guitar to crowd surfing music festivals, music of all kinds was the soundtrack to his life. He also followed his Uncle Phils' footsteps by racing stock cars. Perhaps his favorite activity was fulfilling a life long dream by enjoying the view from the seat of his Harley along side his biker family. Richard loved his friends, his family, his America and his dogs with ferocity. His selfless nature, kind spirit and tenacity to defend what is right won the hearts of countless individuals. Throughout his life, Richard became the unofficial brother, son and uncle to many. SERVICES: Please join us for a Potluck Celebration of Richards rich and dynamic Life at the Hoosick Falls Armory on Sunday October 2nd from 1 to 5 pm. In lieu of flowers please make donations to the HAYC 3 suicide prevention program.
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Memories and Condolences
for Richard Tinkham
Sponsored by His Mom & Dad, who's hearts will forever have a void.
Joyce Hawks Watson
September 21, 2024
Thinking of you, Pam and Rick today. Heartfelt condolences....
Penny Pleasant
September 23, 2023
Dear Pam, Rick and Leah,
I think of Richard everyday. He was so kind, talented and a wonderful friend to so many. Everyone that knew him loved him. He is still with us in spirit. May God bless you and give you peace.
The Bucks
September 21, 2023
Dear Pam, Rick and Leah,
We have wonderful memories of Richard growing up and becoming such a fine talented young man. He was a wonderful friend to Clayton and they especially enjoyed skiing and snowboarding together.
We share your sorrow.
The Buck Family
Peter & Colette Tinkham
September 22, 2022
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Tom and Kathy Buck
September 21, 2022
We always remember happy times with Richard and our son Clay. They especially loved snowboarding at Jimmy Peak and Bromley. Richard was always polite, kind and thoughtful. We think of him often.
Diane Howard
April 3, 2018
What a beautifully written description of a beloved son,sibling, friend who no doubt has left behind so many who love and miss him.
Penny Pleasant
September 22, 2017
Dear Pam, Rick, and Leah,
The tragic loss of Richard a year ago today is painful and difficult to understand. He was a very kind handsome young man that touched the lives of so many. His memories and his good spirit will be in our hearts forever. May God Bless you and give you peace.
Tom, Kathy, Kristen and Clay Buck
October 6, 2016
Dear Pam, Rick and Leah,
We are so saddened by the sudden loss of your son and brother, Richard. We have many fond memories of Richard at our camp in Vermont, and snowboarding at Brombley and Jimminy Peak. He was a talented, kind, thoughtful young man who was a positive influence on those who knew him. Our thoughts are with you during this time of grief and sadness.
Sincerely,
Tom, Kathy, Kristen and Clayton Buck
October 6, 2016
Dear Pam, Rick and Leah,
We are so saddened to hear about the loss of your cherished son and brother, Richard. We have many fond memories of Richard with us at our camp in Vermont and snowboarding at Brombley and Jimminy Peak. He was a kind, polite, talented young man. He will be missed by all who knew his gentle spirit.
Sincerely,
Tom, Kathy, Kristen and Clayton Buck
Shirley McCoy-Sayers
October 6, 2016
Pam and Rick
So sorry to hear of the sudden loss of your son,my deepest and sincere condolences to your family. May you find peace and comfort in the love of those closest to you.
Rosie Carelli
October 3, 2016
Dear Pam, Rick, and Leah.
I do not know your grief because it is so individual and personal; but I do know the extreme pain of a child dying. Courtney was in Leah's class and girl scout troop. Courtney and her boyfriend Ryan died 12 years ago from a car accident. Right now you might be feeling as if there is no way to get through this. If Tony, Colin, or I can help you, please do not hesitate to contact us at anytime of the day or night. We are on face book and can message you our phone numbers. With love, understanding, and sympathy, Rosie, Tony, and Colin Carelli
Nancy and Joe Rouse
October 1, 2016
Pam, Rick and family,
You are at a place that no parent can ever be prepared to experience. The loss of a child is indescribable. Your memories of a life well lived and loved will be with you always, and the love and support of your family and community will be the strength that will keep you going over these painful times.
I hope this passage wil bring you some comfort:
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft star-shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
September 30, 2016
Dear Pam, Rick and Family:
Please accept our deepest sympathy at this time of terrible grief. May your many happy memories help to console you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sue and Doug Prior-Crofoot
Hoosick Falls, NY
September 30, 2016
Dear Pam, Rick and Family:
We are so very sorry for your loss. Words can't express the grief you must be feeling, but please know that our thought and prayers are with you. May the memory of all your wonderful times together console you.
Sue and Doug Prior-Crofoot
September 30, 2016
We are very saddened to hear of your great loss. We can still see his impish grin as a little boy in our pool one summer. He played all day with our dog Cody. End of day they were both so pooped !! We mourn your loss and send our deepest sympathy. Much love.
Thomas Romano
September 30, 2016
R.I.P. Brother ride the sky's and watch over us you will be greatly missed
Phyllis Horton
September 29, 2016
My deepest condolences to the family for their loss of a beloved son. I did not know Richard, but I work at Momentive and remember when he was born. It was a few months after his birth that his father, Rick Tinkham, was the realtor who sold a house on Wilson Hill Road in Hoosick Falls to my parents. Only a few short years later in Oct. 1994 my father passed and that night there was Rick again, as he was on the volunteer Fire/Rescue squad at the time and consoled our family at that very sorrowful time. I wanted to share this memory with the Tinkham family as it has stayed with me all these years and when I heard the name Richard Tinkham it immediately came flooding back. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow.
Amy Magazu
September 29, 2016
I didn't know Richard, I only know that my nephews Moose and Bubba were good friends with him and had a couple graduation parties together which I did attend. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Alan & Kimberly Finney
September 28, 2016
Dear Rick, Pam and Leah,
We are so sorry for your loss. Words can not express enough condolence, and not enough condolence can lesson your pain. Richard was a great young man and he lived life on his terms. At some point in time down the road, may that bring you comfort, for that is the was we should all live our lives.
September 28, 2016
Dear Family. I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Your son must have been a wonderful person. I think the loss of one so young is more tragic. Reading from God's Word the Bible helped me so much when my husband passed away. I hope you can have a measure of comfort at this time.
Nancy R.
Gail & Dan Smith
September 28, 2016
Pam, Rick and Leah,
Praying for God's strength and comfort as you grieve the loss of your beloved son and brother.
He will get you through this.
Pamela York
September 28, 2016
Prayers from Lake George for you and your family.
Jeff and Pam York
Diane Nopper
September 28, 2016
Pam and Rick, I am holding you both in my heart and sending prayers to all.
Diane Nopper
Laurie & Bryan Griffith
September 28, 2016
Rick, Pam, Leah, family and friends, we are very sorry to hear of your loss. It cuts like a knife and there will be no answers. We can only hope Rich is at peace now. I pray within time each of you will find peace with such a horrific loss.
God Bless each of you.
Sincerely,
April Dearborn
September 28, 2016
Pam, Rick and Leah
Our hearts break for your family
Please know you are in out thoughts and prayers
And that you now have an angel watching over you from above and his heart will always beat in time with your own
April & Mel Dearborn
Sabrina White
September 28, 2016
I met Tink 2 years ago. He was an amazing person. Such a sweetheart with an awesome sense of humor. I didn't know him well. My heart,thoughts and prayers go out to all the people whose lives he touched. Much love,fly high.
-Sabrina
Sandy Johnsmeyer
September 28, 2016
Pam, Rick, and Leah, my heart breaks for you , sending love hugs and strength . God bless you all
Peter and Colette Tinkham
September 28, 2016
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Roy and Lia Nielsen
September 28, 2016
Pam, Rick an Leah, Both Lia and I are deeply saddened by your loss. We both remember Rich's easy smile and I, especially, how he loved to work on cars in his auto shop classes. He always enjoyed working with his hands and was eager to dive into a repair project to assist his classmates. The thoughts and prayers of us both are with you
Sincerely, Roy Nielsen
Ed & Louise Fairbanks
September 28, 2016
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all throughout this very difficult journey.
Stan & Sue Urbon
September 27, 2016
Rick, Pam and Leah, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. You have a special angel to watch over you....God bless you all.
Damian and jessica Lewis
September 27, 2016
God Bless your family..he will be missed and never for gotten!! miss ya man!!
September 27, 2016
Rick, Pam & Leah,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May your memories of Richard help get you through the days ahead. Hugs & love to you both,
Debbie & Mark
September 27, 2016
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
robert hohn
September 27, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss.
I worked with rich and he was a prankster.
always loved his music,he was well liked here at work.
we had a special nickname for him,and he loved it.
he will be missed.
my family prays that you find peace ,you did a good job raising this young man.
Ric DiDonato
September 27, 2016
Words cannot express my sorrow in hearing of Rich's passing, nor the sympathy I feel for my friends Pam and Rick as they face the loss of a child. Richard was a kindred spirit with my own son Matthew--friends since kindergarten--shared many the same interests. I've heard fond memories from Matt of the times they shared together. He will be missed. May he rest in peace, and may his family and friends find comfort in their memories of the person he was. My sympathies and prayers...
Curt L'Heureux
September 27, 2016
Dear Rick, Pam and Leah, My sincerest condolences for your loss. My heart goes out to everyone. I did not know your son, personally, but as a parent myself, I feel your pain and anguish. Take things one day at a time. All my prayers and thoughts are there for you.
Antoinette Vogt
September 27, 2016
Rick and Pam and Leah,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. God be with you all.
Antoinette Toni Callahan Vogt
September 27, 2016
"Ricardo" was my history student - I particularly enjoyed the way he would grin when teasing! In recent years I would run into him at school or community events and noticed he still had that grin. It pleased me greatly that he would walk over to my seat in the auditorium to have a little visit. It was always very nice to hear about his accomplishments and to catch up. I'll miss seeing him.
Pam, Rick and Leah - I am very sorry for your loss.
In sympathy, Ellie Danforth
Joanne Fuda
September 27, 2016
Dear Rick, Pam and Leah,
My heart goes out to you all. He was such a beautiful man. My thoughts, prayers and love be with you. Love you!!!!
September 27, 2016
I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please find peace and comfort in Psalms 119:76.
September 27, 2016
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Laurene Percey
September 27, 2016
So sorry for your lose, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family
Nora Buck
September 27, 2016
Dear Pam, Rick, and Leah - I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved son and brother. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
Sincerely,
Nora Buck
September 27, 2016
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
Joyce Watson
September 27, 2016
Rick and Pam, I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know many prayers are being sent your way to help you get through this difficult time. My deepest condolences to your entire family.
angie crandall
September 27, 2016
My condolences to his family and friends, may he find peace .
doreen miller
September 27, 2016
Pam & Family! I am so sorry for your lost.
Jessica Mentiply
September 27, 2016
We will miss you Rich! I'm so sorry Rick, Pam, and Leah for you loss. He will be greatly missed.....
Mary Ellen Kinney
September 27, 2016
So sorry for your loss.
May Richard rest in peace.
September 27, 2016
Keeping Rick and Pam and family in our prayers at this most difficult time. God bless from the Stratton family.
Kath Sheffer
September 27, 2016
Pam, Rick, Leah,
Our hearts break for all of you. There are no words so we won't try. Just try to keep Rich in your hearts and smile with every memory. His infectious smile can help you with that.
Kathy and the Sheffer family
Stan & Bean Rosenberg
September 27, 2016
Our sincerest sympathy for your family and friends loss . May your loving memories bring you comfort. Our prayers are with you all. - Bean & Stan Rosenberg & Family.
Risa Bacon
September 27, 2016
Prayers to Richard's family during this time. Cherish your memories and find strength in each other and your friends to celebrate his life each and everyday.
September 27, 2016
To Tinks friends and family,I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Marlana Sweet.
Autumn MAIN
September 27, 2016
So sorry for your loss thoughts and prayers for all
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